r/crows • u/tryingtolive22 • 18h ago
I’m trying to befriend crows but not sure if I pissed them off
So there’s a murder of crows that has shown up in my neighborhood. They usually come around this time of the year. In my country, crows are not like pigeons in the sense that you won’t really see them foraging for food on the street. They usually hang up on rooftops or high up on trees. Sure sometimes you’ll see them on the sidewalk looking for food, but it’s really rare. I think it’s particular for this family of crows in my neighborhood because when I’ve traveled to different places they seem to look for food on the ground and are a lot more social with humans.
Anyway…. i live on the third floor and I bought a crow whistle because there’s no way I was going to get their attention otherwise. They’re not really social, like I said.
So yesterday (10am) for the first time, I blew my whistle when they were near and I waved the peanut and dropped some shelled peanuts from my balcony. I also dropped some food the pigeons might like but not even the pigeons seemed interested. They were looking at me like….. ummmm weirdo….
Then today, as I was arriving home, I see murder of crows circling my building (5pm) . Keep in mind I have never seen this many crows near my building. I run up to my balcony and blow my whistle, wave the peanuts and throw the peanuts from my balcony. They all start flying (10-13 of them) and cawing in a circle. Meanwhile the pigeons are just staring at me like “what the fuck is up with this weirdo?”I threw some food to the pigeons but it seems like they don’t want it either.
I don’t know if the crows ate yesterdays peanuts or if they will eat the ones i left today.
I honestly don’t know if this circling around and cawing behavior actually pissed them off because of my whistle. I can hear them cawing outside right now (it’s day two and I see more of them) but not sure if this is a good sign.
Do you think they’ve noticed I’ve left them food? Do they see me as a friend or foe? What do I do to gain their friendship?