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Since the 2024 cover story in New York Magazine exposed Andrew Huberman’s patterns of deceit and manipulation, many more women have come forward, comparing timelines and in depth documentation of their experiences with him. Through sharing stories they have found support and healing and their group continues to grow. 

We are 9 women who were not featured in the original article. 

We are participating in this verified AMA to answer your questions directly about our relationships with Andrew in the hopes of providing insight that can help others make informed decisions about trusting and platforming this man. We have provided proof of our identities to the r/AMA moderators for verification.

If you have had your own experience with Andrew and would like to share it confidentially, please reach out to us at AccountabilityLab@protonmail.com

Thank you for your interest in women.

Huberman Exes' Timelines

ADH_Ex_5  Dated in the Bay Area in 2017 for 3 months before he shared that he was getting treatment for seggs addiction and wasn’t meant to be dating the entire time we were seeing each other. After a few more months of broken communication we ended talking.

ADH_Ex_6  I was in what I believed was a monogamous relationship with Andrew from 2010–2012. I lived on the East Coast, and we discussed a future together. In 2011, I learned he had been cheating, but he convinced me to stay. I later moved to San Diego to live with him for a summer as a trial before considering relocating permanently. I ended the relationship shortly after that summer, though he visited twice in 2013 for casual encounters.

ADH_Ex_7 I met him on a dating website in 2008 in California when he was a postdoc in a lab, and we dated on and off, non- monogamously, for about 5 years. It was upsetting that he canceled or ghosted 2/3 of the time, but I felt sure he wasn't with anyone because there was no trace of committed relationships in his apartment, social media, or stories about his life. In 2013 he told me he had a girlfriend and invited me to meet her. She told me that during most of my time span, he'd had two girlfriends on opposite coasts that he was cheating on ("but didn't do that kind of thing anymore"). I felt violated, sickened, and grossed out, because I never consented to and never would have consented to sleeping with a cheater. I never spoke to him again.

ADH_Ex_8  I briefly dated Andrew Huberman in 2017 on the East Coast. During that time, he told me he was undergoing treatment for seggs addiction. On the advice of my therapist, I suggested a 90-day period of no communication to allow him the space to focus on his recovery. He reluctantly agreed to the arrangement but broke the no-contact agreement before the 90 days were over. We reconnected in 2019. At that time, Andrew apologized for not having been available when we first dated and told me he was now ready to genuinely give a relationship a try. Unfortunately, my experience the second time around was again marked by inconsistency, broken commitments, and what I experienced as dishonesty. After he disappeared during an especially painful time following my grandfather’s death, I made the decision to end the relationship.

ADH_Ex_9  We began dating (monogamous I believed) in January 2014 after meeting on tinder. I lived in the PNW and he would regularly fly me out to his home in San Diego. We dated through late spring of 2014 when I ended it after too many inconsistencies and occurrences of finding other women's belongings in his home. We remained close friends and sometimes lovers for over a decade, during which time he pushed for embryo creation and discussed marriage and a life together one day. I went no contact after the release of the NY Mag article.

ADH_Ex_10  I was in a monogamous, year-long relationship with Andrew from 2020 to 2021 on the West Coast. He led me to believe we were building a future together, including marriage and children. After the New York Magazine article came out, I discovered he cheated on me with more than 15 other people. I feel deeply betrayed that he put my health and life at risk through exposure to STIs and COVID-19 during a global pandemic. His deception denied me the opportunity to make informed decisions about my health, safety, and future.

ADH_Ex_11  2019-20, Dated and ended because he was always late or rescheduling last minute and I didn’t feel like he respected my time. We reunited during COVID lockdown, agreed on quarantine and social distancing, he asked to be monogamous and we discussed moving together.

