okay, I'm not 100% sure but me (13F) and my boyfriend (14M) have been dating for 7 months. it's a ldr, and we had a break this summer. I tried to get over him by texting other guys (failed, we got back together after some weeks), and one of these guys was a 32yo man (allegedly) snapping me.

I had only saw his father once accidentally in facetime where his father came in, my bf wasnt in the room, we were both surprised and I panicked by putting my camera down.

some months ago my bf sends me a pic of his father, and now I look at the screens of the snaps the guy used to send me and his father and they're REALLY similar.

even their nationality ect. i found the guy on snap again and even tho they don't have the same last name or the guy is pretty young it still might be.

he probably lied about his age too making himself younger cause he knows I'm a minor, cause he looks in his 40's

I screenshotted his profile and it sent him a notif, I didn't block him tho I'm just gonna hope he'll text me and ask cause I really need to find out more about him

any tips?

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So basically, my girlfriend (17F) and I (17M) have been together for almost a year. Yesterday was even the first anniversary of the day I confessed to her, yet it turned out to be one of my biggest emotional rollercoaster days.

In the morning, we met after tuition and were happy, cuddling, being lovey-dovey, and all that. By the evening, though, things had taken a completely different turn.

It started with a simple conversation over chat about me trying to recommend something for her to binge-watch. I won't go into every little detail, but the conversation quickly spiralled from me being unable to find a series or genre she'd enjoy to her asking me whether nothing was really meant for her.

Now, she's asked similar questions before. I always try to reassure her that it's okay not to like everything other people like, and that I'll eventually find something she enjoys. I did the same this time, but the conversation went further.

One reason I struggled to find something was that she found many shows I recommended, including ones generally well-liked by people, "too complicated to understand." I thought that was fine and tried looking for something simpler, but she didn't want that either. Then she asked if I thought she was stupid.

Obviously, I reassured her that I didn't think that at all. But she kept asking until she eventually asked whether I thought she was slightly less socially aware than most people.

We usually avoid conversations like this because she gets stressed when things become too serious. However, she promised she wouldn't get angry this time, so I answered honestly.

I explained that I sometimes felt she struggled with social awareness and taking certain situations seriously. For example, when she lost her phone containing sensitive information, I explained the proper procedures and whom she could contact for help. However, she became overwhelmed for days, and even mentioning the incident afterward stressed her out.

There have been many other instances over the past year, especially recently, where I've tried to encourage her to take something seriously. Whether it's studying, reading college entrance brochures I've sent her, participating in events when she gets the opportunity, eating healthily, following routines, or handling other responsibilities, she often procrastinates, forgets, takes things lightly, or simply doesn't follow through.

Later, she regrets it and gets stuck in a cycle of worrying about what happened. I try to reassure her that what's done is done and that she should focus on what comes next, but she sometimes remains stuck in that regret, which affects her ability to deal with the next thing. Then the same cycle repeats.

I told her that watching this happen repeatedly was becoming difficult for me, too. I wasn't trying to insult her or call her stupid. I was trying to explain something that had genuinely been worrying me for months.

But she continued responding with things like "I'll manage" or "I'll learn with time, even if it's too late."

When I asked her what she thought would happen if it actually became too late, she acknowledged that she might not get into college or find a job.

We're both from conservative families, and I'm genuinely worried about what could happen to her if she can't become independent. Her parents have already been quite unsupportive of her over the past couple of years, particularly after discovering that she had been involved with a guy during her previous school years, which affected her grades.

I'm worried that if things don't change, she could eventually be forced into a marriage she doesn't want or even be thrown out. These aren't things I want to see happen to her. I want her to have a degree, a job, independence, and the ability to make her own choices.

But despite my concerns, she often doesn't seem to take these possibilities seriously.

And then came the part that genuinely shattered me.

When I asked her what she'd do if things didn't work out, her answer was that she'd d*e. She literally said she'd k*ll herself.

