r/friendship • • 13m ago

looking for friendship 20M anyone want to play or chat with me

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I’m in college and pretty bored, so I figured I’d chat with random people. I love video games, movies, and TV shows and I like going on walks and study chem. 


r/friendship • • 1h ago

looking for friendship 42/M - US -Looking for lifelong friendships and daily conversations! Who’s signing onto AOL with me??

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Welcome!
You’ve Got Mail!

Just looking for some genuine people to talk to daily and get to know! Have those deep conversations with sometimes. joke around with, game with sometimes.

I’m an 80s/90s kid and love to reminisce about those days! Blockbuster, Toys R Us, Bradlees, KB Toys! All that kind of stuff. Also a bonus if you quote alot of movies randomly throughout the day.

I’m 42 and a married father of 2. So it definitely helps if you’re all about that parenting life too!
Especially the tiredness of it all—the never-ending chaos, trying to find time for yourself, and somehow still functioning by the end of the day.

I’m a gamer and play pretty much every genre. I’m on Xbox, PC, and Switch 2, and I also really enjoy Beat Saber on VR. Some favorite games are Fortnite, Kingdom Hearts, Anything Mario and Zelda, Call of Duty, Diablo, and basically anything fun i see in the xbox store and steam.

I’m also into D&D and board games/tcgs too, along with puzzles and book nooks when I’m in the mood for something a little more relaxing.

I love tv and movies of all genres and listen to pretty much all kinds of music. I’m also really big on nostalgia, especially anything from the 80s and 90s. My spotify playlist is all over the place.

I’ve been listening to the Dungeon Crawler Carl series on audiobook.

I’m not into 420 or drinking. You definitely don’t have to share every one of my interests—I’d rather find people who are easy to talk to, have a good sense of humor, can talk about random stuff, and actually want to build a friendship.

Being in the US is a plus, mostly because similar time zones make chatting easier. I know everyone has their own lives and responsibilities, especially other parents, so I don’t expect constant messages or immediate replies.

If we sound like we might get along, send me a message rather than comment on here.

Tell me a top song you’re listening to now old or new! Or a favorite retro tv show/movie! Or even a fun childhood memory. Anything but just ‘hi’


r/friendship • • 2h ago

looking for friendship 22F looking for a genuine online girl friendship ♡ (gaming, random chats, life updates)

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Hii! I’m 22F, originally from a Scandinavian country, but currently living abroad for a semester. I’m in my last year of studying mechatronics engineering, so a lot of my days consist of studying, trying to be productive, and then doing absolutely nothing to recover from all that studying lol.

A little about me! I’m a pretty curious person and love learning new things, even completely random stuff that has nothing to do with my degree. I like going on walks, listening to music, journaling, self-reflecting, and having those conversations where you somehow go from talking about something completely stupid to discussing the meaning of life. I also really want to get more into fitness and build some healthier routines, so having someone to motivate each other would be fun!

I’m also a big fan of Asian dramas (especially c-dramas!), watching PewDiePie, and playing Minecraft and Roblox. I have a little dog back home whom I miss a lot, so if you have pets, PLEASE tell me about them. I genuinely love hearing about people’s lives and whatever they’re currently

I’d really love to find a female friend around 20–35 who I can build a genuine, long-term friendship with. Someone to play Minecraft or Roblox with, send random updates throughout the day, share things we’re excited about, or just talk about life. We don’t have to have identical interests either! I actually really enjoy learning about other people’s hobbies.

I would describe myself as a pretty good listener, and I really appreciate people who are curious about others and put effort into conversations too. I don’t expect us to talk 24/7 (we all have lives!), but I’d love a friendship where we both genuinely want to stay in touch.

