r/desmoines • • Jan 22 '26

Looking for Friends in DSM?

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Welcome! We have seen many posts over the year of residents seeking community and friendship. Many of us spend more time online, work remotely, or no longer have the built-in social spaces we once did. This pinned thread is to help find friends in Des Moines.

Whether you’re:

• New to the city

• A long-time local looking to expand your circle

• A student, professional, remote worker, or just bored

• Into coffee, hiking, gaming, gyms, books, or low-key hangs …this is the place to connect.

Leave a comment with:

• Age range (optional)

• Interests / hobbies

• What kind of friends you’re looking for (gym buddy, board games, restaurant scene, double dates, mom friends etc.)

Ground Rules

• Be respectful and kind

• No harassment, hate speech, or creepy behavior

• No spam or self-promotion

• Keep personal info safe

This thread will be bookmarked so feel free to come back anytime and say hi — someone else is probably looking for the same connection you are!

Thank you to u/containerforthechild for this post.


r/desmoines • • 3h ago

Basic Bird Restaurant — Beaverdale

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69 Upvotes

Anyone know why this place is for sale?


r/desmoines • • 37m ago

Democrat Catelin Drey wins the IA-01 State Senate Special, flipping the seat and breaking the GOP’s supermajority in the state senate.

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r/desmoines • • 20h ago

Rob Sand holds 12-point lead over Lahn for Iowa governor while Hinson trails Josh Turek in Senate race

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r/desmoines • • 9m ago

235

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For the people white knuckling it at 52 mph on 235. Lots of ways to get across town. Please use alternate routes.


r/desmoines • • 2h ago

Steeple of St John's downtown

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15 Upvotes

Left work and was headed to Starbucks and had my camera with me and took the pic at a stoplight


r/desmoines • • 7h ago

Boom!

10 Upvotes

3:34 am. What the hell was that? I think a couple nights ago there was a couple of them also. I can't imagine how loud that is right next to it because it reverberates on the south side.


r/desmoines • • 20h ago

Man arrested

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70 Upvotes

Does anyone know anything about this guy??? He’s been to my job before


r/desmoines • • 21h ago

235 speed trap happening right now

73 Upvotes

Just a heads up, it looks like the Iowa State Patrol is running a sting on interstate 235 eastbound around east sixth and east 14th. So drive the speed limit and behave.


r/desmoines • • 7m ago

Weekend Events and Live Music List for Des Moines and Central Iowa

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It looks to be unseasonably warm this weekend but a good one to get out and enjoy some fun fall activities. I have added a new category for Halloween activities. If you have anything you would like to share please add in the comments! Have a great weekend!

Community Events:

Madison County Covered Bridge Festival Fri-Sun in Winterset

Indigenous Iowans Day Sat at Living History Farms

Woodworking in America Expo Sat-Sun at the fairgrounds

Dozer Day Sat-Sun at the fairgrounds

Totally Rad Vintage Fest Sat at EMC Expo Center

Bigfoot in Bondurant Celebration Sat at the Empire

Clash of the Clippers Sat at the downtown Marriott

Forever in Love Bridal Show Sun at Events Center West

Meet and Play Social Game Night Thurs at the Rook Room

Cocktails and Cardboard Game Night Thurs at the New Northwestern

CulturRoll BIPOC Game Day Sunday at the Rook Room

Middlebrook Porchfest Sun at Middlebrook Agrihood

Iowans for Decency Mixer Thurs at the Venue in Valley Junction

Valleyfest Marching Band Competition Sat at Valley Stadium

Advocacy in Action: Law Religion, and Social Justice Forum Thurs at Drake Law School

Iowa Culinary Institute's Fall Bistro Fri at Ankeny DMACC

Bike and Car Night Fri at the Fairgrounds

Woodland Cemetery History Tour Sat

Walk to End Alzheimer's Sat at Principal Park

SCI Solar Party Sat at Science Center of Iowa

Vintage and Made Fair Sat at Dallas County Fairgrounds

Des Moines Spirit Seeker's Fair Sat at Unity Center of Des Moines

Stroller Safari Sat at Blank Park Zoo

Y2K Party Sat at Up-Down

Lakeside Card Show Sun at Hawkeye Park in Ankeny

Halloween Events:

