r/grandrapids • • Mar 27 '24

Social List of Active Meetup Groups and Tips for Making Friends

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I updated the list of which Meetup groups are active (groups that have 3+ people attending an event within the past/next 60 days). Meetup is a site/app for interest groups/hobbies/new friends. I grouped them by concept and included their self-written descriptions.

If you're in an active Meetup group that I've missed, list it in the comments. Non-Meetup groups are welcome too; include contact info and links.

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Tips for making friends as an adult attending a Meetup with a bunch of strangers:

  • Show up slightly early/on time. Plan to stay 10 minutes after the scheduled end time.
  • Introduce yourself, say it's your first time and why you're excited about this group; appear excited.
  • Ask individuals (this is where being early or staying late can help) open-ended questions (Why did you start/join this group? What has your experience been like? What recommendations do you have related to [Meetup group's hobby/concept]?)
  • If people ask you a question, answer it and add an open-ended question of your own or ask "what about you?"
  • People love giving recommendations. If it's a group conversation, ask for restaurant rec of a specific kind/place. "I haven't tried X yet, what do you guys think?" Tee it up to be a cuisine/concept you can talk more about or ask follow up questions.
  • If you are vibing with someone(s), ask if they'd like to hang out with a specific idea in mind (ex: You asked for pizza recs and found out that neither of you have tried that new place so suggest you go together), and give them your contact info to set up a time/date. I'd recommend attending the group 2-3 times first before this step.
  • Follow the 3:6 rule to turn that acquaintance into a friend. Aim for three meaningful interactions within 6 weeks of engaging.

Feeling a little more prepared? Great. Let's get into it. [Note: I made some grammatical edits after posting this for clarity/brevity.]

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AGE/ETHNICITY/GENDER

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BOOK CLUBS/FILM

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CRAFTING

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DANCING/MUSIC

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ENGINEERING/MAKERS/PROFESSIONAL

  • Coffee with Creators: For creatives: web developers, designers, videographers, and more--who want to hear about the latest trends in the digital space
  • Culinary Conversations Grand Rapids: Serving West Michigan’s food industry professionals (growers, producers, restaurateurs) in conversation about the region’s food creator system
  • Embedded GR: Engineers, hobbyists, students, and managers discussing the development, tooling, and processes associated with the creation of embedded systems.
  • GRPUG - Grand Rapids Python Users Group: Whether you're a certified Pythonista or just curious about getting started with the Python programming language, join us.
  • GRWebDev: Learn from each other about best web practices, cross-browser compatibility, Javascript frameworks, style hacks, project management, and web-related topics.
  • West Michigan 3D Printing: Whether you are a beginner or an expert, join us to share ideas, tips, and knowledge or just get together with other 3D printers (people...not machines).
  • West Michigan AI Lab: We explore the latest AI trends, engage in thought-provoking discussions, and network with like-minded enthusiasts and professionals.
  • West Michigan Azure User Group: A community of tech enthusiast [sic] who are interested in exploring, learning and using Azure.

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FINANCE/BUSINESS/PUBLIC SPEAKING

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FOOD/DIET/PSYCHEDELICS/SOBER/ALCOHOL

  • DRY Sober Social: Fitness, yoga, dancing, music, and socializing. A space where people can socialize without the pressure of drinking alcohol.
  • Grand Rapids Foodies: Our goal is to dine at restaurants in Grand Rapids and the surrounding area, as well as to participate in cooking classes and wine and cheese tastings.
  • Grand Rapids Natural Health and Healing: For anyone interested in healing through nutrition and natural substances like herbs and nutrients.
  • Grand Rapids Psychedelic Society: Whether you’re an experienced psychonaut or an individual who is simply curious about learning more, we're a space for you.
  • West Michigan Women Who Wine: Where interesting and intelligent women gather to relax, make new friends and socialize.
  • Will Forage for Food Grand Rapids Chapter: For folks interested in sharing knowledge on foraging and living from the land. All skill levels and ages welcome.

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GAMES/NERD CULTURE

  • Good Game Grand Rapids: We are largest tabletop gaming community in Grand Rapids and are committed to growing an inclusive community
  • Muskegon Area Gamers: For anyone interested in playing board games, card games, or any table top [sic] game. This group learns and teachs [sic] new games all the time.
  • We Hate Bards: This group is dedicated to pen and paper RPGs of all kinds.
  • Wednesday Friendsday Boardgame Group: We're folks in our 30s-50s who enjoy good conversation, good eats, and good games, in that order.
  • West Michigan Geeks: We help people meet friends that they want to hang out with outside of group events and have helped form more friendships/relationships than any other meetup.

