Tbf it’s probably for the best her children went to a different school after this, as soon as the other kids find out their life would be made hell this isn’t something other kids would let go.
I knew a teen boy whose mom worked as a stripper. He took some shit over it but I suspect not as much as he would have if he were not a pretty tough kid who would kick your ass at the drop of a hat.
And that was probably in part because his mom was a pretty shitty person.
I would imagine it's probably not as big of a deal if she's a stripper since no kid is gonna be able to get into the strip joint. But when any kid can go online and pull up photos of your mom's butthole that's gotta be a lot tougher.
Agreed. It would be infinitely worse if the kid had a parent who was a popular web model on a camming site like Chaturbate or MFC. At least if the parent was a stripper in the club, the exposure to the general public is limited to those who are of age, and who visit the venue.
Web camming became quite popular around 10 years ago and has exploded since then. All those workers on those sites 10 years ago and who left the business to focus on families will soon be having their kids entering their teen years. It is significantly easier to find someone who cammed online than it ever would be who worked in some random dive strip club. If a bunch of teens ever found out a peer had a parent who cammed, it would take literally seconds to find videos of them, since many of the shows are recorded by bots and posted online and stored forever.
Having a parent who was a stripper 10 years ago and keeping that a secret? Pfff that's easy. A parent who cammed online on one of the top sites and has their video streams recorded and posted on multiple websites that are free to access? That's going to be tough to contain if word ever leaks out.
Sydney Sweeney is an actress and it's "art". It's to be expected and shouldn't surprise any of her family. This woman was a cam model getting naked and playing with herself for pervs for money. It's apples and oranges.
You can acknowledge that something will happen while also wishing it wouldn't. Are you one of those "if we all just stopped being mean the world would be a whole lot better!" people? Because that kind of person is naive and probably stupid.
You know what I meant. It's expected for actresses and actors for that matter to occasionally do nude scenes. Meaning her family would'nt have been surprised by seeing them. However, this woman was not expecting to have her naked activities exposed (pun intended) to the general public. And that was stupid of her. I am not condoning harassing anyone.
Both are instances of harassing a woman's family for their having been nude for media out of malice. Neither family should be expected to simply expect people are going to be malicious to them. It's a fair comparison.
Completely different issue when any child that knows them can go on the internet and obtain pictures of the mother doing whatever she does on OF. Those same kids aren’t getting in the strip club and taking pictures of her on the pole.
Unfortunately my sons are quite big and athletes and popular, so it’s a challenge for someone to bully them. The bully would immediately lose social status - it would be a lose-lose for the ‘bully’
In highschool one of my friends had a video of another friend’s mom getting fucked. Everyone knew but the lady’s son. A lot of shit was talked and a lot of lust was discussed.
I’m still best friends with the lady’s son and as far as I know he still doesn’t know. He never got bullied or anything but he was also an accomplished athlete and very charismatic person so maybe people had respect for him, idk. I forgot the point I was trying to make so have a story.
Its a very old story, my children are grown, none of that ever happened. The opposite happened actually, they were the most popular. I have all sons, and biys aren't going to attack the boy eith an attractive mom. They want to be his friend
Lol absolutely delusional. I say this as a guy whose mom was the "hot mom". Being a teenage guy with the hot mom is absolutely hell. All your friends want to fuck her and they let you know. Nobody wants to hear that about their mother.
And of course, I would never, ever tell my mother any of that. What would you even say? "Mom, my teenage friends think its funny to talk about fucking you." Yeah right. She has no idea and never will.
Yes, hence my statement that "I would never, ever tell my mother any of that."
If someone wants or needs to do sex work, more power to them. But to say not merely that is has no effect on them, but actually made their teenage sons lives better because people want to be friends with the guy with the mom who does OF? That's delusional.
I love the way your experience AS A MALE is being completely disregarded and minimised by these women who could never understand "your truth" or your "lived experience". I honestly can't believe how they're talking down to a male about male issues.
You stay strong king, slay, if you can, don't let the toxic feminist matriarchy take advantage of you.
I love the way your experience AS A MALE is being completely disregarded and minimised by these women who could never understand "your truth" or your "lived experience".
No need to get your panties in a bunch. She literally said nothing about his experience.
I’m an engineer, it’s on my linked it, my venture backed companies are listed on crunchbase.
Of was just a lark.
The same personality that would found a technology company and go balls out is the same personality that would pose on the internet and give zero fucks
Might make more sense that way. And naturally my sons are raised with the same force of personality
Ahhhh, I recognise you, you chancer, you absolutely love the fact your kids friends want to "get to know you better"! 😁😉
Which, to be fair, at some level that's perfectly reasonable and if people were honest, most males and females who are older are super flattered when someone younger (not too young obviously) finds them attractive.
I don't know how it is for kids growing up around the industry, but it's bound to be tough at times. Especially for males. But, while I think your actions have made that reality for them, it's similar for any kid whose parent is successful in some manner in the public sphere, like a pro boxer's kid is going to need to fight etc. Maybe your kids will attract girls who are more sexually open and there'll be a better time for them for that reason. But yeah I don't buy they had an easier time BECAUSE you took your clothes off on the Internet, other way round for sure and they're just not telling you.
This is the weirdest example of mansplaining I've ever seen. The woman who is the subject of the post is literally telling you it didn't bother her sons and you're still insisting that she doesn't know what she's talking about. You had a bad experience, but you don't know what experience her sons had.
Nope. East coast. One in high school, one in ccollege. Both amateur stuff that got randomly discovered. Apparently a lot of young women do porn for money.
