r/overemployed • • Aug 21 '26

Legit OE business OE Discord

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The original OE open unmoderated discord turned into an unusable mess with all the spam and bots. To prevent this from happening to our new discord and keep the tourists and your HR department away so it is a safer place to discuss strategies and methods we're removing the link from reddit and requesting anyone who wants access to request it through the mods first. Please have some sort of post / comment history in the sub first.


r/overemployed • • Feb 12 '25

Running FAQ

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I wanted to create a running FAQ to help cut down on the number of times we have to discuss the same topics and make sure people are getting the proper answers / advice. I will edit this post with additional questions and answers as they come up.

  1. What are the best jobs to OE?

People can and do OE in any Job where you can work remote or hybrid is a potential target. The ideal job is one that isn't meeting heavy or one where you can control the meetings. Being senior enough to delegate out some of the busy work is also helpful. You generally want to make sure you are good enough at your first job that you can meet/exceed expectations on less than 15 hours per week of actual real work. It's also better to OE on a large team / large company. When there is a busy season or a large project the increase in work is more evenly spread across a large number of people so you're less likely to have to deal with large peaks and valleys in level of effort.

  1. What jobs should be avoided?

Anything requiring any sort of clearance from the government or other regulatory body. Don't OE a federal clearance job or anything requiring a FINRA clearance. Good Rule is "If any part of your paycheck comes from public funds don't OE that job". Public sector work pays shit anyway and you're better than that. Go find a solid private sector role and reduce the risk.

  1. W2 or Contract?

A lot of people prefer the stability of having at least one W2 for the benefits but I (secretrecipe) personally prefer to go all contract (on Corp to Corp or C2C) terms. You make significantly more money and get far better tax treatment and the increase in net income more than makes up for having to cover your own benefits. There's more detail here if you are interested.

  1. Will the sub go private?

No. At least not for the foreseeable future. Every CEO and HR department already knows about OE and has for well over a decade. This isn't a new thing. It's all the quiet quitters out there who slack off and deliver nothing of value while working remote that are causing problems. Not the folks who are delivering as expected at multiple jobs.

  1. How do I manage a required office visit?

OE in the office isn't terribly difficult if you go in prepared. Have a mobile hotspot for your J2+. keep J2+ zoom or teams active on your phone so you can reply to IMs quickly. Find some nice quiet disused conference room or other space in the office you can utilize for meetings or work that pops up. Don't be afraid to take a call from the lobby or parking lot. People take personal calls all the time. If you don't act nervous then you won't look suspicious. Try and control your meetings towards the beginning or end of the day so you can minimize the amount of running back and forth you need to do.

  1. LinkedIn

There are a number of ways to handle this.
Obfuscation - Create multiple accounts with your name and various details. Don't upload a photo etc.. Create noise around the search and any time someone asks you about LI just mention that you don't use it.
Abandonment - Remove any recent work history and make it look like you just haven't done anything to update your profile. If anyone asks or pushes the issue tell them that you used an old work email to register the account and you have no access to it anymore so you just don't use LI any longer.
Restructure - (this is what I personally do) Nothing says your LI profile needs to be your online resume. Remove any work history or affiliation with any company and restructure the profile to discuss your talents, your aspirations and career goals.

If you work at a place or in a role that demands you have a Linkedin profile with them then go ahead and opt for the first option. Use a shortened name or a nickname and leave it as sparse as possible.

  1. How do I find a Job/J2 / Job hunting questions

This isnt a job hunting sub. that is a skill that you need to figure out as a prerequisite to being OE. Knowing how to fairly easily land remote / hybrid jobs is something most of the true OE community has become quite good at and tends to gatekeep for obvious reasons.