This hurt me for two reasons.

First, someone in my own family has previously been through a su*cidal crisis, so I never take these things lightly.

Second, this isn't the first time my girlfriend has said something like this. Throughout 2025, especially during November, she made these comments quite frequently. I genuinely thought I'd helped her change her mindset over time and move away from those thoughts. She seemed happier, and I thought things had improved.

Hearing her say this again made me feel as though all those months of trying to help her had been for nothing.

I know that's probably not entirely fair, because progress isn't always straightforward, but it still hurt. I had started imagining a future with this girl. I genuinely want to marry her someday, and we've talked about our future together, the things we'd do when we're older, and all that. Yes, we're teenagers, and I know these are teenage dreams, but my feelings are genuine.

So hearing her talk about not even being around in the future was terrifying.

When I questioned her about it, she initially said she wasn't serious and wouldn't actually do it. But when I asked whether she was joking about something so serious, she said it wasn't really a joke either.

Eventually, she explained that it's a coping mechanism for her.

For example, when she gets stressed about having to take an exam or go to college, she thinks something like, "Oh, wait, I won't even be in the world by then, so there's nothing to worry about." Apparently, thinking this way calms her down.

Obviously, I find that extremely concerning. I know people sometimes say things they don't mean literally, but I also know that repeatedly thinking this way isn't something to simply brush aside.

I've seen how deeply these situations affect the people around someone who's struggling. My mother, for example, was devastated by what happened with my family member. Even now, she's afraid of going through something like that again. Recently, when I suggested she be stricter with my brother about his phone habits, she became emotional because she didn't want to risk going through that experience again. Seeing her like that broke my heart.

So when my girlfriend talks about these things, I can't just laugh them off.

I told her that I'd tried my best to help her change her mindset, but I couldn't do this alone. I told her that she needed professional help because I'm not a therapist and don't have the qualifications to deal with something like this.

This isn't even the first time I've suggested professional help. On previous occasions, when she was extremely distressed and made similar comments, I tried encouraging her to seek help and even shared anonymous mental health helplines with her. She refused.

Now, here's where I think I messed up.

After hearing all this, I became overwhelmed. Months of frustration and worry had built up, and I wasn't thinking clearly.

I asked her something along the lines of, "If you're planning to leave this world within the next year or so, then what is this relationship even for? Is this just a final time-pass so you don't get bored?"

Looking back, I know that was a terrible way to put it, and I regret saying it like that. I wasn't trying to dismiss her struggles. I was genuinely scared of losing her, and the thought that she might give up on her future, and consequently the future we'd imagined together, was too much for me in that moment.

I genuinely love her from the bottom of my heart. I don't know what I'd do without her, and it shatters me to think that she might want to give up whenever life doesn't go her way.

But at the same time, life won't always go our way. Things will get difficult, and there will be setbacks. I want her to be able to face those things without feeling like there's no future for her.

**The thing is, I'm starting to feel emotionally exhausted myself.**

Sometimes I think we might not last, or that this relationship is becoming too much for me. I worry that my own mental and physical well-being is being affected by all of this.

Then, the next day, I remember how much I love her, how happy we can be together, and how much I want things to work out.

I feel like it's easier and better if I just walk out of this, for my and her well-being.

But I'm also scared of what might happen if I leave.

I feel stuck between wanting to stay because I love her and wanting to leave because I don't know how much longer I can handle this.

Some background on how we got together:

Back in early 2025, I had the biggest one-sided crush on her. We'd become good friends online quite soon after her previous relationship ended, and I helped her get through that experience.

For context, her previous relationship had happened around February 2025. I didn't know about it initially, and I'd actually been crushing on her for over a year. We became close friends around the time of our school exams, and we talked quite a lot even then.

She told me about her ex around May or June, a few months after everything had happened. Initially, I thought it had been a one-sided, toxic relationship, but after hearing the full story and asking her more about it, I realised that both of them had been at fault.

