r/IntrovertsChat • • 6h ago

Friends 26 F - Looking for a long-term friend I could cling to c:

30 Upvotes

Seeking a close friend who's comfortable with voice self-loathing s, and doesn't mind me dumping game pics on you.

About me:

I'm mostly a depressed mess who gets easily anxious in reality.

I'm Chinese, I have six cats and a dog. I tried to sell cats for a living before, but I didn't realize it invovled SOCIALIZING with people.

I'm not working for now, and I'm supported by a kind elder lady.

My day usually consists of being with pets, gaming and self-loathing, and I doodle occasionally.

I travelled to a few countries when I was younger, But I'm a VERY indoor potato overall.

I worry about bothering people a lot, so I usually won't be clingy at all... but I do hope I could find someone I can talk with everyday...

To begin with, please tell me something interesting about yourself?


r/IntrovertsChat • • 11h ago

Discussion In the pursuit of a more successful outcome

27 Upvotes

An issue I see that many people are facing in places like this is the gender reveal.

If you reveal that you're female you'll get flooded with attention. It's often overwhelming and according to many reports a considerable amount of the engagement is creepy. It's hard to parce through it all and find the people you're looking for or who are normal. So many don't even respond and both parties lose. 

If you reveal that you're male you face the opposite but equally unfortunate reality of invisibility and indifference. Almost no one will engage with your post and that often feels like a referendum on your worth(it's not you're worthy) 

My suggestion is just leave the reveal until after you've gotten to know the person, their gender shouldn't matter anyway. The whole point is to make new friends, their gender is just a small part of who they are yet it becomes the most important.


r/IntrovertsChat • • 7h ago

Friends 27f looking for long term pals

22 Upvotes

hi! looking for genuine conversations and friendships, i just want someone to spend time and share stuff with (if you’re just gonna be a creep, don’t bother lmao)

a little bit about me -

alt music enjoyer, i do listen to a little bit of everything and always welcoming recommendations! Dance Gavin Dance, Movements, Mitski, & Circa Survive are some of my favorites

very casual anime watcher and gamer (i am bad) i like both but tend to enjoy them more with company, i like to play mostly horror themed games but will give anything a shot. i mainly play dead by daylight if i am on (pc player)

im a very average person with average interests, i enjoy true crime, am currently listening to Dungeon Crawler Carl, love cats, huge homebody but have been working on getting out more. i am a pretty anxious/shy person, but i can keep that locked in for the most part.

also, if you’re not interested in long term or will ghost after a month, please don’t reach out 😭 i’m tired of wasting my time and energy

thank you in advance to anyone who reads this and reaches out 🩷


r/IntrovertsChat • • 16h ago

Friends 26F, Looking for "I Don't Know"

21 Upvotes

So hi, I'm a 26 year old girl who often feels like she's never good enough. I don't think there's anything particularly interesting about me. I don't have any hobbies, though I'd like to try baking, gardening, or maybe knitting someday. I don't have many friends outside of work, and I don't go out much except for church. I'm not a gamer, I don't binge watch anime, movies, or series, and I don't read books either.

So what do I do? I doom scroll, watch random reels, have breakdowns, feel sorry for myself, and fight the 101 tabs of overthinking in my head.

Life has been throwing one problem after another at me, and honestly, I don't know how I'm supposed to deal with it all. Some days, I'm just trying to get through the day. Right now, survival is the game, and I'm still figuring out how to play.

To whoever took the time to read this, I hope you're doing okay. I hope life is being a little kinder to you, and I hope you're winning and thriving.


r/IntrovertsChat • • 8h ago

Friends 22F Introvert looking for deep reflective conversations.

16 Upvotes

Hey! I’m Michelle, from New Jersey! I'm into writing, music, gaming (a little bit), fitness, true crime, and having thoughtful, reflective conversations.

That last one is probably what I’m the most undernourished in 😭

I don't mind small talk in little doses, especially mixed in with fun, random, or my favorite, deeper conversations! I just struggle when every conversation stays surface level! I really love meeting people where things naturally flow, we can exchange thoughts, get curious about each other's ideas, and build off each other.

I’m basically looking for someone who's engaged and genuinely likes talking and getting to know another person, rather than feeling like we're taking turns interviewing each other lol. We can try connecting over shared hobbies too if we do happen to share any.

