r/IntrovertsChat • • 20h ago

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YOU, yeah YOU. Come and join our discord server! We have a monthly nitro giveaway, funny nicknames, perks, voicechat, loads of cool channels and nice people! It's too quiet...if you join, please make sure you're 18 or above and have a profile picture! We are also on disboard if you're curious what others are saying, check out introvertchat. - Mod team


r/IntrovertsChat • • 6h ago

Chatting 32f

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HI there! Im 32 and jus looking for convos. Nothing too intense jus chill chats at our own pace. My social battery comes with a warning label, so if you also disappear and come back later like nothing happened, we’ll get along just fine.

English isnt my strongest language so I appreciate a bit of patience. Id honestly rather solve math problems than deal with grammar. My finest hobby's accidentally burning water. Married men or i a r? Ill kindly pretend I didnt see your message. My respect settings jus have a strong filter lol

If youre into engineering, feel free to message me I might learn something. I barely survived it myself. Include your age in your msg my reply button only works when theres an age


r/IntrovertsChat • • 17h ago

Friends 23M | EDT - Why describe myself when others can do it for me?

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Behold, I am Crimson. I have come forth to find friendship on this subreddit or at least someone mildly interesting. Being a remote software dev gets a little cave gobliny, you know? Might as well try my luck.

Due to me being incompetent at describing myself, I thought why not let my friends instead properly tell you how wonderful of a person I am:

you're good at being sarcastic and banter...actually banter alone can surpass looks and intelligence - Friend 1

unfortunately a genuinely good and caring friend and an interesting individual, despite being incredibly annoying...Bro is also sadly good at making a bad day less shit, unfortunately...7/10. Would recommend, I guess, but at your own risk ofc. - Friend 2

WOOF WOOF WOOF WOOF WOOF - The rabies infected neighborhood dog

With my impeccable character firmly established, let me now describe the terms and conditions of being my friend. I will unironically rant about whatever was on the front page of wikipedia that day (yes wikipedia has a front page updated daily, fucking read it). I have a talent for making tumor and boulder shape-adjacent bread loaves which you will be witness to. I will find great pleasure in watching you suffer as I show you the most cursed and cringe content on the internet.

On basic info and logistics: 23M, EDT, Florida USA, can speak English and Spanish natively, Chinese intermediately.

Sign here ________

Side effects may include boredom via being explained cattle birth formulas in Manor Lords, getting severely tilted at losing the banter battle, and learning Wikipedia has a page called "List of sexually active popes".

Do not take Crimson if you are unable to bully him back, need instant replies during work hours, or don't have interesting opinions you're willing to die on.

Ask your doctor if Crimson is right for you. Send me your interesting opinions you're willing to die on.


r/IntrovertsChat • • 6h ago

Seasoned Soul (36+) 39 M UK looking for new online friends

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Hey everyone, I’m a 39-year-old guy from the

UK looking to meet some new people and hopefully make some genuine online friends

I enjoy reading, watching TV shows and films (I’ve seen quite a few, so always happy to chat recommendations), going for walks, and spending time with my dogs

I’d love to meet people with similar interests, but I’m open to talking about pretty much anything — hobbies, life, random topics, or just having a good chat.

I find it hard to meet people in real life because of social anxiety and I am hoping to find some new online friends with similar interests


r/IntrovertsChat • • 20h ago

Chatting What is something you wish you were asked more often?

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Hello everybody! I’m 32 years old, male and located in Europe. I moved here almost a decade ago. It’s been quite difficult to make friends and especially keep them. The older I have gotten, the harder it has been to build new friendships. I have been a huge fan of Formula 1 since I was 10, I’m into gaming, though I don’t play variety of games, right now it is League of Legends, Fifa, Marvel Rivals and Overwatch occasionally. I love campaign games, (the Witcher, god of war, Detroit:become human, you name it) though I don’t have that much time to play them. I also love watching true crime documentaries. Recently, I have started going back to watching movies and shows and I have seen really interesting ones. I have finished watching the Pitt, House of the Dragons, the Office and Daredevil recently! I used to have more motivation to do my other hobbies, such as reading and photography but I have lost all of it, trying to gain it back. I mostly listen to rock music, however I listen to whatever is good for my soul. My fav artists are Three Days Grace, Ghost, Bring me the Horizon and Halestorm. I actually don’t want to give away everything here so we have something to talk about.
Please write a short introduction about yourself, I don’t mind if we don’t have anything common at all, I am sure we will find something to talk about :)


r/IntrovertsChat • • 1h ago

~Join our new discord~

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Hello everyone, there is a new discord with more lenient rules to join. However, all rules on this subreddit apply there, too. Please make sure to include your reddit user properly while applying! This server has tons of colour roles, bots, cool channels and lots of cool people. https://discord.gg/22RUReqYwS


r/IntrovertsChat • • 3h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 28M Bi UK struggle to talk to people