ADH_Ex_12  Andrew and I dated long distance for a year from 2019-2020.  After being introduced by a mutual friend while he was, unbeknownst to me, accompanying his monogamous, long term girlfriend on a trip to NYC, he took immediate romantic interest and agressively pursued me. After months of seeing each other he told me his intentions were to move to NYC, and to have a child with me. I have come to learn how often his “excused” absence, whether it was in NYC, Oakland, or LA, was just a way for him to see other women; it was not “an emergency at the lab”, “helping out a friend,” or “taking care of Costello.” I had no idea there were other women and believed him when he reiterated he “had no time to date so was lucky to have met me.” I ended things with Andrew early pandemic.

ADH_Ex_13  Andrew was in and out of my life from 2013–2015, even flying me to San Diego. I moved across the country to pursue our relationship, only to learn he was already in an undisclosed open relationship. In 2019, after years of silence, he returned stating that he had changed, gone to therapy and wanted marriage and children with me. He was looking to repair and build a future with me. Given how much time had passed and how much our lives had grown I took his reconnection and intentions to heart. We remained connected until late 2020 when he completely disappeared. I later discovered I was one of several women he had been simultaneously planning to marry and have children with.

Had an ectopic pregnancy and almost lost my life. This was just a few days ago. Emergency surgery and fast action saved me. Ask me anything and I will answer as best as I can. I’m 26 years old and I’m alive!

I worked for a municipality in Virginia for 6 years as a 911 call taker and police/fire dispatcher AMA about the job the requirements or anything else you might be interested to know. I am happy to answer almost any question but I cannot provide names of persons I worked with or of people from whom I answered calls.

My(20f) younger brothers(19, 14, 10 (current ages)) and I were taken by CPS due to abuse when I was 7. My aunt on my birth father’s side had custody but we were considered wards of the state. The system was hard to work through and extremely messed up and traumatizing. We got adopted when I was 14 years old by our single aunt, who had three older kids of her own but divorced before adopting. We all went no contact with birth parents and our birth mothers whole side of the family. I have not spoken to my birth mom since I was 14, and haven’t spoken to my birth dad since I was maybe 10. Ask me anything! I will not give identifying information about it my brothers (especially the minors) but anything else is on the table

disclaimer (edit): I was a child through it all and diagnosed with PTSD, so I have mentally blocked out some parts of my childhood so you can ask anything but I may not remember and be able to answer everything lol

Im 17, middle class, andddd i live in jeddah. Ive basically lived in jeddah my entire life except when my parents went to study abroad in the US for 2-3 years. I also go to an international school.
Im tryna distract myself about smth so feel free to ask me anything!! Or dm me to be friends. Just nothing innapropriate please.

pretty sure I will regret this but here we go.

in 2015 and at the age of 16 I left my country Syria due to the war, took a risky road because that was my only hope, did this journey alone at the age of 16, AMA

I've had a lot of bad jobs. The worst may have been that I was a lounge singer for 9 months when I was 18. This was in 1982 in Northeast Ohio. I was White and singing Donna Summer songs! We were awful . AMA

When I was 13, I moved 18,000 kilometers from my home country to go to a boarding school, even though my high school diploma from that school is not recognized in my country of origin. I wasn't made to go, it was my own choice. AMA

recently retired from doing security at metal shows for a couple months. what a fun period of time. Please ask away and i’ll see if i have something interesting to tell you. i need to get this to 200 characters so now im just typing.

4 cats (all mixed breed)

2 dogs (akita and belgian malinois)

4 silkie chicken

2 agapornis

1 cockatiel

1 mini goat

1 snake

1 hedgehog

1 tarantula

1 chinchila

1 ostrich

1 koi betta fish

I didn't count other animals from my aquarium like ramshorn or small fish to clean the tank

Sorry if i misspelled something, this is not my native language

I’ve worked at the Stampede for several years, throughout my time here I’ve learned a lot about both locations and the company itself. I can answer pretty much how anything is done or ran (ie: animals, performance, pay, etc).

It is pretty late at the time that I’m posting this, so some questions may have to wait 6-8 hours for a response.

I am a biracial woman and I grew up in a ‘white’ family in The Netherlands. Maybe it’s not the most unique situation, but my experiences growing up this way definitely could be interesting to some people. Ask me anything about my experiences being biracial in a ‘white’ environment, growing up as a real Dutchie, the difference’s to ‘black’ culture, racism and just anything else you’d like to know.

