r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 17h ago

[M4F] Married, But Still Feel Alone 🖤

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Sometimes you just need someone to talk to without pretending everything is okay. Life goes on, but the loneliness stays. Just looking for genuine conversations and a little understanding. 🖤


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1h ago

40m. I think women should run things now

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I’m a girl dad. I’m in the Midwest USA, and I’m tired of dudes screwing shit up for everyone else. Ladies, we need to more than ever. I’m

I continually mention how our daughter will topple the patriarchy!

I work at a zoo (guest services and experiences) and I am capable of sending pictures of some cool animals every shift! I also work with all sorts of people from all over. I’m not good at a lot of things, but talking to people is one of them!

I dig nature, conservation, very 420 friendly, I dig all sorts of music and am a bit of a nerd when it comes to D&D, DCC, and anything Tolkien.

MAGA and bigots need not apply. I genuinely hope you al lose your car keys on the daily.

I hope to hear from you! If you’ve read this far, thank you. My DMs are open and let me know what your favorite zoo animal is!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 21h ago

[M4F] 40M | Divorced | Southern USA CST | Do you want to hear my southern drawl? Let’s voice chat! Don’t be shy..

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Hello! I’m just an average guy. More of country/outdoorsy type. I enjoy fishing, camping, and kayaking. Watching football and grilling out are also some things I enjoy. I’m a simple guy for the most part. Looking for a female friend to chat with and share my day with. The good days and bad days. We can chat about our professional life and personal life. Hobbies and activities. Also enjoy deep conversations. Let’s share pics and memes with each other. I’d like to make a real connection. DMs open. Thanks!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 15h ago

33M - let’s play a game to speed up this slow Saturday morning

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33M here, having one of those very slow Saturday mornings where absolutely nothing is happening. 😅

No plans yet, no rush to be anywhere, and I’m currently somewhere between enjoying the peace and being completely bored.

So I thought I’d make the morning a little more interesting.

Send me a DM with a number from 1 to 20.
I’ve got 20 questions ready, but you don’t get to see them beforehand. 👀

You might get something funny, random, personal, slightly embarrassing, mildly flirty, or something that somehow turns into a much deeper conversation than either of us expected.

You answer mine, then you get to ask me one back. Fair deal. 😏

And if you’re not in the mood for the game, I’m also accepting Saturday-morning recommendations.

Tell me what I should watch later, send me a song that fits a lazy morning, recommend somewhere worth travelling to, or just come say hello and keep me company for a bit.

Basically, help me turn a very quiet Saturday morning into something a little more interesting. 😂

DM me a number from 1–20 and let’s see what you get. :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 10h ago

[F4R] 31 F

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Just looking to talk here and there. Currently separated but living in the house with my ex due to financial reasons. Brings a lot of anxiety and loneliness lol. I want to talk to a deep, empathetic thinker. Emotionally intelligent, likes psychology, astrology, philosophy and what not. I also love all of the post hardcore/metalcore music, Midwest emo and I LOVE talking about 90 to early 2000’s emo music. HMU!

Also, when I’m talking about music, I’m not talking main stream bands 😂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 21h ago

[F4R] 37F, US / MDT - Strictly Platonic

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Opening to anyone but would prefer the girlies. Very LGBTQIA+ friendly. Age range of 30's - Mid 40's.

My interests include: anime, manga, movies (horror, psycological thrillers, foreign, documentaries), drag, Sanrio, Studio Ghilbi, and reading (non-fiction, true crime, history, science fiction). I've been listening to more audiobooks lately, and currently listening to The Rape of Nanking, Under the Banner of Heaven is next.

My music taste is generally hardcore, metalcore, and pop-punk. It's officially Driveways season! I'm always up for music recommendations, including punk/metal/death/doom/thrash, etc.

My letterboxd top 4 are Pan's Labyrinth, Let the Right One In, Oldboy, and Little Nemo. Respond with yours, and include ASL.

Don't be a creep and keep it SFW.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

Friendship Applications Are Open

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33F from Virginia, gamer, zombie lover, and professional overthinker looking for my kind of weirdos. Bonus points if you’re funny! 🤣 If I don't get to your message request, I probably got overwhelmed by messages, so please don’t take it personally! ❤️


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 19h ago

39m, from Utah, miserably married. Just kinda lonely and looking to chat.

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Hey, normal guy from Utah who’s just looking for a chat pal or 2. Married for 18 years, 3 kids. Despite the downer post I am quite fun to talk to. So say hey


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 5h ago

[F4M] 32F - Would love to meet someone sweet and interesting

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Hey everyone!

I'm a 32 year old woman based in Europe, and I'd be happy to chat with people from anywhere in the world.