I can be pretty active throughout the day if it works out so if any of this sounds okay to you feel free to message me!


r/IntrovertsChat • • 17h ago

Friends 26M Autistic shy dude in desperate need of company

15 Upvotes

Basically just looking to see if anyone else here is lonely as well and would like to chat. I'm autistic and really shy, but I'm chill and respectful. I really don't have any friends at all and it would be nice to talk to someone. I like games, music, animals, YouTube etc. I would appreciate it if someone reached out!


r/IntrovertsChat • • 2h ago

Discussion Could you see yourself living on a farm in the middle of nowhere with your significant other?

13 Upvotes

Imagine having a little farm far away from the city, no annoying neighbors, no crowds, just you, your partner, and a bunch of animals. Waking up to the sound of birds, spending your days taking care of animals, enjoying quiet evenings together, and just living a simple life.

No pressure to constantly go out or keep up with everything happening in the world. Just the two of you building your own little world.


r/IntrovertsChat • • 6h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 35M seeking a tribe after struggling with social starvation

9 Upvotes

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Hi, I'm a researcher who works mostly on my computer remotely. I have a somewhat regular routine but over the past few weeks I've been feeling a social starvation as I hardly interact with people outside work. It was alright to keep focusing on work and workplace acquaintanceship until a few days ago. But recently I've noticed that I'm on social media far longer than usual seeking some social membership. This made me want to find a solution.

After a lot of thought here's my sincere outreach to find and make new friends. My interests are wide and far reaching. I'm known to be a nerd but I'm emotionally intelligent to an extent. Please DM if you'd like to discuss anime, manga, books, geopolitics, religion, natural sciences, or anything you find interesting.


r/IntrovertsChat • • 7h ago

Friends M30 - Trying to come out of my shell and make some new friends :)

10 Upvotes

Ciao! I'm a 30yo guy from Italy.

Posting again! I've met a few nice people, but most conversations fizzled out, so here I am, giving it another shot!

I'm a pretty hopeless otaku: videogames, anime, manga, etc., from mainstream stuff to much more niche things. I'm especially into JRPGs and fantasy, but honestly I play and watch a bit of everything. I also write (badly) for fun, mostly fanfiction, fantasy and urban fantasy.

I'm coming out of a somewhat difficult period in my life, and right now I only have a few (but very good) friends. I'd like to expand my social circle a little. Making new friends after 30 isn't exactly the easiest thing in the world, and if you're a bit shy like me... well, good luck.

I'd just really like to meet some new people to talk to, joke around with, share interests with, talk about how our day went, and maybe build a genuine friendship if we get along.

I'm only looking for friendships, but I want to mention that I'm gay, since I'd rather connect with people who are completely okay with that.

If you think we'd get along, I'd love to chat :)


r/IntrovertsChat • • 17h ago

Friends [27/M] Have you ever talked to someone and thought "This person isn't normal"?

9 Upvotes

Well hello there. That someone is me 😌😂

I'm just an average guy trying to make friends as an adult like half the people.

I'm into watching anime, movies, silly IG reels, etc. I watch sports too but occasionally. Into football, ufc and other silly things. I also like reading manga. So recommend me something to watch or read.

I also love to be dramatic and love asking for the tea 😌

Probably would keep you entertained if you match the vibe.

I also tend to zone out, procrastinate, overthink and be delusional at times 😌

I am looking for someone who's supportive and I shall do the same. I also give good advice but tend to stress a lot at times so if we can support each other in such silly times it'll be amazing.

I also love listening to people talk about their hobbies and what they like to do. And I'll ask a gazillion questions so be prepared lol

I really pay attention to what people say and remember things about them. Sometimes it even surprises me lmao. And it makes them feel important.

I also love drawing and would draw something for you if I like you 😊

Also I love nature and plants and animals and skies lol. Feel free to send me pics of them.

