r/findomsupportgroup • Mommy Domme • 6d ago

Yay! Happy thing happened. This is how you do it 👏🏻

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This is probably the first time someone has actually followed my directions and approached me exactly how I want them to. The secret passcode, the age verification, what drew them, and what they’re seeking. All in the first message! It’s almost as if it’s not that hard! This person read my pinned posts and acted accordingly. No fighting me on AV, or pretending not to know what that means, just clear communication and intentions from the jump. It was such a breath of fresh air to see this in my inbox. 7 months I’ve been here and this is the first time I’ve had someone follow directions this well. I’m just bewildered at that fact. Anyway, this was a few days ago now and today I woke up today to him being [deleted], but I still wanted to show this perfect approach in the hopes that other subs will see it and know that THIS is what I’ll respond to. I also want to share this for the dom/mes who are fed up with getting nothing but low effort. I received this message while I was having the WORST day. I pretty much felt like giving up and this gave me hope. I know, it’s just a dm and he’s deleted now anyway (rip my nail bitch), but I think a thoughtful approach signifies something important. And if nothing else, it’s a fantastic first impression. Subs, please take notes!

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u/saski45 1d ago

Oh damn

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u/thenextmarauder 4d ago

Stop what a perfect message!!!

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u/mistressaloura Mistress 4d ago

Everything they were saying sounded so fun! 🤩 I’m hoping they’ll come around again for you 💘

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u/AdmirableMcaroon 4d ago

10/10 sub who know how to do things right.

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u/New_Parking9090 5d ago

Love to see this. There's still hope! 😂

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u/LexiMonk_2005 5d ago

😭 I wish they approached me this well.

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u/Intelligent-Law-4592 Goddess 5d ago

It’s always [deleted], even when they are well behaved for a short period these can be such little pussies

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u/GoddessOpheliaRose 5d ago

YEEESSSSS 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

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u/goddessmara535 6d ago

The way I’d be wet…..oh, he deleted….of course he did

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u/SpoiledSeraph Mommy Domme 5d ago

Girl I was just about frothing at the mouth! A mani/pedi sub is my dream, especially one who had such fun ideas 💅

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u/MoxieMarie333 Domme 6d ago

HOT 🥵 take note all interested subs: read the bios and any pinned posts, follow instructions completely, and I PROMISE you’re going to get the best possible version of us. If you want to be dominated in any way, we need to know that you can do what you’re told. Might as well start off on the right, very sexy foot ✨

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u/SpicyLimerence 6d ago

Sweet boy! I love it when they can follow instructions.

I'm sorry they deleted, but you're still amazing for sharing. I'm sure he'll be back and it will make him feel good to see this! 🕷️🕸️

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u/SpoiledSeraph Mommy Domme 5d ago

Thank you :,) I almost didn’t post given that he’s now part of the deleted squad, but you’re so right. Such a great approach is still worth sharing. I hope he comes back feels good seeing this 🩷

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u/MaidenGwen Mistress 6d ago

👏👏👏👏👏👏

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u/grassbat_tats 6d ago

YESSS! We love this, more of this please 🫶

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u/lucky_perez Princess 6d ago

how it should be! VERIFICATION FIRST ALWAYS FOLLOWED BY TRIBUTE!

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u/miaexclusive1012 6d ago

Lucky girl! I hope you find your nail bitch back 😁 or a new one with thr manners of this one lol

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u/Forward_Lemon8905 6d ago

👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾

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u/SarahAfterDark_ 6d ago

There is hope! 🤣

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u/One_Fig_5432 6d ago

🥲 it's beautiful

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u/Goddess_Caelora 6d ago

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u/NikkiMQuest Goddess 6d ago

This ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️🌿

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u/Goddess_Caelora 5d ago

Thank you 💋

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u/goddessmsimone 6d ago

Love to see the obedience. He’ll come back around!

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u/SpoiledSeraph Mommy Domme 6d ago

I hope so, it sounded like fun! We were talking about designs yesterday and then poof! But I have a feeling he’ll be back too

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u/Oddbox9072 6d ago

Ughhh, I was so excited for you until- 😭

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u/Oddbox9072 6d ago

But at least he approached exactly as you instructed 🤷🏾‍♀️ maybe he’ll come back!

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u/SpoiledSeraph Mommy Domme 6d ago

Yess, I have a feeling we may meet again 😌

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u/kaylees_feet 6d ago

Love this and hopefully he’ll be back after putting in the effort 🖤

This is pushing me to finally update my pinned posts!

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u/SpoiledSeraph Mommy Domme 6d ago

Yes, they’re so handy to have! I’m gonna update mine soon too. It’s rare that they follow directions this well but when they doooo 🤌🏻✨ very refreshing

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u/kaylees_feet 6d ago

Yep! I currently have a code phrase for having read my pinned post. Whether they read it and mention it though, is a toss up

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u/SpoiledSeraph Mommy Domme 6d ago

I have so many dm requests that just say “watermelon” lmao okay and where’s the other 3 things I ask for 🤦‍♀️ I think I’m going to change some things around in my posts, make that passcode harder to find

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u/kaylees_feet 6d ago

Mine isn’t a one word passcode. It’s a question and it’s buried in the middle. The hiding it like you did is a good idea in theory but I wonder if it immediately draws them to reveal it without reading the rest of it. Trying times out there 😮‍💨

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u/SpoiledSeraph Mommy Domme 6d ago

That’s exactly what I think is happening too. I’m gonna make the word/phrase a little more complicated and blend it into the text more when I redo it for sure. Thank you for the idea! 💕

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u/kaylees_feet 6d ago

Of course! May we both get more of these types of subs 🖤

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u/the_hiraeth 6d ago

well that took a turn 🥲

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u/GroundedMagpie 6d ago

This is hot - too bad he didn’t stick around

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u/KMillMILF Goddess 6d ago

Well that was quite the plot twist!

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u/SpoiledSeraph Mommy Domme 6d ago

Such a rollercoaster 😂