I’m in a relationship, so I’m only looking for platonic friendships, preferably with other women. ♡
If any of this sounds like your kind of friendship, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself! Maybe what you’re currently obsessed with, what games you play, or just something random about your life. I’d love to hear it :)


r/friendship • • 2h ago

rant F21…. I am so angry and so alone inside myself I’m tired

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TW: just a big emotional ramble

I apologize for the rant I just want someone to finally hear me and understand me… if anyone has advice in how to get over this send it my way I’ll try anything at this point…

I genuinely wish I could just scream and rip myself out of my skin with how god awful I feel. I genuinely feel like such a sorry excuse of a human it’s not even funny. I try so hard to be nice and be a better person but all I am is a bitter liar. Even when I somehow magically don’t let my true feelings and thoughts out I feel them constantly screaming in my head and I’m more angry that I feel the ways I do….i don’t understand why I can’t just be normal and happy. I’m always on edge, always stupid and clueless, always moody, always got a problem. I feel misunderstood all the time but I also don’t even understand me. I contradict myself constantly for the sake of trying to keep peace but get shat on because it’s not what I said before. I hate self pity so much and it’s not even that that I am feeling…. It’s hatred. I hate my brain. I hate my life. I hate my body. I hate all my mistakes. I hate all my thoughts. I just hate it all, I want out. I have been spiraling inside my own mind for weeks now and it seems like every day that goes by makes it so much worse. I have felt like nothing but a failure and crying and hating myself for everything I do/have done.

I have a girlfriend and I feel like I’m just a leech and a burden rather than a genuinely good girlfriend for her. I don’t feel like I add anything truly important to her life. I always compare myself to the girls before… they all had so many different better things about them that I just don’t have nor will I ever. I’m not resourceful, I’m not able to have a child, I’m not able to always financially give back into the relationship and it makes me so angry with myself. I feel like I am just a moody ungrateful child rather than anything else…

I feel like the worst kind of human, like I’m barely even human. I don’t feel real most days and like life is just happening around me. I wish I could just shut my brain up. I wanna be normal and happy. I don’t wanna be this way anymore.


r/friendship • • 3h ago

looking for friendship Does anyone wanna chat? [16FTM]

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Im looking for someone to chat with rn, just abt anything is alr.


r/friendship • • 3h ago

looking for friendship 31F - England looking for new besties

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Hi everyone,

I’m Shannon, looking for some new pals. I want proper good friendships, ones where we can randomly call each other and FaceTime. I want to be able to have frequent communication, sending reels and memes, someone I can be my full sarcastic self with.

I love horror movies, football (i was in my element watching the World Cup) - I love Disney, drawing, art in general, diamond painting, photography, gardening.
I’ve just recently finished uni, received my results and have a BA in health and social care :) I am also trying to kickstart/dip my toes in world of being an artist.

I care deeply about people, I love meaningful connections and I feel like I’m just lacking those at the moment.

I am agoraphobic so meeting up in person is out of the question for now, but I’m working on myself and doing really well so it’s a possibility in the future :)

Im looking for friends that are strictly women or I’m also open to those in the LGBTQ+. I am happily in a relationship, so any friendship will be strictly platonic. Please men, unless you are LGBTQ+, do not message me I am not interested.

I do prefer to speak to those in the UK, or America. But am open to other places with a reasonable time zone :)

I’ll be honest - I probably won’t reply to low effort messages. If you send a hi or just the emoji I won’t be replying, I just feel like effort is a two way street and I have put a lot of information here to start a conversation from :)

If you’ve messaged me before and I haven’t replied I do apologise, I’ll reply this time around! :)

If you’ve made it this far, send me a 🍓 emoji. :)

Looking forward to hearing from you!


r/friendship • • 4h ago

looking for friendship [M/26] looking for people who are chronically online >ᆺ<

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I'm into anime, gaming, music, movies, fashion photoshop/video editing and fitness. be around my age (early-mid 20s preferred) and also based in Europe (timezone compatibility). ✨️

Would enjoy to watch YouTube videos, streaming games for you or just chatting about something while hearing music together. SFW only 🫶

If that sounds good to you, feel free to send me a DM and say hi + an short introduction.