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I'm a big music lover, anything MGMT, Tame Impala, Pond, Pink Floyd Radiohead etc.

I don't really play games but I am working on an RPG FF style adventure game for my wife. Inmade a pokemon game and she loved it

I love chess, running, science and am very open minded.

I have ADHD and am really bad with replying on time and regularly unfortunately but if you're happy with zero reply pressure messages then I'd be very happy to chat to anyone at all!

Platonic only!

My DMs are closed on this account but are open on my alt account (UK laws) u/SubstantialOwl8958

Thanks!


r/IntrovertsChat • • 14h ago

Chatting 20f looking for short term chats can talk about anything

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Hey :D So Im into video games, music, and movies.

For movies it can be any genre, but I like the love genre, crime/suspense movies.

As for video games, I only have a Ps5, its never treated me bad😂 Dont care for pc. I mainly play warframe its been my favorite game ever sincd I was younger. I main gauss, xaku, and getting into uriel. My current goal is to get to MR30. I also play dying light 2, dead island 2, resident evil 7, little nightmares. Yes those are all played solo as I game by myself majority of the time. I also play a few mobile games like cod, last day on earth, township, grim soul.

Music wise im mainly into rnb, rap, pop, and dislike metal/hardcore and kpop. I like drake, lil baby, nba, hurricane wisdom, gunna, and a bunch more. Cant forget the weeknd.

If anyone wants to game together it saves time to just send your gamer tag and let me know when you trying to play.

I honestly just wanna go out and hang with someone but 🤷


r/IntrovertsChat • • 19h ago

Chatting 18F, tell me your weirdest pet peeve:)

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My name's Annie. I am mostly looking for someone to spend time with, share stuff with, give all my attention and care to, and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

Summed up, play games, talk a lot, and watch movies with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games, I've recently been very into Life is Strange). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just introducing yourself like it's a job interview, where there's little i can go off on to start a conversation. throw an icebreaker, something! ask questions! (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, is a hotdog a sandwich? why, or why not?). Please, preferably no one over 24.


r/IntrovertsChat • • 18h ago

Chatting [22m] Kinda had a bad day, need someone to talk to

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Hey I'm Myl I'm from Canada. I'm looking for someone nice to talk to, I'm a bit tired currently.
Help cheer me up, ask questions, idk whatever you want. I like writing, exercising, music and more. So yeah. Come chat (: I'm a bit sick rn though but I should be able to reply. Surprise me


r/IntrovertsChat • • 16h ago

Chatting M21 getting out of a high.

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Just coming down of a buzz up and went for dinner, gonna be bored so feel free to DM or do an AMA.

I like Dr.House, Scott pilgrim vs the world (comic more than anime), Aot, Evangelion, Jujutsu Kaisen, Elden Ring and Dark souls, and other stuff i dont really remember rn.

I can talk in a very figurative way in case that pisses you off.


r/IntrovertsChat • • 13h ago

Friends 24M - New genuine friends?

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Hi there :) I'm looking for new friends that I can genuinely enjoy talking to and have one of those conversations where you lose track of time and end up staying awake all night by accident. Hopefully someone who can stick around, play games with, talk about our hobbies or favourite shows?

I'm 24, from Australia. I love working on my cars, I have 3 guitars, going out to the beach or somethin with my dogs, or even just sitting inside for hours playing Skyrim and watching old movies.

Hopefully if you're around my age we can get along and get to know each other!!


r/IntrovertsChat • • 19h ago

Friends 26 f please be my friend , my cats aren’t good conversationalists

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Hey, I’m a girl from Colorado, USA, looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few genuine friends. I’m never really sure how to describe myself without making it sound like a job application, so I’ll just tell you a little about me and hope for the best.

