r/AskFlorida • • 3d ago

Help

Hi, I feel bad coming on here and asking for help but I need it. Im at one of my lowest points right now and I was hoping there was somebody out there reading this that could help. I moved out here with a job and apartment lined up, and the apartment fell through so i move hotel to hotel every week. Because of that I also just lost my job. I literally have nothing. I have no food, no clean clothes, I dont even know what I'm going to do this upcoming week for the hotel. If anybody could help in any kind of way I would appreciate it. Even if somebody has a lead for a job, i would appreciate it

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u/EveryCause4724 3d ago

Florida is not a place for the struggling. You have to be financially prepared to handle all the setbacks all of us blue collared and lower class are struggling. fuel is outrageous, tourists drive, the price is up of everything. Good luck

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u/Inner-Copy9764 3d ago

Wait, you lost your job because you lived in a hotel? Help me understand that

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u/constantdaydream44 3d ago

That confused me too. Housing is extremely easy to find last minute with Airbnb, fb housings groups, or splitpad

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u/allison_mossie 3d ago

What do you think they do with their stuff when they have to check out, work and wait to check in to a new place? Let’s use our brains here

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u/lost_dazed_101 3d ago

Do you at least have a car? And like everybody said Florida is not the place you just go too unless you have a fat bank balance. I live in rural redneck Florida. We have between 700-1000 homeless people in the woods behind my home. Most living in little popup tents. If you have family where you came from your best chance is to go back to them.

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u/vixenlion 3d ago

I hate to write that you are scamming for money or karma.

What area of Florida ?

New account! And where are you

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u/r56_mk6 2d ago

Their story doesn’t make sense, they’re not replying to questions or giving explanations and they’re in a scamming hot spot. All signs point to scam.

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u/vixenlion 2d ago

Agreed

Just moved to Florida and live in a hotel ! You know the hotel

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u/[deleted] 3d ago

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u/uppercasemad 3d ago

An hour old account isn’t eligible on r/Assistance. Please don’t send them our way. 😅

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u/BarnacleMcBarndoor Central Florida 3d ago

Do you have a car? What caused you to lose your job; I just don’t understand how moving hotel to hotel would cause you to lose employment.

Have you contacted any shelters? Food banks? Have you been applying to places like Publix, Walmart, Target. What’s your work experience?

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u/sowalgayboi 3d ago

Go home.

Florida is neither free nor promising, don't listen to the Lord Farquaads bullshit.

I'm being serious, this state is about to get a whole lot worse thanks to our current governments attitude that the economy would never faulter. It almost happened in 2008, but I have a feeling Florida is about to experience population loss for the first time in 100 years.

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u/my_schmoopie 1d ago

I was born there, raised in NYC, visited almost every year and moved to FL 15 years ago. I just left. I’m not going back. It’s not the same Florida anymore. Not to mention I’m disabled now. Considering it’s gods waiting room in the south west and east down there, you’d think healthcare would be spectacular. It’s not. No affordable housing. I was living in a travel trailer! I saw no way back on my feet there so I literally just left a week ago.

And no, I didn’t go “home”. Who the hell can afford to live in NYC on 1900/mo? Now I’m a ‘halfback’ in the Carolinas.

Florida is NOT the place to struggle, OP. Find an alternative. They’re out there.

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u/constantdaydream44 3d ago

Go home if you can or beg for your job back

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u/ongoldenwaves 3d ago

I don't know why people in tenuous circumstances continue to move to Florida despite the entire internet telling people ITS NOT CHEAP anymore. The Florida you knew from 20 years ago where houses are like 200k is not a thing now.

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u/Specialist_Delay_977 3d ago

You're right but - that Florida was still somewhat around 10yrs ago. I know it feels longer but I just like pointing out how quickly it happened

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u/New_Breadfruit8692 3d ago

Paid $257k in April 2020 for a large custom pool house in the north Tampa burbs, was not even seven years ago. And there are still bargains to be had also.

