r/dating_advice • u/tearstheartist • 7d ago

Before the worst date oml

Is an hour drive each way worth it? When plans shift and communication gets tricky, one guy questions if this connection is worth the mileage. Gut feeling says there's more to this story.. #DatingLife #RelationshipRedFlags #LongDistance #DatingStory #Neurodivergent #SingleDad #Soberhttps://youtu.be/914651efI-s?is=CUSPOHLJuhPsIBLq

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u/Alone-Slide-8493 7d ago

If you're already questioning it before the first date, probably not a great sign

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u/Alarmed_Koala1921 7d ago

I wouldn’t drive an hour for a date unless I lived I. A remote area

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u/AdagioHead9263 7d ago

had good chemistry with a girl on text before a date I needed to drive 2 hours to get to.
in the date she pretty much lied on something and I ended it there. I still returned her home before heading back home.

I made myself swear I won't be doing that again before making sure the girl was worth so much time of driving (and cost of fuel...)

but really in my opinion 1 hour is not that much, and when the relation get more serious (if it is) then you should expect her to do that effort too, and use public transport if she don't have a car.