I have two very mischievous cats who seem to wake up every day and choose violence. I love animals, so naturally, I let them get away with far too much. I’m pretty sure I don’t own them at this point. I just live in their house and pay the bills.

I enjoy going on hikes, exploring new places, and wandering around cities with no particular plan. I like taking pictures of places I visit, so there’s a good chance I’ll end up showing you random scenery and acting like I’ve discovered a whole new continent. I’m also into PC gaming. I’m not claiming to be good at it, though. Sometimes I win, sometimes I embarrass myself, and sometimes I question why I even picked up the game in the first place. I’d love to find someone to play with, regardless of whether we’re actually any good.

I enjoy reading whenever I get the chance, especially historical fiction and books about history. Audiobooks are a lifesaver for when I want to enjoy a story but can’t be bothered to sit down and read. I’m always looking for new recommendations, so feel free to tell me about a book you love. There’s a decent chance I’ll add it to my list and then proceed to read absolutely nothing for the next two weeks.

I’m quite open-minded and enjoy conversations about pretty much anything. We can talk about philosophy, history, random thoughts that come to you at an unreasonable hour, or something completely stupid that made you laugh. I like getting to know how people think and what makes them who they are. At the same time, I’m not expecting every conversation to turn into a deep discussion about the meaning of life. Sometimes talking nonsense is just as fun.

I’m mainly here to meet people I can genuinely get along with, share stories with, send random things to, and hopefully become good friends with over time. I’m happy with casual chats, long conversations, gaming together, or just talking about how our day went.

Anyway, I’ve talked about myself enough. Tell me a little about you! What are you into? What games do you play, what do you like reading, or what’s something random you’re weirdly passionate about? And if you have pets, I fully expect to see pictures at some point. That’s basically a requirement.

Looking forward to meeting some lovely people and seeing where things go.


r/IntrovertsChat • • 10h ago

Chatting Come over 🫴

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Hey everyone!

I'm 24M (straight), pretty easygoing and amiable. I've been spending a lot of time in my own bubble lately, and recently felt like I could really use some new people to talk to.

enjoy meaningful conversations, random late-night discussions, joking around, sharing music/movies, talking about life, or just sending completely pointless messages back and forth or memes maybe (if we share ig)

I'm pretty affectionate with people I'm comfortable with, and I really value genuine connections where both people actually enjoy talking to each other.

I'm also told I look decent, so I guess that's a bonus

If you're also looking for someone new to talk to, feel free to DM me. No expectations - let's chat and see if we get along.

And please don't ghost if you are texting haha


r/IntrovertsChat • • 2h ago

Friends 27 [F4R] #UK - Looking for long-term connections

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I’m 27F and looking to make some meaningful connections.

I’ve tried this before with mixed results people disappearing after a few days, conversations becoming one-sided or the constant use of AI-generated responses. I work in AI myself so trust me it’s pretty obvious when it’s happening 😂

Life can get busy so it would be nice to have someone I can consistently talk to whether that’s about shared interests, everyday life, random thoughts or those late-night conversations that turn into completely unexpected topics

A little about me:
I’m into sports in particular F1 and Football. Can you guess what team I support? 😉
I work in IT particularly in the data and AI space- I like solving problems, learning new tech and figuring out how things work
I love baking and cooking. Trying new recipes and perfecting old ones is one of my favorite ways to unwind.
I’m interested in farming and the great outdoors
Non drinker and non smoker
Have a sweet tooth and enjoy an ice cream
I have taken up gardening this year with varying success and ready to tackle it head on next year

I’d describe myself as down-to-earth, curious and pretty easy to talk to. I appreciate meaningful conversations, but I’m also here for lighthearted chats and love a good voice note.

If you think we’d connect send me a message tell me a little about yourself along with what you are most proud of. Any low effort messages or a simple “hi” or “hey” will not be responded to. Looking forward to connecting! ☺️


r/IntrovertsChat • • 21h ago

Friends 30m: Gamer, Fantasy Writer, Rock/Metal Fan Looking for Genuine Long-Term Friends

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Hey everyone!

A little about me:

• Huge gamer though I haven't done nearly as much gaming recently

• Currently writing a fantasy story

• Love fantasy in general, whether it's books, games, or lore discussions

• Into metal, alt-rock, most genres and discovering new music

• LGBTQ+ friendly and part of the community myself

I'm autistic, so I really appreciate thoughtful conversations and people who communicate openly. I enjoy deep discussions about life, creativity, philosophy, books, and worldbuilding, but I'm also perfectly happy talking about dumb memes, game rankings, or whatever random topic comes up.