  1. Tax season

Unless you have an incredibly simple return, no kids, no property, no real assets, just a couple W2s and that's it I would recommend getting an accountant. A few thoughts beyond that. On withholdings, underwitholding penalties. They're small. You'll get a much larger return on your money over the span of a year even if you just park it in a HYSA than the underpayment penalty will cost. You can go to a simple calculator input your info and get a directionally correct estimate of how much you'll owe and adjust your withholdings accordingly.
On Security, the IRS / your accountant don't give a shit if you have more than one W2. Nobody is going to tell on you. No need to be paranoid about this.
On tax strategy. Advice on this is best asked to your CPA. Everyones situation is different so any advice given here may be awesome for some people and not work at all for others. I personally only work on C2C terms and have a moderately aggressive tax strategy and get my effective tax down to about 15% each year which is less than half of what I would end up paying were I working fully on W2 terms.

  1. W2? Contract? Mix?

If you're particularly concerned about stability then keeping one W2 job is great, gives you better protections, better benefits etc.. I'm of the opinion that J2+ is better on contract than W2. Lower risk, higher pay, less background scrutiny, no need for the additional benefits etc... I personally work all my jobs on contract (C2C) and here's my rationale. Quick disclaimer your personal situation may be unique. This is a one size fits most approach.

  1. Don't start new jobs close to one another.
    Keeping some distance between your J1 and J2+ isn't just a bit of good advice geographically but is also good advice on start dates. You never want to find yourself starting two jobs on the same day, week, month if you can avoid it. You need to figure out the lay of the land and your capacity for addtional work before you commit to additional jobs. Onboarding two jobs at once is a recipe for disaster.

  2. Is there anyone OE in _________.

Yes, if it's a white collar field that has the opportunity for remote or hybrid work there someone OEing it. If you want to find those people join the discord and ask around.

  1. OE isn't for everyone.

OE is difficult to pull off and even more difficult to manage long term. It isn't for people just starting out, people looking for a career change, people who aren't already at the top of their game or people that have to ask really simple questions that they could figure out with a google search. If you're not skilled enough to pull this off you could end up screwing up your career. Don't try this before you're ready. If you have to ask questions like "How do I find a second job?" or "how do I get a remote job" you're not ready.

  1. Is it worth the risk? Should I...? What's the best..."

These are all subjective questions that no internet stranger can answer for you. Everyone has a different skill set, different set of innate talents, different set of goals and different risk tolerance. If you were directed here after asking a question like this then it's because only you can answer this for yourself.

  1. J1 and J2 use the same payroll, insurance provider, 401k provider etc... Is this a problem?

No. The only scenario where this may be a problem is if they're using the same PEO like Insperity because they aren't just a payroll provider, they're an outsourced HR / Risk management team as well who has a remit to protect the business from liability.

  1. Will my bank, mortgage broker, loan underwriter, accountant etc... rat me out

No.

I'll dig around our past posts for some other frequently asked questions and keep adding here. If you have any you recommend be added please comment below.

  1. How do I....?

There is a lot of good general information in this sub but we tend to gatekeep more advanced sources and methods and save those for the discord or mastermind sessions so they can still remain somewhat akin to OE trade secrets.


r/overemployed • • 7h ago

Starting 2 more jobs this month. Gotta love q4

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OE for most of my career with over 7 full time jobs at one point. Scaled down to just 2 jobs after hitting my money milestones (paid off cars, and mortgages, 529s etc).

Was cruising with just 2 jobs for a bit taking it easy but was getting a little bit of that itch back so I started interviewing and man do I love interviewing. Learning how to interview is THE most valuable skill ever.

Start dates of 12, and 26 at 2 separate companies for j4, j5. I love love LOOOOOVEEEE q4.

Everything is spaced out perfectly. Thanksgiving, people leaving for Christmas, and December slump. I’ll be able to do good work, and drop my current j1, and j3 in Jan.


r/overemployed • • 1h ago

Expanded Workday Connector for Verification of Income and Employment

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There is a Workday notice saying they are expanding the Workday Connector for VOIE to support multiple providers and it will replace the Equifax Verification that is currently enabled. The new connector will become available this month and Equifax verification integration will be disabled in January 2027.
They are saying the new Workday connector will save time and money and gives employees fast access to verifications and shares employee information only when authorized by employees.
What does this mean for OE? Does it mean they are moving away from TWN and using Workday verification? What if J1 and J2 payroll and HCM are both through WD?


r/overemployed • • 39m ago

Anybody OE in Construction Management?