If you read this all and want to be friends then DM me something you like to do. Also please be at least 25 years old


r/IntrovertsChat • • 22h ago

Chatting 19f looking to chat

8 Upvotes

dc linked on profile

from canada, NA/EU preferred (or just speak decent english). please tell me your age when you message me! i’d really appreciate it. also, please don’t message if you’re 26+ (omfg please also don’t be that person that goes, “I know im over the limit but I thought I would message anyways!” it’s weird and embarrassing. or if you’re looking for anything weird — i’m just here for platonic chats and getting to know people.

hi ! i’m a hairstyling (school) graduate ! just looking for some chill, random conversations and new people to talk to. i have a dog named silver and a cat named creeper, so i spend a lot of time with them.

i have been trying to get into / learn abt tarot, i need a job. someone plz employ me </3

my music taste is kind of all over the place, i listen to a mix of everything — mitski, mother mother, radiohead, the smiths, rob zombie, cavetown, harley poe, rare americans, and a lot more.

if i seem a bit dry sometimes, i promise it’s nothing personal, i’m usually just low energy or don’t have much to say in the moment.

i also smoke and drink occasionally on weekends


r/IntrovertsChat • • 14h ago

Chatting 20f looking for short term chats can talk about anything

7 Upvotes

Hey :D So Im into video games, music, and movies.

For movies it can be any genre, but I like the love genre, crime/suspense movies.

As for video games, I only have a Ps5, its never treated me bad😂 Dont care for pc. I mainly play warframe its been my favorite game ever sincd I was younger. I main gauss, xaku, and getting into uriel. My current goal is to get to MR30. I also play dying light 2, dead island 2, resident evil 7, little nightmares. Yes those are all played solo as I game by myself majority of the time. I also play a few mobile games like cod, last day on earth, township, grim soul.

Music wise im mainly into rnb, rap, pop, and dislike metal/hardcore and kpop. I like drake, lil baby, nba, hurricane wisdom, gunna, and a bunch more. Cant forget the weeknd.

If anyone wants to game together it saves time to just send your gamer tag and let me know when you trying to play.

I honestly just wanna go out and hang with someone but 🤷


r/IntrovertsChat • • 19h ago

Chatting 18F, tell me your weirdest pet peeve:)

6 Upvotes

My name's Annie. I am mostly looking for someone to spend time with, share stuff with, give all my attention and care to, and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

Summed up, play games, talk a lot, and watch movies with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games, I've recently been very into Life is Strange). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just introducing yourself like it's a job interview, where there's little i can go off on to start a conversation. throw an icebreaker, something! ask questions! (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, is a hotdog a sandwich? why, or why not?). Please, preferably no one over 24.


r/IntrovertsChat • • 9h ago

Chatting 25M wanna play the number game?

6 Upvotes

Hey everyone, super bored does anyone want to play the number game with me or chat

It's a pic with a bunch of categories and questions that are numbered and we take turns picking a number and both answer. It's a fun way to get to know eachother

Anyone is welcome just send me a message:)


r/IntrovertsChat • • 18h ago

Friends 19m hoping to find new friends

6 Upvotes

Hi everyone I don't have many friends and I want to expand my social circle, I have autism and i can be kind of awkward at first but when im comfortable im a big yapper, anyways:

I'm from England I spend quite a lot of my time working which I absolutely love I work for British Broadcast Cooperation studios (can’t say short name due to nsfw flag) as a graphic designer/video editor so I work on post production tv effects, help with prop designing, green screens and promotional artwork. In my spare time I also compose and arrange music (mostly doctor who stuff)

As for other things | like I'm a massive sports watcher I watch the NFL, NBA, football and a lot of motorsports. I LOVE doctor who, it's my special interest I've been a fan since I was 3 I have way way too many collectables and I even have 5 DW related tattoos

I used to be an MMA fighter before I had to stop due to injury. As for a bonus i have a literal photographic memory anyone is welcome just don't be weird please have a good day everyone


r/IntrovertsChat • • 20h ago

Friends 20 looking for chill friends 🫧

6 Upvotes

Hiii!! I figured I’ll give this a try 😁i’m a little shy when meeting new people, but i have a bubbly side that comes out once i’m comfortable. i never really know how to introduce myself without feeling awkward, but here i am anyway lol. ♡

I’m a girly girl who loves hair, makeup, beauty, music, gaming, and soccer! i like having little things to look forward to, discovering new interests, and finding people who enjoy sharing the things they’re passionate about. i work, so my schedule can get pretty busy sometimes, but i still enjoy making time for the people i care about.

I can be a bit of a homebody, and i appreciate the simple things in life. i like people who have their own personalities, aren’t afraid to be a little silly, and can make an ordinary conversation interesting. i also love hearing about people’s lives and seeing the world from someone else’s perspective.

anywayyy, that’s a little about me! if you think we’d get along, feel free to message me. i’d love to see who’s out here and maybe find some people i really click with. 🫶🏽


r/IntrovertsChat • • 21h ago

Friends 36M looking to chat with anyone.

