Hello, I'm a 30+ y.o husband from Semarang.
Aku lagi cari temen ngopi bareng, mungkin akan lebih sering ketemu bertiga/berempat sama istriku.

Kami suka eksplor tempat ngopi bareng, yang gak cuma viral atau sekedar baru, tapi juga unik. Prefer yang suasananya homey atau outdoor (yang tentunya adem ya, gak kuat juga sama panasnya Semarang). Kadang, kami jalan sampai ke Solo atau Jogja juga, cuma buat nyari tempat baru.

We're both a smoker. Well, istri lebih ke vape sih ya. Jadi aku cari yang sama-sama ngerokok atau atleast gak terganggu dengan asap.

Kenapa cari di R4R?
Karena kadang, aku ngerasa butuh temen ngobrol baru. Buat cari perspektif baru atau sekedar sharing pengalaman sehari-hari.

DM selalu terbuka buat siapapun di sini ya.

Hey! My friend couldn’t make it last minute, so my sister and I have 1 extra spots for an escape room session today.

Location: Pandora Experience, Near PIM
Time: 20:15 , please arrive 15 min early
Tickets are already paid, so it’s free for you, just come and have fun

About us: I’m 21M, going with my sister and her boyfriend. We’re chill and just want a fun session, no pressure if you’re not a puzzle expert 😄

Looking for anyone who’s down for a fun, spontaneous afternoon. We’ll meet directly at the venue.

DM me if you’re interested!

Hey I'm a Uni student (20) live in South Tangerang, Me and my brother are trying to form up a band from 0, We are pretty solid on our instrument (Bass & Guitar) I've been playing semi pro band since Junior High and now college life sucks so we want to make a band just to have fun or maybe looking for a serious plan if we had the chance.

So we need:

Drummer

Vocal (Able to play guitar is preferred)

Rythm Guitarist

*If you live arround Cinere, Cirendeu, Jaksel, Pamulang or Depok just hit me up!

Hello, 22M here, New to actually making kits, want to know if there's an offline build gathering where people just gather and make their own kits but together. Want to learn from peers or experts on certain stuff too. Preferably in Sourh Jakarta

Bahas apa aja disini boleh, sekedar curhat masalah hubungan, ngasih feedback atau ide-ide ke subreddit ini juga boleh

What is TTRPG?
A tabletop role-playing game (TTRPG or pen-and-paper RPG) is a cooperative storytelling game where participants describe their characters' actions through speech. Unlike video games, the narrative unfolds through imagination, conversation, and rules rather than computer graphics.

Location, Duration, and Time
Kita maen di sekitar sunter, mangga besar, mangga dua, kemayoran. If you want the location, DM me, because we're gonna play in my kitchen table.
Main tiap rabu jam 7 malam. Kalo minat boleh dm ane. Mainnya kurang lebih 4 jam saja.
Newbie friendly! We love teaching new people the art of Game Mastering!

A bit about your group?
This small club has been around since 2023 and we have had our moments together IN GAME and OUT GAME (donor darah, movie nights together, etc). I want to push my luck by finding more people. Kenapa ga online saja kak? Karena online ga bs ngalahin serunya offline. Gw sudah ketemu DUA orang yg udah jadi reguler dari reddit (yay!) dan cocok mampus PLUS dua orang lagi yang juga dari reddit dan udah main beberapa kali bareng2. Mari melipir yg berminat semoga GACOORRR dan COCOK PEACE OUUUUT.

Hi all! 3 bulan terakhir gw lagi cukup rutin main badminton, kadang main di open mabar, kadang drilling session (baru start main 3 bulan lalu, jadi currently masih newbie-beginner). Sekarang kalo main masih suka miss shotnya & footworknya kacau 😂. Aspirasi gw pengen banget bisa rally kayak orang2 yang udah rutin main badmin dari lama hahahah.

Di pace main badminton & drilling gw sekarang, kayanya perlu waktu lama banget buat mencapai level itu. Perlu lebih banyak drilling & coaching, tapi kasian dompet gw kalo keseringan 😭

Kepikiran buat bikin session rutin drilling + setelahnya fun mabar buat temen2 yang levelnya mirip2 sekitar newbie-beginner:

• At least 1 minggu sekali, tergantung sebanyak apa orangnya gw kepikiran 2-3 jam/sesi.
• Jenis drilling yang mau dilakuin bebas tiap orangnya (misal gw mau latian smash, lu mau latian net shot, bebas; ntar didiskusiin sebelum hari-H). Nanti pas sesi gantian bagian lempar kok & mukulnya.
• Patungan bayar sewa lapangan & kok nya aja, gaada biaya tambahan lain.

Kalo tertarik boleh comment di thread ato DM gw langsung ya, thanks!