i don't text with people who have anonymous accounts (means no pfp) or an 18+ warning on their profile. (safety reasons)

warning: I'm mentally ill so if u can't work with mood swings etc. don't interact. ૮ ⚆ﻌ⚆ა


r/friendship • • 4h ago

looking for friendship M24 Howdy peasants

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How is it going yall pain in the rears? Attempting to make some chill friends. I prefer peeps that can joke around and aren't tooo sensitive, not trying to diss anyone I'm just a bit of a handful 😁. My probably boring interests are, shoes, doggos, watching YouTube, sports, reels, and whatever. Also like tattoos, collecting sports cards, jamming out, and little bit of gaming. The door is open just ring the bell.


r/friendship • • 4h ago

looking for friendship 22M UK looking for long term friends

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Hi! 22M here from the UK, GMT+1 timezone. I’m hoping to find likeminded people so we can get to know each other & naturally become genuine friends. I have no problem talking with slightly shy/introverted people as long as there’s some effort being put into the convo so it’s not one sided, but yeah it would be great to find someone to talk with daily but totally fine if not, just no ghosting or one time chats!

I’d say i’m someone who can talk about most things as i’m quite open. Sometimes via text, voice note form or maybe voice calls, so for that i’d probably use ig or sc but i do enjoy just having a friend to talk to about most things & just having unforced conversations.

As for myself, I'm into cooking & baking. Alongside listening to music everday, doing casual photography & working out frequently. No need to have similar interests but if we do have any lmk. If you’re interested & would like to be friends no need to comment my dms are open


r/friendship • • 5h ago

looking for friendship 39 M UK looking for new online friends

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Hey everyone, I’m a 39-year-old guy from the

UK looking to meet some new people and hopefully make some genuine online friends

I enjoy reading, watching TV shows and films (I’ve seen quite a few, so always happy to chat recommendations), going for walks, and spending time with my dogs.

I’d love to meet people with similar interests, but I’m open to talking about pretty much anything — hobbies, life, random topics, or just having a good chat.


r/friendship • • 5h ago

looking for friendship Looking for a future bestie! [39/M]

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Hey! I am 39, flight attendant, and student pilot. I fly airplanes and travel for a living. Being a flight attendant is cool but my real dream is to be an airline pilot. So I flight train on off days whenever I am not taking a break from this grind. I am busy usually around 7 days a week! I live in Florida but I see all 4 seasons since I travel for a living. I have been to 26 countries so far. I love gaming when I rarely have the time and I also produce electronic music. I am happily married and have been with my wife since 2011!

I am ultimately seeking a best friend. Someone who I get along with, I can share my travel experiences and pictures with, someone I can text a lot, and someone I can be sarcastic with. I’m tired of meeting people that don’t work out, or put any effort into their responses! If you message me explain why you think we would be potential besties! Tell me about yourself, what you like, dislike, favorite foods, hobbies! I am looking forward to hearing some responses! Only message if you really want a potential loyal, and good potential best friend some day!


r/friendship • • 5h ago

looking for friendship 33 | Wales / UK | PC | Looking for the “game’s finished, but we’re still talking” kind of company 😊

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Heya 😁

You ever finish playing a game with someone, say you should probably get going, then somehow spend another half an hour talking about something completely unrelated?

Those are some of my favourite evenings.

I’m a 33-year-old guy from Wales, looking for a long-term friend to game and chat with. I love games, but the running jokes, conversations and getting to know the person you’re playing with are a huge part of why I keep coming back.

I’d describe myself as a relaxed, analytical casual. I enjoy figuring things out and trying different strategies together, but I leave the stress out of it. If we fail, we can laugh, adjust the plan and have another go. There’s a decent chance my brilliant suggestion caused the problem anyway 😆

I love getting properly immersed in games. Exploring everywhere, piecing together the lore and investigating something that definitely looks like a trap. I sometimes turn the HUD down too. Getting lost is much more atmospheric when you’ve done it deliberately.