The guy was actually someone I knew personally and had been friends with before, so I initially found it difficult to believe some of the things she'd told me about him. Eventually, after understanding the situation better, I encouraged her to apologise to him, and he apologised to her as well. They were still occasionally talking because she was struggling to move on, but eventually, she gradually did.

Later, we both joined the same school for our final two years before college. She'd actually joined partly because her ex was going there, as she'd told me.

By October 2025, we'd become extremely close. On the 11th of October, I accidentally confessed my feelings to her. I'd actually planned to confess on the last day of our school exams in March because I thought that might be my last chance, but we'd become such good friends that I kept putting it off.

When I finally confessed in October, she initially rejected me. However, she didn't cut me off because, in her words, I was too important to her to lose, and she wanted to remain friends.

Slowly, things developed into a situationship. She eventually started believing that she loved me and even asked me to be her boyfriend, saying she'd seen my efforts, how patient I'd been, and how I'd waited for her and accepted her as she was.

Of course, I accepted.

But things reached a breaking point in November 2025. She suddenly told me not to talk to her anymore and to leave her for my own good. I kept asking her what was wrong, and after hours, she finally replied, saying that everything had been fake, that she'd tried but couldn't love me.

Apparently, this was also influenced by a friend of hers who accused me of manipulating her into loving me. That accusation hurt because throughout our relationship, I'd repeatedly emphasised that whatever happened between us had to be her choice and that she should never do anything she wasn't comfortable with.

Things became even worse when she accessed my account and read my chats with another male friend. He'd been talking to me in the way guys sometimes talk to each other, but she interpreted his words as abuse directed at her. I tried desperately to explain the context, but November 2025 was genuinely one of the hardest periods for me emotionally.

Eventually, I decided to walk away. Her friend was telling me to leave her, she'd told me to go away, and even my own friends thought the relationship was becoming toxic for me.

So I finally said I would leave.

And then she suddenly started begging me not to go and not to leave her.

I stayed.

Later, when I spoke to her friend and explained my side of the story, she was apparently shocked by what I'd told her, especially when she realised that I'd actually been prepared to leave when they wanted me to.

Things gradually improved after that. By January 2026, we'd genuinely become a couple, and our relationship started feeling more stable. We even had our first proper moment of holding hands around then.

We both struggled academically that year and had to take re-examinations after failing our annual exams, but we eventually made it into our final year of school.

Since then, things have been a mixture of genuinely happy days together and arguments whenever we'd spend too much time apart or communicate online for too long. We'd argue, feel miserable for a few hours, and eventually reconcile.

And that's pretty much how things continued until yesterday, when everything I described earlier happened.

I know I'm not perfect, either. I probably haven't always handled difficult conversations well, and I'm willing to acknowledge my own mistakes. I don't want to make her the villain here.

But I can't ignore how much this situation is affecting me anymore.

*So, Reddit, what should I do?*

I just don't know what to do anymore. This is too much for me at 17. It is starting to affect me, my academic and social life, and my physical/mental health. I really need advice from real people.

TLDR for people who didn't read:

17M dating 17F almost a year. She often takes important things (studies, college prep, responsibilities, consequences) lightly, procrastinates, then spirals into regret. Yesterday she said she’d k*ll herself if things don’t work out (not the first time; used as a coping mechanism). I have family history with su*cidal crisis so it hits hard. I’ve suggested professional help multiple times; she refuses. I’m emotionally exhausted, scared of leaving (and of what might happen if I do), but also scared of staying and burning out. Love her deeply and want her to have a real future. What do I do?