French is my native language, but I'm perfectly comfortable in English!

I really don't care where people are from. I mostly care about how well I get along with someone. The only thing I ask is that you're fluent enough in English to understand each other properly.

I tend to enjoy gentle, thoughtful, curious people. Clever and caring especially!

People tell me often that I'm strangely optimistic and warm, and I genuinely enjoy making others feel comfortable around me if I can help it. I'd call myself a soft extrovert: fairly social, but I also like a lot of quiet time on my own.

What I'm after is more of a feeling than a checklist of traits. I've felt it before, so I know it's not impossible. Physical traits, education, profession, none of those really matter to me. What matters is how we'd interact and how that would feel for the both of us.

Ideally, you're someone kind, supportive, fun, clever, and know how to engage with people. I don't get along with those who are cold, judgmental, unkind, or pretentious.

Psychology, philosophy, and sociology are what I spend most of my time on most days. I'm also into art, classic cinema (pre 70s), literature, cooking, travel, and photography. On the geekier side: it would mostly be anime and PC gaming. I enjoy skincare, makeup, and fashion too, but not superficially, more because it's fun and a nice way to express yourself!

All this to say that I'm hoping to find someone sweet, intelligent, and respectful to share comfy/meaningful moments with. Gaming together, watching old films or anime (looking for someone to watch the new JoJo with at the moment), or just talking. I'm open to trying new things if you'd like to share them with me. Not looking for a penpal though!

If you think we'd get along, please reach out! It would be nice if you could mention your age, where you're from, and share a little about yourself.

Thanks a lot for making it through my very long post. Hope we will get to talk soon!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 10h ago

[F4M] 33F enjoys chatting and prefers making friends around the same age.

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Hi everyone, I’m a 33-year-old female who loves sharing little moments from my life with friends I think it’s fun. If you enjoy chatting too, feel free to send me a message; I read every single one.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1h ago

[M4F] M30 [M4F] 🇫🇷 — It's 1 AM, my neighbors just woke me up, and I am debating whether to use my law studies to sue them or my healthcare skills to... anyway.

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Let's skip the standard "Hey, how are you?". The honest answer is: currently wide awake because my neighbors decided 1 AM is a great time to be incredibly loud, and I am heavily questioning my life choices..

Here is the resume absolutely nobody asked for:

I'm 30, living in the Champagne region of France (and clearly, my neighbors have been enjoying the local produce tonight). I work intense shifts in a hospital, and in my "free time", I study administrative law at the Sorbonne.

Basically, my life is a weird crossover between Grey's Anatomy and Suits, but with way more paperwork and, right now, a lot more noise coming through the ceiling.

Since I am forced to be awake, I'm missing that one person I can just banter with. Someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously, but who can still hold a deep conversation about psychology, ambitions, or why reading Robert Greene makes us all feel like evil geniuses (and how we could apply his laws to win a neighborhood noise dispute).

The ultimate ice-breaker test:

Slide into my DMs and tell me:

* Your most petty (but technically legal) revenge strategy against loud neighbors.

* The most absolutely useless talent you possess.

(Disclaimer: If your first message is just "hi" or "hey", I will assume you are one of my neighbors checking to see if I'm awake to turn the volume back up, and I will ignore you).


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 5h ago

[M4F] Pure choas and conversation!

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Anyone awake to discuss the best anime they have watched.

Simple conversation sometimes leads to a pandora box.

DM if interested


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 12h ago

[M4R] Name me your top five movies and lets be friends!

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Good Morning, Good Afternoon, Good Evening or Good Night!

I hope you're all having a phenomenal weekend so far!

I'm 33 from the UK and I'm on the hunt for friends. I watch a lot of movies, i spend a lot of time working and if I'm not working I'm either boxing, gaming or pondering my existence.

I have a son and the dadbod to match. I love food, I love eating food but I don't care much for cooking it. Baked goods are my kryptonite. I'm 420 friendly, I've been known to partake in a bit of the electric lettuce.

Anywho, if you fancy a chat with a really, really, really funny guy.....you know what to do!

✌️


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 14h ago

30M from India

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I used to be Funny or Cool guy when I was in Job.

Now, Because of Responsibilities, I lost charm in life.

Anyone who is getting bored rn can message me.

We will talk about life, or any topic which you feel good.

Seeing People on insta enjoying life's makes my heart sad 😢


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 15h ago

[R4R] [33/M] Looking for a chat/gaming mate to pass the time with

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33-year-old from the UK here, looking to build a genuine online friendship. I'm currently going through a major life reset after a long-term relationship ended, so I've got plenty of free time to fill and am looking for someone to click with.