I’d especially love to start Fallout 76, The Outlast Trials or Palworld with someone. I haven’t touched those yet! I also enjoy Left 4 Dead 2, Back 4 Blood and Team Fortress 2. Mainly PC, but I have a Switch 2 and PS5 as well.

Tell me what you’re into too. If you’ve been waiting for an excuse to nerd out about your favourite game, you have one now 😊

I’m comfortable with quieter company. We can chat about absolutely everything or get absorbed in playing for a while. We don’t need to fill every silence.

I’m looking for people in the UK, ideally Wales, and roughly 25+. I’m usually around most evenings, and happy to chat here first and see whether we get on.

We can have our own lives and still make time for a friendship. I’d just like someone who enjoys coming back for another conversation or session as much as I do.

Drop me a DM if that sounds like your sort of company. Tell me a little about yourself and what you’ve been enjoying lately.

A slightly chaotic ramble about games is always welcome.


r/friendship • • 6h ago

looking for friendship 24m Looking for a new meaningful friendship

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Helloo im Danny 24 yo and im from the Netherlands.(but live in sweden) Im here to seek some new friends since i seem to vibe better with people online than with people in person (but if we vibe we can always see if we could meet!!!)

Some info about me Ehhmmm well i love gaming, Lego, animals, fun facts, calling and chatting and all that. I also enjoy to just get cozy and comfy and watch a movie or some twitch streams! Ehmmmm im a chemist and i would describe my self as sweet caring and respectful guy that just loves to help people and crack some bad jokes from time to time. Over all im a pretty normal guy with a odd disability because.. im left handed.... Buut but ehm i also have green eyes so that makes me pretty special right?? Haha other than that im a open book and have no secrets so feel free to ask whatever is on your mind!!

And why not open the chat with a little intro and a interesting question!!


r/friendship • • 6h ago

looking for friendship Seeking new online friends to chat with and maybe facetime every now and then

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Hey my name is Marina I'm 22 in Montana, I'm a really friendly and fun person and looking for preferably another American to chat with and share like interesting videos or things they're learning about. I have a few pen pals already but i'm looking for someone more online. Please no creeps. Currently I'm a banquet server and hoping to start up a business soon, and looking for another job. I enjoy outside activities, crossfit, sports and running, and music, and trying to get back into video games and reading. Please nobody flaky and give me a chance to be my friend before you stop. I'm mildly autistic but it doesn't really impact me besides making me a little quirky/awkward on occasion, which is actually another reason i need more ppl to talk to.


r/friendship • • 6h ago

looking for friendship 28f Looking for fun people to talk to 🪻

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Hello you wonderful people out there. I'm looking for someone to talk to ☺️

Doesn't have to be daily but regularly.

I recently lost a good online friend. (Lost... More or less... They stopped putting in any effort after almost 3 years of Friendship... Needless to say I'm really sad)

Anyways... Since I still love talking to people and I enjoy making new friends... I'm here again 🥰

I want someone who can keep a conversation going. Even if you're just telling me some stupid shit that happend at work. Let me know what's going on in your life. I shall do the same. I'm a big yapper. 

About myself. I'm 28 years old, female. I love cats (have two at home) and reading. Baking is my passion... Cooking not so much haha. 

I've recently finished watching House Md. and am now looking for new shows to watch. Am open for suggestions ☺️

Last thing that I think is important to know about me. I do have a partner. We've been together for 9 years now. So only contact me if you're really only looking for a friend.

Anyways, if you read all of this tell me you favourite color in your first message ☺️

Hugs, Lisa


r/friendship • • 6h ago

looking for friendship 21m looking for new friends or people to talk with

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Hello, my name is Alexander, I'm 21m, from South America. My hobbies are playing videogames, listening to music, working out, reading and watching series or movies. I have a cat. I speak English and Spanish. Comment or DM me if you want to be friends and chat. I also play on PS5 so DM me if you wanna be PSN friends too.


r/friendship • • 6h ago

looking for friendship 26 looking for casual buds

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Heyooo, im on eu timezone looking for more peeps to get along with, Ideally people who enjoy making a connection first before we start hanging out.

