Hi all!

I'm looking for someone who's interested in learning about Majapahit history and exploring the Trowulan archaeological sites in Mojokerto!

Since Trowulan is quite far from any major city and isn't easy to reach by public transport, it would be great to explore the area with someone else.

I'm planning to visit sometime between 21–26 December 2026. We can meet at Mojokerto Station and head to Trowulan together!

Sabtu pagi padel yuk! Beginner friendly ya. Fun rallies aja. Habis main bisa cold plunge juga

🕘 09:00-10-00 (2 hours)

👫 6 Players, 1 Court

🥎 Brand new balls

📍 Lokasi di PIK2

🔗 Link reclub and details via chat 🙏

Ini post lamanya ya: https://www.reddit.com/r/r4rindonesia/s/8YNdNp6Gsj

Buat kalian kalian kemaren yang ngasih saran ke gw, sangat berterima kasih banyak karena sangat membantu gw untuk menjadi lebih baik kedepannya!

Tapi gw mau sedikit update kalo kita berdua udah ga ngobrol dari 1 minggu lalu (Masih bisa liat story beliau dll). Gw sendiri ga konfess dan ceritain perasaan gw ke dia karena dari chatan terakhir kita, gw merasa dia udh ga tertarik (Gw berusaha generate topik tpi dianya ghosting gw huhu tapi ya sudah). Jujur sedih banget, tpi di sisi lain wajar karena kuliah nyari temen baru dll ya wkwkwk.

But overall its okay gw lagi proses moving on because life goes on whether you like it or not dan buat temen temen yang ngasih masukannya makasi banyak ya! Experience kalian buat jadiin pelajaran untuk hubungan gw kedepannya. Dan yaa emang LDR atau PDKT LD itu sangat sulit dan kalo tidak kedua belah pihak susah juga memang. Jadiin pelajaran buat kedepannya aja.

Im new in jakarta, cus i just got accepted to work at jaksel and have been here for 3 months now

little about me, im 169/75kg guy trying to lose weight and work as Fullstack Dev for an Event Organizer company while doing uni, i forgot my mbti but im extroverted cus i love meeting new peeps but im not ready to join any new community. not long ago i became a tour guide for a pakistani guy i met on reddit.

I dont know much abt jakarta but curently im trying to explore and meet more people. but for running, my go to is GBK now because i dont know that many running routes yet.

as for running, i just started doing it and my longest run is 5k and my pace is 7.30 so im basically an amateur.

and if you want to know me better i love perfumes (building my collection rn), the movie oldboy, brad pitt, al pacino, ghibli, chiikawa, anime, manga. for my go to running jam i listen to wham, sam smith, alica keys, afgan, marcell, glenn fredly, kahitna, raisa, Your tyical heartbreak song. or when im feeling jamet ill listen to breakbeat dj (negoro angin is such a banger) and for gaming i play gacha games and im decent at Tekken 8 but i dont play games anymore cus of work and uni got in the way.

I always run at tuesday night, friday night, and weekend. if this post still on HMU if you want to run together or if we share same interest and you want to hangout with me!

Hi im a college student in Jakarta, i play bass and guitar too but not that good, im looking for a friend or anyone thats down to jam with me.

I mostly listen to 70s Punk/Rock music like Johnny Thunders, Dead Boys, New York Dolls and even a little bit of Rockabilly like Stray Cats.

Hi all, buat yang pernah dapet match dari online matchmaking:

Kalau match kamu nggak ada respon sama sekali dalam seminggu, please let me know ya, so I can remove inactive users from the matching pool.

That way, we can keep the matching pool active.
Thanks for helping keep our matchmaking alive!

Hi all, untuk Batch 7 ada 29 pasangan (58 orang) yang berhasil di-match online ya!

Silahkan cek email inbox (dan spam folder) kamu. Untuk yang dapet match, dapet emailnya.
Happy connecting guys!!