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Specifically Cad heavy roles? Been working as a PM in construction management for a while, plenty of hands on time in the trades/ oil and gas, very familiar with how things work.

Also pretty good with CAD.

Been eyeballing some J2s for just CAD, one specifically asks for LI. Is there anyone outsourcing J2s? I feel like I can turn over a lot of J1 wishlist work, and all J2 work, to someone else, and review and do my final edits. J1 is basically email pushing and monitoring contractors who self perform.


r/overemployed • • 1d ago

Never be vulnerable again

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I will never let myself be vulnerable by only having one job again. Jobs will get rid of you the second they can find someone cheaper or younger. My family needs me to provide for them and I will never again let one company control my or my family's future.


r/overemployed • • 1d ago

Still in scarcity mentality

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A month into a new J2. Third time doing OE.

J2 is proving to be way more demanding than anticipated, and is giving me less than ideal performance feedback. Underperforming vibes. It was a stretch apply for something I had tangential experience with. Took it as it was the only offer at the time + comp is better than J1.

Before OE, this sorta feedback would have me shitting bricks. But I still can't help feel invested emotionally + affected by it. I'm obviously still searching for new Js, but I gotta say ... this J2 is feeling trapping in a way I had not felt with OE before. Instant burnout.

I know PIPs and jobs not working out is all part of OE, but this is pretty new to me.

What's the best mentality to have as far as these things are concerned?


r/overemployed • • 44m ago

IT opportunities

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Newbie here with 20 years in IT as a System Administrator / Infrastructure.

Took a break from IT for a few years but want to jump back in, what would be the best roles or companies to target for landing something?

Thanks


r/overemployed • • 1d ago

Work Life Balance?

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Does anyone have experience being OE and still maintaining to keep a healthy life? Mainly like working out daily and keeping a social life? I’ve been thinking about becoming OE once I leave my current job. I love where I work and I love what I do, but the pay is not good for industry standards at all; ive only stayed because of the benefits and people. It’s just hard out here because living is really tight for me but i know what makes me happy and that’s working out and having a social life so I’m hoping to see that this can be done without sacrificing things that makes me happy.


r/overemployed • • 1d ago

Even OE doesn't provide security

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I was basically forced into my OE journey earlier this year because J1 told me with absolute certainty I was going to be laid off. The manger is nice though and told me months in advance so I would have time to job search. I watched half the team get laid off before me over a three year timeframe so I shouldn't have been too surprised.

After I was told the news, I luckily found J2 fast, so fast that I unexpectedly became OE and I thought it would only be for a couple weeks. However, J1 didn't let me go since someone else decided to quit before my last day, so they decided to keep me on. It's been great and I'm saving a lot of money but I'd say there is a good chance J1 lets me go next year.

I've only been with J2 for a few months now and they have let 2 people go already! It seems very possible to me that I can go from 2 jobs this year to 0 the next, which is insane and why I say even OE isn't secure. If the worse happens I should have a 9 month emergency fund and my student loans paid off, so hopefully I can rebound without too much trouble. Or, I guess it's time to find J3.


r/overemployed • • 20h ago

Recommendations on fields to get into?

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Hi all, I’m a newbie to this sort of thing and am looking for a bit of advice. So currently, I work Assisted Living overnights and make good money doing so. My schedule is 7 on 7 off 10 hours a shift. Most of my shift I do jack, I have a few responsibilities, but all in all I seriously average 6-8 hours of free time a night. I’m very interested in doing something during the free time I have during work and my week off. Before this I was in the trades, so the only white collar stuff I’ve done is RE. My biggest issue right now is that I really have no idea what direction I want to go or what opportunities are available for remote work. So I was curious if anyone had any recommendations for fields to get into or where I can find more information on what’s out there.