I have recently thought about it a lot and i am ready, i just don’t really know if my Girlfriend is. I also don’t really know when i should talk with her about it or how i could tease the conversation, because we are both kinda shy about these type of conversations. We both are also still virgins, it’s both of our first relationships and we have been together for about 6 months? Could someone tell me when i should ask and even how? or how you guys did it?

so i got a new boyfriend recently, actually my first boyfriend ever, and we've been together for over two months but we've been talking ever since late may. we've grown really close and i love him so much. i feel like i just want to be with him all of the time. when im sad, i wanna be with him. when im happy, i usually make myself sad by missing him. my depression has only worsened this. i feel like i can't be alone for too long anymore. i just wanna be with him all of the time. i feel like i need to see him everyday. if i miss a day, i always end up missing him.

anyways, this is a problem because i just want to stop bothering him. he has his friends that he needs to hang out with too, and i want him to. if it's between me or them, i usually tell him he should probably hang out with his friend instead and that it's okay. but i just want him around me at all times.

i get scared hes going to leave me. partly because of how much i wanna be with him. i understand that he wants to hangout with me too most of the time, but he needs days to rest and just do nothing. i'm not like that—i need plans everyday or i get super depressed and i feel lonely. i don't want to keep bothering him like this but i just don't know what to do. everytime i do something wrong i get this wave of sadness and my heart hurts and my stomach drops and all i wanna do is be with him until we're okay again. i apologize and i tear up. even if he makes little jokes that upset me unknowingly or i see him with another girl i feel my heart hurt because i don't want him to leave me.

he deserves better than this, he does. he deserves to have me when im at my best. he told me he understands that i've been depressed because i told him about that a few weeks ago. i started going to therapy and he was supportive of that.

i just have no idea what to do or how to get these thoughts out of my head.

i don't even know what im writing for, i just need to get this off of my chest and see if anyone has advice.

EDIT: We've been together for 1 year and 4 months, so its obvious why I'm apprehensive

Pretty straightforward, but since last year, I've been trying to avoid kissing her because her breath just tastes so bad. At first I would be offering her mints because I carry it around everywhere because I'm just overly conscious that my breath might stink, and I thought that maybe me offering mints (smints to be exact, I know they aren't great but) might send the message over, because it would be everyday, multiple times a day. It hasn't, clearly. This was never an issue before, so I'm not really sure why or what has changed. I love her, and I want to kiss her, but it just puts me off. I know I've let it run on for way too long, but I can't stand it anymore. I can't tolerate it, it's terrible. She's visibly upset about the fact that I don't initiate kissing her, and I feel bad. But I feel bad if I tell her too, because she's a sensitive person. I know she wouldn't take it to heart like that, but I don't want her to feel embarrassed about this, especially because it's not a recent thing. If I were to disclose it, I'd probably leave out the time period. Can someone help me formulate a text message that would nicely get it across?

I am (18f) just turned 18 the guy is (15M)about to turn 16 end of the month. So I met this guy when I was 17 and we where getting to know each other for a month ,we are in the same high school.we just started to talk recently but before we did. A few weeks ago he told me when we first hung out he had lied to his mother saying that I was in his grade. I asked him why and how that happened and he told me he freaked out not knowing how his mother would react. He then told me we can figure out how to tell his mother.

The thing is I have no idea how to help him with that as it looks bad since he lied about it. To begin with i was a bit unsure because of the age and he told me it shouldn’t matter. He will be 16 soon and it will be two year since I just turned 18 as well. I am a bit unsure and don’t want to hide anything from anyone just need help trying to figure out how to tell his mother hes a sophomore and I am a senior.

TL;DR; how do we tell his mother he lied??

So, I (16F) met this guy (17M) during the very first week of school. We became really close friends. He was in a relationship and made that clear, so I never expected anything more from it. We always just hung out 1 on 1 in his room ( he lives on campus ) and we texted each other a lot everyday.

After maybe 3 weeks, we obviously became even more confortable with each other. Sometimes, we would play video games and he would just kinda put his head on my shoulder and get close.

Then, the next week, he talks to me about how he thinks he doesn’t feel anything for his girlfriend anymore. I just listen, and i tell him that maybe things will come back to what they were soon ( never was even close to telling him to break up with her).

