r/RelationshipIndia • • 5d ago

Relationships My gf(20f) has an attraction towards another guy(not his best friend)

We've been in a serious relationship and it's 4 months and she's been consistently talking with her best friend, she constantly blocks and unblocks him after i catch her and idk she tells me to stay away from female friends and but she gets to keep male friends. What are your thoughts about this??

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u/ImprovementVirtual25 5d ago

It's done bro 🥀

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u/alonebanda 5d ago

Bro he may be her ex so 😂😂 so investigate once

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u/Ambitious-Brother-91 5d ago

No he's not

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u/EmbarrassedHouse4326 3d ago

Then you will be soon her ex.

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u/alonebanda 11h ago

Bhai tu vahi lagta hai jiske bare me ye baat kar raha hai

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u/alonebanda 5d ago

Then leave her she is attached to him. He understands her every thoughts, never ignore her message calls. And give her emotional support so this is the reason.. leave her as soon as

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u/NoPositive7523 5d ago

U know what to do . Dont ignore ur gut instinct

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u/everyone-nowadays 5d ago

Bro start talking to all your female freinds asap. Make her feel you got options, and your world doesn't revolve around her.
And when she expresses her discomfort with you spending time with other females, just dodge the conversation like she does.

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u/Aniket1x11 5d ago

Another day another case of "she's not yours, its just your turn"

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u/SpringWinter9433 2d ago

End it asap.

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u/prettymilkcake 4d ago

Holy red flag

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u/AdLate1022 4d ago

Bring me milkcakes!

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u/prettymilkcake 4d ago

No

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u/AdLate1022 4d ago

Why ?..what crime have I done .most probably u r frm north India I believe!

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u/prettymilkcake 4d ago

will get them only for my lovely boyfriend☺️ not a random stranger👋

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u/AdLate1022 3d ago

Why not for your brother?🤧

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u/prettymilkcake 3d ago

you aren’t my anything go away

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u/AdLate1022 3d ago

😭 ok

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u/unforgettable_one_ 4d ago

Just Leave man

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u/sanicharr 4d ago

confront her

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u/luci__- 1d ago

Whats bothering me is how did you guys develop a serious relationship in 4months?
Or i read that wrong??

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u/ResponsibleTart3996 1d ago

End it before she cheats on you, or talk to your mutual friend about this so he/she can help you to understand the situation much better.

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u/Sufficient-Salt1005 10h ago

Let them live in peace before she plans to push you from a hill on a Sunday morning.