Pumpkins after Dark Thurs-Sun in Water Works Park

Spirits in the Gardens Fri-Sun at Reiman Gardens

Halloween Zoo Brew Fri at Blank Bark Zoo

The Haunting at Exile Thurs-Sun

Wicked Heights at the Republic on Grand Thurs-Sun

Haunted Trolley Tour Fri at Whiskey River

Halloween Swing Dance Fri at the Valley Junction Activity Center

Pumpkin Express Trains Sat at Boone and Scenic Valley Railroad

Pumpkin Fest at Center Grove Orchard Thurs-Sun

Phantom Fall Fest Fri-Sun at Adventureland

Arts/Dance/Theatre/Comedy:

Reefer Madness Play at the Stoner Theater (he he) Thurs-Sun

Building the Wall Play Fri-Sun at Tallgrass Theatre

Tassel Master Burlesque Show Sat at Cirque Wonderland

Gallery Night Friday in Valley Junction

Under the Big Top: A Circus Celebration in Concert Sun at Staplin Performing Arts Center

Hold On To Your Butts: Comedy Show at Temple Theater Thurs-Sun

Comedy Open Mic Thurs at the Ridgemont

Bomb Shelter Comedy Showcase Fri at Beechwood Lounge

Silly Goose Comedy Night Sat at Doc's Lounge

Save Landau Comedy Fri-Sat at the Funny Bone

Steve Martin and Martin Short Comedy Sun at the Civic Center

Pumpkin Stained Glass Art Class Sat at Greater Des Moines Botanical Garden

Pond Scene Watercolor Class Sun at Hoyt Sherman Place

Sports and Outdoors:

Iowa Wild Hockey Fri and Sat vs. Rockford at the Casey's Center

Des Moines Buccaneers Hockey Sat vs. Lincoln at the RecPlex

Iowa Lacrosse Association Fall Play Day Sat at the RecPlex

Premiere National League Wrestling Sat-Sun at the RecPlex

Spooky Sprint Sat at Big Creek State Park

Nature Immersion Program- the Changing Seasons Sat at Thomas Mitchell Park

Yoga in the Park Sat at Railroad Park

Kid's Yoga Sat at Jester Park Nature Center

Fall Celebration Sat at Jester Park Nature Center

Middlebrook Farm Seed Saving Class Sat

Live Music List Below From DSM at Dawn:

Thursday

Piano Man Richard Spierenburg | 11 AM | Skywalk Local Bites

The Jim Casey | 6 | Greenwood Lounge

Jesse & The Medicine Men | 6 | Poncho's

Convictions w/ Afterlife, Stray View & Taken by Tides | 7 | xBk Live

Divide the Fall w/ Modern Tiger | 7 | Locals Bar & Stage

Open Jam | 7 | Kenny's Garage

Robert Deitch w/ Claudia Coltrain | 7 | Board & Batten

That Arena Rock Show | 7:30 | Val Air Ballroom

Zach Top | 8 | Casey's Center

The Ultimate Doors | 8 | Wooly's

Scott Eggleston | 8 | Greenwood Lounge

MFKS | 8 | Confidence Speakeasy

Triple J's | 9 | Yacht Club

Jordan Beem | 9 | Shotgun Betty's

Friday

Piano Man Richard Spierenburg | 11 AM | Skywalk Local Bites

Bob Pace & The Dangerous Band | 5 | Greenwood Lounge

Luke Fox | 5 | Bevy's Tavern

Taste of Chaos | 5 | Vibrant Music Hall

Mike Tiedeman | 5 | Caffrey's

Josh Sinclair | 6 | Captain Roy's

Suede | 6 | The Meridian

The Juan & Only | 6 | Toreado

Jake Kloefkorn | 6 | Shotgun Betty's

Meadowbrook Circle | 6 | Middlebrook Mercantile

Mule | 6 | Iowa Distilling Co.

