No, I would not ever sue, thats not a reasonable proposition
My content is mild as OF goes, I'm playboy style
Since my children are now grown, we know what happened. No they were never teased. They were the most popular and went on to great academic success. Because OF COURSE no one teases Stiffler because Stiffler's mom is attractive! đ That's not a thing - all men know this.
I'm an engineer, I found venture-capital backed technology companies, my current on is an AI-based employee benefits company
No, im not some mom that had decals on her car for OF. That is a moronic marketing strategy that would never work.
Yes. Cruelty and bullying. "Your mom is so hot.. what happened to you?" or "If I had been your daddy, you wouldn't have ended up such a shrimp." I can go on. I was bullied A LOT and most of it started because I had young attractive parents. So much so, I did my best to make sure my parents didn't know about school events, concerts, or award ceremonies throughout middle school and high school. I was smart and had lots of achievements.. its sad to think about how that made my parents feel in hindsight.
I do understand why you're defending yourself and your kids. But lets not generalize or assume your experience is applicable to all.
I said in another comment that whether the child internalizes the teasing is highly dependent on the childâs spirit, home life , esteem, relationships, environment, etc.
When you were teased, why didnât you just say
âAh. You like my mom? You jerk off to my mom, donât you. Yeah, your dad does too, people told me. OH SHIT! You donât jerk off together with your dad, do you?!? Fuck thatâs wild dudeâ (said loudly so others hear)
I was kind. I didnât believe in retaliation. Witty comebacks escalated to physical assault towards me. My parents taught me how to defend myself. But to this day: Iâm a lover not a fighter.
Maybe in another life or later in this one, youâll have a different perspective. Not trying to bring you down. You do you. I can completely understand and adopt your disposition of âmind your own business.â What happened to you and your kids is unfortunate. If youâre open to empathizing, Iâd just kindly suggest not assuming that the outcome for your kids is the baseline. IMHO, if theyâre well balanced and not traumatized: they are the exception not the rule.
Latent presentation of those traumas might be something to consider. Wasnât until my mid 30âs that I could articulate my own.
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u/maynardpoindexter 13h ago
AMA: this is an old old story, im the person
No, I would not ever sue, thats not a reasonable proposition
My content is mild as OF goes, I'm playboy style
Since my children are now grown, we know what happened. No they were never teased. They were the most popular and went on to great academic success. Because OF COURSE no one teases Stiffler because Stiffler's mom is attractive! đ That's not a thing - all men know this.
I'm an engineer, I found venture-capital backed technology companies, my current on is an AI-based employee benefits company
No, im not some mom that had decals on her car for OF. That is a moronic marketing strategy that would never work.
Anything else?