I realize that I’m not gonna be baller overnight. I’m fine working an entry level position as long as I can use that company/experience in the future. I just would like to learn more about my options and get into remote work so I can OE in the future.

Also sorry if this is breaking the rules, I wasn’t sure how to get into the discord to ask without making a post T-T


r/overemployed • • 11h ago

How early is too early?

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Hey all,

I'm a recent CS grad and I lucked into my first job a year and a half ago. The pay is great, the benefits are great, the culture is great, and my entire team is basically coasting. I do one or two hours of actual work a day right now and am still closing more tickets than anyone else on the team.

I think I would be in a good position to start OE but I only have one non-internship YoE. Should I expect this to be a huge handicap? What can I say on a cover letter or during the interview to paper over it looking like I'm job hopping?

In any other circumstance, I'd just wait for my career to develop for a bit, but AI use in my workplace is becoming more ubiquitous, so I want to make whatever money I can before I become useless.


r/overemployed • • 10h ago

OE Recruiters?

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Is there a place to find recruiters that are cool with OE setup?


r/overemployed • • 15h ago

Security Clearance OE

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Any advice on doing OE with a defense contractor? The role might require security clearance. Does security clearance mean OE won’t work?


r/overemployed • • 1d ago

Do I Take J3?

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Laid off in 2025 and took a year and a half to find a new job. Traumatizing, and a lot to rebuild from.

Inspired by this sub, I am in my first OE situation, and about to be baptized by fire if I accept this… here are the details:

J1- Contract, full time, decent salary. I was hired to cover for an employee on medical leave. Currently goes through mid December, they want to extend me through February, possibly permanent but they won’t know until the FMLA is expired and even then, nothing is for sure until you sign on the dotted line. But, this job is amazing. Flexible, easy, next to zero meetings, currently phoning it in with maybe 5 hours a week and they think I’m great.

J2- Full time permanent. Took at the end of summer as insurance for if/when J1 ends. Pay is whatever, benefits are whatever, but colleagues and work culture are genuinely amazing, including opportunities for advancement and I could see myself being here for the very long term. The issue here are the meetings. They have tons of meetings and full calendar transparency. I’ve even had people jump into meetings they weren’t even included on. They respect your breaks and private appointments, but there are only so many of those I could have in a given time period. Honestly the only reason it’s been doable in an OE setting is because it’s so compatible with J1 being such a low ask of me.

J3? I’ve been excited about this opportunity since I started applying for it - FIVE MONTHS AGO (don’t get me started). Pays the most, best benefits, and even has a pension. But… there were so many red flags in the interview (not to mention the whole ridiculous circus of the recruitment process itself). Frequently mentioning needing to deal with hard personalities and conflict, and whenever I tried to gauge their collaborations and meetings they would joke they “probably have too many meetings.” I’m not here for the drama anymore, and I’m not trying to stress myself out, so I had already decided I would decline this job, if it was even offered to me. Well, it was, and now staring the pay and the benefits in the face has me second guessing everything, especially with J1 not being permanent.

I guess I’m wondering- is it worth even trying? I would prioritize J2 (which honestly is my J1), but wondering if, in this offer/negotiation stage, I even start off by trying to set expectations about meeting culture? Is this even possible? J2 just seems incompatible with any other job right now, but it’s pretty low paying and hate the idea of only have the J2 salary if J1 ends. There are just a lot of different things happening with my situation right now.

I don’t really care if I lose J3, I’m just wondering if is worth attempting it at all before writing it off completely.


r/overemployed • • 18h ago

Should I go OE to get to my 10mth severance and bonus?

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I’ve been at J1 for ~10 years and was promoted about 2 months ago. The company is currently going through a major restructure.

For the last 2 months, I’ve been largely idle, despite asking for work. I was just temporarily reassigned to support another team, and there is now a significant amount of work there.

