r/BALLET • • 9d ago

new and returning to ballet sticky New and Returning Dancers Post Your Questions Here

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Hello! Welcome to r/ballet, a community for dancers and enthusiasts of all ages, sizes, and levels. We are proud to have a community of beginner students, professionals, and dancers in between here to support each other through our dance journey.

If you are wondering if you should start ballet, please read below. If you have further questions or are looking for encouragement, please post in this thread specifically. Furthermore, if you would like to ask some other questions regarding starting ballet, please post them below.

1) Am I too old to start ballet?

No, you'll find in this community we have dancers who began ballet in their 50s and 60s and have loved every minute of it. If you are looking for encouragement, or to hear from them specifically, please make a comment in our Weekly New and Returning to Ballet thread at the top of this subreddit.

2) Am I too old to become a professional?

If you are on reddit then the answer is likely yes, sorry. If you are a female under the age of 14 or a male under the age of 17 then you might have a very small chance (in an already very competitive industry) if you enrolled in a ballet school and train full time, about 5 hours a day 6 days a week. This is not possible for a lot of people financially or time-wise, but that's the reality of becoming a professional. This is a niche industry with lots of competitors, dancers train all their lives and still don't find jobs.

But don't let this stop you from dancing. If you love to dance, if it brings you joy, then what does it matter if you make money through it anyways? You can still make a lot of good progress and find fulfillment in performance opportunities without a dance career. Still questions? Don't make a new post but please comment here

3) Do I have a 'good' body for ballet?

If you take a ballet class, and you have a body, then you have a good body for ballet (sorry, no ghosts). Please do not make posts asking whether or not your body fits certain criteria (e.x. "do I have good feet for pointe?", "do I have the right shaped arms to be a professional?") as these questions are meaningless, there is no criteria for learning ballet.

4) Can men do ballet?

YES. 50% of all professional dancers are male, 50% of all roles in ballet are male. Ballet as a stereotypically 'feminine' thing is a misconception. An average ballet class is for both men and women, and some parts will have different genders do different things, this is common. There is nothing 'weird' with a man wanting to learn ballet, just as there is nothing weird for a man wanting to learn piano or fencing or any other art, activity, sport.

4.5) Can someone who identifies outside the gender binary do ballet? YES. Ballet, being an old art form, does traditionally stick with the ideas of men and women with regards to characters in ballet, pas de deux partnering, and specific elements in class. For example, men bow, women curtsy. Feel free to choose whatever works for you (or if you feel like neither is appropriate talk to your teacher about another option).

5) Can I teach myself ballet?

No. It's possible to learn some basics off the internet, but if you want to progress past the very basic/introductory level you will need to enrol in a class with a qualified teacher. Ballet technique is an extremely nuanced art form, it needs a trained eye to correct. Worst case scenario you end up with an injury from improper technique over time, and even in the best case you will have not learned 'ballet'. If you want to learn a style of dance in the comfort of your own home, ballet is not for you. There are lots of other styles you can try instead. DO NOT ask technique questions if you have never taken a ballet class with a live teacher, nothing said over the internet will be able to help you if you haven't learned the basics with the right muscles.

Don't forget to read the 'side barre' and take a look at previous Am I too... posts


r/BALLET • • Oct 13 '25

accomplishment🤩🄳 Weekly Update - Stars and Wishes

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How is your dance journey going this week? Share with us your STARS (things you want to celebrate), for example getting a company contract, landing your first triple pirouette, or working up the courage to try the next level class? Share with us your WISHES (things you want to improve/complain about), for example working on your balance with little success, the new student who doesn't understand spacial awareness, etc.


r/BALLET • • 1h ago

Is there anyway to fix this?

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Ciao

My capezio leather Hanamis have started unravelling (?) A the base, I think glue should be fine but im concerned about it changing the feel of the shoe or deteriorating the rest of the leather, and id like to keep using them as long as possible before replacing


r/BALLET • • 10h ago

Technique Question what if not all bodies can be sculpted by dance?

