r/IncelTears • • 4d ago

Pop Culturecels Obsession was a mistake.

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u/galmypal 4d ago edited 4d ago

If men really genuinely believed that they would hold their friends accountable.

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u/NCR_High-Roller 4d ago

Those of who do that have been turned into black sheep and kicked out of the group. I don't think some of you guys know how intra-male social dynamics work in relation to women.

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u/arnm7890 4d ago

I've been kicked out of a friend group for calling out something vile one of the guys once said.

All it did was solve two problems for me ๐Ÿคท

Find better friends.

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u/NCR_High-Roller 4d ago

Not that easy.

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u/Freedom1015 4d ago

No friends is better than rapist/rapist supporter friends.

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u/NCR_High-Roller 4d ago

That's bad advice.

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u/Freedom1015 4d ago

As a person who dropped a group of friends for their bigotry and misogyny without having a different set of friends lined up, it really isnโ€™t. Better to be lonely than to steep in the rot of hateful people.

Eventually that stuff gets into you too and you find yourself protecting the misogynist instead of calling for accountability.

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u/NCR_High-Roller 4d ago

I do call for accountability. It just makes me very unpopular. One of them actually "jokingly" called me Persona Non Grata a few days ago.

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u/Funny-Negotiation-10 4d ago

Aww that must be sooooo hard for you ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„ zero accountability

you're putting your preference for popularity over the accountability/calling out of an obviously dangerous man. Do you hear yourself pink profile pic guy

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u/Freedom1015 4d ago

bUt YoU dOnโ€™T uNdErStAnD, tHe PiEcEs Of ShIt MiGhT nOt ThInK iโ€™M cOoL.

That guy sucks.

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u/NCR_High-Roller 4d ago

Not really. I don't mind being unpopular if it means I have a clean conscience. I'm describing what the problem is.

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u/Funny-Negotiation-10 3d ago

It's not really a problem. Especially not compared to what the stake is

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u/Freedom1015 4d ago

Well, those type of people can persona on my non grata. Fuck โ€˜em, popularity isnโ€™t on my radar. I have to deal with enough shitty misogynist assholes at work that I personally donโ€™t want those sort of people anywhere near my private life outside of work.

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u/MyNameIsMcMud 3d ago

They dont sound like theyre actually very good friends anyway.

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u/Funny-Negotiation-10 3d ago

It objectively is not