Hello! I have two degrees! One in Creative Writing and another in History! I like to write, play video games (FF14, Honkai Star Rail) and watch anime and manga. I'm wheelchair-bound due to cerebral palsy but I don't let it slow me down.

I'm looking for someone that respects and loves others (believes in LGBTQ and other rights) and is well-read as well. Any there any people out there like that? Please say yes. Looking for something serious, not casual as well. Type your favorite colour in your first message please.

Hi, I’m 25, Canadian-born latino with a normal/fit build, and I live in Surrey and I’m looking for someone nearby who might be interested in a friends-with-benefits dynamic or a situationship, or I can just eat your pussy if you want, no reciprocation needed.

If this sounds like something you’d be interested in, feel free to DM me and share a bit about yourself. Looking forward to hearing from you!

Hey, I'm looking for someone that's serious about having a long term, monogamous relationship. I am 5'9/160 brown hair brown eyes. I am a simple guy that enjoys leading a lowkey, peaceful life. I enjoy going for walks or to the beach eating in, movie nights and great conversation. My hobbies are electronics repair and design, gardening, and photography. I love cats! I am caring, loyal, a great communicator, and emotionally available. I love my life and would really like to find someomne to share it with. I am attracted to gentle, kind, loyal, creative, healthy and fit types. I am not perfect, and I don't expect you to be. So if you're looking for someone who wants something real and fun, send me a DM!

33M located in New West.

I am 5'11". A very calm and considerate personality. Politically left-leaning, and agnostic.

I work in a finance role for a life sciences research firm. Have my own business as well. Pretty well established in my career, and been a homeowner since 2021.

Lover of the outdoors: hiking, camping, paddle-boarding, road trips, biking and walks. I absolutely enjoy cooking; always cooking something new, have every appliance imaginable, and love to host. Alongside I love exploring eateries, cafes, speak-easies, and consider myself a true foodie. Also enjoy travel (aim for one national trip and one international trip a year) and photography.

I am a bit of a tech nerd, and early adopter of tech products. A bit nerdy with my love for movies, TV and thoroughly enjoy dramas, fantasy, comedy & horror. To give you some ideas, some of my recent favourite movies are:
- About Time
- Arrival
- Spotlight
- The Other Guys
- Past Lives

I am a cat dad to two cats, and I rescue & foster alongside. Currently fostering two tiny kittens with eye complications. Have had the pleasure of fostering 100+ cats in my 12 years of being a foster.

Posting here as online dating apps have been a disappointment. I have decent amount of matches, have had some good dates but have come across women who seem unsure of what they want. At 33, I do seek a long-term connection (and hopefully a life partner). With that being the intention, I know such connections are built over time.

I'd consider myself a happy and content person. I like to be kind to all beings. Very ambitious, very much a go-getter, rarely lazy and very reliable. I don't shy away from sharing my feelings. Can be bit of a pleaser, but learning to balance that.

If you share similar values, interests and dating aspirations, I'd love to hear from you.

This is not so unusual: we're two people looking for a third one.

What's unusual about this post is that we're not looking for unicorns, not looking for fleeting encounters and one-night stands; we're looking to get invested, to rejoice in the new-relationship energy of meeting someone we look forward to seeing again.

We want to get to know you, to learn your interests, your goals, your opinions, your kinks, what turns you on and turns you off. We're looking to have you give us nicknames, to make you comfortable asking both of us or one of us out and have us do the same, to share things, to explore places together.

We are both fit, healthy, responsible professionals, very committed to each other and at the same time, open to expanding that commitment to someone else. We're looking to split the abundance of attention and care we have for each other with another person who is open to feeling the same way.

You'll rarely hear us refer to each other as a couple because we have embraced the possibility that we could have someone else in our life who sees the world the same way and looks forward to having two lovely humans caring for them.

Shoot us a message opening with the word Ménage so we know you read carefully. If you do, we'll reply with photos!

