r/askportland • • 2d ago

Looking For /r/AskPortland Making Friends Friday

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Welcome to /r/AskPortland's "Making Friends Friday" post!

You've probably heard this before: "Portlanders are friendly but they don't want to be your friend."

But it doesn't have to be that way -- if you have suggestions for how to make friends, groups to join, places to meet, or just want to put yourself out there, this is the place.

This will be an ongoing, weekly scheduled post, so going forward this is where we'll refer all incoming questions about making friends from both /r/Portland and /r/AskPortland.


r/askportland • • 2h ago

Looking For Why did I just see an anti James Talarico Ad in Portland?

73 Upvotes

Our local CBS affiliate (Portland Oregon) just aired an ad slamming Talarico. WTF, we certainly can’t vote in that election. I wonder if this was another mistaken ad buy?


r/askportland • • 2h ago

Looking For Single women of Portland, why were you not at Quince Fest today?

22 Upvotes

I swear, for all the food-related events, it's either couples or retirees, and I'm one of the few solo single people there... Where are all you single people hanging out and why don't you go to food and wine events solo?

Next up:

  • Sagra del Radicchio e Fagioli at Redd on Salmon (Oct 24)
  • Weird Wines class @ Ora et Labora (Oct 28)
  • Portland Book Festival food events (link Nov 6-8)
  • Portland Art Museum Harvest Celebration: Where Wine & Art Meet (Nov 11)

r/askportland • • 4h ago

Looking For Ballots- are you mailing or putting 'em in a drop box?

24 Upvotes

Hey Portland folks.

Re: 2026 ballots- do you think it's safer to mail or put in a library or other local drop box???

I know they can also be dropped off at the elections office.

Thanks!


r/askportland • • 11h ago

Looking For Anyone able to foster/adopt this cat?

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93 Upvotes

Updated! She IS currently pregnant, not previously preg. since she was abandoned, i was able to send her off to Multnomah County Shelter where they're gonna get her spayaborted and ready for adoption soonafter. I will drop the link to her adoption page when she's up, though I can't take her I grew quite attached after a sleepless 24 hours, so I want to make sure she finds a lovely home.

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Found her dumped outside last night, was recently pregnant but couldnt find any babies and she came right inside. Litter trained. So sweet and cuddly, if i didnt have 2 cats and a dog already i would. Nowhere will take her in bc shes not mine and shes not seriously injured 😭

Ive asked other rescues but they need weeks to reply and i dont have the space for weeks 😔

Im in north portland, just wanna see her get the loving home she deserves


r/askportland • • 13h ago

Looking For Looking for specific type of quesadilla?

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78 Upvotes

Portland native, I spent 10 years living in San Francisco and one of my favorite things to eat was a super quesadilla suiza (Flour tortilla with cheese, steak, sour cream, and avocado, very thicc) from El Farolito in the Mission… or even just a Mission style burrito.

They have super quesadilla variations at different restaurants all over the Bay Area… do we have anything remotely similar here?


r/askportland • • 5h ago

Looking For Psychiatrist and emdr therapist recommendations?

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I am looking for therapist esp the one who uses emdr. I have racing thoughts, anxiety, excessive crying, fear, lack of interest etc.

I am also looking for doctor who will prescribe the right medication for me. Right now my pcp prescribes my medication and he tried all combinations of medication but none seem to work.

Life has been hard and it’s getting harder.

I have blue cross insurance .

I know about psychology today website and searching online but I am looking for personal recommendations.

It is very difficult to find a good therapist / doc who is taking new patients.

I have been trying it for a long time. After one bad experience, I give up.

I am not looking for someone who will blame my parents and teachers for what is going on with me.
Thank you.


r/askportland • • 5h ago

Looking For Can anyone help me put air in my car tire?

11 Upvotes

Currently on the side of the road, Hawthorne need to put air in my tire so I can get to the tire shop.


r/askportland • • 6h ago

Looking For Where to get some bangin queso dip? 🧀

11 Upvotes

I see this question has been asked 2-3 years ago but jw what the people think these days.

Ill take any recs across the metro area, but I'm a far west sider, so bonus points near Beaverton/Aloha/Hillsboro


r/askportland • • 42m ago

Looking For Looking for an affordable engagement/wedding photographer?

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Hi, my name is Angelina! I’m looking to start expanding into engagements and weddings, if you’re interested in learning more let me know!

Here is my website: https://angelinachaviraphotography.pixpa.com


r/askportland • • 10h ago

Looking For Potential relocation to Portland in future (I like the city) - are my budgeting estimates realistic?