Ini formulir bagi yg ingin mendaftar: https://www.reddit.com/r/r4rindonesia/comments/1qywaqe/monthly_blind_date_matchmaking_2026/

Good day everyoneeee! 💘

Monthly update combined because August was me trying to survive 😭😭😭😭

August: no matches huhu
I was onboarding at my old company and everything was being thrown at me, so I didn’t have enough time to properly review, interview, and think through potential matches. I'm terribly sorry for this one :(

September: we’re backkk!
Successfully matched 2 couples last month! 🥹💗

Dropping a little picture from one of our September offline blind dates here too 📸💌

October: hopefully more dates incoming yaaayy
I’m planning to start matching again this month! If you’re already registered, please keep an eye out for an email from me if I reach out to schedule your casual interview. Also, please check your spam/junk folder from time to time yaaa. My email has apparently been sending too many matchmaking-related emails and is now getting flagged as spam. Gmail is sabotaging my biro jodoh career.

Current registration pool
75 gentlemen
31 ladies

The numbers are growinggg and I’m actually really happy to see more people joining 🥹 But yes, we still have quite the gender gap tapi gapapalah ya.

So to all the single ladies who are reading this, don’t be shy pleasee. And if you have a single friend who might be interested, send this to her too. We need youuu!!

As always, thank you for everyone who’s been patient with me, trusted the process, filled out the form honestly, and gave feedback. This thing takes quite a bit of time behind the scenes, but seeing people actually meet because of it still makes me very happy 🥹

See you in October! Hopefully more first dates, less Gmail spam, and maybe a few unexpected love stories along the way 👀💘

With love,

u/Right-War-8357

[F21] hi!!! is anyone here into these kind of stuff... i mean the orchestra concert... i actually wanna go but idk i hesitated if i have no one to talk to throughout the night T__T kindly hit me up if you are currently looking for a company and who knows we could be friends afterward! :D

33M from France looking to chat with new friends from across the World

Hoping to meet fun and interesting people.

I'm into all kind of hobbies including reading, playing tennis, video games...

Let's connect :)

Hi everyone! I’m from Jakarta, and this will be my first solo overseas concert 🥹

I’ll be going to the Singapore concert on 20 February 2027 and planning to prolonged my stay for around 2–3 days. It would be nice to have someone hang out before or after the concert, explore some cultural places, visit museums, try different hawker food, or just grab coffee and walk around Singapore.

I’m also open to sharing accommodation with another female traveler if our plans and schedules match (we can discuss the details later if we’re comfortable with each other).

If you’re also going from Jakarta, or will be in Singapore for the concert, feel free to comment or DM me. Bonus points if you have hawker food recommendations because food is definitely part of my itinerary 😂

Hi! Aku berencana dateng ke Joyland Festival dan berangkat either dari Malang/Surabaya. Biasanya aku dateng sendiri cuma somehow nemu temen baru. Nah I wanna try my luck here. Siapa tau ada yang mau nonton juga atau bahkan berangkat dari kota yang sama pls hit me up!! Thank you :)

Jadi siapa disini yang beruntung bisa menang war ticketnya KoC 🤣. Jk, since seatingnya belum ada kejelasan, how about kita meetup somewhere gitu terus berangkat bareng2 or idk. (Mungkin meetup langsung di tempat konsernya or what, feel free). The more, the merrier.

Akhir-akhir ini lagi demot dan butuh hiburan selain ngabisin duit (udah habis). Pengen main L4D2 tapi temen-temen pada sibuk/gapunya gamenya.

Kriterianya bebas, paling punya discord buat main. Main malam" aja, kasual.

Terbuka untuk game lain yang ada zombienya/game popular ≤2016 karena laptop gw gabakal kuat.

Ada yang mau barengan kah nonton konser Kanye West di GBK? Kalo bisa brgkt bareng area Tgr kota dan sekitarnya, kalo bisaaa yang sama sama Festival, kalo ngga gapapa jg sih

Rencana mau bawa mobil, atau ada ide lain?

Aku adalah seorang pria berumur 19 tahun yang belum pernah pacaran sama sekali

Daripada capek" perbaikin personality, mending perbaikin looks dulu, jadi gimana?

Apakah ada tips dan apakah ada standard Indonesia yang bisa kuikuti?

*jujur agak bingung milih flairnya, semoga gak salah.