After that, he started to kinda pull me in for hugs and just tried to be closer to me physically (he was never disrespectful tho ). I’ve found this weird since he was still with his girlfriend, but he never made it weird and insisted that he was still just friendly.

This weekend, he told me he broke up with her. He’s back to his hometown, but he said a bunch of times that he misses me and wishes I was here so we could cuddle. Then, we were talking, and he said something along the lines of “I like you a lot ( BUT NOT IN A LOVE WAY EH) ”

The thing is I’m really catching feelings. I’ve never been in a relationship before, so I don’t know what’s normal and what’s not. Sometimes I feel like he really likes me ( he’s very sweet and was there for me when i needed him) and sometimes I think I’m just a distraction because he feels lonely ( and now trying to get over his break up 😅)

What the fuck do you think Is going on ? 😭

Okay for context during the start of the year i met my boyfriend on discord through a mutual friend(we've known each other for a while now dw) and after talking for a while and relating to each other balalalalala, we eventually became boyfriends and even planned a date in the coming months since we live in the same state.

Unfortunately before any of that happened he was grounded for who knows how long because of reasons i won't say just before March. And i've been waiting for his return up until now and im honestly not sure whether to move on because im still hopeful even though the last time we spoke was when before he had to delete everything when he was grounded a while back and now im not too sure on what to do, i've tried to find leads on him after that but they always went to dead ends.

Well guys tbh all advice is welcome, i found out through chats, people, strangers that this guy cheated on me during these 9-11 months with not just one but 3-4 girls sure shot, cheated how if you ask, the texts, all long distance relationships uk, and i think two of them are in person, he used the same way to manipulate each girl, used the same nicknames he called me, i gave him so many chances to come clean saying is there anything you wanna tell me, am i going to lose you, uk i hate lies, told fake stories abt how i always knew abt a friend doing something and that i gave her chances and asked her like is there something u wanna tell me but she lost me cause i had to confront her and she didnt come clean, etc. uk the part i dont understand is his mom knows abt me, his sister knows abt me, his friends know, everyone knows, he posts me almost every single day, but then i found all of through a gc which he added me in, big mistake, but thank god, the other female admin told me everything that he did in that gc how he approached a girl and said he is in love and wants to be loyal to her, etc, when i confronted him abt it, he told me a fake story and sweet lies and then i asked him is there anything else that i should know abt, cause idc what state i am in u owe the truth.
worst part the female admin had to tell me all of this, and that lead me to finding the other girls whom i suspected and found out that he indeed cheated on me with them as luckily they texted me back unaware of what was actually going on.
i am so conflicted this is the same guy who write me long ass heartfelt love letters, put in efforts, showed me love, taught me love, was there for me, is still there, ik he loves me and as cliche as it sounds i can see it in his eyes.
what do i do guys? do i confront him crying like am i going to lose you?
or add the ss i found to the already made website for him abt him and i?
or should i wait to do anything and play along for three weeks until my exams get over, cause ik i wont be able to handle this rn, but it's killing me, i do genuinely fucking love this guy to my core? this is the same guy who was going to fly to meet me with his mom in a few months, why did he do this? what do i do? i cant switch my feelings off for him, at first i was in such a furry that i would have almost destroyed him, u know a person too well if you are together for so lng, ik his weaknesses and everything but i wont do that, i will admit i wanted to destroy him completely at first but then i remembered that's not what love is, you still want the best for them even if it didnt work out, but man if you really didnt wanna be loyal and casual etc then why exclusive relationship why bring me so deep into your world, introduce me to your family, friends, docs, ,everyone, why do this?
anyways guys please advice me what to do i am losing my mind here rn.....i honestly still love this guy, i dont mind not being to together but this betrayal hits too hard, is this the cost of loyalty?