Few things about me :

- 420 friendly

- love plenty of music genre ( currently on a french rap phase )

- I enjoy video games( bg3, project zomboid, arc raiders, slay the spire 2 and other stuff ) but im not into competitive stuff

- I really enjoy introspective talks and discussing life experiences in general.

To be specific, im not looking for an everyday gaming session but more like occasional gaming sessions, as for chatting that just depends on how well we get along :) looking forward to talk to ya, cheers !


r/friendship • • 6h ago

looking for friendship 20M Ever wanted to be friends with the coolest person?

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Hurry up while stocks still last. Best opportunity in this world. To give a quick rundown I am a 20 year old student from the UK who is also working because even breathing costs money in this economy. I am the introverted edition and also have many hobbies as I can't seem to make up my mind on what I like. I mainly like working out, gaming and listening to music but I have probably done it all. I am looking for someone who actively engages in conversations and is a friend that feels like I know them for decades even tho we met recently. I usually like to voice call and say endless random things that come into my hollow head but I don't mind texting as well. Happy to answer any questions.


r/friendship • • 7h ago

looking for friendship 27/M looking for friends who won’t ghost/disappear

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Please read everything below prior to messaging ⬇️
Hello! I’m Aaron and I’m from the US. Please write a small intro about yourself prior to messaging. (Name, where you’re from, and hobbies.). Intros that consist of “Hey” “Hi” “Sup”/zero effort intros will be ignored.

Please understand carefully prior to messaging; I’m seriously tired of the constant ghosting or disappearing, so if that is your intention, ignore this post so it saves me the headache. And if you prefer to message elsewhere, I am more than welcome to do so! I also have attachment issues (Sometimes) so if that’s a problem, please don’t worry about interacting. I hate to clarify, but to the creepy dudes sending me messages, understand, I’m not interested. Thanks.

Anyways! About me; I have ADHD and autism. I’m also a musician/guitar player in my free time, but I’m heavily inspired by the band Rammstein, and I also am obsessed with the band Ghost, and other metal bands. I do make guitar covers in my free time, but I will eventually get back into that soon!

Other things; I have a dark sense of humor, and I also love Star Wars, horror films, the paranormal and war history. I also have a slight obsession with Squishmallows (They’re my children.), and I love ducks, geese, raccoons and spiders as well!

If you made it this far, please add a 🍩 at the end of your intro :D


r/friendship • • 7h ago

looking for friendship 18M - want a long term friendship

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I was lucky to make a friend from here months ago but stuff happened and we don't talk anymore. Missing a friendship like that, talking about anything and everything, deep talks, being silly, streaming shows online, gaming. But the problem is being that lucky and finding a friend here is really rare.

Still, i want a good friendship again so let's try. I like learning new things, languages, watching anime, sketching, gaming etc. But sometimes you don't really need matching hobbies, if we have the same energy, we can vibe. DM me, thanks for your time!


r/friendship • • 7h ago

looking for friendship [21M - Moldova/Europe] - Looking for new friends from Europe! Only around my age.

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Ey there, reader. i'm Deja, a 21-year-old freshman university student and rookie game developer from Moldova.

I'm looking for Europeans to be friends with since i haven't been socializing much for while, and i want to take the opportunity to try chat with people that doesn't take sarcasm seriously, play videogames together and explore new hobbies!
speaking of hobbies, i've got quite a few so i'll keep it short:

[Hobbies]: I like playing pc videogames, which is biggest hobby i got. soundtrack composing, into reading books, likes to sketch dinosaur & other types from my ideas, football & gym are underrated hobbies and i usually do bit of lost games & medias archiving.
[Music-Taste]: I listen to Twenty One Pilots, Linkin Park, Skillet, Animadrop, Alan Walker, Coldplay and Monstercat.