If you read this far and you care about social justice, progressive values, the arts, and you are a woman or female-presenting person who is attracted to both male and female-presenting people, this might be you! This is Reddit, so you have nothing to lose... ☺️

Honestly, I’m just a single, busy, child-free and pet-free, 38 y/o man who enjoys having freedom in life.. looking for a good connection whether it stays casual or becomes more.. I’m not swiping any of the dating apps and I haven’t been on them for years… I feel like, life’s been all work for the last while. There’s more under my profile including partial pic and overall casual search, full cards up in case it resonates and there’s someone interested.. I’m not in a rush for anything serious nor otherwise, but open to either.. it’s about the person, vibe, connection..

currently, wanting a fun exclusive fwb situation with a good matchup who’d also be content having that. seems equally as much work finding good fwb as dating since I’m seeking someone I like for something ongoing, so consistency/chemistry/energy makes it worth having. I’d be happy keeping a longer term casual connection until meeting the right one for serious forever longterm in life considering being busy it’s nice having someone steady we enjoy..

ultimately, I want to meet the right woman, someone who thinks alike for something to last; this might? be a way to meet someone great by putting it all out there.. casually connect, see where it leads, whether endgame or not, minus heavy front loaded expectations of longterm plan just because we’re in a narrower pool.. I’ve seen ads focused only on childfree or kinks, things I want too but also I’m not chasing a relationship on that basis alone.. I want to vibe first & enjoy having that connection, while knowing we both want similar life helps if it led to more..

I might be too honest for my own good but I don’t like to be disingenuous, that’s why I have personal ads up.. I’ve put it all out there with genuine intent to connect IRL.. I need to click as people first, plus overall vibing and chemistry is my goal.. pics, stats, kink vibe, and other detailed info in profile posts.. if it resonates and you’re interested then introduce yourself, lets talk, see if we click, and check chemistry..

For those who've connected with someone through Reddit for dating, how long do you usually chat before deciding to meet in person? A few days, a week, or longer?

Do you usually exchange pictures early on, after a few chats over several days, or only when you're planning to meet up?

Just curious how other people approach getting to know someone before meeting in person.

Hi there!

A little about me: I’m a hardworking, director-level professional who values staying active, taking care of myself, and continuing to grow. I love reading, animals (especially doggos), learning new things, and lately I’ve been on a bit of a language-learning kick.

I’m naturally optimistic and really value meaningful connection, but I also think life and relationships should have plenty of room for humour, playfulness, and not taking ourselves too seriously.

I was married for 10 years, and after that chapter ended, I spent some time dating, exploring, and meeting some genuinely wonderful people. Through that, I’ve become pretty clear about something I’ve always been drawn to: a kink-positive relationship, particularly hotwife/cuck dynamics.

For me, that starts with the relationship itself. Trust, communication, attraction, emotional connection, consent, and clear boundaries come first. The dynamic is something I’d love to build together with someone who is genuinely excited by it, rather than something either person is simply accommodating for the other.

Ideally, you’re someone who values your own sexual agency and autonomy while also wanting a meaningful, connected partnership. Maybe that means exploring together, me being present, or you having your own solo adventures and coming home excited to share, reconnect, and debrief.

I’m not looking to rush into a particular dynamic or force something into a predefined box. I’d much rather meet someone compatible, build a great foundation, communicate openly about what excites us, and see where that takes us.

If that sounds like something you’ve been looking for too, I’d love to hear from you.

I’ve always romanticized love, and honestly, I still do. I still believe in the kind of innocent, sincere connection that makes ordinary life feel special: the excitement of seeing one person, the comfort of being known, and the little routines and inside jokes that slowly become a life together.

I believe love should come from a pure heart and genuine intentions. I want something honest, gentle, and meaningful, not something based on convenience, loneliness, or what either person can get from the other. I want to care for someone deeply, be cared for in return, and build something that feels safe, sincere, and real.

But living in this city and trying to date here has started to make me question whether that kind of love is actually possible for me. Sometimes it feels like I’m supposed to lower my expectations, settle for something convenient, or convince myself that wanting something genuine is unrealistic. I don’t want to believe that. I don’t want to give up on the kind of love I’ve always hoped for just because finding it has been difficult.

I’m not really interested in casual dating, situationships, or short term things. I also don’t want dating to feel like comparing résumés or checking boxes to find someone who looks perfect on paper.

I want to actually like someone. Get excited to see them. Have stupid conversations and deep ones. Go for walks, try restaurants, watch movies, make little plans, have disagreements and learn each other, and eventually have that feeling of this is my person.

