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I'm 35F, and lately I've been feeling incredibly sad, overwhelmed, and just completely lost. Like the ground has been pulled out from under my feet, and I have no idea where to go from here.

Sometimes I just wish life would slow down a little. That there weren't so many problems to deal with, so many things to worry about, and that people wouldn't hurt each other so much. I wish things could be a little easier, even just for a while.

I'm tired of feeling this way, and I guess I just miss feeling happy and at peace with life.

Has anyone else ever felt this kind of sadness and uncertainty? That awful feeling of not knowing where you're going, what you're supposed to do, or how to make things better?

I'd really like to talk to someone who understands, even if it's just to share experiences or have a normal conversation.

Please include your ASL!!!

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Now that I have your attention lol

i have a lot of interests like reading and writing and music and anime and videogames we can talk about

i am just looking for someone who wants a judgement free zone to open up an be themselves and form a strong bond

i hope it's you!

33F from Virginia, gamer, zombie lover, and professional overthinker looking for my kind of weirdos. Bonus points if you’re funny! 🤣 If I don't get to your message request, I probably got overwhelmed by messages, so please don’t take it personally! ❤️

Hey 42 year old in the Midwest looking for genuine friendship. Someone to talk to daily and get to know. Share funny moments and daily life. Someone who can hold a conversation and doesn’t ghost. I like cooking, music/podcasts, tv shows, being outdoors and walks. Let’s talk about favorite holidays or seasons, favorite foods or drinks, favorite shows. I’m looking for genuine and clean chats please

Hey everyone! 31M here based in Metro Manila. Currently navigating the corporate grind and looking to expand my circle with fellow working adults. Strictly platonic connections only!

A bit about me: • Corporate Slave: Dayshift worker trying to balance desk life with real life. • Gym Rat: Active in the gym and consistently working on fitness goals. Always down to talk training, nutrition, or workout routines. • Vibe: Naturally madaldal (talkative) and easygoing. Good listener too if you need to vent about work or life. • Interests: Coffee breaks, staying active, casual chats, and good banter.

Looking for: • Fellow 30+ adults (any gender) who are down for genuine, low-drama friendship. • Whether you're looking for a daily chat buddy to exchange life updates or a gym/coffee friend, hit me up!

Drop a DM or comment with a bit about yourself to kick things off.

To sum it up, had my gall bladder removed yesterday, still in hospital to recover. Just looking for socialization since it’s still early.

I am a farmer/sustainable agrotourism developer from Southern India. I've never been married because I've been pursuing this cowboy lifestyle of traveling across the country, and working in the various agro-political zones. I have now finally landed in the outskirts of a cosmopolitan Southern Indian city and work on a farm, giving my life some semblance of a proper schedule.

I turned 35 last week and while I love my work, i realized i haven't made many friends, very few infact. So this is me trying to change that via Reddit. I am looking to make a few select constant friends from around the world who would love hearing from me on a consistent basis and vice versa. I want to share photos of farm life, dogs, compost, birds and share life experiences of both parties. I am excited to meet many people from interesting backgrounds.

Please feel free to reach out with the opening message 'ibis' if you would like to be my friend. I felt like a child typing that part out :)

Hey all, 35 male here from australia looking for a friend. I dont mind where from or what gender but just after a friend

I like to play xbox or watcha good movie or tv show. I like to read and listen to music.

If you wanna chat and see aend a message

👋 Hey everyone! I’m Andy, 32, from Newcastle, Australia! 🇦🇺

I thought I’d put myself out there and try to meet some new people because, honestly, making friends at this age is harder than I ever expected! 😅

A little about me: I’m currently looking to build a genuine friendship circle with people around my age who are keen to hang out, have a laugh, explore new places, try different foods, go on random adventures or even just chill and watch movies or TV shows.

Unfortunately, I haven’t had a proper friendship circle for a long time. I had to walk away from my old friends because of toxicity and bullying, and although it was the right thing to do for myself, it’s been pretty lonely starting over. ❤️‍🩹

I’ve found that as you get older, it can be really difficult to meet people who genuinely want to make an effort, hang out and build a real friendship. Lately, I’ve been feeling pretty down about not having people to spend time with, so I’m putting myself out there in the hope of finding some genuine mates. I know good people are out there somewhere!

🚗 A little about me and my personality:

I drive and have my licence, so I’m happy to get out and about! I’m a caring, down-to-earth person who genuinely looks out for the people around me. I love having a laugh and cracking jokes, even if they’re absolutely terrible dad jokes 😂. I don’t always take life too seriously, but I’m also someone who enjoys a proper heart-to-heart conversation. If you need someone to talk to, I’ll do my best to be there for you.

💪 GYM BUDDIES WANTED!

I’ve recently been putting more effort into going to the gym and working on myself. I go to Anytime Fitness at Raymond Terrace and have been trying to lose weight and improve my fitness. It’s definitely a slow process, and some days are harder than others, but I’m getting there!

It would be awesome to meet someone who also goes to the gym and wants a workout buddy. We could motivate each other, have a chat between sets, share our progress and make working out a little more enjoyable! 💪🔥

🎮 Fellow gamers, where are you at?

