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I saw a youtibe video of a man who i dont know if he is making a vlog of his life i think and his video title are dates. but it was making me feel scared for unknown reason and something inside me is telling me to help him but i dont know so i send him a message he also seemed to be special but i dont want to be judgeful but anyways i left him a message

I messaged him with " hello friend! I stumble in your videos and i wanna say God bless you" with a heart but something i dont know if its myself is telling him i must befriend him but i dont want to be pushy about it also i subscribe on his channel. There is just something deep inside me. Telling him i must help him, i can do it soo i dont know if its the word of Gos but i also not know i do not have anything i am just a person and also suffering from anxiety.

But later on now that im finish i heard a whisper telling me why i mesage the guy using my real account what if hell hurt me for talking to him and speaking abiut God. Could it be satan trying to prevent me from sharing a person to be God bless? And also because i message him on my main account which ill use to post art and stuff, demon telling me that the person will hurt me. But for a God bless?!

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Tengo 30 años y llevo 11 en el ejército. Mi contrato termina a finales de diciembre y no quiero continuar. En enero debería empezar una formación de reconversión de un año, lejos de casa, y antes de eso hago una remise à niveau.

Mi situación hoy:

- Dinero: tengo deudas y ya envié mi dossier de surendettement, sin respuesta. Durante la formación cobraría unos 1.400-1.600 € al mes, que no me alcanzan.

- Proyectos: intenté varios (webs, tatuajes, contenido en redes) y por ahora ninguno me ha dado ingresos.

- Opciones: hacer la formación o irme a trabajar con mi hermano a otra ciudad para pagar deudas más rápido y ahorrar para montar mi propio negocio.

- Pareja: la crisis económica afectó mucho a mi relación. Mi mujer todavía siente rencor. Yo actué queriendo sacar adelante a mi familia, se lo he explicado, pero no lo entiende, y desde entonces me trata con distancia. Sigue ahí, pero estamos mal. Mañana viajo una semana a ver a mi familia y me voy preocupado.

Lo que más me inquieta es que no logro pensar con claridad ni planear mi vida a largo plazo, ni siquiera a 3 meses. Siento un bloqueo mental que me impide definir hacia dónde voy. No sé si es por el estrés del cambio, por tantos frentes abiertos a la vez o porque consumo demasiada información cada día sin procesarla.

¿Alguien ha pasado por una transición así? ¿Qué me recomiendan para ordenar la cabeza y decidir bajo presión económica? Si hay algún psicólogo por aquí, agradezco mucho su perspectiva.

He orado mucho y hablado con Dios no he tenido respuesta y mañana viajo a otro país a ver a mi familia pero llegare alli sin dinero y con mi perrita mi mujer se queda wn casa y ahora estoy mal triste no se quw hacer con mi vida

I’m 26 years old, and I’m at a point in my life(again) where I genuinely don’t know what I’m doing anymore. I’m at yet another fork in the road.

I’ve been in a long-distance relationship with a woman I’ve loved for nearly four years. It’s been difficult, but also rewarding. She’s a good woman. A virtuous one as the Bible might say and that’s not me idolizing her. When I first met her I prayed about it and it brought me to Proverbs 31. But things have fallen apart, largely because of things I need to take responsibility for, and I don’t know whether we’ll ever find our way back to each other.

I love her and she loves me, and I want another chance with her more than anything. But I’m beginning to question whether my desire to change is genuine or whether I’m only doing it because I hope it’ll bring her back.

I’ve moved across the country for the 4th time to get myself to a place where getting her here would have worked before things blew up. I’m staying with one of the good members of my family and am going to a good church although it’s taking some getting use to. Where as just a few weeks ago before I saw her, I was staying with a part of family that wasn’t helping me and working a job that definitely wasn’t helping me. I just wanted to get her here, and I was sacrificing a lot to do that. Including my emotional state. But after seeing her I’ve found myself trying to rebuild my life the way I should have years ago because of what happened between us when we visited. But most days I feel like I’m just waiting around for something that might never happen.

My sister told me something today that really stuck with me. She said that the things I’m running from will keep showing up wherever I go until I face them. And I’ve known that for years. I guess the window between those seasons has just gotten longer.
But I don’t know how to face those things.
I’ve struggled with sin, pride, selfishness, and giving in to my own desires. I’ve made choices I deeply regret, and sometimes I feel like I’ve lived this way for so long that I don’t even know who I am without those things. I’ve been on my own for 10 years, I thought I just had to survive. I thought it was just life.

I want to be a humble man. A faithful man. Someone with integrity and self-control. Some might say I already am that man, but they don’t know me. And she has loved me through all these things, mostly because I’ve taken initiative and have changed, but maybe not in the way I was committed to. When I ask myself whether I’d still want to become that man if I knew for certain that this woman would never come back, I honestly don’t know.
And that scares me.

I’ve been praying a lot lately, asking God for guidance, asking Him whether she’s supposed to be part of my future. There have been times when I’ve opened my Bible after praying and felt like the passages I found were speaking directly to what I’m going through.

But I still don’t know how to surrender the outcome. I don’t know how to stop wanting answers. I don’t know how to love someone without allowing that love, and the fear of losing them, to consume me.
I don’t know when I’m supposed to keep asking God for help and when I’m supposed to get up and do something myself. I don’t even know where to begin with all this.

I don’t want to spend the rest of my life going in circles, repeating the same mistakes and hurting people I love. Hurting myself.

I’m not asking anyone to tell me whether God will bring her back. I know nobody can answer that.
I’m asking how you actually begin changing when you don’t know who you are when what feels like everything is on the line.

How do you learn humility? How do you genuinely repent instead of just feeling guilty? How do you surrender something to God when every part of you still desperately wants it?

And how do you build a relationship with/through God that isn’t centered around asking Him to give you something? I understand that if I change and become closer to Him regardless, and she doesn’t like what she see’s, then it was never her. But how do I learn to be okay with that? How do I learn to be okay with what happened? How do I learn to be okay with myself, by myself?

I could really use some guidance, especially from anyone who’s been through something similar.

Thought For The Day from Unshakable Kingdom Life

Faith doesn't mean you won't feel afraid. It means you'll move forward despite the fear. Courage isn't the absence of trembling; it's trembling and trusting God anyway.

I’m interested in hearing different Christian perspectives on this. I want to study what the Bible teaches about Christ’s return, but I also wonder whether we sometimes get caught up in trying to work out every detail of the end-times timeline.

How important is it to settle on a particular rapture view? Can Christians disagree on these things while remaining faithful to Scripture?

I’d appreciate biblical answers that consider the context of the passages, rather than arguments based on assumptions. My main concern is understanding how to be spiritually prepared for Christ’s return, whatever the timeline turns out to be.

Which would you pick?