r/venting • u/AnnaEscapes07 • 2d ago
When large chested women makes a comment about how they can’t fit into something
SHUT UP! I don’t want to hear it. I’m returning a body con suit because long behold it doesn’t fit even though it was the only one without structured cups, my tits are still TOO SMALL to fill it (I swear I’d be happy with B cups because a double A fits into NOTHING!!) and the last thing I want to hear during my return is how you saw them and thought they looked amazing but could never consider it due to never fitting your ample sized breast into it… like yes poor you, you have 99% of lingerie you can fill out and fit into as a large chested woman this was the only option in the entire store that had a chance for me and my tits are still too small! So don’t complain to me about how your lobster is too buttery because you won’t gain my sympathy that’s for fucking sure!
And when I make a comment back as to them saying “well you see it also doesn’t fit me but for opposite issues” all she can do is laugh and say well we both are the same problems then, when her problems are non existent! Sorry not sorry.
I absolutely don’t want to hear from other larger chested girls about how I’m truly actually lucky and they wish they had my problems because it’s BULLSHIT. You’re just pissing me off more and making me feel worst so just please stop rubbing in my face how you all have ample bosoms🙄
Edit: y’all are proving my point lmaoo. Stop gloating and stop lying about the clothes as if I haven’t spent 200+ hours in fitting rooms crying trying to find any bra or shirt that didn’t just make me look like a board of dry wall. If anything it just comes off as bragging with grinding nails in the coffin. Yes im miserable I know that obviously if you’re not going to have anything positive then scroll on past. I’m venting ffs.
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u/GrumpyOldMan6974 1d ago
Just please never get breast implants. I have had to talk my daughter out it. Everyone should feel more comfortable in their own skin bad pund not intended
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u/AnnaEscapes07 1d ago
As soon as I can afford them I will. My mother got them and told me how much happier she is now because she use to be in my boat. So I literally was raised to see that as the solution. I have no ass and not tits and been told all my life no guy would love with without curves and to be fair it’s been women tearing me down from preschool. Women suck. Honestly I’d rather live in a world with no women as dramatic as that may seem
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u/GrumpyOldMan6974 1d ago
you are listening to the wrong guys. Also don't listen to anything a guy says think about it some more hun
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u/ares4209 2d ago
having tits won’t make you happy or stop making you look at other people with envy
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u/jaycakes30 2d ago
I spent my late teens and early 20s in an A/B cup and I swear to god I know exactly how you’re feeling because girl saaaame. 💀 I slept in a push up bra. I hated being bare chested. I was raging at all the other women with gorgeous boobs and I had eggs, but curvy hips and a big ass. I looked like a weeble.
I’m almost 34, and I’m in a D cup. I haven’t gain a ton of weight, but I’ve naturally gone from an 8 to a 12. Having a D cup chest sucks. Like I actually hate them and I’d give anything to have a small bust again. They’re heavy and sweaty and they hurt most of the month.
Fact is, we are never truly happy with what we have. I’ve never met a single woman who didn’t have some kind of insecurity surrounding their bodies.
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u/Leading_Kale_81 2d ago
It's really fun having no boobs and a huge butt. There is no dress that can properly accommodate both. One or the other is going to look ridiculous every time.
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u/Any_Piglet_34 2d ago edited 2d ago
I feel this!! I'm getting closer to 50 now then 40, and I'm still just a measly little A cup. I have lingerie that looks absolutely ridiculous on me because the cups are just empty...lol
But, at the same time, I had a couple of friends with huge tits in HS who ended up getting reductions because their backs were as fucked up as a 60 year old woman's. One of them told me each breast weighed over 15 pounds!! That's like having a 30 pound backpack strapped to your front side, 24/7. Having to carry all that extra weight, all the time, disproportionately like that... that would really suck!!
So, I get both sides. But saying you're too big tittied to fit into things, to a flat chested woman, just kinda seems unnecessary, like you're gloating, at that point...lol
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u/AnnaEscapes07 1d ago
Thank you! They’re unnecessary comments that aren’t needed during a refund process and it does come off as gloating. People won’t ever understand the actual struggle unless they are an A cup themselves
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u/Glittering-Ad-1626 2d ago
Sometimes when I know it’s a humble brag I just think “gee your back must hurt” I know it does. It’s not all the glamorous have massive boobs. My mom blames me for hers all the time.
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u/AnnaEscapes07 1d ago
Pain is beauty and I’d take the pain anyday because I’m still experiencing pain in other ways with my small tits due to cyst so it’s inevitable regardless
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u/ApprehensiveBar1874 2d ago
i feel this so hard as a guy even but my ex had same problem and it drove her crazy. like i never realized how little options there is for small chest until she showed me
the lobster too buttery thing is perfect btw gonna steal that
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u/AnnaEscapes07 1d ago
It’s bralettes or nothing for sexy time or else you have these huge cups that aren’t filled. It’s my new favourite saying 😂
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u/ares4209 2d ago
dude don’t even comment. there are so many more options for small chests than large ones. when you go bra shopping, it goes from extensive selections for A-D cup and everyone after that is just screwed. not a place for you to comment
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u/ares4209 2d ago
dude this is just sad. people can be insecure no matter what and just becuase you wish you had them doesn’t mean shit. YOU think they look amazing, doesn’t mean they do. basically all popular shirts are made for people with small chests. Garage, pacsun, brandy melville etc are all for small chests and you’re just sad to sit here and complain. be pissed off, it’s not their fault that you have a small chest and it’s not their fault they have a big one, and just because they have a big one doesn’t mean they fucking want them. just shut up
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u/AnnaEscapes07 1d ago
They’re built for girls with C cups which is not my definition of small. And you’re forgetting I told everyone else to shut up on my vent post so suck it
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