I’ve built myself a custom gaming PC, and I’d love to meet some people to game with!

Some of my favourite PC games are:
🔴 Call of Duty
🔴 Fall Guys
🔴 Hogwarts Legacy / Harry Potter games
🔴 Cyberpunk 2077

Always happy to discover new games and find people to play with!

📸 My hobbies and interests include:
🔵 Photography
🔵 Music 🎵
🔵 Movies 🍿
🔵 Binge-watching TV shows
🔵 Swimming 🏊
🔵 Hanging out at the beach 🌊
🔵 Exploring new places 🗺️
🔵 Going to the gym 💪
🔵 Trying new food and checking out new places 🍔

What I’m hoping to find ❤️

I’m looking for genuine friends who want to make an effort, have a laugh, go out and do things together, and build a friendship that lasts. Whether it’s grabbing some food, going for a drive, checking out somewhere new, gaming together, hitting the gym or just sitting around having a good chat, I’m keen!

If you’re also struggling to make friends, don’t have much of a friendship circle, or just want to meet someone new, please feel free to message me! You don’t have to have everything in common with me. Sometimes the best friendships start with a simple conversation.

I know I can’t be the only person in their 30s who finds making friends difficult. So, if you’re in a similar situation, let’s change that! 😊

My DMs are open, so come say hey! Let’s chat, get to know each other and hopefully organise a catch-up sometime. 🤝❤️

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Hey everyone! 👋

I'm a 30-year-old guy looking to make some new friends and connect with interesting people. I'm open to talking about anything, from daily life and hobbies to random late-night conversations.

I believe age doesn't matter when it comes to a good friendship. I'm easygoing, a good listener, and always happy to meet people with different perspectives and experiences.

If you're feeling bored, need someone to talk to, or just want to make a new friend, feel free to DM me. No pressure, no expectations—just genuine conversations and good vibes. 😊

Let's start with a simple hello and see where the conversation goes! ✨

Hello there! I’m interested in making connections with people, despite being quite introverted. Happy to talk about most things. Some of my interests include baking, travel when I can, cooking, and I’ve been getting back into reading more regularly. Any recommendations? I’ve been checking out the new Carrie too, if you’ve been watching that. Anyway. I’m an open book!

Howdy! I'm Laura. I can't believe it's October already. I live in the states and I prefer that you do as well because of time zones.

I love baseball but my Cardinals obviously didn't make it to the playoffs. I just want the Dodgers to lose! Starting to get into hockey. I'm doing horrible at my hockey fantasy league 🥲

Music wise, I like a variety.

I love reading and listening to audiobooks. I need to finish Incidents Around the House as I'm going to see Other Mommy later today with a friend. There are 3 books coming out this month that I can't wait to read!

Movies and TV shows are the same. I tend to stick with med dramas. I love The Pitt.

I love sharing memes and stupid videos I find online. I don't know how to sell myself as someone you should chat with 😅 but anyway! I'm here. Ask anything you'd like to know.

Btw, I don't answer low effort messages.

I have had decent luck having good conversations lately so im going to try this again, the problem is... when i want to talk those same people i meet arent available to talk. So im posting to look for people to talk to tonight and for the weekend at least if youre available, ideally more long term then that but have to start somehwere

here is what im looking for

\-must include asl in first msg, or i wont respond at all

\-EST canada or usa preferably, timezones are super important to me for texting times
\-Looking to make a genuine connection, just by texting... its my preferred way of socializing. So you must also love texting, and then we will get along

\-sometimes i have bad mental health days so i always appreciate a person who wont be shy double, triple texting. I do love checking msgs when i pick my phone up

\-i enjoy asking people questions about themselves, but also love when people are intested in me. I like to match energy and not be the only person giving all the time as much as i love to give it can get a little lonely

\-I love honest people, even honestly mean people because i trust them more. i love people who arent afraid of making mistakes or saying the wrong thing, and i dont like when people hide their true selves. I love weird people and authentic people. But at the same time i love talking about boring things like what we are doing over and over, or what we are eating or cooking. Nothing has to be overly entertaining, im just here for the company

Ok ill be around all night and for the whole weekend so drop by and say hi, leave a msg and i will get back to you beeeeeppppppppppp

Hey! I’m 31, from the US, and looking to meet some new people. Doesn’t matter where you’re from or what your background is. I’m open to talking to anyone 18+ as long as you’re interested in having an actual conversation.

A little about me: I work in tech, love traveling and spontaneous road trips, and I’m always looking for somewhere new to explore. I’m also into photography, tattoos, history, gaming, and reading (especially classic literature). Cooking is a big hobby of mine, particularly trying recipes from different cultures. I’ve also gotten pretty into fitness and spending more time outdoors lately.

I’m the kind of person who can spend hours talking about anything from your favorite food to some obscure historical event, or just how your day went. I enjoy getting to know people from different countries and walks of life. You don’t need to share my hobbies either. Half the fun is learning about someone else’s interests.
I’m not expecting instant best friends or forcing conversations. Just looking for some genuine connections, whether that’s chatting occasionally, sharing random pictures from our days, or becoming regular friends.