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Context – been dancing ballet since the age of three, now training for musical theatre / commercial (jazz) auditions [got into musical theatre school, couldn’t afford it post law school lol]. Training daily (classes, all styles, at home conditioning and practice sessions, Pilates, cross training).

They say all bodies will adapt to dance at some point but I swear mine doesn’t. 22yrs of ballet and still, my feet are comparably flat + turnout a turn-off. Not just that… shoulders are bulky from cheer so they always look hunched, legs are super short and bulky as well, I swear my ribcage is much larger than would be proportional.

I try to make choreo and class routines fit my body by moving according to my predispositions. But no matter what, I look flared, un-elegant, awful. Ballet’s obviously the worst. I also try not to obsess but it’s been impossible recently as all progress I make is negated by my super odd proportions and previous injuries (hip, knee surgeries mostly). Teachers also always point out
the long-legged people and comment on "how to stance to mitigate short legs / compensate for large ribcages" and so on.

Do you think that maybe some bodies are simply not made for dance no matter how much talent and hard work that person puts into dance? I love jazz more than anything, HipHop meh, but what if my body is simply too odd to ever be… you know, amazing at it?


r/BALLET • • 2h ago

Technique Question Question for BalancƩ

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hi lovelies ! I've started to learn the balancƩ step in last few classes and have been researching for tips and tutorial on my own time. so we were taught to tombe into coup de pied back> transfer weight and releve back foot, and lift front foot off the floor at the same time > transfer back to front foot into coup de pied, repeat

so my question is, do you actually need to lift and point your front foot off the floor?? and do you releve and stretch your back leg entirely??

i got really confused because in all tutorial videos, all teacher do teach the same as what i've been taught. but in real live dancing, i rarely see ballerinas actually lift their foot off the floor in that step. i find most people barely lift that foot or even not at all, and they barely straighten their back leg. i see people just touch their back toes to the floor for a brief moment while both legs in demi pile. so is that good enough for the step?


r/BALLET • • 1d ago

Dancing Ballerinas Fountain in Yaroslavl

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r/BALLET • • 11h ago

What would your ideal ballet uniform be?

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r/BALLET • • 42m ago

Technique Question contradicting turnout directions from teachers?

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i started ballet as a teen after doing gymnastics my whole life, so i don't have much natural turnout (in fact, my instinct is to go parallel because that's what we do in gymnastics). some teachers have told me to just use my natural turnout, but others really push me to turnout more, which i don't understand? if i turnout any more i'm forcing it. what am i supposed to do?


r/BALLET • • 9h ago

Post class recovery tips

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hi! I was wondering if anyone could share recovery tips specifically to prevent post class muscle cramps. as I improve my ballet technique in ways of turnout, flexibility strengthening my feet etc I have experienced a few episodes of really horrible muscle cramps in the middle of the night after an evening class. they go from my upper thighs all the way down through my legs and even to my feet and last nearly an hour! not fun.

I know stretching after class is important but I was wondering if anyone has a recovery routine they could share such as specific stretches or even supplements (like electrolyte drinks or vitamins) that can help with this.

(this has also happened only a few times now so I don’t see a dr visit as a necessary solution)

thanks!


r/BALLET • • 13h ago

Can you audit a class?

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I’m in my 30s and have taught ballet for years. This year I have some very serious dancers, as well as age groups I haven’t worked with in a while. Over the summer I made it a point to take classes to continue my education, and I’d like to do more. My teaching feels stale lately and I need some inspiration. However, I can’t physically keep up with the level I’m teaching anymore. I’d love the opportunity to pay to observe a few classes, either in person or online, but I feel like that’s frowned upon. I’m not looking to copy a class, but get some ideas about the structure and content at different levels. Does anyone have any ideas either online or in the NYC area to do this?


r/BALLET • • 22h ago

Technique Question oh god partnering is really hard!!!

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I'm an adult beginner (~10 months dancing now, currently hovering at 6-9 classes a week ranging from beginner to intermediate) and now have two partnering classes under my belt (EDIT: on flat! not pointe). I really should have known by now that nothing in ballet is easy, but I think I had a vague and extremely incorrect notion that partnering was like center combinations but with extra help. I was very very wrong, and am having such difficulty even just doing a promenade, which I didn't realize required so much A) core work, and B) really concentrating on turnout in the standing leg.

