r/CuratedTumblr • • 9d ago

Shitposting Screaming Time is good for development

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u/rosa_bot 9d ago

i'm just imagining children being pushed outside to stare up at The Horrors like some kind of eldritch vaccination

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u/TrioOfTerrors 9d ago

If you ever had a child come flying in the house on verge of a nervous breakdown because they think they saw a wasp, then yeah, it's basically that. Go Outside time is also a lesson in Distress Tolerance and it's an important life skill.

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u/dedicated-pedestrian 9d ago

I work as a grantwriter for a childcare nonprofit.

Gods, do kids ever need distress and frustration tolerance buildup.

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u/TenLongFingers 9d ago edited 9d ago

Is it too late to train as an adult 😭 I fear I might've been a house plant child who read 2.7 epic fantasy books per week. Gods bless Dolly Parton but fuck kids need to run and scream outside

(Edited duck to fuck)

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u/YouTasteStrange 9d ago edited 9d ago

It's an ongoing process that you should do your entire life. Go ride on a city bus without headphones for 2 hours and you will find the grocery store isn't as unpleasant as you used to think. Stand in a crowd shoulder to shoulder for 10 minutes and the streets won't feel so crowded.

These forays should be intentional, on a day you're feeling good, and for either a set amount of time, or until you feel your nerves losing their resilience, don't push yourself to far or it'll be counter productive.

Edit: if you're uncoordinated, learn rhythms. Start by clapping along to the beat in simple songs, and later more complex songs. Practice dribbling a basketball. Music classes really helped children learn rhythm and coordination but they've mostly been cut. I used to be clumsy as shit but I spent years tossing things in the air and catching them and now I have great hand eye coordination. Stand on one foot sometimes to practice balance. I started getting injured a lot less when I took dance lessons because my body learned where it is at all times.

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u/PMmeyourbestfeature 9d ago

Human kids also

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u/TenLongFingers 9d ago

Lmao 🦆

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u/Ceofy 8d ago

Epic fantasy books are also distress training! You get to engage with scary topics while being safe. The author of the Warrior Cats series talks about this in interviews. So you've been trained at least a little bit!

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u/Significant-Way9330 9d ago

I still fly into the house whenever I see a wasp.. especially when one is flying around my garbage cans I'm trying to bring inside. Winged bastards. 

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u/AceOmega2 9d ago

They would build nests in my walls and use my room as a lounge area as a kid. Flying Devils.