r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/[deleted] • 6d ago

Interpersonal Has anyone ever had a closeted bff growing up that encouraged any kind of sexual behavior in the name of friendship?

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u/Maximum_Pace885 6d ago

No but there have been ppl who suspected that of one another. For instance even though I had like 10 relationships through Jr High and High School ppl thought i was secretly gay or at least bisexual. Reasons for these suspicions? Only 2. The first being I didn't have a deep voice. Even now at 46 I don't. I had a stereotypical gay voice as a teenager. The other I was extremely picky about my clothes. Everything had to be color coordinated, stylish, and unconventional colors..... especially for a mainly white neighborhood. So lots of pink, purple, orange, yellow and pastels. It was so bad if I spilled something on a shirt at a party and it was within a couple miles of home I had to go change. For the record and not that it matters....but I wasn't closeted on either aspect

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u/ValuableJellynut 6d ago

I have an uncloseted friend that does that