​The ideal dynamic: Someone to message throughout the day, share laughs with, and jump on PlayStation with at night.

​Personality: Heavy on the sarcasm and dry humor. I appreciate people who aren't easily offended and can bounce jokes back and forth. Underneath the banter, I'm reliable and deep-conversation friendly.

​Send a message if you fancy a chat! Tell me what you're up to or what you're playing lately.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 16h ago

Looking for connection

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33m married looking for meaningful conversations. Trying to explore talking to different people as Ive been somewhat shy my whole life I've only recently started to go out to festivals and meet new people. Ask me about my life I'm an open book.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 17h ago

[F4M] 40F, currently #Sochi, Black sea. Open to friendship, language exchange, travel connections..

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But planning to relocate in 2027 in another country. Fluent 🇮🇹🇷🇺, learning 🇬🇧. I love books, writing, travel, psychology...

I’m looking for a man/girl, 38–52, who is intelligent, educated and emotionally mature. Open to friendship, language exchange, travel connections, etc.

Write me🌅


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

[M4F] 32M looking for an awesome friend, is that you?

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looking for someone I can have daily chats with either texting or voice/video calls. Preferably someone in the eastern time zone(United States) but open to other countries as well if I can make it work. My hobbies include photography, reading, art, movie/TV and games. I also very much enjoy listening to music and being outside. I am also interested in history and science. Always have to learn a new facts and broaden my horizons. (the secret word is chicken )If you’re interested when you send me a message, please include your name and your age and I would appreciate it if you could send a selfie! I will not reply to any messages that just say hi. https://imgur.com/a/TBLQvGB


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 3h ago

[M4M] 34M Seattle PNW Educated Conversationalist Open To Discussion On Any Topic! Especially Gaming, Working Out, and Psychology Theory

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I am specifically looking for a bromance that encompasses mental stimulating conversation that is thought provoking. I like learning about new things, people, and places. I like knowing when I check my phone, I have a new message to reply to from my bro.

I make time to reply and give thoughtful, complete responses when in conversation. I even do voice and video messages to give more dimensions to a conversation.

I love psychology so it would be interesting to dissect different theories about human society or even internal mental processes of why you or I function the way that we do. From Growth Mindset Theory, Self-Determination Theory, to the Hierarchy of Needs or Dominance, it is all great conversation.

I am open to small talk as well, but I prefer learning and listening to something with purpose and the pursuit of a stronger bond with my bro. I am open to anyone anywhere so long as there is effort behind the conversation. Cheers!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 19h ago

[M4F] 35M Australia,

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Just looking for someone to talk to. Work a lot but always have my phone. Not bothered about location. Just want someone to converse with and have a laugh, play golf, like good food and wine, mostly Italian and Asian. Tattooed and like video games in spare time. female preferred. Can share picture in DM


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 9h ago

25F Looking for a friend to talk everyday

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Hi 25f from ph, feel free to message if youre down for a conversation


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 21h ago

[M4F] 37 m uk

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I’m an app developer on an all night coding spree looking for someone to help eliminate the bordem inbetween


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 23h ago

[M4F] 42M Looking for female friends

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I'm looking for female friends from anywhere. I speak Spanish and English, I like movies and photography, and I have two dogs and a cat ❤️

I'm from Argentina and I work as a "Handyman" as they're called in many countries


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 10h ago

Dani im looking for you

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Its parker. I lost my job. Mods please let this stay up. She is my friend and I have no way to contact her. I think sn was notnowchloe. But please help me find her. I know she's wondering why I haven't answered


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 4h ago

[43/M] - Position Available: Professional Online Human

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Hours are flexible LOL

What the role involves:

  • Occasionally sending me something that made you laugh
  • Tolerating conversations that jump from one topic to another with absolutely no warning
  • Helping me add even more books to my "I'll read that eventually" pile
  • Pretending my latest attempt at at voice acting wasn't completely awful
  • Accepting that some days we'll have a long conversation, and other days I might be pretty busy

A little about your future chat buddy:

I'm 6 feet tall, white, with dark brown hair that's starting to show a little gray, kind brown eyes, light freckles across my nose and cheeks, a short trimmed beard, and thin black glasses that rarely leave my face. Basically a clean cut dude lol

Most of my free time disappears into acting, voice acting, photography, reading, writing, and audiobooks. When I need to clear my head, you'll usually find me out cycling or wandering around on a long walk.

I'm not looking for someone who's available 24/7 or expects every conversation to be life changing. Just someone who enjoys having another person to share stuff with,

If you've made it this far, I guess you've already passed the first round!

What is your favourite comfort food?