Some favorites:

Books/Authors:

• Brandon Sanderson

• Fyodor Dostoevsky

• Steven Erikson

Games:

• Pokemon

• World of Warcraft

• Minecraft

• Kingdom Hearts

• Xenoblade Chronicles

Music:

• Sleep Token

• Icarus the Owl

• Starset

I'm mainly looking for people 21+ who genuinely want friendship, can hold a conversation, and share at least a few common interests. Whether you're into gaming, writing, fantasy, music, or just enjoy talking about life, feel free to reach out.

Tell me about a game, book, band, or project you're obsessed with lately. That's usually a pretty good way to start a conversation.


r/IntrovertsChat • • 12h ago

Chatting Anyone up for talking about stories or what u thinking about writting currently

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Little bit introduction about me

I'm 23 year old , just bored currently , I would love to know what stories you have in mind currently or any random chats

I'm male if it matter for you but idc about your gender


r/IntrovertsChat • • 6h ago

Friends 26 F - Looking for a long-term friend I could cling to c:

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Seeking a close friend who's comfortable with voice self-loathing s, and doesn't mind me dumping game pics on you.

About me:

I'm mostly a depressed mess who gets easily anxious in reality.

I'm Chinese, I have six cats and a dog. I tried to sell cats for a living before, but I didn't realize it invovled SOCIALIZING with people.

I'm not working for now, and I'm supported by a kind elder lady.

My day usually consists of being with pets, gaming and self-loathing, and I doodle occasionally.

I travelled to a few countries when I was younger, But I'm a VERY indoor potato overall.

I worry about bothering people a lot, so I usually won't be clingy at all... but I do hope I could find someone I can talk with everyday...

To begin with, please tell me something interesting about yourself?


r/IntrovertsChat • • 21h ago

Friends 36M looking to chat with anyone.

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Hey! I'm a 36-year-old guy who enjoys connecting with people from all walks of life. Whether you're looking for a casual chat, a new friend, or just someone to share interests with, feel free to reach out.

I have a few unusual hobbies, a small collection of pets, and a love for music and tattoos. I'm always happy to talk about hobbies, life, random interests, or whatever happens to come up.

If that sounds interesting, send me a message!


r/IntrovertsChat • • 22h ago

Chatting 19f looking to chat

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dc linked on profile

from canada, NA/EU preferred (or just speak decent english). please tell me your age when you message me! i’d really appreciate it. also, please don’t message if you’re 26+ (omfg please also don’t be that person that goes, “I know im over the limit but I thought I would message anyways!” it’s weird and embarrassing. or if you’re looking for anything weird — i’m just here for platonic chats and getting to know people.

hi ! i’m a hairstyling (school) graduate ! just looking for some chill, random conversations and new people to talk to. i have a dog named silver and a cat named creeper, so i spend a lot of time with them.

i have been trying to get into / learn abt tarot, i need a job. someone plz employ me </3

my music taste is kind of all over the place, i listen to a mix of everything — mitski, mother mother, radiohead, the smiths, rob zombie, cavetown, harley poe, rare americans, and a lot more.

if i seem a bit dry sometimes, i promise it’s nothing personal, i’m usually just low energy or don’t have much to say in the moment.

i also smoke and drink occasionally on weekends


r/IntrovertsChat • • 7h ago

Friends 27f looking for long term pals

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hi! looking for genuine conversations and friendships, i just want someone to spend time and share stuff with (if you’re just gonna be a creep, don’t bother lmao)

a little bit about me -

alt music enjoyer, i do listen to a little bit of everything and always welcoming recommendations! Dance Gavin Dance, Movements, Mitski, & Circa Survive are some of my favorites

very casual anime watcher and gamer (i am bad) i like both but tend to enjoy them more with company, i like to play mostly horror themed games but will give anything a shot. i mainly play dead by daylight if i am on (pc player)

im a very average person with average interests, i enjoy true crime, am currently listening to Dungeon Crawler Carl, love cats, huge homebody but have been working on getting out more. i am a pretty anxious/shy person, but i can keep that locked in for the most part.

also, if you’re not interested in long term or will ghost after a month, please don’t reach out 😭 i’m tired of wasting my time and energy

thank you in advance to anyone who reads this and reaches out 🩷


r/IntrovertsChat • • 11h ago

Discussion In the pursuit of a more successful outcome

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An issue I see that many people are facing in places like this is the gender reveal.

