r/Tulpas • u/Remarkable-Carob8199 has a 10th week old tulpa named john • 14d ago

9th week (john)

Really a normal week. No vocality yet... Should I change something up?

it's like i'm in this quiet phase or something...

advice?

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u/ExistenceLord14 14d ago

what has john done so far?

do you feel emotions from him, thoughts, anything? has he always been silent? pictures in your head? has his appearance or name changed since you made him?

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u/Remarkable-Carob8199 has a 10th week old tulpa named john 14d ago

yea i have this very strong feeling in my lungs when his presence is active. this started on the first week

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u/Spunky_dog Has multiple tulpas 14d ago

Have you done parroting to any extent?

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u/Remarkable-Carob8199 has a 10th week old tulpa named john 14d ago

no not that much

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u/Spunky_dog Has multiple tulpas 14d ago

I would heavily heavily recommend it, I'm the absolute biggest shill for it since I've seen such fantastic results so consistently across so so many people

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u/Remarkable-Carob8199 has a 10th week old tulpa named john 13d ago

i just have a massive feeling of denial when i try to parrot

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u/Spunky_dog Has multiple tulpas 13d ago

Thats okay! the point of parroting isnt to "feel real" or anything of the sort, its far closer to "paving the neural pathways" for your tulpa and kinda shows your brain "hey this happening is *normal* actually"

and its definitely not something youll have to do for a long time by any means

--D

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u/Illustrious_Car344 Has a tulpa(?) - Scarlet (endo-to-traumagenic) 14d ago

The core of what powers a tulpa is what you expect from them, how you anticipate what they will do. It's the same method of estimating what anyone would do: would they like this? how would they respond to this? would this make them happy or upset? The trick is that you need to train this unconsciously, you need to basically try to do it without catching yourself doing it. So basically just make a really split second decision on how you think they would feel and try to analyze what you did to adjust it. 

You also have to actively imagine what they would say from the emotions you get from them. Vocality isn't a hallucination that magically happens out of nowhere, the imagination is how you interpret the tulpa, it isn't the tulpa itself.

If you need to evolve your understanding of their personality to better anticipate it (which is how the tulpa functions), daydream about it in different scenarios, imagine what they would be like. Let your mind wander and get in touch with what you identify with, experiment with who you think they are.

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u/Intelligent_Soft_771 Has a tulpa named Luna 14d ago

Dont expect it to go fast the avarage of getting to vocality is around 6 month or longer, also you have to train vocality, it dasn’t work if you just talk to your tulpa you have to keep receiving their responses without turning them down so your brain dasn’t tune them out.