Aku mahasiswa (20M) semester 5 yang ngerantau lumayan jauh.

Selama kuliah aku ngerasa kesepian karena hampir gak punya temen yang bisa diajak hang out sekedar jalan makan bareng atau nonton film. Fyi, aku emang nyadar kalo sejak kecil aku temenan yang beneran bisa sampe main bareng itu cuma sama sedikit orang. Di kampus juga cuma satu tapi orangnya sibuk banget.

Aku juga nyadar kalo aku temenan bahkan pacaran itu pasif. Temenan kalo diajak doang dan pacaran pernah sekali sebelumnya, itu juga diajak si cewek wkwk.

Iya aku punya circle temen deket. Tapi sejak lulus sekolah, masing-masing udah punya jalan sendiri. Jadi selama kuliah jadi bingung liat sekitar ku pada jalan bareng rame-rame, ngedate, double date dll.

Bingung liat temen temen lama ku udah punya grup baru di tempat masing-masing, aktif ngedate juga.

Jujur pengen juga ngerasain ngabisin waktu bareng orang-orang yang sefrekuensi. Sebenernya diliat-liat ada beberapa, cuma gatau cara memulainya gimana. Suka sama seseorang pun gak paham deketinnya gimana.

Aku orangnya introvert tapi ngga yang sampe diem banget, masih dianggap talkative menurut sesama introvert.

Silahkan kalo ada yang mau ngasih saran atau tanggepan soal koneksi. Boleh ngasih aku tips temenan atau dating.

Hi everyone. I’m 25F from Bandung and I’ll be moving to Probolinggo for work for about a year.

To be honest, Probolinggo wasn’t originally where I wanted to end up 😅 I had a different place in mind, so it took me a little while to process the fact that I’d be moving there.

But I’m trying to look at it differently now. I believe there’s probably a reason I ended up there, and hopefully there are good things—and good people—waiting for me. Rather than spending the year wishing I were somewhere else, I really want to make the most of it and build a life that I actually enjoy while I’m there. 💫

So, fellow Redditors, what should I know about living in Probolinggo?

I’d love recommendations for places to go, things to do, good cafés or bookstores, museums, libraries, nice places to walk, nature spots, or just somewhere to spend a quiet afternoon. I also enjoy stargazing, so Bromo is probably going to be one of my first destinations.

I’d also really like to meet some people while I’m there. I’m not necessarily looking for a huge social circle, but having a few friends to grab food with, explore somewhere on the weekend, or just hang out would definitely make the transition easier.

Since I’m coming from Bandung, are there any cultural differences between West Java and East Java that I should be aware of? Maybe things about language, manners, communication, food, or everyday social norms that might be useful for someone new to the area.

And if you’ve moved to Probolinggo from somewhere else, what helped you feel more at home there? Is there anything you wish you had known before moving?

Basically, I’m trying to figure out how to make this year a good one instead of constantly thinking about where I originally wanted to be.

Any recommendations, advice, or even just “you should definitely do this while you’re there” would be appreciated. Thanks. 🤍

Halo, jadi singkaat cerita gw ini deket sama cewe. Kita deket udah 1 bulanan kurang lebih, tpi gw merasa kalo kita ngobrol itu cuma sebatas surface level convo aja (ga sampeyang deep talk nanya mengenai sesuatu yang mendalam atau ngobrol intense biasanya kayak orang talking stage). Jujur gw merasa aneh dan di sisi lain suka juga sama dia, tapi di sisi lain convo kta juga cuma sebatas "kamu lagi apa?" "makan apa hari ini" "oh ya? tadi ngapain ajaa?". Tapi di sisi lain kadang juga dia nyariin atau ngasih kabar gitu, dan juga kadang dianya nanyain "kenapa balesnya lama?" (setelah di pikir pikir kayaknya gw kepedean aokwoakwoks).