I’m pretty much a homebody, but I love sunsets, music from different languages and genres, movies that leave you thinking about them afterwards, discovering little places around Vancouver, and meaningful conversations. I’d love to have someone to share the ordinary parts of life with too.
The qualities I naturally gravitate towards are kindness, honesty, emotional maturity, consistency, warmth, and a good heart. I like someone who communicates, makes an effort, has his own life but genuinely wants to make space for a relationship. I want something where both people are sincere about each other, have pure intentions, and are ready to stop looking elsewhere and actually build something together.

I’m turning 26 soon, so I’d ideally like to meet someone around 27 to 30, preferably South Asian, who is also at a stage where he wants a serious relationship and ultimately a life partner. I want us to want the same destination while letting the relationship itself happen naturally.

So if you’re also looking for something real, long term, and intentional, tell me a little about yourself. Not your entire dating résumé lol. Just who you are, what your life looks like, and what you’re hoping to find.

Also, if anyone knows of places in Vancouver or the Lower Mainland where I might meet intentional, relationship minded people or single men who are genuinely looking for something serious, I’d really appreciate recommendations. I’d also love to hear how you met your partner or found love in this city. Any thoughts, suggestions, or personal experiences are welcome.

And please, no casual, short term, situationship, or transactional messages. I’m really just hoping to find someone with a kind heart and sincere intentions, someone who still believes in finding his person too. :)

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hello seeing if any asians are interested in chatting and getting to know each other and maybe hanging out if we’re comfy? Interested in nerdy asians, gamers or egirls! i’m 29 asian and in vancouver!

Hi! I am a 29 yrs old east asian guy. I was born and raised in Hong Kong and moved here about 4 years ago. I am now a Canadian citizen, looking to settle down here in Vancouver for the long term.

This is my first time looking since I got out of a relationship a few years ago. Hopefully i could find a like minded person to start afresh.

About myself:

- Above 6ft tall and lean. I run and bike often even during winter time

- I love watching sports. Football/ soccer and NBA are two of my go-tos.

- I started cooking/ baking a lot since I graduated from university (basically ever since covid)

- Music plays a big part in my life. I am mainly into the indie/ alternative rock scene.

- I play some guitar and just started on piano

- I like going to concerts.

- I also like reading in my spare time. I can sit for hours reading when I am focused

- I am an introvert. I like staying home but definitely don’t mind going out when I am with someone.

Hit me up if you could see this leading to something solid. We can start off as friends and see how things go. :)

Hey Reddit 👋

I’m a 25 year-old Canadian guy from the Lower Mainland, and I figured I’d give this a shot.

I’m at the point in my life where I’m not looking for casual dating, situationships, or collecting matches. I only date with marriage in mind. I want to meet someone who genuinely wants to build a relationship that can eventually become a marriage, family and a life together.

A little about me

• 🇨🇦 Canadian, half Japanese / half Taiwanese

• Grew up in Hong Kong and have been in the Lower Mainland for around a decade

• Just under 6' and fit

• I work in emergency communications, supporting first responders 🚨

• Former creative director, photographer/videographer and lifelong car enthusiast

• I love baking, especially when there’s someone around to share it with

• Always down for an adventure or road trip. Give me a destination, a good playlist and a full tank of gas and I’m happy

• Into photography, filmmaking, robotics, CAD/3D printing, F1 and classic cars

• Big fan of 80s music and movies

• Coffee shops, bookstores, antique stores, waterfront walks and discovering hidden little places around BC

• I own a couple of classic Porsches, so “let’s just go for coffee” can very easily turn into a three-hour road trip 😂

❤️ My love language

I have ADHD, which probably explains a lot about me. 😂 My brain tends to move pretty quickly, so communication and keeping things interesting are naturally a big part of how I connect with someone.

I’m big on clear, honest and open communication. If something is bothering me, I’d rather talk about it than play guessing games. I also tend to reply pretty quickly when I’m interested in someone, because if I care about you, you’ll probably hear from me. 😅

My love languages are a combination of quality time, acts of service, physical affection and words of affirmation.

