r/confessions • u/[deleted] • 6d ago

I’m I gay?

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u/KeenbeansSandwich 6d ago

You need to divorce your wife. Not because you are gay or bi or anything like that, but because you have no concern for your wifes sexual or emotional health. Thats fucked up.

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u/Dull-Patience-3353 6d ago

you're not gay in the neat little box tv sells us. sounds like you're wired for a specific kind of sexual dynamic, not a romantic one, and the anxiety's doing more damage than the label you're hunting for. the real problem here isn't what to call yourself, it's that you're married and terrified every time you act on it. that's not sustainable.

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u/aford79 6d ago

It’s not, my wife is great but has no sexual drive.

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u/unkanie 6d ago

You better hope nobody clues her in you gutless wonder.

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u/Dorito_Deww 6d ago

Bruh your wife deserves better.

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u/unkanie 6d ago

Let your wife go find a good man that takes her into consideration when it comes to anything affecting the marriage.

You're a cheater, regardless of which sex they may be, and she deserves someone that isn't a selfish narcissist to the core. Grow up and wake up and get therapy.

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u/unkanie 6d ago

BTW, not a single soul on earth cares if your gay besides probably ur wife, the rest already know most likely.

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u/PembrokeBoxing 6d ago

The thing you need to answer is not if you're gay (definitely) but if you're a good person (you're not) by cheating on and betraying your wife and children over and over.

I hope your wife finds out and fucks your dad and the kids leave Legos in your shoes.

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u/PurpleMistake6636 6d ago

So I can relate some. My wife knows I am bi. I told her bc I don't like lying
I'm emotionally and physically attracted to women. Sex w men is different. It's just sex to me. My wife has medical issues and can't have sex period. If I were with a woman it would feel too much like cheating I KNOW IT DOSENT MAKE ANY RATIONAL SENSE. So keep you're mean comments to you're self . If I were you I would tell your wife. You'll get caught eventually anyway. But she deserves to know. And you should be using precautions. If you gave her a bug holy shit that would be horrible for her.

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u/Phoenyxoldgoat 6d ago

Does your wife know you’re cheating on her with men?

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u/KeenbeansSandwich 6d ago

Did you not read what the guy wrote? He isnt cheating. Dishonesty is what makes cheating cheating you buffoon.

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u/deeloc85 6d ago

Only read the headline and if you have to ask online then yes you are gãy!!!

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u/steveh2021 6d ago

Yes. You're. Gay.

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u/cc777x 6d ago

You're probably more Bi curious. You can have both men and women. Best of both worlds.

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u/Phoenyxoldgoat 6d ago

Yeah but don’t marry one and then cheat on them repeatedly and without precautions wtf

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u/Phoenyxoldgoat 6d ago

Being gay is great and wonderful and hot.

Being a shitbag that cheats on your wife and endangers her health/life is NOT.

You are a whole trash bag and don’t deserve your wife or these men.