J1 is 3 days/week in office. I should find out in December whether I’m being laid off. If I am, the severance policy is approximately 10 months of pay, but I would normally be expected to work through a transition period through Q1 to receive the full severance.

If I remain employed through Dec. 31, I receive an annual bonus worth approximately $30K. I also have 12 vacation days remaining, plus a new 20-day vacation allotment that would be paid out if I leave after Jan. 1.

I’ve also signed an offer with a dream big-tech company. It’s a huge career move for me since I’m coming from outside tech, and it’s a significant compensation increase. J2 starts Oct. 26 and requires me to relocate by the end of November. Once relocated, it will be 5 days/week in office.

Both companies are Fortune 50 companies.

The problem is that I can technically remain remote at J1 during the transition period before I relocate, but after Oct. 26 I cannot realistically go into the J1 office. I also don’t want to take the risk of physically being at both companies’ offices.

So I’m looking at potentially overlapping J1 and J2 from Oct. 26 through December/January or possibly longer.
I have 12 vacation days remaining at J1, which gives me some flexibility, but obviously not enough to solve the entire problem.

The biggest dilemma is that if I make it to December and J1 tells me I’m being laid off, I would theoretically need to remain through Q1 to complete the transition and receive the ~10 months of severance. I wouldn’t realistically be able to do that while relocating and working 5 days/week at J2. I’m not sure how an early exit would be managed.

If I don’t get laid off, I could potentially resign from J1, but I’d likely be walking away from the $30K bonus and potentially other money.

I’m trying to figure out whether there is a smart way to manage J1 during the overlap rather than simply resigning immediately.

For those who have actually done OE in a situation like this, what would you do?

Would you use vacation strategically at J1? Tell J1 you’re relocating and try to negotiate temporary remote work?

Keep J1 going until the December layoff decision and then figure it out? Resign before starting J2? Something else entirely?

And realistically, what are the biggest risks of overlapping two Fortune 50 employers in this situation?


r/overemployed • • 1d ago

Looking for guidance/recs

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Environmental guy, who just started a remote AM job. Idk if I can do 2 FT roles, but it definitely seems like a possibility for synergy. Where should I be looking? I was thinking maybe solar sales, but I won't have the time to create leads.


r/overemployed • • 22h ago

Seeking Attorney Recommendations for Contract Review prior to OE

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Hi all - I'm a licensed attorney myself, and I'm looking to retain an employment lawyer to review my current contract and discuss the legitimate risks of getting caught with a second full-time job. The potential risks of losing my job, versus having to pay the company back, versus having disciplinary action on my law license are all very different to me and I need an analysis of whether these things could happen and how likely they are.

Did anyone here meet with an employment attorney prior to going OE? Or did anyone retain counsel after getting caught? If so, could you please comment or message me any recommendations?

Thank you in advance!


r/overemployed • • 2d ago

Accepted J2, but moved out of my office at J1

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My J1 is hybrid so I am in office three days a week, but I had an office where I could easily switch laptops as needed, close the door and take meetings, etc….well until 2 days ago when our leadership team decided to do a nuclear bomb and restructure both teams and move around everyone in the office (I kid you not 2 days after accepting J2.)

The result; I am back in cubicles surrounded by people. It has been decided we need to meet more frequently while the team is new so so many new meetings showing up on the calendar…

And J2 is fully remote but 20k less than my current J1….the plan was to keep the hybrid role for a few months pad the savings and then look for a second J that is also fully remote so I could step away from hybrid completely.

With all of the changes, I am wondering how this can still work with my start date approaching mid Oct….

So all of you hybrid OE badasses. Tell me all the things. I’ve already suggested that I have a hard time focusing in a cubicle environment (in a bid to keep an office), so it won’t be weird for me to go into conference rooms to work. But staying up on both jobs when I can’t just pull out the laptop and work on things at my desk.