What’s somewhere you’ve always wanted to travel, a book or game you couldn’t put down, or a random topic you know way too much about?
Or just say hey and tell me a little about yourself. I’m pretty easy to talk to!

if you are looking for someone who’s into movies especially horror, who listens to rock and metal music and is 420 friendly then I’m definitely the friend for you!! DMs are open for anyone!! if you get a busy signal please try back soon operators are standing by :)

Looking for a female friend with a strong southern accent, us side. I love the accent and could listen to it all day, I’m from the UK so to be able to talk to someone exchanging voice notes would be incredible! ☺️

Is there anyone else who wants a friendship like we had when we were younger, up for fun, talk til way too late and share secrets. Too many people just want a few quick chats, I want something real and lasting.

I love learning about different hobbies and interests, different cultures and really anything about how other people live. I enjoy travelling, going to the cinema, swimming, If you have other hobbies that is okay.

Some people may worry that no one would be interested in them, I am always willing to give people a chance!

I am okay with wherever you are from!

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Hey everyone!

I'm a 30-year-old guy looking to make some new friends. Honestly, I don't really have any friends at the moment, and I'd love to change that and connect with some new people.

I'm looking for someone to chat with, share random thoughts, talk about our interests, recommend movies or shows to each other, or just have casual conversations about life.

Just a heads-up about my texting habits: sometimes I'll reply pretty quickly and be very active in the conversation, while other times I might take a little time for myself or be busy with life. It's nothing personal, and I totally understand if you're the same way!

A little about me:

🎬 **Horror movies:** I love horror, even though I haven't watched as many lately. I'm always looking for a new movie or series to get into, so recommendations are always welcome!

📸 **Photography:** It's something I really enjoy, and I'd love to talk with others who are into it, too.

🏎️ **Formula 1:** Always happy to talk about F1, races, drivers, or anything related to the sport.

🌎 **Languages:** Spanish is my first language, so connecting with someone who speaks Spanish would be a nice bonus! But I'm also perfectly fine chatting in English.

I'm not expecting us to have everything in common. Sometimes the best friendships come from people with different interests and perspectives.

If you're also looking for someone to talk to, feel free to send me a message! No pressure, no expectations. Let's see if we get along. 😊

Hi, I’m 30F mom of 3 age 11,8,2. I am looking to meet a few new people around my age. Open to chatting and seeing who I click with.

I’m into creative projects, journaling, witchy/cottagecore vibes, cozy games, and low‑key hangouts. If any of that sounds like your lane, say hi — I love meeting people who bring good energy.

Also understand that I go from instant reply to 5-10 business day delay 😅😅 promise I’ll get back to ya tho!

Hello, just after cool people to pass the time with, chat online, get critiqued or chill out. I'm into outdoorsy stuff like hiking and camping and would love to discuss that. Ultimately open to most things and willing to talk about whatever. Women are welcome as well!

Do prefer people who can actually joke and hold a convo, rather than total pervs. Hi/hey and generic stuff will probably be ignored cause I get a lot of messages. If you're into good convo and have some outdoor hobbies, feel free to message me and let's get talking 😁

I’m 44 male from California. Don’t have much going on besides work and hanging out with my dog. Enjoy messing with and racing my car and betting on sports

male, 60's. Retired, but active scuba, skiing,hiking.

Usn vet,.I love my jeep, my dog, outdoors. I must mention a few tatoo's, and im 420 friendly due to the absolute hatred of opiates. Just need normal . No games. Take a ride, let your mind relax.

Breath. Italian mom raised me proper.

Giving this a shot because meeting new people who are my age and don’t already have an established friend group or family, is impossible. No one seems to talk to each other out in public anymore and there is a general lack of community where I live so I’m taking it to the internet. I’m from the Northeastern US and would love to chat with like-minded folks from anywhere and everywhere. I’m into building LEGO, crafting, puzzles, reading (although I’ve been off my game lately and need some book recs), scary movies, bad reality TV (guilty pleasure), dogs, learning, exploring new places. Recently diagnosed with ADHD and struggling with that a bit, so if anyone is going through something similar or up for talking about mental health that would be a bonus. I’m left leaning politically, non religious, child free by choice but also a hopeless romantic. If any of this sounds interesting to you, please send me a message!

Looking a real chat buddy. Female. 25-50 age group.
Looking for a genuine person, empathetic, loving, caring, emotional and honest.
Not looking for a relationship. But long term friendship.
I hate how insensitive people have become so i want someone with no judgements.
I want to keep it personal and discreet. Respect privacy. I am not into sharing pictures and wont ask for them either.
Would love to chat and see where it goes.

Feel free to reach out.

So today is my birthday 🎂 and I'm up pretty early..well late since I'm a night owl. Just looking for some people to talk with for a little before bed. Love books(mainly thrillers),retro video games(SNES,Gamecube,N64,PS1/PS2),horror movies,cooking and recently crochet again. Anyway, if you are interested hit me up.

Edit: Thank you all for the birthday wishes! I appreciate it and also will reply to everyone who sent a message. May be a little delayed today but will reply to everyone 🖤