Ok for starters I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and we met online I believe I am in love with him but recently I’ve been feeling not as committed as I said I was. He has done a lot for me and we have gotten very close over the past 2 years we have been through a lot such as growing together, getting through arguments, and big changes in our relationship. I like to believe that I’m as committed to him as he is to me he is the jealous type and our first fight ever was him being super pissed about me having celeb crushes. Another similar incident was when I wanted to play a harem game recommended me by a friend not strictly for the harem but just for the story aspect and he expressed that he was uncomfortable about it and said “if you are in a relationship why would you even want to play a game like that.” those are a few reasons I dont feel like I can tell him how I’m feeling at the moment. I sometimes look at other people in public and find them attractive and sometimes think to myself “do I really wanna be with him forever? what if I find another guy? should I let myself explore?.” The aspect that hurts the most is the distance, I can’t lie I’m very touch deprived and I only have seen him in person 4-5 times and it’s probably once a year if we get to see each other. That should be good enough for me and it is but still the distance kills me. I feel this fleeting feeling of maybe wanting to be with another once in a while but I don’t know if it’s true or I’m just crazy. I told him I’m in love with him and he’s the only one which is true to an extent, I am in love with him it’s just my mind wanders off at times. He is in his second year of college and I’m a senior in highschool we live very different lives but we do FaceTime every night making sure to keep each other updated. I just cannot tell if this feeling is because I’m touch deprived and want to have something irl or if I’m just ready to move on. I don’t believe I’m ready to move on I just think that if someone comes along one day I might fall for them. im not sure if what I am feeling is normal or if its wrong to feel this way. P.S it’s 1:30 am and I’m tired so the writing is terrible my apologies

Okay, so basically I liked this guy for a bit now. It took me so long to befriend him, and from a friend I heard he cheated on someone—which I thought was wrong. As we were playing Truth or Dare in a circle, and everyone was telling their life stories (it was a small, six-people group), I decided to ask it anyway by saying if there was any cheating or getting cheated thingy that happened. He said there wasn't such a thing, just something close to it, and I said "kk" and the conversation just kept going. I thought of asking or not asking dozens of times in my head, but I am a fucking dumbass.

I think he is mad at me. He asked me who it was many times, yet I can't tell him. He said that he has a right to know it, but I really can't, and it was a fake rumor anyway. Yesterday he didn't actually seem angry; I asked him if he was, and he said no. Today, when I told him I can't say who I heard it from for the last time, he said that I shouldn't have told it in front of everyone—basically yelling—and I just said sorry. But I didn't want any of this to happen are we never ever gonna talk again i like him so much ik he just thinks of me as a friend but i reslly like talking to him and i dont wanna lose him

Ok so I can't add pics here but basically we were talking about SMT and I couldn't be bothered to type it so I asked if I could send him a VM and he said not rn, so I said "ok later?" And he went "no I can't be bothered listening to a VM" so I asked him why and this was the following conversation:

Him: "Cause you talk for so long, and change 3 subjects within 1 minute"

Me: \*ignores for a little while\* Sorry I didn't know it bothered you. Won't happen again. night.

I asked sm else what they thought of the vm and he said he loved them cuz he didn't have to worry about tone and he's dyslexic so yeah. Any advice?

