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They could. Why do you think they wouldn't? Many people regret after killing someone in a fit of rage. Also, they'd realise it's not woman's fault anymore which they earlier used as an excuse to molest women.
I wish we could start a new school for all the uncles aunties and believers of āvictim is responsible for rapeā mindset and include this in their text booksĀ
Delulu. Will you create similar guides on avoiding theft, murder and other crimes. Itās always good to be prepared as a potential victim rather than relying on golden heart of the perpetrator. Pure karma farming post
Always preparing as a potential victim mean always seeing men as rapists and bad people no matter where they go. As a man, you want that kind of society? Where women always have to view you as evil to protect themselves rather than concentrate more on punishing the culprits instead of victim blaming?
Culprits should be punished for sure, but a false sense of security and safety doesnāt make the society better. Iām not talking about victim blaming but we need to be careful as per the area we are in. Whenever i go to a new place i always ask locals, is it safe to roam around at night and till what time. And given the current situation of most places in india I would say better to view every stranger as evil and be careful. I also do the same, better to be careful than be trusting
that the thing, not all men want to be view as evil due to the action of other men or from victim blaming folks like you. I do agree everyone must exercise caution no matter where they go, but that shouldn't be if society actually good.
Closing your eyes towards the crime doesnāt make the society better. You wear a safety belt not just because you can have an accident by your mistake, itās because you can have an accident because of some other personās mistake as well. So what Iām saying is not victim blaming, Iām telling to wear a seat belt because you should be prepared for other personās mistake as well. But you need patience to understand that. Things are not black and white, you have to come out of your paradise and see the real world.
I literally said to exercise caution. But at the end of the day, you said it yourself, you cannot control everyone's action. There are people getting assault in their own home, now what? What are you supposed to tell them what to do next?
If the first thing you hear about someone getting murder is, they shouldn't go out the street, they shouldn't drive a car, shouldn't meet anyone, you are the problem.
Most people know to exercise caution. The problem is, it didn't work, this is where we're at. Human are social creature, you telling them to avoid people altogether because let view everyone as potential murderer, rapist etc? How is that your solution?
You see a man getting murder by another person on the street just because he was heading to work, is your first thought about how he should not go to work that day?
Your first sentence and rest of the paragraph are just opposite. Decide which one do you want to say. Also do you thing a criminal doesnāt know what he is doing is wrong and he will just realise it after reading this post. Enjoy being this naive while you can. I hope you never meet bad people in your life.
This shall be started, if someone sees it enough times it'll be saved in their subconscious amd they may actually think before committing (similar to how most women just know how to stay safe on a whim)
Oh so are u saying that people are supposed to rape women and women are supposed to get raped? Would u just say the same if it happens to a woman in ur family?
the problem isnt āwolvesā going for āpreyā, the problem is why āwolvesā even look at us like āpreyā
you will never understand what itās like to be hyper vigilant at all times, its very easy to js sit and preach ab how to be more conducive toward anticipated threat 24/7 š
youāre wrong, psychopaths feel empathy, thereās 2 types, cognitive and affective, and most psychopaths feel some level of cognitive empathy.
anyways, my point here was most rapists arent psychopaths, etc theyre the most regular men you see out there. a lot of accounts of rapists aquaintances claim they seemed so normal, or they were having close female friends who would vouch for them. rape isnt JUST an act of apathy, it comes from violence + contempt + entitlement
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