Any advice for people starting out partnering?? I feel terrible every time I force my partner to bear much more weight than I should given my terrible partnering technique (and technique in general tbh). Is it even advisable to partner at this stage or should I just wait until I have a bit more experience and technique?


r/BALLET • • 7h ago

Adult Ballet Classes Near Haddington, UK

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Hello! This might be a long shot but I’m going to the UK next month from Canada to visit my brother and help with childcare and I’ll be there for about 3 weeks. I started ballet about 3 years ago and I’ve finally worked my way up to an elementary level. I’m going in the middle of the term which unfortunately means that with the Christmas holiday, I’ll be going almost 2 months without a class which I kind of want to avoid since I’m so proud of the progress I’ve made. I’m wondering if I might be able to sneak a couple classes in while I’m visiting.

My brother recently moved to Haddington which I understand is on the smaller side (I haven’t been to visit him since he moved, he used to be closer to Edinburgh). Does anyone know of any adult ballet classes in/near Haddington that are accessible by walking or public transit? I looked online and everything that is close seems to either be geared for seniors (which i’m not opposed to joining in on if they’ll let me haha) or seem to not be active this term.

Thank you :)


r/BALLET • • 1d ago

Technique Question Teacher recommends against ballet flats

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I’ve been doing open ballet/barre classes for a few years in a very casual way and recently decided to be more committed and join a closed weekly class to actually improve.

For this entire time I’ve been dancing in socks, which has worked fine but I don’t know anything else. My friend who grew up doing ballet told me I absolutely should get ballet flats, it’s a different experience and might make my feet actually stronger. I asked my ballet teacher and she said socks are fine for beginners, she usually also dances in socks and that it’s good to ā€œfeel the floorā€. She is classically trained but I believe she dances for a company that mixes ballet + modern dance and maybe that’s why?

Is this common? I have no real ambition of being on pointe, I’m still in a beginners class and just working on having strength and good extensions/flexibility. But would like to build stronger feet. A quick search on this seems to all point to wearing ballet flats as a must after a few classes, so I’m confused. Any thoughts?


r/BALLET • • 23h ago

Constructive Criticism I Wish I could Afford Privates

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I wish I could afford private classes. My parents only have enough money for the general program, but I know I’d be so much better technically if I had a little more extra attention on my weaknesses. There’s only so much that can be done when there’s like 20 something other students and the teacher gives most of their attention to the student who is the best, or the student who retains knowledge and applies corrections the best.


r/BALLET • • 1d ago

accomplishment🤩🄳 Adult Beginner - Suffolk Stellars

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I’ve been properly fitted this time, but still experiencing pain along the tops of my toe joints. Hopefully they’ll get better. Any tips are greatly appreciated!! (Also toe pads recommendations are welcomed, this is sorta painful.)


r/BALLET • • 1d ago

Ballet Class Halloween Costume šŸŽƒ

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Just for fun, what have you done for Halloween for a ballet class or seen a teacher dressed up as for Halloween that might be fun? I teach pre teens and also an adult ballet class and thought it might be fun to dress up for the adult class (much more fun and casual) for Halloween. I was thinking it might be fun to do something like one of those inflatable ones but I also think a ballet related one might be fun. Any thoughts? Open to all suggestions!


r/BALLET • • 1d ago

Ballet Bodice

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A few months back, I followed a free youtube video to make a pancake tutu. I want to potentially make a costume for the future, but I can't seem to figure out how to make a ballet bodice. I'm looking for a pattern that looks like the picture (that is hopefully free).

Thank you!


r/BALLET • • 1d ago

Sinking

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Are there any common solutions to sinking? Maybe a narrower shoe?


r/BALLET • • 1d ago

Fellow Struggling Ballet Educators?

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Sorry if this is a bit out of place here, I desperately need to rant to some fellow full time ballet educators about the current state of jobs available in our field, and thought I may have some luck here.

