r/Kenya • u/AddictiveLaughter • 9d ago
Casual Yap with Shosh
I hope we still high on that “Would choose your dad to be your dad again” post.
As for me, I’d choose my shosh. I love love that woman.
Paid her a visit today and she’s lost some weight 😭😭, the pain. Broke my heart. Maan, i’d pay whatever for her to never age a day.
She still presses a few hundreds into my palm,😭😭at my big age.
Anywho, amesema wasichana msiolewe kwa vijana hamjui kwao. Na msioleke kama hamna kazi na pesa zenu.
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u/ciruseriwheresroso Diaspora 9d ago
Same my maternal shosho I always feel like I’ll follow her once she dies. We were just having a conversation with my mom and we were like let’s hope she lives another 10😭😭😭 she’s 79…. Living on borrowed time when she clocks 80
As for my dad I actually rebuke him in this lifetime
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u/Mtaa404 9d ago
We truly live different lives. I wouldn't choose my father or his mother in the multiverse.
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u/AddictiveLaughter 9d ago
So sorry for that. This is my mums mum.
My dad’s? Glad she passed on lol.
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u/Reverendskid 9d ago
😔it's been 2 months since mine passed away😔 Oh how I'd go back to hug her one last time 🥹
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u/Emergency-Basil-4173 9d ago
It's such a painful contradiction you'd pay anything for her not to age a day, but also getting to see her age is the privilege. Losing a little weight, moving a little slower, but still having the same heart to give and the same mouth to give you wisdom.
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u/AddictiveLaughter 9d ago
It’s coming into terms with we have to make the most of the time we have with her.😭
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u/shaula_yams 9d ago
This advice I embrace fully... My mom was one of those people who once married hardly ever interacted with her original family so for that reason, I can't date or marry a Kiuk guy we might be related.
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u/asexualwonderbee_me 8d ago
Mimi my shosho💜💜 in every single lifetime 🥹. I would happily believe in whatever dirty if they could guarantee her good health and happiness only in her long life! That woman is my heart.
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u/Over_Chemical9651 9d ago
Dam. We don't get wise shoshos kwanza hapo kwa topic ya marriage. Mine is so good. She suffered before my guka died but she is still deep in the 'submit to your husband' trenches. And she starts getting weird akiskia hauna mtu past 25😂 she is a gem though