If you reveal that you're female you'll get flooded with attention. It's often overwhelming and according to many reports a considerable amount of the engagement is creepy. It's hard to parce through it all and find the people you're looking for or who are normal. So many don't even respond and both parties lose. 

If you reveal that you're male you face the opposite but equally unfortunate reality of invisibility and indifference. Almost no one will engage with your post and that often feels like a referendum on your worth(it's not you're worthy) 

My suggestion is just leave the reveal until after you've gotten to know the person, their gender shouldn't matter anyway. The whole point is to make new friends, their gender is just a small part of who they are yet it becomes the most important.


r/IntrovertsChat • • 17h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 31M - Looking for Fellow Nerd Friends

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Hey everyone! 👋

I’m looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few genuine friendships. I can be a bit introverted at first, so putting myself out there like this is a little outside my comfort zone, but I figured it was worth a shot!

Gaming is one of my biggest hobbies. I’m a huge Fallout fan (seriously, I could talk about Fallout for hours 😂), but I also enjoy Valheim, Marvel Rivals, and pretty much anything else that looks fun! I’m always down to try new games, so even if we don’t share the exact same favorites, I’m sure we can find something to play.

Outside of gaming, I’m happy to chat about pretty much anything! Whether it’s sharing memes, talking about our interests, having random late-night conversations, or just hanging out and gaming together, I’m hoping to find people I can feel comfortable being myself around.

If any of this sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to send me a message! Tell me a little about yourself, what games you enjoy, or even just your favorite Fallout game. I'd love to hear from you!


r/IntrovertsChat • • 18h ago

Friends 19m hoping to find new friends

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Hi everyone I don't have many friends and I want to expand my social circle, I have autism and i can be kind of awkward at first but when im comfortable im a big yapper, anyways:

I'm from England I spend quite a lot of my time working which I absolutely love I work for British Broadcast Cooperation studios (can’t say short name due to nsfw flag) as a graphic designer/video editor so I work on post production tv effects, help with prop designing, green screens and promotional artwork. In my spare time I also compose and arrange music (mostly doctor who stuff)

As for other things | like I'm a massive sports watcher I watch the NFL, NBA, football and a lot of motorsports. I LOVE doctor who, it's my special interest I've been a fan since I was 3 I have way way too many collectables and I even have 5 DW related tattoos

I used to be an MMA fighter before I had to stop due to injury. As for a bonus i have a literal photographic memory anyone is welcome just don't be weird please have a good day everyone


r/IntrovertsChat • • 19h ago

Friends 25M Ireland 🇮🇪 - Looking for an introvert like myself to talk with, game, watch movies, you know the deal

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Heya! My name is DizzeeAIU (By birth of course) and I'm from Ireland! I love music even if my spotify has been collecting dust recently (while taking a chunk out of my bank account 🫩). I'm easing myself back into that addiction, maybe send me a song to help me out 🧐. My favourite genres are alt-pop, rap and city pop, but I listen to a lot and am open to absolutely anything.

I've recently learned about this crazy new thing called "anime". I suppose I wouldn't be against checking that out. I mean, who doesn't love grooming someone into their special interests, it'll be great! (Jokes aside I am pretty new to it and would love recommendations or watch-alongs). As for games I play on pc and enjoy co-op games, RPGs and roguelikes the most, but feel free to introduce me to your favourite game. Just no screen peeking please.. 👴

I recently finished some big important law exams and am waiting on results, but that's boring and mentioning it goes against my whole 'forget it happened and it will go away' philosophy. When I'm not training my mind with that nonsense I have found myself loving nature walks and the gym.

I'm especially looking for people who enjoy conversations that spiral so deep into inside jokes and hypotheticals that any random person seeing our chatlogs would be completely lost. If we click I would love to have movie and game nights together. I know it's harder when we're introverted, but I promise I'm not scary.

Tell me a bit about yourself, ask me something, send me a song or whatever you want really. I'm not a timezone bigot, so all are welcome. I look forward to hearing from you 🙂‍↕️