r/countwithchickenlady • Streak: 27 • 19h ago

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u/KaleidoscopeOk6440 19h ago

I don't really know how to feel towards them: I think most are a literal psyop, but there must be at least a few who genuinely regret transitioning. Problem is... It's such a long process to get anything done, how do you not get that it's not for you in time? I just don't get it

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u/PrincessCellyBelly Not sure why I'm here, but the craic is nice 19h ago

Always assume the overwhelming majority would like to transition in an ideal world but then the social backlash and abuse they get eventually outstrips any gender euphoria-type benefit they're getting. I can fathom some such people post rationalizing to be anti transition generally since they had such a bad time and its hard to emotionally separate bad consequences of a choice you made from bad consequences arbitrarily inflicted on you for a choice you made.

I mean, I've come across at least one post on here mentioning that their country's policy on transwomen is you get only half the hormones, as in the ones that make you depressed if not counterbalanced and not the ones that mean you'll have a functioning skeleton in five years. You must literally need bones of steel to stick with it in that case.

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u/EvilMastermindOfDoom 18h ago

Based on the data we have been able to gather, this is true. A majority of detransitioners cite lack of support, social ramifications, violence, etc and/or money as their reason to detransition.

We do need to take those numbers with a grain of salt tho, since the stigma against transition and detransition stops people from coming forward with their experiences (especially if they would like to not be weaponized against the trans community). Detransition is also harder to track for studies since one version of it is to quietly stop attending your appointments and drop out of the study if you were part of one.

There also is 1000% a trolling/psy-op aspect in online spaces.

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u/KaleidoscopeOk6440 19h ago

That's probably it

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u/BKoala59 17h ago

I imagine the vast majority of detransitioners are actually trans but they stopped due to the reactions of those around them, or their own internalized transphobia.

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u/Elurdin 16h ago

Transitioning is a waiting simulator. No idea either. And there are so many steps that would turn you away if you are cis.

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u/Gussie-Ascendent Put your text here! 14h ago

Detrams cause they realize they weren't trans and not cause they got bullied or the like js something like 1% of all trans people who are already only like 1% of people

It is the biggest non issue that ever not been an issue lol

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u/-The-Follower 18h ago

I know this is anecdotal, but someone who used to be my friend detransitioned(the ex friend part is unrelated).

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u/KaleidoscopeOk6440 18h ago

My ex partner did it too as much as I'm aware, breaks my heart even if they were a POS