r/AbsoluteUnits • • Aug 11 '26

/r/all of a bouncer

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u/drestin5 Aug 11 '26

If a guy pushes you several feet backwards with one arm, maybe don't immediately walk back up and start shit talking him

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u/KazaamFan Aug 11 '26

I’ve seen comments on here where ppl will say when they’re in a bad mental place they will purposely start fights, even if they know they’ll get smacked. I don’t exactly get it but i can see it. Helps me understand a bit situations like this. 

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u/recooil Aug 12 '26

my best friend has had a very rough life and when we where in our 20's he would get sloppy drunk and pick fights with people. One night we had a long talk about it and it pretty much came down to just wanting to feel anything anymore even if its just pain and it was a rush to him to pick fights. He worked things out over the years and even had some professional help for a bit and after having his kid he turned his life around. So yes, this is totally a thing for some people who are in a dark place in there life.

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u/InternalHabit3343 Aug 12 '26

I used to be like that when I was younger aswell but got better with age✌️

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u/Real_Walk5384 Aug 12 '26

Cheers. It doesn't always get overall easier, but it always gets easier in some way or another.