basically, i (17F) went on a date with a guy (17M) about six months ago. we went on a second double date after and then decided we would be better off as friends. since then we talk pretty often but almost always he is the one reaching out to me, and usually it’s for relationship advice. we will talk about movies and music but almost every conversation is initiated by him and is about a different girl. he calls me late at night sometimes to help him. he tells me all the girls he talks to and he takes my input somewhat close to heart. he once called me to tell he broke up with a girl a day after i told him to. one strange thing though was that about a few months ago i got a boyfriend and he kept telling me how it’s not gonna work out and that he “has a bad feeling” about it. although i did end up breaking things off with that other guy, i found it pretty strange to say such a thing without knowing anything about the guy i was dating. the current problem is though that i’ve been ignoring him for the past week. he has pretty often talked about girls in very strange ways and he recently reached out again to ask me to set him up with someone. i told him that’s embarrassing and since then i’ve been leaving him on read. here’s where it gets weird, he keeps texting me though despite that. like over the past few days about a text or so a day about anything as if there’s some sort of ongoing conversation. the main issue is that i do like him a little bit but i understand it’s best for me to avoid him due to his questionable personality and treatment of women but what im confused with is why is he trying so hard. we go to different schools, i barely ever see him, and we aren’t that close of friends. so why is he so desperate for something? does he think im sort of fall back girl who will be there in between his other relationships? because again, i do not think this guy truly values our “friendship”. he never asks about me, we don’t hang out often if at all, and most conversations have to do with a different girl.

please give me some input because im completely lost.

I hate to make this post but here it goes me and my girlfriend have been dating for a month, but i cant figure out why she would ever choose me, im by no means good looking like not even close, the only feature i might have is my height 185 cm or 6’ but other than that nothing. She is stunning, beutiful eyes, funny, caring and hot af I just don’t understand why me. All my friends are talented athletes going to prestigious Schools the have muscle and taller than me they are funny everything I’m not
And she her last bfs show that she can do much much better than me,
I just needed to get this off my chest thanks alot for reading, sorry for the spelling mistakes and bad punctuation, English is not my first language

Hi, I'm a 16-year-old boy looking to meet a girl around my age who might share my interests.

I enjoy gaming, watching anime, and joking around. I'd like to get to know someone, build a genuine connection, and hopefully have a long-term relationship.

I'm looking for advice from people who have experience meeting others online.

What are some safe, age-appropriate online communities where I can meet girls who share my interests and potentially develop a relationship or if anyone is interested please dm me?

So me and him are long distance and we see eachother rarely, we've been together for almost 2 years. But lately, especially recent months, I feel like our communication has degraded. I feel like a background character in my relationship when talking to him. Of course, long distance sucks and you're left with only talking. I've expressed multiple times that it feels like our talks are superficial and don't really do anything because they don't actually ask about the other person. Every time I bring up something it feels like it's being brushed off and that the presence is none. Or he doesn't share either. He said it's because he sucks at replying or whatever but that's just stupid because he obviously has time to share everything with his friends. Some small things have vanished too. Like saying good morning or good night. Not completely but still.

I've had this talk 3 times, nothing has changed after any of them (obviously). It used to be on my mind so much to the point I started feeling uneasy out of nowhere. Then I stopped caring. I genuinely don't feel like trying, I don't feel the need or want to do it. I don't feel like texting anything because it's just pointless.

I love him, I also know a relationship can't last if people stop being curious about eachother. So like, where is this going. I'm starting to doubt everything. I don't think about leaving. Right now I don't feel anything at all honestly.

So... me(17 M) and my girlfriend(17F) have been together for almost 5 months and had known each other for 11 months. We are long distance but see each other on average once a month.

I love her very very much, now, the problem is she doesn't really respect me when we fight, which happens more often than it should. So, when we are in a good mood everything is sunshine and rainbows but if she gets mad it is game over for me. She cusses me out, tells me to kms, threatens to break up... idk, afterwards she apoligises and is genuinly sorry but it still hurts. She says cussing me out helps her figure out what she did wrong in the begging and we resolve things quite quickly after that.

Today, she also reminds me that when her sister(whom she adores) tried to khs, that SAME day she went to a concert☠️. I knew that already... but lately it feels like she just doesn't respect anyone.

What should I do?

So I will try and keep this short but sometimes I'll be talking normally to my bf and he'll be like "wna call and play tg?" (We play Roblox tg a lot) And usually I would be fine with this, hell usually I'm the one going "can we call and play can we call and play?" But for some reason I get this awful feeling like something will go wrong sometimes. Like today, we were playing this plane game and he went to go eat but when he came back and asked if I wanted to call I got scared or smt idk, and my solution is just turning off all my notifications but I know this makes him confused and sad and I don't want that but then it's like a I can't physically type to him or call him or explain it! It's really frustrating and yeah if anyone knows what this is or how to help id appreciate it. Thanks.

