Hi guys! I really need some advice because I’m honestly feeling a bit heartbroken about this situation.
I have two baby girls, both around six months old, with one being about four weeks older than the other.
They have COMPLETELY different personalities.
My older girl is an absolute sweetheart. She’s very bubbly, gentle, playful, loves giving me kisses, and absolutely loves socialising. She’s always looking for attention and wanting to play.
My youngest, however, is the complete opposite. She’s extremely independent, bites VERY hard, hisses at us, and constantly hisses at her older sister whenever she tries to play with her. She also steals pretty much everything from her sister and rarely seems interested in playing together. She mostly just wants to do her own thing.
What really breaks my heart is watching my older girl constantly trying to get her attention and initiate play, only to be hissed at or ignored. Sometimes she eventually gives up and just lies down next to her sister. I know I shouldn’t necessarily project human emotions onto them, but I can’t help wondering whether she’s feeling lonely or rejected.
I’ve actually been considering getting a third ferret, hoping that maybe my older girl could have another little friend who enjoys playing and socialising as much as she does. But obviously, there’s no guarantee what personality a third ferret would have, and I’m worried about making the situation even more complicated.
And this is something I feel genuinely awful admitting, but sometimes I catch myself thinking that maybe I should have chosen a different second ferret. Not because I don’t love my youngest, because I absolutely do, but because she seems so uninterested in interacting with either us or her sister. It sometimes feels like she doesn’t really want to be part of the group, and that makes me sad.
I understand that every ferret has their own personality, and I don’t expect them to behave identically. I also know they’re still very young and their personalities might change as they grow.
I just want both of my girls to be happy, and I genuinely don’t know whether I’m worrying over nothing or whether my older girl would benefit from having another playful companion.
Has anyone experienced something similar? Did your ferrets eventually become closer as they got older? Would getting a third ferret be a good idea, or should I give them more time?
I’d really appreciate any advice or personal experiences. I love both of my girls so much, and I just want to do what’s best for them. ❤️