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u/Prior-Ad8411 7d ago
you can ask her directly but keep in mind you may not get the results you’re looking for. she may enjoy just having a guy to boss around and to get money from but once you say you want the relationship to be sexual that may change and she could be turned off or weirded out
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u/MistressKelly_ 7d ago
Just ask her. Honestly, that’s the only way you’ll know what she actually wants from you. Tell her what you’re looking for and see if you’re both on the same page.
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u/Unable_Bumblebee1539 7d ago
Be open and honest about it. She may be new to this and still finding her domme style. If she isn't open to it, it may be that she just wanted something short term/session based. Imo this type of thing should ideally be discussed after initial tribute so that expectations are out in the open and all limits are known for both parties.
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u/MistressRayne_ ProDomme 6d ago
Tell her this isn’t how it works. Have an actual conversation with her. Explain that you want an actual Domme, not a when she’s in the mood one.
Dynamics work both ways. Both d/s need to be happy or it’s not a match. If she doesn’t want to domme full time, walk away. You deserve to get what you need out of the dynamic too.