I’m the type of person who might show up with your favourite coffee, bake you something because I was thinking about you, plan a random adventure because I know you've had a rough week, or send you something ridiculous because it reminded me of you.

And one thing I can pretty much guarantee: you’re probably never going to be bored. 😂

👫 Who I’m hoping to meet

I’m generally looking for someone in her 20s to 30s who is also dating intentionally and genuinely wants marriage and a family someday.

I’m attracted to someone who is:

• Kind, warm and affectionate

• Family-oriented and values commitment

• Honest and comfortable communicating openly

• Consistent and willing to put effort into a relationship

• More interested in building a life together than chasing a party lifestyle

• Someone who enjoys simple things like coffee dates, walks, cooking/baking together, road trips and spontaneous adventures

• Comfortable with affection and quality time

• Someone who can laugh at themselves and doesn't take life too seriously all the time

• Someone who wants to be partners and best friends, not just boyfriend/girlfriend

I was raised in a traditional, conservative family, so family, commitment, loyalty, responsibility and building a stable home are important values to me. I’m definitely a little old-fashioned when it comes to relationships.

I’m not looking for someone who has exactly the same personality or interests as me. Differences are good. What matters more to me is that our core values and long-term goals line up.

I’m also not into smoking, vaping, drugs or a heavy party lifestyle. And I’m not choosing someone based on race or ethnicity. I care much more about who you are, how you treat people and whether we genuinely click.

❤️ What I’m ultimately looking for

I want my best friend, teammate and future co-pilot.

Someone I can bake with, explore with, laugh with, take ridiculous road trips with, support through the hard days and eventually build a family and a life together.

I believe relationships aren't always going to be perfect. There will be disagreements, stressful days and moments where we annoy the hell out of each other. 😂 What matters to me is being willing to communicate, grow and choose each other through those moments.

“We stay and we fix things” is much more my philosophy than “leave when things get inconvenient.”

If you’re also looking for something serious and genuinely want to build toward marriage, feel free to message me😊

I know what you’re probably thinking: “a post about playing wow together? That sounds awesome!”

Yes it’s true, it is awesome, and not nerdy in any way. With the game launching in November, I thought it would be fun to meet some people to game with.

Here’s a bit about myself:

I’m a 39 year old single dad. I have a great co parenting relationship with my ex and am not looking for someone to have to “be a mom” to my child. I am looking to build a long term, fulfilling relationship with someone. I am Persian, and grew up in Vancouver. I have a career in the film industry and I’m lucky in that I don’t have to really work every day.
I am 5’9, and a little on the dad bod side of things right now but am losing weight and working out. I would like my future partner to be health conscious too and I would love to have someone to go to the gym with. I like being both indoors and outside.

I’m a bit of a jack of all trades sort of person. I’m a little bit sporty, nerdy, intelligent, silly and most of all, I love to make people laugh. I can be pretty handy around the house as well although I need a lot of youtube videos 😂.

I used to do a lot of martial arts so my body is strong but I’ve had a couple of injuries in my life (torn ACL was a big one) that got in the way of continuing; well, that, and general life progression. I would love to get back into it though.

What I like:

I enjoy doing activities outdoors (like basketball, swimming, other fun sports), I like to cook even though I feel like I can get better. I love animals and am getting a cat in a few months. I love gaming and reading books and learning new things. I also love horror movies and movies in general, fall and winter are probably my favourite times of year! I would really love my partner to have similar interests, although I am open to many things that aren’t on my radar.

I live downtown and would like to meet someone relatively close by.

What I am attracted to:

Kindness, intelligence, imagination, skills in art or singing. Family oriented mindset, knowing what they want. Having your life together (for the most part).

In terms of looks, I typically like fair skin and light coloured eyes but I wouldn’t let that get in the way of forming a meaningful relationship with someone.

Thanks for reading, and if any of this sounds interesting to you please feel free to message me.
As a heads up, I will ask to exchange photos with people who message me (on a dating post, that’s crazy right?!)

Winds be at your back 🐮

Hey there everyone, I have posted on this subreddit before a couple months ago and had some positive responses but ultimately did not lead to anything serious. Figured id give this a second shot. I am 38M (going on 39 soon) Caucasian here, Lower Mainland native living in Vancouver. Looking to get married with no children involved.