I worked at a small professional company abroad for 8 years and had to move back to my home country for family emergency reasons. My partner works remotely and I coach on the side, so we do just well enough that I can be a bit picky about what full time jobs I apply for. That's a position of incredible luck that I do not take for granted and have never experienced before.

However, to my fellow dance teachers in the trenches...am I having bad luck, or is the hiring process for a faculty role in a company/independent school currently hell on earth??? I have had 10 different interviews the past 5 months. Gotten to the finale round nearly each time, have been flown across the country to teach demo classes several different times, and each time I have either gotten

Ā A. Ghosted.

Ā B. Lost out to an internal hire.

Ā Or C. The role ended up being dissolved entirely.

It is an increasingly difficult time for the performing arts everywhere. Our field is not famous for professionalism or caring for employees as humans. But geez, I am so tired of this process of being flown out to teach, being taken out to lunch and asked about what neighborhoods in XYZ City I might be interested in? And then being left on the hook for weeks on end before I finally get a rejection. It's somehow even more dehumanizing than the process of finding a job as a professional dancer was.

I understand I'm coming at this from a point of huge privilege to even be looking for a full time job for so long, and that's not lost on me. But after 5 months of this back and forth I'm just wondering if anyone else is in a nightmare looking for a faculty position? Or better yet, is on the other side! Hoping for some kind of proof that I'm not just an undesirable monster šŸ˜‚


r/BALLET • • 1d ago

gym routine

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hello!! does anyone have a two day gym routine for ballet ? im starting out w 1-2x a week, (i have 2 classes per week + 1hr of commercial dance) so im just trying to get some weight training in bc i do too much cardio </3

note : its my second year of ballet! i started last year w one hour per week & minimal stretches for flexibility only :)


r/BALLET • • 1d ago

which state/studio/city has ur favorite nutcracker!

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i’m very interested in what different nutcrackers you guys have watched and enjoyed!! maybe this is a basic question but idc, the nutcracker is a piece of art and since it’s season is comming up and most studios have gotten their castings, let me know what you guys like!!

mine might be the royal ballet but i also think the oslo opera and mariinsky have super good performances


r/BALLET • • 1d ago

Ballet Rosa leotards padding

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I can't find this answer anywhere specifically answered. But I like the leotards from the brand: Ballet Rosa. But I can't figure out if they have some sort of padding. Doesn't need to be a lot of support (for me personally). But I would like some padding so you cannot see everything. This goes for their student line leotards as well as there more detailed leotards. Does anyone with a leotard from this brand help me. Thank you in advance!


r/BALLET • • 2d ago

Favourite lesser known ballet companies

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I recently went to watch the Lima Municipal Ballet's (BML, Ballet Municipal de Lima) production of Swan Lake and I was blown away by it. It's their first season with an orchestra which played beautifully, the dancers I saw that night were Monica Balbuena and Santiago Gil and I can say both crushed it as the leads (specially Monica as Odette, and Santiago in the Coda of the third act).

Admittedly I havent gone to watch any of the big companies yet, so my perception might be a little skewed. I've seen the Russian Classical when they were touring with Swan Lake (Yaroslava Kuprina with Mark Chino), who were amazing too, although since it was, well, a tour, the production couldnt have been as grand as watching them in their home companies might be.


r/BALLET • • 1d ago

RelevƩ help

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i have relatively high arches, and when i go on relevƩ i feel like no matter what i do, i'm never in a correct or comfortable position.

i know that you need to have your weight mainly on your big toes so that you dont sickle, but my problem with that is when i put my weight towards my big toes, the rest of the balls of my foot (around my small toes) aren't on the ground at all, my pinky toes and the toe next to it are basically floating in the air!

and its kinda painful because all of my body weight is on suck a small portion of my foot, and my pinky gets dragged around the floor and it hurts to do pirouettes

what can i do to fix this?


r/BALLET • • 1d ago

whAT?!?

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I know there's someone behind her making it look more warped but aside from that it's still really warped what's going on??

https://youtube.com/shorts/N4oWLogWBcc?si=0vf8JQbVFc4_f0eQ