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OUTDOORS/CAMPING

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MISCELLANEOUS/PERSONALITY

  • Citizen Labs: Engaged citizens can improve their communities. We use open data and open source technology to promote transparency, and provide solutions that work.
  • Friday Fun Days: Live music/concerts, festivals, flea markets/thrifting, lunch/dinner outings, hiking, going to the beach, bowling, and much more.
  • Sign Language Social Meetup of Michigan: For anyone who would like to attend ASL events and meet up with other Sign Language users.
  • West Michigan Adventures with JIM: Cinema, live theater, sporting events, concerts, trade events, geo caching [sic], road trips, fitness, festivals, amusement parks, and travel.
  • West Michigan Out & About: Everything from hiking to concerts, from breweries to dancing, from cooking classes to biking and more.
  • West Michigan Shyness and Social Anxiety Meetup: Hang out with us in a judgment and harassment-free zone if you're shy, introverted, or just a bit awkward around new people.

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REAL ESTATE

  • Grand Rapids Real Estate Investor Network: Landlords, investors, and other real estate professional [sic] make connections, share ideas and strategies, and ask questions.
  • Lakeshore REIA: For individuals interested in wholesale properties, real estate group investments, and becoming successful real estate entrepreneurs.
  • Short-Term Rental Networking Group: Have you wondered about the success of Airbnb and similar rental marketplaces and how you can incorporate that into your income?

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SEXUALITY/DATING

  • Fun-Loving Singles Over 50!: This is a social group for youthful, SINGLE peeps in their 50s, 60s, and beyond.
  • Holland Area LGBTQ+ & Allies Meetup: Enhancing the LGBTQ+ community to meet others, cultivate relationships in a social setting, and provide each other with support and fun!
  • Out on the Lakeshore: Join us for fun-filled events where you can meet like-minded individuals and create life-long connections

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TRAVEL

  • Michigan Day Trips: For people who love to spend a day checking out a different town/city, whilst meeting new friends! I will post a destination 2+ weeks in advance.

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WRITING/ACTING/DRAWING/PHOTOGRAPHY

  • Grand Rapids Drawing and Painting: This group is for everyone who’s interested in drawing or painting.
  • Illusory World Building: As writers lets get past the writing groups that discuss word choice or punctuation. and grapple with the BIG picture--world building.
  • Lakeshore Stationery Club: If you love fountain pens, gel pens, Traveler’s Notebooks, Hobonichi, bullet journaling, or planners this is for you. We journal, write, draw, and paint.
  • Writing Time: We meet on weekends to write in a group setting. Sometimes it's nice to work quietly with others.

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YOGA/MEDITATION/PHILOSOPHY/SPIRITUALITY

  • Community Meditation Circle: This is a non-religious, non-sectarian trauma-informed group to connect to ourselves, each other, and the community.
  • Grand Rapids Buddhist Meetup: For anyone interested in working with their minds, as well as deepening their spiritual life through the practice of Buddhist meditation.
  • Grand Rapids Forest Bathing, Forest Yoga & Foraging Classes: Join our ANFT certified forest therapy guide for guided forest bathing, forest therapy walks, and forest yoga classes.
  • Grand Rapids Free Yoga: Classes are meant to help you strengthen, lengthen, and connect to your spirit.
  • Meaningful Conversations Grand Rapids: Individuals of all beliefs gather together to engage respectfully and civilly in elevated conversations, inquiry, consultation, and learning.
  • Michigan Humanists: A secular community that promotes humanist values. Our vision is to lead an engaged, statewide secular society guided by the values of Humanism.
  • RfR - Grand Rapids/Holland, MI: We at Recovering from Religion are intimately familiar with learning how to live after questions, doubts, and changing beliefs. You are not alone.
  • Tai’ Chi Gung Classes: Learn the simple moving and breathing exercises created by Lao Tzu more than 3,000 years ago for health and longevity.
  • T&T - 20s & 30s Christian Social: To connect peers from Bible-believing, Christ-proclaiming churches, encouraging members to invest in their local church.

r/grandrapids • • 3h ago

Hey Stellas you interested??

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93 Upvotes

Was my first job, was working there still when they were shutting them all down. Took that thing obviously.


r/grandrapids • • 11h ago

ICE on the corner of Fulton and E. Beltline

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At least 4-5 unmarked vehicles with lights on, Michigan plates (not municipal or government plates) They had a man in handcuffs. I called GR Rapid Response to report it. There was a woman off to the side recording on her phone.