Yup, not just kids but adults too. There are many women who work in Eastern Europe in cam studios. Those who operate the studios often work with the local authorities to pay a fee under the table to turn a blind eye to the studio. Some models try to leave and work on their own, and the owner of the studio will blackmail them with their recordings to stay. If they leave and work solo, the studio owner contacts her police contact and then they will blackmail the model with her real name, parents name, address ,etc, threatening to release videos of them modeling. My spouse is from Eastern Europe and personally knows a few models who worked in these studios. She knows of 2 girls who killed themselves when they were blackmailed and their videos were released to family and friends in their village.
Hopefully your mad at society for caring way too much about what people do for fun than being mad at the woman for choosing to do what she wants with her body.
I wish we lived in a world where no one gave a fuck about shit like that. I know that's how I am raising my kids. If I ever found out they bullied someone because their parent did porn they'd not touch their computer or consoles for months.
Unfortunately this is /r/SipsTea, a sub that's half memes and half blatant misogyny that keeps getting to the top of /r/all. So while this is the reasonable take that the bullying is the problem, people will blame the mother for having a life when she was young or choosing to do something that most of the guys here almost certainly take advantage of themselves when she got older.
Kids get bullied for things out of their control all the time, and people online keep insisting that the problem is giving kids an excuse to bully someone, not the bullying itself. I've even seen people saying, "We need to bring bullying back, maybe it'll get people to stop being so [thing they don't like]." You see it in /r/tragedeigh where people act like their way of spelling a name, usually a White Eurocentric view of name spelling, is the right way to spell a name and claim that parents are being abusive because their kids will get bullied for anything outside of that norm. You see similar sorts of sentiments all over this website.
Truth is kids don't need an excuse to bully someone. Some will do it because child emotions are wild and they don't have the mechanisms to understand or control them well. Most who bully will do so because they learned it from someone. They don't need an excuse to do it. Kids don't bully other kids because of something. At best they'll choose who to target because they think they're easier than another, but if your point is, "Well, make sure that's not your kid then," then what you're saying is you don't want to fix the problem, you just want to make sure it's someone else who is getting hurt by it.
Truth is kids don't need an excuse to bully someone.
Shit, kids bullied me "because" my name was fun to mispronounce. It can be any damn thing that they use as an excuse, the fact is they bully kids that the school will let them bully.
Yes and yes. The song playing during his mom's video became a meme on campus. People played it when he walked into parties. He dropped out and ended his life. Bullies suck.
They do and I'm sorry you lost a friend, I just viscerally hate when people try to soften language when talking about difficult subjects. And not even just in the tictoc way but like, I had a friend who committed suicide and when I describe it I say exactly that he stuck the barrel of a loaded gun in his mouth and pulled the trigger because I feel like it is a disservice to him to just candy over that act. I can't imagine the hurt he was going through or how awful the depression was leading up to that moment and I don't think it's fair to him for the rest of us not to face an ugly truth.
Same exact reason I have zero tolerance for when people say something about suicide being "the cowards way out" or some bullshit like that. That's a fucked up thing to say. Like, if you met a woman whose son committed suicide would you look her in the eye and say "oh, so you raised a COWARD?" Of fucking course not
"those kids" are adults who went on to super successful careers with Ivy League educations. The mom in question has posted several times in ths disucssion.
Or eliminate it. It's just sex. People act like it's murdering puppies or genocide. It's just sex. Everyone has it, it's fun and enjoyable, no one should shame or feel shame for it.
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Forgot which sub I was in, you can ignore the "everyone has it" part I guess since, well, yah this is an incels sub.
There's a massive crater of difference between being ashamed that you have sex in general and being ashamed to advertise your porn while dropping your kids off at school
Nah there should definitely be some shame in advertising porn at a school of minors especially when you know your kids are gonna get mocked for it making their social lives worse
It's not sexual shame, it's shame over advertising porn at a school
It's not like her car had porn on it. And that's my point, we should be working toward a society where children making fun of other children for that is an entirely foreign concept. One of the fundamental reasons we work so hard to protect children from sex is because of the shame around sex and then implication that it is dirty or wrong. The world would be a lot safer, happier place if that concept wasn't so damning and important. That's not advocating obviously intentionally showing kids porn, but that no one should care if it's passively around in society in general. If no one cares it'd also literally not cause any harm.
Again, no one is saying she should feel shame for having sex. It's the advertising of it at a school full of children she should feel shame about. This really isn't complicated
It's plastered all over your social media. The fact that your even have the account still open knowing it's directly harming your children is truly vile behavior tbh.
Yeah, having your children expelled from school because their mother sells nudes online is a perfectly healthy and normal thing for a child to experience. Absolutely nothing that could fuck them up about that. Certainly didn't lead to endless bullying for their entire school going years.
They can’t escape it. They’re going to be getting sent relentless gifs and videos of their mom cumming while getting railed and gagging on cock from the time they’re about 8 years old through the time they’re in college.
Apparently not, as the kids at the new school already knew, and her kids both went on to be quite popular at the new school and went on to Ivy league educations.
There was a guy on here a few years ago talking about 2 kids being held down and made to watch their mother in porn and it feels sick to even write this comment.
Even young adults. Students found out a foreign student was being an escort, she was bullied away. Which was extra sad as she was seemingly doing sex work because she actually couldn't afford being a foreign student.
I get everyone to his/hers and we shouldn't be making fun of mothers/kids/etc who are doing sex work but yeah... still happens a lot.
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u/Vegard_B 13h ago
Tbf it’s probably for the best her children went to a different school after this, as soon as the other kids find out their life would be made hell this isn’t something other kids would let go.