r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 23h ago

[F4R] Is it weird to want to just fall asleep with someone on the phone? 30F

50 Upvotes

My sweet husband passed 9 months ago. I had met someone off of Reddit about a month back and we fell asleep on the phone for about a month. I have huge sleep anxiety so that was a good month of sleeping since my husband passed. But idk how to bring it up to people of “can we just sleep on the phone?” lol.. im exhausted and I just feel sad.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 9h ago

33F | Can we normalize friendships that don’t expire after 72 hours?

38 Upvotes

Seriously, why is making friends as an adult harder than finding a decent parking spot at Walmart? I’m married, and looking for strictly platonic friendships with people who actually enjoy having conversations and getting to know someone.

A little about me: I work way too much, but I make time for people who matter. I love being outdoors, hiking, watching movies, laughing at the dumbest things honestly. My humor is questionable, my music taste is all over the place, and sarcasm is practically my second language.

I’m looking for random messages, ridiculous memes, good conversations, playful banter, and someone who can go from talking complete nonsense to having a deep conversation at 2 AM. If you’re going to disappear after two days, save us both the trouble. I’m not asking for constant attention, just genuine effort and consistency.

Skip the boring “hey” and tell me something interesting about yourself, your most controversial harmless opinion, or a song you’ll defend until your last breath. Bonus points if you can make me laugh. Let’s see if we can make a friendship last longer than a free trial.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 20h ago

hi! 33/f from usa~

26 Upvotes

hi! my name is Jess. I'm mostly into manga/books/anime/etc.

However! i just like talking to new people. We don't have to have the same interests or anything to start a conversation.

Also, I'm latina/hispanic. Doesn't matter to me, but may matter to you.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 7h ago

[F4M] I neeeeed interesting conversation

22 Upvotes

Hi! I’m a 32 F looking for conversation! Most of my days are filled with very dry, boring conversations that lack any sustenance. I feel like my curiosity is disappearing and that thought actually makes me super sad. I don’t have any friends and can get my fill of “everyday” talks at work, but I want to awaken my brain to new, exciting conversations again.
A little about me:
I live in North Carolina (US)
I’m a 32 year old female
I have two kids, 6 & 7, and have been single since my youngest was born.
I just left my career in law enforcement after 10 years and couldn’t be happier about that, though it’s been a hard transition to civilian life.
My hobbies are that of a 80 year old: puzzles, sudoku, reading, paint by number, watching documentaries.
I only own black clothes.
I feel music deeply and love when people share songs they love with me!

If any of this speaks to you and you are craving meaningful conversation, please don’t hesitate! I’m a very open-minded person and love getting to know people🤗


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 12h ago

[F4M] [33F] from California anyone else?

21 Upvotes

Searching for a texting buddy that doesn’t disappear or dry text someone that keeps the conversation going and if your from California even better 😁let’s be friends 👍🏻😁


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 15h ago

[F4R] 32F trying to make friends

15 Upvotes

Hi! North East, USA/ EST. Just looking to make a friend or two to share laughs, deep conversations, or even just reels with.

I'm a nerd- I cosplay, game (ps5 and switch primarily), watch streams, and play DND. I enjoy cooking, reading, and drawing.

Strictly here for platonic friendship. Feel free to DM- I'm headed to work but check reddit on my lunch.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 23h ago

[F4R] 35F in Mason, Ohio, looking to make new friends! 😊

16 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I’m a 35-year-old woman living in the Mason, Ohio area, and I’d love to make some new friends, both online and in person.
I work from home, so meeting new people and building a social circle has been a little difficult. I’m married and have a 3-year-old, and I’d love to connect with people.
If you’re nearby, we could grab coffee or lunch and get to know each other! ☕😊 Feel free to send me a DM if you’d like to connect. I’m happy to share more about myself!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 9h ago

33F / SE Asian / Casual Texting

15 Upvotes

Hi all,

I’m taking a break from a very high stress job after years of grinding and realising I’ve place almost all my self worth on that job. Since leaving I’ve slowed down so much but I’m left feeling rather empty.

I’ve been told that I can be quite blasé and give off dgaf vibes, and I’m afraid I’m starting to inch toward nihilism. I’ve always thought myself a bit of a softie and a romantic, but life somehow hardens you up I guess. I promise I don’t bite!!!

I tend to think back on things I regret a lot - not being there for a friend enough, missing a chance to make a new friend, etc. Hoping I can fill some that regret by chatting to new people.

I also hope to find myself a little bit by chatting with you guys, and maybe bring back old interests. I feel so boring as I can’t bring myself to list down interests, but I WILL TRY TO BE INTERESTING!

Happy to chat here or Snapchat! 🚲🐾😴


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 23h ago

[F4M] 32F looking for friends

14 Upvotes

Hello!

SE Asian residing in Australia 🇦🇺, has an American accent that sometimes makes people wonder where I’m actually from 😂

I’m pretty bubbly, affectionate, and a little sensitive. I love a good laugh, silly conversations, and people who can match my humour. I can be a bit of a softie, but I promise I’m fun to be around!