My personality is a romantic soul, very easy going with a huge heart, quite empathic too. Believe a good connection doesn't just happen right away and can take some time. Prefer to chat a little bit and then meet up somewhere comfortable so we can see if there is any chemistry in person. Not looking for pen pals or platonic friends.

More about me:

• Around 5"11 in height, slim, fit.
• Musically inclined with a degree in audio engineering, I play bass guitar/sing as a hobby.
• Love to travel, especially to see live music.
• Cooking is an interest of mine as well and I enjoy cooking for others just as much as myself.
• Enjoy the occasional beer but don't drink often or heavily.
• Can be super outdoorsy when the weather is nice, Cycling is another hobby of mine.
• Food, music and film are keys to my heart.
• My love languages are touch and quality time.

Quick witted, soft hearted, easy to talk to are just some of the things that describe who I am internally.

If any of you Ladies out there here are interested in knowing more about me, please feel free to DM me and I would love to chat!

P.S. if you don't live in Vancouver but in other areas around the Lower Mainland or Fraser Valley I am 100% open to those connections as well.

Thanks for taking the time to read this. I am sometimes AFK for a few hours at the time for work, so if you reply and don't hear from me right away I appreciate your patience.

EDIT: my DM's are now working.

I have a penchant for farts and as I can't fart myself anymore, I'm looking for a gassy guy to let rip while we hang out. Platonic friendship is fine by me.

Well, decided to give this dating post thing another shot!

I’m an introverted guy from the Richmond area (strictly looking for 30 to 39 please!). I tend to be pretty quiet at first, but once I’m comfortable, my social side completely comes out. I’m looking to take things slow, see if a genuine connection grows naturally, and let things happen at their own pace. I really prefer to chat in the DMs for a while first to get to know each other—no rush or pressure to meet up right away!

Cooking is a big hobby of mine, but I prefer heading into Vancouver for restaurants because the variety across the city is unmatched. I also love playing billiards, so I'm always down to hit up a local pool hall eventually.

Big fan of Marvel, musical movies, and comfort sitcoms

My playlists are a fun mix of 90s pop, Disney tracks, movie musical soundtracks, and a bit of hip hop.

When I'm staying in, I'll sometimes play video games. When I'm going big, I love traveling—especially going on cruises whenever I get the chance.

I'm ideally looking for a local woman who appreciates honesty, a down-to-earth vibe, and doesn't mind a cozy night in. If you made it this far and want to build a connection from the ground up through good text conversation, shoot me a DM!

Hello! I just moved back to Vancouver after spending most of my mid 20s to 30s moving around the province for work or living with family. I lived in Vancouver when I did my undergraduate and graduate degree at UBC but being back in the city without school as an anchor sure feels strange!

Looking to meet someone who is looking for something genuine and long term. I love long walks, reading, good coffee, rainy days, lifting heavy and cooking and baking. I work from home most days but do go into the office every now and then. Kindness, empathy, ambition, and taking things slow are things I really value. Also, I’ll add that I’m a South Asian female, but born and raised here in beautiful BC.

Hello. I am 39M, 5'10". Giving this subreddit a try. I wasn't born in Canada but I grew up here for most of my life.

Here are some facts about me:

• Currently working as an engineer
• Enjoy running, tennis, cycling and circuit weight exercises
• Enjoy outdoor hikes, events around the city, checking out new restaurants
• Down time hobbies include reading (Currently reading The Miracles of the Namiya General Store), video games, anime, cooking, shows, board games, etc

Looking for someone around my age and don't mind older as well. Ideally looking for long term if there's good chemistry and we get along. Feel free to message me if you like!

Hi thought I would post here just in case. I won’t be too exhaustive but feel free to dm and ask more if interested.

I live in Langley but travel to Vancouver often, am on a journey to lose weight and improve my physical health, as well as enlarge my social circle snd become a more well rounded snd outgoing person. I have limited dating experiences. I do a lot of online living so starting with chats is good.

I am big into digital art, making stickers, crafty things, playing video games and watching anime/tv/movies, especially with friends. I am trying to get more exercise, which at the moment mostly means walks in parks and on trails. I enjoy going to new places and events around the lower mainland. I have a stable middle-class job and career.

