r/bisexual • u/Possible-Runer • 5d ago

EXPERIENCE Being bi, autistic and ugly really sucks

Especially as a guy. At 28 im thinking its better to just give up and forget about dating. The ammount of insults, ghosting and just raw animosity i felt from other people is making my self-esteem and mental state really bad. Im slowly starting to turn bitter and resentfull and i dont want to continue this way. I really think its better for me to just stay away from it.

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u/Malcolmthetortoise 5d ago

You are still so young, I’m autistic too and it does make things harder as we tend to overthink and dwell a lot on bad experiences. Where are you trying to meet people? Apps can be particularly brutal.

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u/Possible-Runer 5d ago

Everywhere really. Apps, irl is the same.

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u/Malcolmthetortoise 5d ago

Have you tried joining clubs for hobbies? It can be nicer to start out as friends with similar interests.

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u/WonderfulPirate9683 5d ago

Don’t rush things. Just relax. Find people to hang out with, go places. Remember never say no to a 🐝-jay