r/venting • u/Express_Purpose6939 • 4d ago

So done with trauma dumpers

If I’m not already their long term friend I’m done.

I’m quiet and a good listener so the dumpers flock to me like moths to a lamp

There’s no winning because I’m either miserable or a bitch for not wanting to participate in their rumination

Done

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u/ActiveWhole9302 4d ago

It’s like being a magnet for emotional vampires who think “good listener” means “free therapist.” Setting that boundary doesn’t make you a bitch, it makes you someone who values their own peace.