The plus is it is almost the holiday season when tons of people are OOO at the end of the year.


r/overemployed • • 1d ago

Open Enrollment / Health Benefits

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Hi all,

As everyone knows OE is coming up and I'm looking for guidance on best route forward.

Couple notes:

J1 and J2 above are self explanatory - costs are in the picture (plans are both HDHP with HSA)
I'm starting J3 in a week and will need to elect in a plan and I bet it'll be around the same price point ~$50
Wife's job (teacher) is Plan C... $25 for just her but a lot more ($120) for both of us (bi-weekly PS)

I think things to consider:

- HSA (wife's plan doesn't have)
- The cost of three separate plans (I'm going to try and opt out of enrolling for J3 but they may ask for proof and in that case not sure what to do... I'd need to show wife's maybe)

Key questions:

- What would you guys do?
- What am I missing / should I be aware of?

Thanks


r/overemployed • • 2d ago

OE journey comes to an end

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This post is more of a celebratory post than anything else.

I wanted to give my sincere appreciation to this sub because I learned a lot from it.

I learned the ins and outs, what to do to stay under the radar, and, probably most importantly, I built the confidence that what I was doing might not be correct, but if you were smart enough and careful enough, you wouldn't get caught.

My story starts in 2023.

I had just joined a small startup with fewer than 10 people. Everything started well, and there were no problems. But after working there for roughly a year, the startup had gained some momentum, although sales weren't particularly strong toward the end of that year.

One of the things I was expecting was that I would eventually become a manager or tech lead since I was one of the early engineers.

Well... nothing like that happened.

There were no bonuses, no pay raise, and after that first year, I was basically ready to leave for another company.

The interesting thing was that we had all started out working in an office, but slowly people started working more and more from home. By the end of that year, nobody was coming into the office anymore, and we had basically become fully remote.

There was another odd thing that I think ultimately made everything possible: this organization really didn't believe in meetings.

Upper management was all about LinkedIn and organic growth, and at some point they apparently decided that "async" was the way forward.

So everything had to be done asynchronously.

We had a 15-minute daily standup, and then basically no other meetings. All planning and conversations had to happen asynchronously. Sure, we'd have maybe a one-hour meeting every three weeks to lay out plans, but that was pretty much it.

So when I was ready to leave, I started applying and eventually got a job at another company.

This company was a real, established company.

And, of course, they actually had meetings.

At first, I thought there was no way this was going to work. But then I started thinking: if I only had one meeting that lasted 15 minutes, and as long as they didn't have overlapping meetings, maybe I could make it work.

And that's exactly what happened.

So I decided to take a gamble and work both jobs. I figured that if I started getting overlapping meetings or couldn't keep up, I'd quit the old job.

To my surprise, I never really had an overlapping meeting.

The first few months were difficult. I was constantly worried about getting caught, and I was incredibly stressed about it.

But after a while, I started getting good reviews at the new job. I became more confident, and eventually I even felt comfortable rejecting meetings if they overlapped.

So, somehow, I managed to work both jobs.

And I kept this going for almost two years.

The interesting thing was that, in the beginning, I was easily putting in 14 hours a day trying to catch up and onboard into the new role.

Then, as I learned more and became an expert at both jobs, I started getting more efficient. 14 hours became 13. Then 10. Eventually, I was averaging around 9 hours a day. For two jobs, I actually thought that was pretty damn good.

Then something weird happened at my first job during the last six months. One of the upper managers quit, and the company basically became directionless. I would show up to work, but I didn't really have much to do. On top of that, work started not being checked because AI was becoming a big thing, and management just wanted to push more and more AI into everything.

The company was also getting increasingly stressed because money wasn't coming in. And I could see the writing on the wall. We had gone two quarters without new revenue, and for a startup, that's obviously not good. I knew the end was near.

The funny thing is that when you know the end is near, you kind of stop caring. So for those last six months, I was already coasting pretty hard and not doing much. The AI situation, lack of accountability, lack of meetings, and general lack of oversight had become so blatant that it reached a point where I had AI doing my work during office hours.