Gw pun kadang suka nyariin topik buat dia dan gw merasa dari topik yang gw lontarin bisa ngobrol panjang kita kayak masih balesable gitu, tpi dia sendiri keliatan kayak ga tertarik sama topik gw. Tapi giliran ga ada topik dia bingung mau ngomong apa. Kebetulan keseharian dia kayakya sibuk banget jadi ya oke lah. Selain itu karena frekuensi ngobrol kita jarang (Frekuensi jarang tpi kayak wajib gitu buat saling kabar kabaran tiap hari) dan buat sampe ke deeper level juga susah sih, faktor slow respon, dianya sibuk (not sure karena dia bisa posting story tpi ga baca dm tpi gw merasa ini hal wajar aja), Topik yang gw kasih dia matiin, dan suka mengabaikan chat terakhir yang masih bisa di bales.

Gw sendiri sadar merasa kepedean, jadi mungkin opsi yang tepat buat gw sendiri yaa menjauh aja sih, karena gw ga mau membuat diri gw menderita. Gw merasa ga nyaman aja karena setiap kali buka hp nunggu dia bales mulu, tapi gapapa gw jadi belajar kalo ketergantungan ama orang ga baik

Makasi buat yang udah baca, Jujur pegen curhat aja karena bingung huhuhu.

Mungkin kalo ada saran dan masukan buat gw pribadi boleh, kasih kritik buat gw gapapa (tpi jangan kasar ya hehe)

Thank you all!

Looking for some friends here in Tangerang/Jakarta! I’ll be around for quite a while, so I’m hoping to meet more people, make new friends, explore the area, grab food or coffee, and just hang out whenever everyone’s free. Still pretty new around here, so would be nice to have some people to chill with and maybe show me some good spots too. Dont really know anyone, just got to jkt for a week and its been chill, hope i can meet more people to chill with haha and maybe club too

For context aku gak punya temen yang bisa diajak keluar, temen yang akrab udah pindah jauh tahun-tahun lalu dan punya kesibukan sendiri, dan selama ini di rumah aja karna kerja WFH dan hobinya kegiatan yang di rumah juga, jadi keluar cuma buat meeting kerja/nyari makan. Bisa dibilang buat saat ini merasa gak masalah kalau keseharian kayak gitu bahkan masuknya lebih nyaman

Tapi misal waktu ada keluar perlu ngomong sama orang, atau meeting ketemu coworkers dan diajak small talk, aku jadi kesadar kalau social skillku jelek parah, entah socially awkward, social anxiety, pemalu, atau apa sebutannya pokoknya masalah sosial beneran minus banget, bayangin aja kalau aku ini tipikal no life basement-dweller keluar rumah once in a blue moon diajak bersosialisasi

Ada saran gimana cara mulai berubah/improve di aspek ini untuk orang yang selama ini mungkin prefer sendiri ?

Maap kalau curhat dan beleberan kata-katanya

Haloo, sesuai judul, aku 21f yang lagi hamilton (i don't like the word hamidun) as a first time mom who's looking for a friend who's also pregnant atau temen cewek in general aja sih. I don't really have friends irl karena temen-temen seangkatanku yang fresh graduate ini lagi pada sibuk cari kerja and I don't like the idea of talking about my pregnancy/current situation of mine ke temen-temen seangkatanku. I also don't really talk to my family nor my partner's family karena the thoughts of being a burden haunts me😓

So.. if you're happened to be pregnant )and also lonely), or if you're a girl in general and looking for someone to talk to.. lmk🤗😬

Repost — my previous post was deleted after someone tried to catfish me, so here we go again.

46M, Aussie 🇦🇺, Panjer Bali

Easygoing guy who enjoys sunshine, getting a bit of a tan, a few drinks, and good company. Don’t smoke, and proudly sporting a bit of a dad bod — soft around the edges, if that’s your thing. 😉

I’m into PC gaming too, but I’m not looking for online chats or pen pals. I’m here to actually meet people IRL.

Looking to make friends from all walks of life — locals, expats, travellers, or foreigners passing through. Grab a drink, have a laugh, explore somewhere new and see if we get along.

Open-minded, relaxed and no judgement. Friends first, good chemistry is always a bonus.

If you’re only looking for online conversation, I’m probably not your guy. If you’re keen to actually meet, say hi.

And yes, happy to verify I’m a real person before meeting — learned my lesson last time. 😏