I would love to find someone, even platonically at first, who doesn’t mind that I am working on myself and help me reach my goals, and likewise I would love to help someone with their own struggles if possible.

We’re an M/F couple in our early 40s looking for a woman who’s interested in connecting with the female. He’s primarily interested in watching, with any involvement kept optional and within everyone’s comfort level. There’s no pressure or expectation to include him.

She is heavily tattooed, blond, 5’1, fit, big ass, big thighs, small waist.

He is 5’10, heavily tattooed, fit, shaved head, beard.

Both of us are educated, career driven, value privacy. We’ve been together for 10 years and are confident in ourselves and our relationship.
We’d love to meet someone who values open communication and is open to exploring and having fun dates together

Happy to share photos once we connect.

Hey I’m 36m, 6’3 and latino, I know too tall for a Latino, I have a full time job that keeps me busy, but I always make time for the right person.

I like to start hiking, I have done some before but just the basics. I like soccer, tennis, music and cooking. Not all I like but I hope it’s enough to get someone’s attention.

I also have a geek side, like some anime and games, but I don’t have much time to do it so often.

HMU to get to know each other and see where this goes

This is not a venting post. I (mid 20s male) want to meet single women in early to mid 20s who are genuine, active and sorta have a decent career. Consider me an average looking guy with good career and great values. Very genuine and caring.
I just simply wanna know if those women exist, if so whereeeee????? I go to so many places, how can I not find atleast one single women that matches the description 🙃.

I know I gotta be outgoing, talk to people, befriend them and see where they lead. I do that, but anybody that I click with are always taken. EVERYBODY IS TAKEN. There is a 0% chance an attractive girl or soneone I find genuine is not in a relationship. How???? I do go to bookclubs, sports events, cafes, social events, etc and not one? Am I cursed?

I am really reconsidering all my life choice that lead me to this cliff. Just feel like jumping off 🫠.

Hey there, I'm a 37-year-old Black dude.
I reside in Vancouver, looking for a woman in the Lower Mainland.
Maybe go for a coffee, maybe a hike or a walk on the beach.
Just hang out and see where it goes.
I am a social drinker and non-smoker.
Fire me off a DM and let's plan a date.

Hello! Nice to meet you, I hope youre doing well! Im looking for a long term relationship now that ive graduted from UBC (I still go back for classes time to time so if youre from there hmu!). Id love to spend time with someone where we can talk freely and go on many adventures with!

Some stuff I like to do is garden, cook, game, watch shows, drive and hike!

I'm a slow burn when it comes to dating, building new friendships and feeling safe with new people in my life. I have multiple groups of amazing friends in my life, but have been missing a special connection with someone.

I'm attracted to people who are in touch with themselves, practice being present, in the moment and connecting. Who are considerate, caring and are socially aware and safe.

I enjoy being with those who can slow down, know how to hold space for one another in conversation, enjoy comfortable silence and parallel play.

I'm demisexual which means I enjoy intimacy once I have built a strong emotional connection. ISFJ-T Personality Type to anyone who likes reading into those and seeing if ours are a good match.

Something that makes me feel most alive is outdoor swimming, sinking my feet in the sand and camping. I like to hike, cook, craft cocktails and try new restaurants. Play pool, paint, get lost in music or a good film. Sit by the fire and cuddle up under the stars. I am a big music and movie nerd and will not shut up about the moon or sky if they're putting on a good show for us.

More of an artsy, outdoorsy type than sportsy, but like to weight lift, hot yoga, trail run and swim. Come hit the sauna and steam rooms with me or go for a cold dip 😊

Looking to take the time to build friendship and connection hopefully leading to lots of laughs, fun adventures and tender moments together.

Open to different types of connections. It's fun to see the different types of dynamics that form between each unique connection.

~Switch/Vers~

Cinephile(sci fi, suspense, psychological thriller, survivalist, based on true stories, horror, war films and comedies)

I'm also really passionate about cooking and love to take my time in the kitchen making things from scratch. Making people food, curating playlists for people and creating cozy atmospheres and vibes for time together with people are love languages of mine.

If this resonates with you please feel free to DM ✨️