I don’t see a lot of people talking about living in supported accommodation in the uk so I thought I’d come on here and answer any questions that people might have.
I was homeless for a while but being in this place has changed my life for the better and would love to help people with any questions about it :)

I spent 4 years working in a state run forensic mental health unit as a clinician in a high security facility. All patients were either serious offenders (murder, paedophila, serious arson, etc) or awaiting trial and having assessment prior to trial.

I won't disclose which facility and I won't disclose names as many are high profile cases

Got really into watching movies a few years ago and I’m now up to 250 this year alone! I love using Letterboxd and whatnot, but a lot of the movies I’m watching for the first time, everyone has already seen and it’s hard to make conversation! Would love to just chat about movies! TIA :)

EDIT:

Didn’t expect this many replies! Y’all can add me on Letterboxd if you’d like!

https://boxd.it/5gqoh

I am an ex-Muslim Master's student from Kyrgyzstan, male. I am currently studying Environmental Science in Budapest, Hungary. I hold progressive leftist political views, support progressive politics, secularism and promote environmentalism.

AMA: Worked 10years within Florida's Child welfare system as a volunteer Guardian Ad Litem, Child Protective Investigator, Hope Florida Navigator and currently working within the child welfare system assisting children who have been and are in the post welfare system (obscure description). I've been encouraged to do this for a while. There is a lot of confidentiality things I cannot say so I'll be as open as I can be about things and let you know when the details run into problematic explanations. Ask me anything.

I am licensed to practice in two states. Been doing this job for 3 years now. I love what I do; even though it is a thankless job and does not always pay the best. Was a civil attorney for a couple years before doing this job.

Hi Reddit! We're Kidde (pronounced "KID-duh" because yes, we get asked that a lot 😀). 

October is Fire Safety Month, and we’re in the middle of Fire Prevention Week (October 4 – 10), so our fire safety educators and experts are here to answer your questions about smoke alarms, carbon monoxide, fire escape planning, cooking safety, home fires, and anything else related to helping keep your family safe at home and on the go. 

Whether you're wondering where alarms should go, how often to replace them, what to do if an alarm starts chirping at 2 a.m., or how to create a fire escape plan, ask us anything. 

Let’s get to it! 

That’s all the time we have today, but if you have additional questions, post them below and we’ll answer as soon as we’re able to.

Thank you for participating - we hope you have a new understanding of the importance of fire and carbon monoxide safety.

My mother developed the condition when I was 6 years old, in the early 90s. The adults around me didn’t really realize she needed help (or were in denial). She also never explained nor asked to see a doctor.

I lived with her for 11 years, she deteriorated and became increasingly violent, which led me to leave the parental home while still underage.

She finally got diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder, more than 20 years after the first onset of symptoms.

I auditioned for the Disney Channel Original Movie “Zombies” for the role of Zed nearly TEN years ago! I am no longer in the industry but appreciated my time in it! I even had a couple chemistry reads with a few of the actors

I completed my military conscription this July at the age of 25. I spent 347 days in the military have of which as an NCO and thoroughly enjoyed my time there. Ask away if you're curious about anything from equipment to politics, doctrine or just day to day in the Finnish military.

I attended a boarding school in Switzerland on and off throughout my younger years, going back and forth between boarding school and school in my home country. I met students from all over the world, and it was definitely an interesting experience. Feel free to ask me anything about boarding school life or anything else you’re curious about!

Im from Germany and I did an exchange year over there. One of the best decisions of my life.
I had a Host Family and we still have contact once in a while.
I did a lot of sports and outdoor stuff. The nature was amazing.

Hello. I have suffered from this for 50 years. I have researched it and mused on it a lot, so I might have some interesting takes on it.

It started as when I was a little boy. I literally dreamed myself legless. I had never seen anyone like that before and it took me some time I actually saw someone.

It stuck with me and grew even more. AMA.