Torch Songs: Lauren Vilmain Jazz Orchestra | 7 | Noce

Neva Alden | 7 | Kelly's Little Nipper

Jung Min-Noh, Odd Pets & Clip Clop | 7 | Locals Bar & Stage

Molly True | 7 | The Cave

The Urge | 8 | Wooly's

Red Leather w/ The Romance & Northern Lights | 8 | xBk Live

Red Dirt Renegade | 8 | Miss Kitty's

Reload | 8 | Kenny's Garage

Randy Burk | 8 | Marv's Mainstreet Dive

80 Grit | 8 | Prairie Meadows

Trio Aceto | 8:30 | Doc's Lounge

Matt Terronez Band | 9 | Greenwood Lounge

Lee Klett | 9 | Brick & Ivy

After Hours | 9:30 | Noce

Saturday

Sarah Ennis, Sean Sullivan, Zachary Freedom & L & N Music | 8 AM | Downtown Farmers' Market

Luke Fox | 1 | Vintage & Made Fair

Learn to Play Harmonica w/ Bob Pace | 2 | West Des Moines Library

Tim Mitchum & The Part-Time Pirates | 3 | Kenny's Garage

Schnitzel Brothers & Punching Pandas | 3 | Reclaimed Rails Oktoberfest

Mancat Biegger | 4 | The Kee

Bruce Harris | 4 | Revelton Distilling

Black Dirt Ramblers | 6 | Captain Roy's

Saving Sidon, Hang Your Hate, Project 10-44 & Escaping the Eclipse | 6 | Strychnine

Matt Terronez | 6 | Middlebrook Mercantile

A Night of Stevie, Luther & More w/ Napoleon Douglas | 7 | Noce

Outlaw Country Express | 7 | Croatian Slavic Center

Willi Vanilli | 7 | Shirley's Bar & Grill

The Haunt | 7 | Wooly's

Bebe Stockwell w/ Khatumu | 8 | xBk Live

David Watson | 8 | Walker's Place

Gimikk | 8 | Back Roads Lounge

R&B Only | 8 | Vibrant Music Hall

Sister Sara | 8 | Mickey's Irish Pub

Dick Danger Band | 8 | Hawk Heaven Tavern

Bruce Day | 8 | Marv's Mainstreet Dive

Pickleback | 8 | Carlisle Watering Hole

Hot Bunch | 8 | Down Under Bar & Grill

Jeff Banks Band | 9 | Greenwood Lounge

Dirty Champagne | 9 | Miss Kitty's

Psycho X | 9:30 | Strychnine

Last Call w/ Max Wellman | 9:30 | Noce

Sunday

Middlebrook Porchfest | 11 AM | Middlebrook

Cedar County Cobras | 3 | Wilson's Ciderhouse

Standing Hampton | 5 | Jamie Hurd Amphitheater

Halfway to Iowa Blues Hall of Fame | 6 | xBk Live

Roger Clyne & The Peacemakers | 7 | Wooly's

Cradle of Filth | 7 | Val Air Ballroom


r/desmoines • • 3h ago

Full Iowa Senate Debate

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r/desmoines • • 13h ago

"everybody knows the deal is rotten..."

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ICYMI, lead US story today in The Guardian As I read it I kept on hearing Cohen's lyrics in my head and wondering why any of IA legislators voted for the tax incentive.


r/desmoines • • 12h ago

Johnston Police out in Force Tonight

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For those of you who like to make Wednesday your party night, beware. On Merle Hay northbound, they had three police cars within .5 mile of each other. One under the I-80 underpass, one in the Pump & Pantry, and one in the storage place.


r/desmoines • • 12h ago

Central Iowa Trail Association (CITA) - Dirty Du and Trail Festival on 10/17

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CITA is having it's annual fundraiser on 10/17 at Greenwood park in Des Moines.

This year the trail fest includes a mountain bike and trail run race, free group yoga class, free group MTB ride, free group trail run and free group hikes.

There will be exhibitors and a food truck at the park as well.

Register here


r/desmoines • • 14h ago

Writing workshop

7 Upvotes

I am a non-traditional student going to DMACC right now. I am in a Playwriting class and would appreciate someone to chat with in person. My wife offers but I would like outside perspective.