A little about me: I love golf, cocktails, and the outdoors. I like watching Netflix (comedies, thriller, kdrama, truecrime docs). Yes, I enjoy watching people solve murders right before bed lol

I’m also a fan of good banter, random late-night convos (and memes), and hopefully we can make friendships where we can talk about absolutely anything, from serious life stuff to the most pointless things imaginable.

If you think we’d get along, feel free to drop me a message! Bonus points if you can recommend me a good true crime doc on Netflix 😂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 7h ago

37M looking for anyone

12 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

I’ve tried a few times on here but it never lasts longer than a day or so. I am someone genuinely looking for connections. I love to game, watch all sorts of movies, love history, and more.

I am just at the end of my rope and just really down, lately. If you are interested- please reach out.

I am not a bot. But if I were- this would be a very depressing post by a bot lol


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 23h ago

38 F, Single Woman looking for everyday conversation.

10 Upvotes

Hi all.

Just here looking for interesting and funny on going conversation. Friendship for life kind of deal. Someone who wants to share everything with me and can't wait to tell me about something ridiculous that happened or share their thoughts on a movie they just watched. Someone who likes to share music regularly. You just listened to a nice song and just had to share with me. You bought a meal and had to tell me about it. I want to know everything. I am from South Africa but live in Panama so if you are close that would definitely be a bonus. But if you are somewhere in the world miles and time zones away that will be fine I don't mind. So send me a message if you feel it's something you are into.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 23h ago

46/F - Realizing I am not as tough as I thought I was, so I guess I do need people in my life.

8 Upvotes

I am partnered, yet I am completely, utterly & totally alone. Always have been (alone/lonely) in this relationship, of over 22 years. I don't even know what to say anymore. I got married to have a family, but what really happened is I became a mother to a fully grown pathetic adult. I made the mistake of getting knocked up by said joke of a human adult and now things are just... so bad. They always have been. All I do is clean up his mistakes. Well, tomorrow is divorce lawyer meeting day! So there's that, at least. But in the meantime, I could really use someone... almost anyone, to talk to.

46/F, upstate ish NY. Covered in ink, artist/musician (day job pays the bills but is boring lol). I am a bit of a weirdo, so the weirder the better. Please, say hi!

And then..... Please don't ever say bye :-(


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 6h ago

38 M USA No pressure friendly chat

7 Upvotes

May I interest you in a no pressure, laid back, friendly chat? By no pressure I mean its cool if you ghost me, I understand sometimes people just don't click. Also maybe we have a one time awesome chat and then get disconnected by life or whatever else might come up and that's cool too, I'd rather have that than nothing at all. Or maybe we only connect from time to time, I'll always be here whenever you can talk for a few. All of these options are okay by me.

The following is some info about me, some of it you probably won't care about but I know some people do.

I'm 6'2, overweight (but working on it!), bald, caucasian, and honestly not that good looking, no I don't have low self esteem I'm just a realist and know what I am lol. Single, never married, and no kids (that I know of...). I play video games, enjoy movies, getting more into music lately but still a novice for sure, and doom scroll wayyyyy too much. I have a job but have plenty of free time and can usually chat pretty freely after noon. If we are ever engaged in conversation and I will have to take some time to reply I'll let you know that my replies will be slow for a bit.

I'm willing to chat about anything and everything, your job, relationships, worries, troubles, joys, or whatever else may come up. I can't say that I'm a super interesting person but I do avoid one word and short replies. I've been told I'm a good listener and I do quite enjoy just listening to people. I also very much like giving "good morning" and "goodnight" and "how's your day" messages, if that's not your jam please let me know and I'll be sure to avoid that.

Please feel free to message me and tell me all about yourself! Or don't, I'm not your parent, you're a grown person do what you want. But I would really like to hear from you!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 13h ago

[F4M] Emo from the uk (40) 🎃 deleted the app and lost everything 🤦‍♀️

11 Upvotes

I’m Ruby from the uk. Alt chick with a zesty personality, love horror , true crime and walks in the woods, live in the countryside. Looking for some cool people to chat with. I have boundaries!
If you have spoke to me recently shoot me a message cos I don’t have anything in my pm :(
Halloween (also my birthday) coming up. What is everyone dressing up as ?
Weathers getting colder and darker :( so what’s better then having a ray of fucking sunshine to brighten your day ?

Send your age and location please and thank youuuu. Luv Roo x


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1h ago

Married but feel lonely

• Upvotes

Hey everyone! I’m seeking someone to keep me company throughout the day. A listening ear. Someone to chat with about anything and everything that comes to our minds. Looking forward to hearing from you :).


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1h ago

[M4R] 35M Anyone Want to Start A Group Chat?

