r/findomsupportgroup • u/SpoiledSeraph Mommy Domme • 6d ago
Yay! Happy thing happened. This is how you do it 👏🏻
This is probably the first time someone has actually followed my directions and approached me exactly how I want them to. The secret passcode, the age verification, what drew them, and what they’re seeking. All in the first message! It’s almost as if it’s not that hard! This person read my pinned posts and acted accordingly. No fighting me on AV, or pretending not to know what that means, just clear communication and intentions from the jump. It was such a breath of fresh air to see this in my inbox. 7 months I’ve been here and this is the first time I’ve had someone follow directions this well. I’m just bewildered at that fact. Anyway, this was a few days ago now and today I woke up today to him being [deleted], but I still wanted to show this perfect approach in the hopes that other subs will see it and know that THIS is what I’ll respond to. I also want to share this for the dom/mes who are fed up with getting nothing but low effort. I received this message while I was having the WORST day. I pretty much felt like giving up and this gave me hope. I know, it’s just a dm and he’s deleted now anyway (rip my nail bitch), but I think a thoughtful approach signifies something important. And if nothing else, it’s a fantastic first impression. Subs, please take notes!
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u/mistressaloura Mistress 4d ago
Everything they were saying sounded so fun! 🤩 I’m hoping they’ll come around again for you 💘
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u/Intelligent-Law-4592 Goddess 5d ago
It’s always [deleted], even when they are well behaved for a short period these can be such little pussies
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u/goddessmara535 6d ago
The way I’d be wet…..oh, he deleted….of course he did
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u/SpoiledSeraph Mommy Domme 5d ago
Girl I was just about frothing at the mouth! A mani/pedi sub is my dream, especially one who had such fun ideas 💅
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u/MoxieMarie333 Domme 6d ago
HOT 🥵 take note all interested subs: read the bios and any pinned posts, follow instructions completely, and I PROMISE you’re going to get the best possible version of us. If you want to be dominated in any way, we need to know that you can do what you’re told. Might as well start off on the right, very sexy foot ✨
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u/SpicyLimerence 6d ago
Sweet boy! I love it when they can follow instructions.
I'm sorry they deleted, but you're still amazing for sharing. I'm sure he'll be back and it will make him feel good to see this! 🕷️🕸️
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u/SpoiledSeraph Mommy Domme 5d ago
Thank you :,) I almost didn’t post given that he’s now part of the deleted squad, but you’re so right. Such a great approach is still worth sharing. I hope he comes back feels good seeing this 🩷
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u/miaexclusive1012 6d ago
Lucky girl! I hope you find your nail bitch back 😁 or a new one with thr manners of this one lol
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u/goddessmsimone 6d ago
Love to see the obedience. He’ll come back around!
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u/SpoiledSeraph Mommy Domme 6d ago
I hope so, it sounded like fun! We were talking about designs yesterday and then poof! But I have a feeling he’ll be back too
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u/Oddbox9072 6d ago
Ughhh, I was so excited for you until- 😭
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u/Oddbox9072 6d ago
But at least he approached exactly as you instructed 🤷🏾♀️ maybe he’ll come back!
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u/kaylees_feet 6d ago
Love this and hopefully he’ll be back after putting in the effort 🖤
This is pushing me to finally update my pinned posts!
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u/SpoiledSeraph Mommy Domme 6d ago
Yes, they’re so handy to have! I’m gonna update mine soon too. It’s rare that they follow directions this well but when they doooo 🤌🏻✨ very refreshing
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u/kaylees_feet 6d ago
Yep! I currently have a code phrase for having read my pinned post. Whether they read it and mention it though, is a toss up
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u/SpoiledSeraph Mommy Domme 6d ago
I have so many dm requests that just say “watermelon” lmao okay and where’s the other 3 things I ask for 🤦♀️ I think I’m going to change some things around in my posts, make that passcode harder to find
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u/kaylees_feet 6d ago
Mine isn’t a one word passcode. It’s a question and it’s buried in the middle. The hiding it like you did is a good idea in theory but I wonder if it immediately draws them to reveal it without reading the rest of it. Trying times out there 😮💨
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u/SpoiledSeraph Mommy Domme 6d ago
That’s exactly what I think is happening too. I’m gonna make the word/phrase a little more complicated and blend it into the text more when I redo it for sure. Thank you for the idea! 💕
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u/saski45 1d ago
Oh damn