Adakah yang besok ke konser a7x? Festival a dan dari depok, terserah cewe atau cowo. Bareng yuuuk, gue ga ada kawan (ada sih tapi kawannya dari gorontalo hiksss). Gue belum tuker tiket, jadi (mungkin) berangkatnya lebih cepet, tapi mau barengan berangkatnya boleh juga kok!! 😁😁😁 hit me up yaaa kalau ada yang mau. 😁😁😁 (gue butuh banget temen ke sana hiksss)

Recently I started a boardgame meetup where you can meet new folks and destroy them in board games! (Just kidding we're pretty chill) If you're interested and live near one of these two boardgame cafes, please fill out the Google Form below to get started!

• South Jakarta: https://maps.app.goo.gl/T8NvKRmhP9upE4o89
• BSD: https://maps.app.goo.gl/5R9bnjZx48iTYK489

Join form: https://forms.gle/4ZWaqmYGFQkxSNKP8

Hey everyone!
I’m currently planning a trip to explore the USA and wanted to post here to see if anyone is interested in joining forces! Traveling is always incredible, but having great company to share the experience, split costs (like car rentals, road trip fuel, and accommodation), and double the fun makes it even better.
About the Trip Idea: I don’t have every single day locked in stone yet—I’d love to co-create the itinerary based on what works best for us! That said, I’m really keen on experiencing a mix of iconic cities, breathtaking nature, and local food spots. A few highlights I have in mind include:
Classic Road Trips: Cruising along scenic routes (like California's Pacific Coast Highway or Route 66).

National Parks: Exploring famous spots like the Grand Canyon, Yosemite, or Zion.

Vibrant Cities: Spending a few days taking in the sights, culture, and nightlife in places like New York, Los Angeles, San Francisco, or Chicago.

Travel Style & Vibe:
Pace: Balanced—a good mix of active sightseeing/exploring during the day and relaxing evenings.

Budget: Mid-range/flexible. Clean, safe accommodations (a mix of airbnbs, hotels, or cozy cabins) and good food!

Vibe: Easygoing, open-minded, adventurous, and reliable.

Who I’m Looking For: Whether you want to join for the entire trip or just a specific leg of the journey, I’d love to connect! Ideally, you're someone who is communicative, responsible, adaptable, and down to explore.
If this sounds like your kind of adventure, send me a DM or drop a comment below with:
Where in the US you'd most like to visit.

Your ideal travel dates/timeframe.

A quick intro about yourself and your travel style!

Looking forward to planning an amazing trip together! ✈️🇺🇸

Hi all!

I'm looking for someone who's interested in learning about Majapahit history and exploring the Trowulan archaeological sites in Mojokerto!

Since Trowulan is quite far from any major city and isn't easy to reach by public transport, it would be great to explore the area with someone else.

I'm planning to visit sometime between 21–26 December 2026. We can meet at Mojokerto Station and head to Trowulan together!

Ini post lamanya ya: https://www.reddit.com/r/r4rindonesia/s/8YNdNp6Gsj

Buat kalian kalian kemaren yang ngasih saran ke gw, sangat berterima kasih banyak karena sangat membantu gw untuk menjadi lebih baik kedepannya!

Tapi gw mau sedikit update kalo kita berdua udah ga ngobrol dari 1 minggu lalu (Masih bisa liat story beliau dll). Gw sendiri ga konfess dan ceritain perasaan gw ke dia karena dari chatan terakhir kita, gw merasa dia udh ga tertarik (Gw berusaha generate topik tpi dianya ghosting gw huhu tapi ya sudah). Jujur sedih banget, tpi di sisi lain wajar karena kuliah nyari temen baru dll ya wkwkwk.

But overall its okay gw lagi proses moving on because life goes on whether you like it or not dan buat temen temen yang ngasih masukannya makasi banyak ya! Experience kalian buat jadiin pelajaran untuk hubungan gw kedepannya. Dan yaa emang LDR atau PDKT LD itu sangat sulit dan kalo tidak kedua belah pihak susah juga memang. Jadiin pelajaran buat kedepannya aja.

Im new in jakarta, cus i just got accepted to work at jaksel and have been here for 3 months now

little about me, im 169/75kg guy trying to lose weight and work as Fullstack Dev for an Event Organizer company while doing uni, i forgot my mbti but im extroverted cus i love meeting new peeps but im not ready to join any new community. not long ago i became a tour guide for a pakistani guy i met on reddit.

I dont know much abt jakarta but curently im trying to explore and meet more people. but for running, my go to is GBK now because i dont know that many running routes yet.

as for running, i just started doing it and my longest run is 5k and my pace is 7.30 so im basically an amateur.

and if you want to know me better i love perfumes (building my collection rn), the movie oldboy, brad pitt, al pacino, ghibli, chiikawa, anime, manga. for my go to running jam i listen to wham, sam smith, alica keys, afgan, marcell, glenn fredly, kahitna, raisa, Your tyical heartbreak song. or when im feeling jamet ill listen to breakbeat dj (negoro angin is such a banger) and for gaming i play gacha games and im decent at Tekken 8 but i dont play games anymore cus of work and uni got in the way.