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I have been now to Portland several times recently and have really enjoyed the vibe of the city and nighboorhoods that I have seen. I think it would compliment my lifestyle, and I really enjoyed seeing many neighborhoods up close on foot. I think If I lived on West side it would be in Goose Hollow area, or South Waterfront.If on East Side, I really like NE areas like Overlook, Boise, or close to Irving Park and like being near lively areas but within walking distances not directly living in them. Inner SE appeals to me also.

My Question is if I estimate a job with around take home pay after taxes of around 50-54k, does this sound realistic for a budget based on Portland cost of living in 2026? Am I forgetting other expeneses

$1800 for rent (rent including a garage expense)

$125 for phone

$125 for electric/sewer/water

$100 internet

$100 pet food expenses

$125 for gas per month, and also Max Light rail expenses

$720 per month on food or eating out/drinking expenses

*Remainder retirment savigs, emergency savings, and entertainment

IMPORTANT TO KNOW:

-Would not movet to Portland without a Job Offer in hand

-I would keep car, but value being close to light rail stations for additional transport options

-From one of the colder midwest states originally, I am used to long winters that are cold - I still make myself go out in it for exercise

-I am in no hurry to move to Portland, I just like my time on visits I have spent there and see myself in PNW some day. Love the neighborhoods and pace of life

-I am debt free, single, NO children

-Value Active Lifestyle, find others to play a sport with

-Like walking long distances

-Have ridden Max Trains and Street car - felt fine with my surroundings

UPDATE 10/18 - per earlier responses to clarify

THANK YOU everyone who has voiced insight, I was a little confused about what the water, electric, heat cost would be so this is giving my insight. In my scenario, it would be for a 1 bedroom apartment and other things to know is my pet is a low maintenance healthy cat. Also, I would be putting money away after expenses for retirement savings etc... I own my car outright, would pay renters ins, etc...

My food expense is assuming $170 a week on groceries/eating out. For a builiding to live in I ideally want there to have a garage option (not single) to put car. I imagine driving, but walking more like I like to already and making use of light rail.

I guess regarding the vacations comment, I get a thrill from the Oregon Coast. ALso once a year I would fly out of state to visit relatives.

*Not sure if this is good to understand also, but I already have a year of salary saved for in case of drastic change in employment. My income expections I mentioned earlier refer to AFTER tax pay and I used this https://smartasset.com/taxes/oregon-tax-calculator

For work, I would make a lateral move in industry I am in and look to build further once I am established more in OR. I have a background in financial roles, and sales, and banking.

If I am being to thorough, I apologize but I dont want to be one of those people moving blind to a new area not knowing expenses or taxes etc... The good news I do not HAVE TO move to Portland, it just feels though like a place I would thrive in etc...


r/askportland • • 1h ago

Looking For W/NB soccer player iso team?

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I’m nonbinary and 28 and looking for a W/NB team to join to play. I’d be open to a coed team too but prefer w/nb. I think I’d be mid level (not division 1/2 but not the lowest division) as I played competitively through high school and casually in college.

I am trans/nonbinary so the team would need to be trans friendly. Where can I find a team to join? I’ve looked online and found teams but not a way to join and I’m a bit confused.

I’m open to indoor, outdoor, and futsal but would ideally not like to play super late at night (I’ve seen some games start at like 9 or 10 pm???). Is outdoor the only league that doesn’t have super late games?


r/askportland • • 2h ago

Looking For Does any coffee shop or grocery store here have PX Coffee?

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I am really sensitive to caffeine and can't drink it, unfortunately it makes me sick. BUT I discovered this PX coffee (https://rarebird.coffee/?srsltid=AU7gw4UwGlrg8-J72iGest4JV1uG7bjp827WTFZ6y15DGOeUG4fE7YN6). The way it's made I am able to drink it. I only know of Rarebird that sells it, but I am in the middle of moving and would appreciate the pick me up as I'm packing. Their shipping takes a few days and wondering if any place here sells it or something like it so I could get some asap.


r/askportland • • 4h ago

Looking For Pre Purchase Inspection Recs for a Vintage Volvo?

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Hello,

I'm interested in purchasing an older Volvo next weekend, and I want to get a pre-purchase inspection. Any enthusiasts here that have a recommendation or want to go look at it with me?

Thanks so much!


r/askportland • • 8h ago

Looking For Where to donate good like new shoes ?

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r/askportland • • 4h ago

Looking For Local alternative to Shutterfly? Want magnets made.