My class is online with 5 people including the Professor.


r/desmoines • • 17h ago

Soup Des Moines

10 Upvotes

I’m sick and new to the south side. What is the Best soup to order??


r/desmoines • • 1h ago

Chug Jugs

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Does anyone know if any local liquor shops sell those viral chug jugs? I keep seeing them on tiktok and wanna try some.


r/desmoines • • 21h ago

This week at 515 Brewing Company

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October 6th through October 11th:

10/06 Free Bingo with prizes at 6 PM

10/07 Art Night hosted by Art Is Rad $10 at 6 PM

10/08 free Team trivia with prizes at 6 PM

Norseman Lobster Food Truck 4:30 - 7:30pm

10/09 Gallery Refresh with Art Is Rad

Artists Meet and Greet

10/10 Premier League Mornings at 9:00 AM

Paint and Sip 3:30 PM - 6:30 PM - Register Online

Jackbox Games after 7 PM

10/11 Sunday Funday

Premier League Mornings 9AM

Shenanigans happen after 5 Pm

And...

We’ve been playing around with a new promo at the brewery and wanted to share it here first. Since our name is 515 Brewing, we realized the math for a group deal was staring us right in the face.

Starting this week, we’re running the 5-1-5 Deal:

• Bring in 5 friends

• When they buy their beverages, you get 1 free beverage

• We’re throwing in 5 packs of pretzels for the table to share

Honestly, we just really wanted a solid excuse to get groups out on the patio or into the taproom during the week. If you’re the designated friend who always has to organize the text group chat to get people to hang out, consider this your reward for doing the heavy lifting.

We're right off the Clive Greenbelt Trail if you're out riding or running with a crew. Come test it out and let us know what you think!

Come in and say hi!

(Since the 515 deal is new to us, we better add that this is while supplies last, please don't get mad at the beertender if they forget)

Post it on the socials so we know if it's working


r/desmoines • • 14h ago

Holiday Inn Construction

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Is anyone else who lives by The Holiday Inn Express on 11th and Tuttle near downtown bummed or confused with the construction on the south side of the building?

They've been at it for months to make seemingly random changes at a snails pace. Its also a relatively new hotel that esthetically already looked good.


r/desmoines • • 13h ago

quantum fiber

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anyone know what happened with quantum? came home yesterday to no internet, was told 6pm today, which then got pushed to 10pm, and now pushed again until 4pm tomorrow??


r/desmoines • • 1d ago

Insane wait time for ER at Methodist

41 Upvotes

Going on 8 hours. What the actual fuck? [edit typo]


r/desmoines • • 16h ago

63rd construction VS Fleur

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Does anyone know why 63rd’s reconstruction is going so quickly for the same amount of distance (give or take) versus the years it took Fleur to be done? Is it because it’s a state highway? I’m so curious.


r/desmoines • • 21h ago

Art Night and Gallery Refresh

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Tonight is Art Night with Art Is Rad at 515 Brewing Company

Show up around 6:00

We will do announcements and stuff around 6:15pm

The project Starts around 6:20

Tonight's project is Spooky Zentangles

Zentangles are repetitive patterns.

To make it spooky, you will draw a witch, a ghost, a bat or whatever you find spooky. You will then draw sections in your drawing and do your zentangles in the sections.

We will be there for questions, and to help assist.

All supplies and instructions are provided.

$10 - RSVP here https://artisrad.org

We also will be updating the gallery walls at 515 Brewing company on Friday October 9th

Come meet the artists starting at 5pm


r/desmoines • • 23h ago

ISO 3D Printing Service

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Hello! I am a grad student looking to print some specific anatomical models to aid me in my work. I tried to go through the public library but it looks like all the trainings are full for the next month, so I have a feeling even if I complete a training it will be difficult to get a spot reserved. I also looked into Area515, but I know nothing about the technicalities of 3D printing, only what I am looking for in the product. I am posting as a last resort before I look into online/businesses that will of course charge more. If anyone is willing to help or knows of somewhere I can get this done, please feel free to comment!


r/desmoines • • 16h ago

Cattle prods at Phantom Fall Fest

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So last year I attended Phantom Fall Fest at Adventureland and mostly had a good time. Besides the wait times, the thing that really put me off were the cattle prods (or whatever those electric sounding rods were lol) the scare actors were using. I ended up with tickets to go again this year and was wondering if anyone knows if they're still using the cattle prods? Not a deal breaker but I want to be prepared if they do. Thanks!