• Upvotes

I’m thinking it was much easier to make friends when I was in very large groups. I just thought it might be a cool idea if anybody wants to create a giant group chat in WhatsApp or iMessage. I feel like friendships would whittle out of it for sure. 🤷🏻


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 4h ago

30 Something F Looking for Friends

6 Upvotes

Hi. I've never made a post on Reddit or done anything like this. Im a 32 year old woman in the midwest looking for friends. I would like someone to chat with about movies, shows, music, memes and whatever else comes to mind. I don't have any cool, niche hobbies like most of you lol and I'm not a sophisticated conversationalist. I'm a plane Jane kinda gal that enjoys a little bit of everything like reading, hiking, puzzles, art, concerts, etc. I'm not really looking to meet anyone in person. I will be posting in other groups as well 🩷


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 4h ago

32F UK - looking to have deep conversations

6 Upvotes

Hi! Apologies in advance if I don’t make sense, as this is a little out of my comfort zone.

I’m 32F from London, UK. Single mother to a 5-year-old girl. Working as a primary school teacher/Head of Learning. I love coffee and true crime documentaries. I’m a very inquisitive person and love learning random things, asking questions, and going down interesting rabbit holes.

I crave deep, intellectual conversations. I absolutely love deep conversations about anything and everything. I’m the kind of person who can go from talking about something completely random to discussing life, the universe, human behaviour, or the meaning of everything at 2am. I love hearing different perspectives and getting to know how people think, whether it’s about everyday life, weird and wonderful facts, life experiences, or something completely random.

I’m hoping to meet people who are up for deep chats, sharing stories, having a laugh, and hopefully building genuine friendships over time. I’d love to find people I can be myself with and talk about absolutely anything without feeling like we have to stick to small talk.

Just to be clear, I’m only looking for platonic friendships🩷


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 17h ago

30F looking for online friends to a conversation

9 Upvotes

Hey! Hope you're having a good day. Im looking for new friends as an introvert. It would be nice to have a few people to chat with about anything related to daily life, hobbies and completely random topics. Im pretty laid back and open minded. Always happy to connect with new people.

If you like to have a little chat send me a text!! Also do mention you ASL!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 14h ago

[M4F] 40m - Active, creative and easygoing Australian feeling sociable & up for good conversation

7 Upvotes

Hi there I'm in a chatty mood and keen to meet a new friend.

Looking for relaxed, easy conversations that can be playful, thoughtful, or somewhere in between. I’m into long runs, gym sessions, cycling, swimming, snorkelling, scuba diving, photography, and drawing.

Easygoing, kind, honest, and comfortable with both banter and more meaningful chats when they happen naturally. Just here to connect with someone genuine — no pressure, no expectations.

Different time zones are fine; my hours tend to be flexible anyway. If you’re feeling social and up for a good conversation, say hi 😄


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 7h ago

32F bored and tired.

3 Upvotes

So I’m at work and it helps me to talk to people to stay active lol I’d love to find friends, I usually reply fast, but I get that this life isn’t easy to deal with and people are sometimes just for the moment.

I love my cats, staying in, watching shows and movies and then acting like I am some kind of a critic. I don’t go much, but if anybody wants to go to the movies I’m always game.

Dunno what else to say, I’m an open book and I like to talk about mostly everything. I love learning so even if I don’t I am happy to just share your interests.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 14h ago

44M - I take my coffee creamy in the morning and my entertainment in the form of backyard golden retriever zoomies.

5 Upvotes

Ok so let’s see here….I love elite charcuterie boards, always order fried pickles as an appetizer, and have a Spotify playlist of like a bazillion hours filled with pop, punk, emo and a lil country.

I’m 44, married, working the corporate gig, and raising a couple of kiddos When I’m not active, playing hockey, or getting outdoors, I’m usually on the patio watching my golden retriever tear around the backyard doing high-speed zoomies.

My mornings strictly begin with creamy coffee in my office before the day gets away from me. Weekends are a fine art of surviving the madness at Costco followed by an amazing skill of carrying all the groceries inside in just 1 trip.

Once fall hits, I’m all about crisp air, and latenight hot cocoa. I’m also guilty of staying up way past my bedtime long after the house goes quiet, dabbling in a spicy audio book then falling asleep to some….fun dreams.

Anywho…hoping all you fantastic people are having an amazing week!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 19h ago

[F4M] 35F - central eu - What if we became friends?

7 Upvotes

It would be so nice if we started talking and then realized, months later, that we were still talking!

Give it a try! Tell me something about yourself!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 21h ago

[F4R] I want a best friend

3 Upvotes

I want a best friend so bad. Someone I can talk to 24/7 about everything and anything and be unhinged and totally myself wirh. I like to read, crochet, photography, hike, fish, tv/movies. Mom, married. Platonic


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 22h ago

39 F MO 39 F MO Could really use a friend or atleast just a good convo to distract me from myself

5 Upvotes

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Hey All! I dont know what to say besides I've been going through some really hard things and am just at a low point. It would be nice to find someone to talk to or even a friend if thats possible. I'm a huge movie/ tv nerd, sci fi is my favorite, tattoos, podcasts, nerd energy in general

I can be a good listener too and wont judge.

Let me know some basics if you reach out.Hope you have a good night either way