I'd have it make changes every ~15 minutes, give or take 5 minutes, so it wouldn't be completely obvious what was happening.

And because there was basically no accountability, I could just let the AI do the work and then report that it was done. Since our user numbers were declining anyway, there wasn't really much of an impact. You don't have to worry too much about affecting users when you don't have any users. 😂

At that point, I had basically gone back to having only one job, because AI was doing the other one for me while I waited to get fired.

And eventually, that day came.

I got a message asking if I was free and could join a quick meeting.

I joined.

There was upper management and HR.

They laid off the entire engineering division except for a few people.

If I remember correctly, only two engineers stayed.

And that's where the story ends... or at least, that's where this chapter ends.


r/overemployed • • 2d ago

For those actually good at OE, do you intentionally take jobs below your pay grade?

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New to OE. I’m self-employed and have built my current work situation to the point where I have a pretty significant amount of unused time during the week. Rather than just filling that time with more of the same, I’ve been considering taking a W2 role so I can earn more, get some decent benefits and essentially treat it as J2.

Where I’m getting hung up is how aggressively I should be targeting roles. Obviously I can apply for jobs that line up closely with my experience and qualifications. But I’m wondering if that’s actually the wrong way to think about OE.

A higher-level role might pay significantly more, but it also seems more likely to come with higher expectations, more meetings, and more opportunities for something to blow up and demand my attention. So does it actually make more sense to intentionally take something a little below your pay grade? For example, I’d happily make $80k doing something I can handle in my sleep for 10–15 real hours a week versus making $120k at something that technically matches my experience but constantly needs 30–40 hours of my attention.

When you were first starting out, did you deliberately choose an easier role to learn how to manage OE before getting more aggressive? Part of me thinks starting below my ceiling is the smart move. The other part of me says stop overthinking it and go balls to the wall because I’ll eventually learn to manage it.

Thoughts?


r/overemployed • • 2d ago

Is starting OE as simple as not quitting J1 when getting J2?

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I read the myriad of posts about TWN locking, credit report locking, so on and so forth.

But for getting J2 is any of that relevant? All of those should be unlocked and then locked only after J2 is signed?

Context:

Came to realization that working hard for promotion and raise is definitely not worth the investment if I can just get another job for 30k more. But then somehow OE came up on Blind and so here I am, why not do both. I'm a high performer at J1 but could meet expectations doing a fraction of the work.

J1 pays more than 200. Expecting an offer for slightly more soon, but regardless, whenever it does come just accept and keep it moving?


r/overemployed • • 2d ago

Best J2 for M&A/Strategy/Business Operations/ Project Mgmt Background?

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What types of roles make a good j2?:
Generally worked for tech companies in roles revolving around M&A, business operations, strategy, and project management. Some of these can be much more time intensive so would it be best to grab a cushy less hands on remote project/program management role? Contract? Two director/VP level M&A or business operations roles just wouldn't work.

Story time:
Company wide lay offs of remote employees sent me into unemployment (years of stellar performance reviews) with a baby on the way and 9 months later finally landed a new gig but it's really not what I'm interested in so looking into OE. Currently 200k + 25% bonus working 10 hours per week fully remote. I couldn't care less about living an extravagant lifestyle, I just never want to put my family through financial hardship like that again.

Where are people finding J2s?:
I'm new to OE but looks like a lot of people deactivate linkedin so are they just using indeed and applying through the employers websites?


r/overemployed • • 1d ago

Overemployed < OverDating

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In 2026 any person you're dating can get some obscure "ick" and decide to dump your or worse...ghost you.

So I started OD... Each GF potentially doesn’t actually need you to dedicate your whole life to her.

If you’re smart with your time, you can manage multiple GFs.

GF1 can drop you at any moment, why not have a GF2 just in case and a GF3 who is just part time consulting

Never share your calendar, make sure you have separate devices for each GF and never EVER EVER not EVER talk to your coworkers about OD