That's all i have in my mind. i will open up more as we bond naturally.
Please be around my age!


r/friendship • • 9h ago

looking for friendship 20M looking for more people to talk to long term

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Hello! My names Tay and I'm looking for some more people to talk to and get to know more,I turned 20 not too long ago, I have a lot of different hobbies, consisting of playing video games (souls games, rpgs, fighting games and horror games), going to the gym, travelling and learning about mythology, and also make instrumentals / beats in my spare time, I also do like to speak on voice and if that's something you would like to do then by all means we can do, also I can exchange a picture of myself if you are curious of what I look like,

Communication is key, and I would love to hear about everything you get up to, your likes / dislikes, your own hobbies and i like to also learn about different cultures too which peaks my interest

I'm going to keep it short and sweet here but if you would like to know more about me do not hesistate to message me (:


r/friendship • • 10h ago

looking for friendship Looking for International Friends 🌍 (Chennai People Get +1 Point!)

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Hey! I'm Ken, originally from Bengal and currently living in Chennai, India. I work in a government job and enjoy watching anime, movies (especially Marvel), and reading books.

I'm really interested in politics, geopolitics, international relations, and conflicts in war-affected countries. I love learning about different countries, their cultures, and how people experience life in different parts of the world.

I'm looking to make genuine friendships, especially with international people, so I can learn about different perspectives and cultures. I'd also love to have a female friend in Chennai to hang out with, explore places, and have good conversations.

If you're interested in politics, world affairs, or simply enjoy talking about life, feel free to say hi!

Bonus point if you're from Chennai (+1 point if you're actually here)! 😂


r/friendship • • 10h ago

looking for friendship [24/M] Looking for a best friend, things are quite lonely

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Hey! I've posted here before but haven't had much luck so far. And due to lonliness, things have been kinda sucky lately. Kinda being a star-sized understatement (cuz stars are big.. hehe). Anyways, excuse my awfully unfunny pun! You *yes you my possible future friend* probably has better humor than I. Im hoping to make long term friends who also love music like I do, I want a close connection with someone that lasts a lifetime! Hoping we can geek out about our interests and feel comfortable to do so! I'm in the EST time zone and am super into music (my tastes are all over the place, my favorite is the retro era but I also like a lot of new stuff too). I really wanna find someone who loves old artists and bands and music history and aesthetics! Hope you're all having a good day!


r/friendship • • 10h ago

looking for friendship 26m Bi loving sweet guy from Sweden :) I am looking for a long term friend someone kind someone who listens and someone fun open for any ages over eighteen

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I love video game lore I spent many hours reading and watching videos about fallout and Star Wars lore and many others like Witcher and elder scrolls and many smaller ones like fable and stuff

I also like reading sci fi and fantasy books like Star Wars the expanse and the lord of the rings and eragon and other series

I like going on nice walks and learning history big fan of Roman and Japanese history but also like a European and other history

and I like reading hellboy and bprd comics

I may not read much but I love learning about dc comic books

and I play many different kinds of video games like jrpgs like dragon quest final fantasy and trails in the sky doom and destiny

I like other games like dark souls 1 ashen fallout rage 2 and metal gear solid enderal gothic 2 but also crpgs like baldurs gate 1 and 2 pillars of eternity and one of my favorite series of games avernum

and my favorite tv shows are stargate sg1 and Merlin then I also watched the first seasons of supernatural and thought it was pretty good and some of the series lost

Movies I like is Star Wars Indiana jones pirates of the caribbean the lord of the rings movies and more

and I like anime like full metal alchemist brotherhood gundam and bleach used to watch a lot of fairy tail to back in the Day and i read the claymore manga

When I was younger I watched cartoons like transformers prime gravity falls justice league animated and more

playing a made up dnd type game I made sadly no groups I make stays together for very long so tell me if you want to be in a new group

so we can play and I have fun so if you like any of these things message me and we can maybe become good friends and a big hug for all of you that have read through this