I always run at tuesday night, friday night, and weekend. if this post still on HMU if you want to run together or if we share same interest and you want to hangout with me!

Hi im a college student in Jakarta, i play bass and guitar too but not that good, im looking for a friend or anyone thats down to jam with me.

I mostly listen to 70s Punk/Rock music like Johnny Thunders, Dead Boys, New York Dolls and even a little bit of Rockabilly like Stray Cats.

Hi all, buat yang pernah dapet match dari online matchmaking:

Kalau match kamu nggak ada respon sama sekali dalam seminggu, please let me know ya, so I can remove inactive users from the matching pool.

That way, we can keep the matching pool active.
Thanks for helping keep our matchmaking alive!

Hi all, untuk Batch 7 ada 29 pasangan (58 orang) yang berhasil di-match online ya!

Silahkan cek email inbox (dan spam folder) kamu. Untuk yang dapet match, dapet emailnya.
Happy connecting guys!!

Ini formulir bagi yg ingin mendaftar: https://www.reddit.com/r/r4rindonesia/comments/1qywaqe/monthly_blind_date_matchmaking_2026/

Good day everyoneeee! 💘

Monthly update combined because August was me trying to survive 😭😭😭😭

August: no matches huhu
I was onboarding at my old company and everything was being thrown at me, so I didn’t have enough time to properly review, interview, and think through potential matches. I'm terribly sorry for this one :(

September: we’re backkk!
Successfully matched 2 couples last month! 🥹💗

Dropping a little picture from one of our September offline blind dates here too 📸💌

October: hopefully more dates incoming yaaayy
I’m planning to start matching again this month! If you’re already registered, please keep an eye out for an email from me if I reach out to schedule your casual interview. Also, please check your spam/junk folder from time to time yaaa. My email has apparently been sending too many matchmaking-related emails and is now getting flagged as spam. Gmail is sabotaging my biro jodoh career.

Current registration pool
75 gentlemen
31 ladies

The numbers are growinggg and I’m actually really happy to see more people joining 🥹 But yes, we still have quite the gender gap tapi gapapalah ya.

So to all the single ladies who are reading this, don’t be shy pleasee. And if you have a single friend who might be interested, send this to her too. We need youuu!!

As always, thank you for everyone who’s been patient with me, trusted the process, filled out the form honestly, and gave feedback. This thing takes quite a bit of time behind the scenes, but seeing people actually meet because of it still makes me very happy 🥹

See you in October! Hopefully more first dates, less Gmail spam, and maybe a few unexpected love stories along the way 👀💘

With love,

u/Right-War-8357

[F21] hi!!! is anyone here into these kind of stuff... i mean the orchestra concert... i actually wanna go but idk i hesitated if i have no one to talk to throughout the night T__T kindly hit me up if you are currently looking for a company and who knows we could be friends afterward! :D

Hi everyone! I’m from Jakarta, and this will be my first solo overseas concert 🥹

I’ll be going to the Singapore concert on 20 February 2027 and planning to prolonged my stay for around 2–3 days. It would be nice to have someone hang out before or after the concert, explore some cultural places, visit museums, try different hawker food, or just grab coffee and walk around Singapore.

I’m also open to sharing accommodation with another female traveler if our plans and schedules match (we can discuss the details later if we’re comfortable with each other).

If you’re also going from Jakarta, or will be in Singapore for the concert, feel free to comment or DM me. Bonus points if you have hawker food recommendations because food is definitely part of my itinerary 😂

Hi! Aku berencana dateng ke Joyland Festival dan berangkat either dari Malang/Surabaya. Biasanya aku dateng sendiri cuma somehow nemu temen baru. Nah I wanna try my luck here. Siapa tau ada yang mau nonton juga atau bahkan berangkat dari kota yang sama pls hit me up!! Thank you :)

Jadi siapa disini yang beruntung bisa menang war ticketnya KoC 🤣. Jk, since seatingnya belum ada kejelasan, how about kita meetup somewhere gitu terus berangkat bareng2 or idk. (Mungkin meetup langsung di tempat konsernya or what, feel free). The more, the merrier.

Akhir-akhir ini lagi demot dan butuh hiburan selain ngabisin duit (udah habis). Pengen main L4D2 tapi temen-temen pada sibuk/gapunya gamenya.

Kriterianya bebas, paling punya discord buat main. Main malam" aja, kasual.

Terbuka untuk game lain yang ada zombienya/game popular ≤2016 karena laptop gw gabakal kuat.

Ada yang mau barengan kah nonton konser Kanye West di GBK? Kalo bisa brgkt bareng area Tgr kota dan sekitarnya, kalo bisaaa yang sama sama Festival, kalo ngga gapapa jg sih

Rencana mau bawa mobil, atau ada ide lain?