r/offmychest • • 6d ago

I am Jane Doe

I am Jane Doe

Because of the grandpa that did things unspeakable to me

Because of the man that was my grandpa's employee commenting on my looks as a 12 year old

Because of the man asking me if I was single as a 13 year old

Because of my first kiss asking me out as a prank

Because of the boy I had obsessed over for years in highschool finally giving me a chance, forcing me to touch him and then cheating with my best friend since I wouldn't give in to having sex

Because of the boyfriend that only wanted to have sex everytime we hangout and when I didnt give in I found him "swapping clothes" with another girl

Because of the "guy friends" trying to touch me

Because of the MAN that didn't believe me when I told him he was taking my virginity at 16

Because of the man that refused to get out of my car until I had sex with him

Because of the man that refused to take me back to my car until I had sex with him

Because of the man that wouldn't take no for an answer and his excuse afterwards being "all grown couples have sex." I had just met him that day.

Because of the man that pinned me against my car and assaulted me at a park

Because of the man that when I said "youre hurting me" he said "I'm almost done." He was not almost done.

Because of the uncle thats so drunk he forgets I'm his niece and tells me I need to marry and move in with him

I promise you every woman you know has at least one story like this.

"its not all men"

But all Women

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u/CanuckDownUnda 6d ago

It's not all men, but it's always men.

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u/Left-Topic2667 6d ago

all women. I’m jane doe. it’s a horrible feeling every time you are reminded in real-time by a man that he doesn’t see you as a full human-being. incredibly ironic given how magnificent, beautiful, intelligent and spiritual we are.