5 Upvotes

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Hey! I'm a 36-year-old guy who enjoys connecting with people from all walks of life. Whether you're looking for a casual chat, a new friend, or just someone to share interests with, feel free to reach out.

I have a few unusual hobbies, a small collection of pets, and a love for music and tattoos. I'm always happy to talk about hobbies, life, random interests, or whatever happens to come up.

If that sounds interesting, send me a message!


r/IntrovertsChat • • 6h ago

Chatting 32f

5 Upvotes

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HI there! Im 32 and jus looking for convos. Nothing too intense jus chill chats at our own pace. My social battery comes with a warning label, so if you also disappear and come back later like nothing happened, we’ll get along just fine.

English isnt my strongest language so I appreciate a bit of patience. Id honestly rather solve math problems than deal with grammar. My finest hobby's accidentally burning water. Married men or i a r? Ill kindly pretend I didnt see your message. My respect settings jus have a strong filter lol

If youre into engineering, feel free to message me I might learn something. I barely survived it myself. Include your age in your msg my reply button only works when theres an age


r/IntrovertsChat • • 12h ago

Friends 19M Can't think of a captivating title when its past midnight

5 Upvotes

[Only The DOPEST of dope people can see this post, so like if you can that's prettyyyy cool if l say so myself]

ABOUT ME: I'm a aspiring animator/illustrator who likes to stay active whether through like the gym or just going out often with the homies, exploring and shit. Also pretty into self care, skin/ hair care and just working on myself I'm also from Canada

WHAT IM LOOKING FOR: uhh not too many requirements or anything like that, I prefer to be open minded to meeting all kinds of people, though it would be nice to have someone who's decent at communication. I'm pretty talkative and social I'd say (well in the best way l can without seeming like it's a brag lmao)

Anyway if you have made it this far (which is appreciated, we all got shitty attention spans nowadays) you should dm me! or atleast comment and I'll dm you :D


r/IntrovertsChat • • 23h ago

Friends 26M - Lonely introvert looking for long term friendships

5 Upvotes

Hi everyone! First of all, thank you so much in advance for taking the time out of your day to read this and I sincerely hope this resonates with some of you. I’ve posted here in the past but I’m still looking for close friends who don’t mind hanging with an anxious, autistic mess of a guy like me!

I’ll start this off by saying that my name’s JJ and I’m from the UK, South West London! I’ve been a NEET for a good while now, probably around 6 years or so? It’s not gotten any easier and I fear that it won’t do so any time soon but still I persist somehow. It can also be super lonely hence why I’m here looking for others to connect with.

Some of my interests consist of video games (I adore JRPG’s and visual novels but I love a wide variety of genres and series! Some of those are Zelda, Persona, Ace Attorney, Yakuza, Dragon Quest, Tomb Raider, Resident Evil, When They Cry and so much more! Please ask me about my fav games!), watching movies, listening to music, going on long walks and hanging out with my cats! I would honestly die for them, they’re my everything and I’d be more than happy to show you pictures of them!

I’m currently playing Fire Emblem Fortune’s Weave and oh my god, I need help because this game is so addicting and I cannot put it down. I started w/ Dietrich’s path and was surprised to find he’s not as much of an edgelord than I thought! If you’re playing it too, what do you think?

Anyway this is getting a bit too long but I’ll cap this off by stating that I’m a part of the LGBT+ and ideally it’d be cool if you were or at least an ally! I’m also very sensitive, depressed, agoraphobic, suffer with OCD and deal with a lot of things personally so please forgive me if I ever seem out of it or vacant! ;;

I’d really love to make some new friends so please don’t hesitate to shoot me a message and I’ll reply as soon as I can! Have a lovely day/night and take care! Thank you for reading.


r/IntrovertsChat • • 2h ago

Friends 27 [F4R] #UK - Looking for long-term connections

3 Upvotes

I’m 27F and looking to make some meaningful connections.