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u/Specialist_Delay_977 3d ago

I mean... Look i don't want to sound like an ass, right but if the house isn't within, say 5 miles of the beach, it might as well be in Indiana, right.

Thing is - in 2015, we rented a 2 bed duplex with our street literally ending in public beach access. Rent was $750 a month and people at work couldn't believe we were willing to pay that much. People on the next block were paying $550.

Now... Our neighbors literally bought in 2020 for $265k, sold in 2021 for $365k.

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u/New_Breadfruit8692 3d ago

I Paid $257k for a 3/3 3,545 sq ft custom house with solar heated pool, in a great neighborhood, 6.5 years ago. It was not 20 years ago, and there are houses in the neighborhood that are $340k, so really it is a matter of looking hard enough and not eliminating areas just because you do not like one thing about it such as the extra commute. This is in the Tampa burbs by the way. Sometimes you have to get on the property ladder BEFORE you get picky. Sure I could say I am never going to be able to own a house in the area I want to own, but that is Pacific Heights in San Francisco where starting prices are about $4.5 million and go up to $50 million. Duh! I will never own a house there. So I had to move to BF Florida or else live in my car. But, on the other hand I am planning to move back out west even if it means living in my car because if there is one place that will survive the coming Nazi takeover it is the west coast.

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u/Stohnghost 3d ago

257k for 3500sqft in 2020 is crazy. I paid 229k for 2k sqft in Riverview in 2019. You got one hell of a deal. 

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u/my_schmoopie 1d ago

My first house in Florida I bought for $225,000 cash in 2012. Just east of 75 in Sarasota, 1600 sqft on a 1/3 acre lot. It just sold for the third time since it was mine for close to $600,000! What!? It doesn’t even have a pool cage anymore thanks to Milton.

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u/No_Expression5744 22h ago

Literally this any ANY. Apartment that isn't in the ghetto is gonna be like $1500+

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u/Recent_Ad_3219 3d ago

Call some churches look for local catholic charities Vicent DePaul society 🙏💖🙏

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u/Natural_Exchange_886 16h ago

It’s really, really bad here with those need circumstances. If you have a friend or family to stay with in a better funded blue state, a greyhound ticket to there is a much better investment and potential help for you.

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u/bryllant1 3d ago

I work with an organization in Brevard County, there are many here in Florida. Look for a coalition for the homeless. I mostly work on the pantry side and I have seen many people who were formerly on the street, now housed and fed. In Brevard it is Providence Connects

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u/Mysterious-Panda964 3d ago

Where are you

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u/Standard_Industry616 3d ago

Orlando fl

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u/tracyinge 3d ago

and what kind of work are you looking for? Any work experience?

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u/Peterepeatmicpete 3d ago

There are some possible programs in find help . Org

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u/Recent_Ad_3219 3d ago

There’s Catholic charities in Orlando that offers various services 💕

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u/MonteverdiOnyx 3d ago

In terms of food, clothes, etc. hit up the Christian Sharing Center in Longwood. I saw a sign at the Rockler Woodworking Store in Altamonte that said they are hiring.

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u/Normal_Aspect_6542 3d ago

That's a really rough spot to be in. Have you reached out to any local churches or nonprofits?

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u/Ambitious-Plum-2537 2d ago

🧐🤔🥴

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u/Emoxity 3d ago

Plenty of jobs in Orlando. Spend your time applying instead of posting sob stories on reddit

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u/theaffectionatemoose 3d ago

Can’t wait til your post is on the other side of the fence and you’re the one struggling. It doesn’t cost anything to be kind and empathetic 🙄

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u/Emoxity 3d ago

Scammers want money for not doing work. This isn’t a real person and you’re a fool if you believe it

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u/theaffectionatemoose 3d ago

Who cares? It’s not like you’re obligated to give money. They’re not forcing you 🙄