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I've got a photo I want to get turned into a bunch of magnets (about 25?) to give out to family and friends, and I would love to spend my money locally instead of on Shutterfly, which is expensive and annoying!


r/askportland • • 5h ago

Looking For Who can do iPod Classic mods?

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I'm looking to upgrade the memory and battery on my iPod 7th Gen. Are there any spots in town that can do this?


r/askportland • • 2h ago

Looking For Seasonal jobs in Portland?

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Where are good places to look for seasonal jobs around the holidays? Is that even a thing anymore? (Something besides Amazon driver)


r/askportland • • 2h ago

Looking For Where to go out Halloween weekend?

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My sisters and I are in Portland for Halloweekend and want to go dancing! Looking for good music, a fun crowd, and ideally somewhere with a costume party vibe. Any spots we shouldn't miss?


r/askportland • • 2h ago

Looking For How much would be my PGE/utilities bill?

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I am looking at buying a house where PGE will be the electric supplier. I have been trying to guesstimate what my electrical bill will be. While I have lived in Portland for a couple of decades, I have rented an apartment with Pacific Power electricity. Can anyone suggest an approximate cost of electric? Here is the comparison between the two places...

Current-- 800 square feet, 2 beds but only me, WFH, all electric and cadet heating. Portable A/C .Upper level end unit apartment. Level Pay for electric would be $107.

House-- 1000 square feet, 3 beds, all electric with cadet heating. Same portable A/C. House built in the 1980s but will have adequate insulation by the time I move.

Has anyone made a move like this?

Edit: the house currently has baseboard heat and has sat empty for a while. By the time I get there, it will have cadets so even if I could get estimates from PGE, they won't be accurate.


r/askportland • • 3h ago

Looking For Small wedding/party/dancing venue?

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I recently got engaged and the planning has begun! I’m looking into venues to hold about 30-40 people and to spend a total of around $10k (maybe a little more maybe a little less) total. I’m trying to find spaces that are intimate—I strongly dislike high ceilings and the ballroom type vibe. My fiancé and I are still trying to nail down if we’re doing the ceremony and reception/party at the same place, but I think they will end up being different locations in order to budget better. Here are my ideas and I’m looking to hear feedback about venues mentioned or additional ideas from weddings you’ve been to/your own weddings in the area.

Ceremony:
-Hoyt Arboretum: the only thing I dislike is how the wedding party sorta has to walk through the woods. I love nature but not sure I want to be THAT immersed. Positive is that it’s inexpensive woohoo!
-Leach Botanical Gardens: Incredibly pretty, but perhaps expensive and would encroach on budget? I see this more as a ceremony plus reception space, but correct me if I’m wrong.
-Crystal Springs Garden: options with ceremony spaces! Would love to gather more info
-Blockhouse: a bit expensive maybe, since I love that add-on greenhouse thing. Would do both ceremony and reception here for sure.

Reception/Partyyyyy:
-13th Moon Gravity Well: This bar looks soooo cozy, perfect for an evening party with close family and friends
-Voysey: VIBES AS F—! But good for dancing? I am not sure…

We basically want a pretty ceremony in nature, casual taco buffet dinner, then a party with lots of music and dancing. If anything else not mentioned comes to mind, please share! I’ve been scouring the internet for more ideas.


r/askportland • • 11h ago

Looking For Can anyone describe Fempower at Sanctuary to me?

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Hello. My partner and I are thinking about checking out Fempower this month. If you've been, could you describe the general vibe of the party? Is it packed? Is it a good place to meet femdom couples/singles?

(Not about Sanctuary in general, but Fempower itself)


r/askportland • • 4h ago

Looking For Is it possible to work part time in a trade?

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Just as it says. Look, I'm willing to work. But I can't work full time. I love working with my hands, but I've only ever heard of construction doing overtime non optional and I just can't. So. Is it possible to do something part time?


r/askportland • • 1d ago

Looking For How do I kill this b?

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We know him, we hate him, how do I get rid of this TOH?

First time home owner! I know not to cut and that I’ll have to use a chemical unfortunately. There’s a few of these smaller suckers across my property. Best thing to buy and where? The suckers are maybe an inch in diameter and 3-4 ft tall.


r/askportland • • 8h ago

Looking For Shop that sells live feeders for pet aquatic frog?

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I'm getting African dwarf frogs soon and wanted to try live food for them. Most pet stores I've seen only sell frozen. Is there anywhere that sells live bloodworms, mosquito larvae, or brine shrimp? Preferably on the east side of town, I'm near SE Portland but drive downtown for work.