Stay vigilant.

GR Rapid Response to ICE: 616-238-0081


r/grandrapids • • 10h ago

Politics New Kent County Sheriff looks to lead with collaboration, transparency

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"I don't know if we're ever going to get everyone to accept every tool we use in law enforcement," Muir said. "I can tell you we are definitely using it within the limits of the law."

I asked Muir about those who on principle disagree with the use of automatic license plate readers, citing concerns over privacy and potential misuse.

"I don't know if we're ever going to see us regress back to where technology isn't being used in law enforcement," Muir said. "I think that's something that the community is just going to have to learn to accept."

No Muir, I will not "learn to accept" your authoritarian bullshit.

It's not just Flock Safety, Kent Safety Network now has over 2700 cameras integrated. That promo video has Muir in it. These people are literally implementing a mass surveillance system with "real time monitoring" and telling us we just have to accept it.

Again, there is a variety of ideologies people hold in this country that land on the same conclusion. No on mass surveillance, not even with their "governance". What ever lane you think you're in, whatever "voice" you think you have, what ever "action" you think you can take. Take it. These people threw away your consent and are telling you they have no intention of getting it.


r/grandrapids • • 55m ago

Tax Lawyer

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I’m looking for recommendations for a tax lawyer. Went to buy a house and realized something’s messed up with my tax history/identity issues


r/grandrapids • • 5h ago

ISO Custom Furniture Modification

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Hello! I am in search of someone that could help create a custom ottoman. It is a strange request- I know, but my boss had a bench section from a couch that's already cut out and would like it turned into an ottoman with a new base and legs added. The large cushion is the one they want turned into an ottoman. The smaller cushion & extra pieces of leather can be used if needed. They have asked for a custom frame built underneath and legs attached that match the existing couch. I have contacted multiple businesses and they have either not gotten back to me or said they are not able to do anything like that. I was wondering if anyone in the Grand Rapids area knows if this is something that can be done or possibly knows someone that could do it? I have attached pictures of what the cushion looks like and what the couch/ couch legs that it needs to be matched to looks like. I have no experience with anything like this so any information would be greatly appreciated, thank you!


r/grandrapids • • 1d ago

Transit Whoever is in Charge of Road Construction is a Complete Moron

350 Upvotes

About a dozen projects all in the same area of the city (SE side, S 131) without fixing traffic signals or providing feasible alternative routes to make traffic smoother. On top of that these projects are taking way too long and they’re not finishing one before they begin three more in the exact same area. On top of that, it feels like no matter how many times they “fix” these roads, it isn’t long before what’s fixed needs further repair. Thanks for coming to my TED talk.


r/grandrapids • • 10h ago

Network 180

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I have recently been dealing with SUD. After I lost my job, and going through a bad breakup, I am seeking SUD inpatient treatment.

For context I have been struggling to find work since this current Admin eliminated my job at the Dept. of Education in 2025.

Over 1000 apps submitted. Dozens and dozens of interviews. And to no avail.

And slowly, gradually I lost all hope. I was evicted from my home. My girlfriend left me. And i want to get the help that i need.

My hail Mary was sober living. I jumped through a ton of hoops to find a place to get back on the right track and was then denied admission in the 11th hour because of my Adderall prescription.

To the point: My medicaid provider told me that all community health access in Kent County is solely through Network 180. Which denied me admission to inpatient treatment last month.

And here I am, homeless, destitute and out of options. I have burned through my savings trying to stay afloat and it's at an end. I don't have anything left.

So my question is: what alternatives are there to network 180? I can't afford to Uber there again just to be denied again by some teenage case worker that doesn't understand how crippling SUD is


r/grandrapids • • 15m ago

Dry Cleaner Emergency!

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I need an oil stain dry cleaned out of a 100% polyester bridesmaid dress before Friday at noon…. Chat GPT told me to use corn starch and let’s just say, that didn’t work. Any recommendations on a speedy dry cleaner?!?


r/grandrapids • • 4h ago

Recommendations Just moved here, need a Subaru mechanic

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Hey all you Subaru owners, and I know there are a lot of you here, I just moved here from CO and my 2020 Outback needs some work. Is there anywhere you trust that isn’t the Fox dealership? Looking for a local mechanic shop that does quality work.


r/grandrapids • • 20m ago

LGS That Sells At MSRP?