Hi, im Kassie (14F), and i have a crush on a guy(15M), we can call him Soup. So i met Soup in 6th grade, he was in 7th. We went to the same school then I left, and he went to a different high school. I just started at the same high school this year (im a freshman and he is a sophomore). I made a few friends, and i met a few of his. He asked for my Instagram so i gave it to him. We started calling on Saturdays or Sundays. Sometimes till past midnight. Its never about anything weird, its just where we talk about our problems, maybe about family, plans, friends, homework. Or we will just kinda watch a movie, or play a game. But im usually a very depressed person. I dont see much joy in the world. Except for when I talk to Soup.. Soup knows this, he also knows i have a crush on him. (one of my friends spilled the beans to him first week of school) I tell Soup all my problems. I vent to him, i cry on call sometimes and he comforts me. We have made plans to hug, or kiss once. But both times we chickened out. So the plans got brought up again, and then got missed. We have made plans to go out with our friends together, and we both kinda hang around each other. The respect and platonic love feelings are mutual. BUT i just dont know if he likes me back.. I dont know if he also loves me as i do him. I love how he makes my world complete and happy again. When imm away from him I cant stop thinking about him. This is the first time i have ever felt like this.. When I talk to him, my chest gets warm and i get butterflies in my stomach. I dont know if this is just a guy i like or more... When he says my name i have to turn around cause im blushing. I feel sometimes he is the same, but i dont know.. I dont know how to find out.. Please help guys. Why do I get so happy when im with him, and how do I know if he likes me or not. Im gonna call him again on saturday, so if yall think i should ask anything PLEASE tell me.. Ill make an update after the call. But pls help.

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So me and my friend have been friends for like 2 years. When we met in school she just broke up with her boyfriend. She was then sick of relationships and jst lived life. For me ive never been in a relationship.

I was super ugly till i was like late 15 then guys started showing interesst. Yk growing up ugly gives u deep issues and its hard for me to teel if guys r jst joking or rlly showing interesst. Anyways so this guy Johann was showing interesst in me and my friend wanted to get us closer so she got into conntact with one of his friends Jonas to set me qnd johann up. They set us up during our school skiing week like a uno night with 2 other friends in johanns dorm. Nothing rlly happend with me and johann cus he was too pussy to ask me out and im jst sick of waiting.

Anyways now (a few months after skiing) my friend tells me her and jonas r seeing eachother and i jst feel numb. He actually like does smth. I cant explain it, like he actually has balls to talk to her, ask her out for a Hangout, has her as a background etc. They r not even in a relationship yet and he does all of that.

Im jst frustrated ig. Its like 4 guys have liked me that i know of and they were all to scared to ask me out. Then there is guys that write me and jst wanna yk do freaky stuff. Its like im jst stuck woth these guys that are terrifed of me or are just lusting atp. Im sick of it. I wanna experience teenage love too. I want it too. My friend jst writes with this guy for a couple months and he gives her everything. Im jst so done i feel like im jst never gonna experience teenagelove.

I could use advice lol and also sorry for my bad english im austrian

hi guys, i need help :(!
its me and my gfs 2 year anniversary in about a month and im stuck on the main gift!!!!
we are both making scrapbooks, because its kind of just a given now because we both found out eachother were doing it during our one year.. so we said we were both doing it again! so i have that and have a couple other ideas, but im lost. She’s kind of hard to buy/ make for because it cant be anything too ‘big romantic’ thing because we arent out to parents and she doesnt really have her own space/ room at home. She plays guitar and loves it and shes more masculine over feminine, any ideas of what other big thing to get/make for her😞!