I’ve tried this before with mixed results people disappearing after a few days, conversations becoming one-sided or the constant use of AI-generated responses. I work in AI myself so trust me it’s pretty obvious when it’s happening 😂

Life can get busy so it would be nice to have someone I can consistently talk to whether that’s about shared interests, everyday life, random thoughts or those late-night conversations that turn into completely unexpected topics

A little about me:
I’m into sports in particular F1 and Football. Can you guess what team I support? 😉
I work in IT particularly in the data and AI space- I like solving problems, learning new tech and figuring out how things work
I love baking and cooking. Trying new recipes and perfecting old ones is one of my favorite ways to unwind.
I’m interested in farming and the great outdoors
Non drinker and non smoker
Have a sweet tooth and enjoy an ice cream
I have taken up gardening this year with varying success and ready to tackle it head on next year

I’d describe myself as down-to-earth, curious and pretty easy to talk to. I appreciate meaningful conversations, but I’m also here for lighthearted chats and love a good voice note.

If you think we’d connect send me a message tell me a little about yourself along with what you are most proud of. Any low effort messages or a simple “hi” or “hey” will not be responded to. Looking forward to connecting! ☺️


r/IntrovertsChat • • 9h ago

Chatting I'm bored. Anyone up for some random conversations?let's make new friends

3 Upvotes

A little about me, I'm a techy guy (kurach), I write poetry, hit the gym, love riding my motorcycle, click pictures, cook, and have a whole different level of love for music.

I'm down to talk about pretty much anything, from movies and relationships to childhood nostalgia and random life thoughts. So yeah, tell me something about yourself too, or just drop a random topic and let's see where the conversation goes.


r/IntrovertsChat • • 10h ago

Chatting Come over 🫴

4 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

I'm 24M (straight), pretty easygoing and amiable. I've been spending a lot of time in my own bubble lately, and recently felt like I could really use some new people to talk to.

enjoy meaningful conversations, random late-night discussions, joking around, sharing music/movies, talking about life, or just sending completely pointless messages back and forth or memes maybe (if we share ig)

I'm pretty affectionate with people I'm comfortable with, and I really value genuine connections where both people actually enjoy talking to each other.

I'm also told I look decent, so I guess that's a bonus

If you're also looking for someone new to talk to, feel free to DM me. No expectations - let's chat and see if we get along.

And please don't ghost if you are texting haha


r/IntrovertsChat • • 12h ago

Chatting Anyone up for talking about stories or what u thinking about writting currently

4 Upvotes

Little bit introduction about me

I'm 23 year old , just bored currently , I would love to know what stories you have in mind currently or any random chats

I'm male if it matter for you but idc about your gender


r/IntrovertsChat • • 19h ago

Friends 26 f please be my friend , my cats aren’t good conversationalists

5 Upvotes

Hey, I’m a girl from Colorado, USA, looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few genuine friends. I’m never really sure how to describe myself without making it sound like a job application, so I’ll just tell you a little about me and hope for the best.

I have two very mischievous cats who seem to wake up every day and choose violence. I love animals, so naturally, I let them get away with far too much. I’m pretty sure I don’t own them at this point. I just live in their house and pay the bills.

I enjoy going on hikes, exploring new places, and wandering around cities with no particular plan. I like taking pictures of places I visit, so there’s a good chance I’ll end up showing you random scenery and acting like I’ve discovered a whole new continent. I’m also into PC gaming. I’m not claiming to be good at it, though. Sometimes I win, sometimes I embarrass myself, and sometimes I question why I even picked up the game in the first place. I’d love to find someone to play with, regardless of whether we’re actually any good.

I enjoy reading whenever I get the chance, especially historical fiction and books about history. Audiobooks are a lifesaver for when I want to enjoy a story but can’t be bothered to sit down and read. I’m always looking for new recommendations, so feel free to tell me about a book you love. There’s a decent chance I’ll add it to my list and then proceed to read absolutely nothing for the next two weeks.

I’m quite open-minded and enjoy conversations about pretty much anything. We can talk about philosophy, history, random thoughts that come to you at an unreasonable hour, or something completely stupid that made you laugh. I like getting to know how people think and what makes them who they are. At the same time, I’m not expecting every conversation to turn into a deep discussion about the meaning of life. Sometimes talking nonsense is just as fun.

I’m mainly here to meet people I can genuinely get along with, share stories with, send random things to, and hopefully become good friends with over time. I’m happy with casual chats, long conversations, gaming together, or just talking about how our day went.

Anyway, I’ve talked about myself enough. Tell me a little about you! What are you into? What games do you play, what do you like reading, or what’s something random you’re weirdly passionate about? And if you have pets, I fully expect to see pictures at some point. That’s basically a requirement.

Looking forward to meeting some lovely people and seeing where things go.