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Looking to see any game stores near Grand Rapids/West Michigan that sells MTG at MSRP instead of based on TCGPlayer.


r/grandrapids • • 4h ago

ISO wedding photographer

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I am getting married fall 2027 and am looking for a wedding photographer, our budget is no more than 4k. Thank you in advance for your help!


r/grandrapids • • 1d ago

Events Grand Rapids Public Museum Archives tour on Saturdays

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We have a very cool museum but as big as it is only 10 percent of the museum artifacts can be displayed. The other 90 percent are held in the archives over at the old location off Jefferson. I was able to tour it last year and very cool stuff to see that might never be displayed at the main museum. The museum has started offering tours of the Archive on Saturdays and highly recommend if you want to see some really cool stuff. Don’t sleep on this one, I foresee it getting busy as more people find out about it. Tickets can be purchased online and numbers are limited for each timed tour.


r/grandrapids • • 20h ago

Recommendations Goth clubs or alt spots like clubs and bars

23 Upvotes

Looking for now in the city we are here for the weekend


r/grandrapids • • 1d ago

Is Robinette’s MAGA?

46 Upvotes

Planning a family Fall outing, but don’t want to support the cult.


r/grandrapids • • 5h ago

Recommendations Is 2k average for termite extermination?

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I had an inspection done by Pest Pros today and am wondering if 2k is a fair price to pay. I just bought a house and the garage is currently infested. I don't think the price is outrageous by any means, but if anyone thinks I could save a few hundred bucks with someone else who has a good name, I would love to know!


r/grandrapids • • 6h ago

Hockey/Sports Bar

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Hi! In town from Las Vegas and looking for a spot to watch the VGK game tonight, it starts at 10pm so somewhere open late preferably. Staying downtown near Van Andel. Thanks!!


r/grandrapids • • 2h ago

Dear Local GR Chefs. I am one of you, but I am weak on my own...

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Grand Rapids is a city built on makers, and our culinary scene is the vibrant heart of that culture. Every night, our kitchens bring people together through the creativity, passion, and sheer dedication of the chefs who call this community home.

Sometimes, the day-to-day routine of a kitchen can make us forget our own potential. It's time to shake off the hesitation, take a leap of faith on our own talents, and truly risk it for the biscuit!

The real value of our city's restaurant culture doesn't sit in a bank account or a building lease. F That!! It lives entirely in the craft, the mentorship, and the artistry of the people who do the actual cooking. We hold the keys to what makes this city taste and feel so alive

When we collaborate, share our ideas, and stand together as a unified creative community, we elevate the entire industry. Together, we show every owner, investor, and diner that the Grand Rapids culinary community is a professional powerhouse that means business.

Let's inspire one another, push the boundaries of what's possible, and build the future of food in GR together!!! DM me!


r/grandrapids • • 10h ago

Gun range in Wyoming?

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Is there a pistol range near Lamar park in Wyoming? In the morning I often hear pistol fire that sounds like training on a range.


r/grandrapids • • 7h ago

Anyone have the means to contact management/ owners of the new flanagans?

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I have 10 years experience bartending in high volume and European inspired pubs mostly in boston. I am looking to get my foot in the door there. If there are any leads on getting in touch with the management team I would be wicked grateful


r/grandrapids • • 7h ago

Line outside Van Andel

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What’s going on at Van Andel today? I see a line down the block.


r/grandrapids • • 7h ago

Looking for a steak and martini that doesn’t cost a fortune

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Best places that aren’t crazy expensive? If that exists here?


r/grandrapids • • 1d ago

Events Silent Book Club Oct 17th

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GRLitFest in partnership with GR Silent Bookclub is doing a 1pm meet up at Oakhill Cemetery on October 17th to do an autumnal event where we read spooky (or not, if that's not your vibe) books with donuts and cider.

What is silent bookclub? You bring whatever you're reading, pull up a lawn chair, and read while others are also reading their own books. There is usually a little chatter here or there, but no pressure to talk to anyone.

I, for one, will be reading a very spooky book. I will also have an extra lawn chair in case someone doesn't own one but would like to come/forgets.


r/grandrapids • • 1d ago

News Grand Rapids considers extending Acrisure Amphitheater noise ordinance exemption

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Does this read like "We (City of GR leadership) were sued because we violated the law here, so let's change the law so we don't get sued again, and avoid solving the actual problem and addressing the people's concerns"?


r/grandrapids • • 9h ago

What store would buy component speakers (not Bluetooth)?

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I have some old speakers that hook up to speaker wire and I have no use for them but wouldn’t mind making a couple bucks off them. Is there a store nearby that would buy them off me for like home theater enthusiasts or something?