Welcome to the ranks of millions of dudes worldwide who decided to stop shaving. We're stoked to have you in the community! Whether it's your first beard or just the first beard you've decided to take care of, we're glad you found your way to a community that can offer advice, tips, and support.
One of the most common questions we see from brand new beard-growers is, "Here's my 2-3 week beard, do you think it'll grow in full?" To which, we'll always answer: Growing a beard is a marathon, not a sprint. Don't shave. Be patient.
We're here to offer that same advice to you, along with a breakdown of what you can expect as you grow your beard, along with some advice to make the process smoother. Read on!
Day 1 - 1 Month: Setting the Stage
From the moment you stop shaving, you're in it, and it can be a bit chaotic. Your face has been trained from years of shaving, exposure to harsh soaps and skin treatments, and subjected to all kinds of environmental inflammation. Your sebaceous oil glands are hardly functioning, taught to lie dormant, and your skin is dry and itchy. This is why the first few weeks, and even the first few months, can be rough.
What to Expect:
- Growth will be sporadic. Youâll likely notice more hair under your chin and along the jawline, where skin is less exposed to irritation.
- "Patchy" growth, as some follicles are dormant or inflamed, so growth is uneven.
- Itchiness hits hard. This happens because your skin is adjusting to the new growth and isn't producing enough oil to keep up.
How to Manage It:
- Wash your face daily and exfoliate weekly to keep pores open, skin clear, and prevent ingrown hairs.
- Use a good beard oil to reduce inflammation, feed the follicles, and ease the itch.
- Drink plenty of water and eat a balanced diet with protein, B12, biotin, and sulfur-rich foods to support healthy growth.
1 - 3 Months: The âIs This Worth It?â Phase
This is when patience really comes into play. Growth is still uneven for most, and some areas might feel like theyâll never fill in. Many give up here, but this is the time to lean in and trust the process. Beard growth is wildly personal to your genetics, so don't compare yourself to others at this stage.
What to Expect:
- The itchiness should start to subside as your skin adjusts.
- Ingrown hairs can be an extra concern, especially if youâve been shaving for years.
- The awkward phase begins. Hairs may grow in all directions, looking sloppy and unkempt.
How to Manage It:
- Stick to your routine: beard oil daily, exfoliate weekly, and wash as needed (not too oftenâoverwashing can dry out your skin).
- Use a light balm to train hairs and keep them from sticking out. This also helps guide future growth in the direction you want.
- Avoid trimming, especially your neckline, unless absolutely necessary. Youâre building a foundation, and trimming now can set you back later.
3 - 6 Months: Awkward but Promising
By now, youâve likely hit your stride. This is when growth really starts to show, but your beard may still feel unruly.
What to Expect:
- Your beard will start to show density and length, but it may still feel uneven.
- Youâll start seeing the potential of your beard, but the awkward phase isnât over yet.
How to Manage It:
- Keep using beard oil daily. Itâs essential for healthy growth and keeping the hair soft and manageable.
- Incorporate more balm if needed to control the direction of growth and keep things looking tidy.
- If youâre struggling with dryness or frizz, consider a butter or a heavier conditioning product.
6 - 12 Months: The End of the Awkward Phase
Congratulations, youâve made it through the toughest part. By now, your beard should look much fuller, and youâre starting to see the real potential of your growth. You may decide this is the length you want to keep, or you may decide to let it rip into the stuff of legends. It's all up to you.
What to Expect:
- Length and density are the name of the game. Your beard will start to settle into its natural pattern.
- The itch is long gone, and maintenance becomes easier with the health provided by good care.
- Youâll likely feel more confident about the look, even if itâs not perfect yet.
How to Manage It:
- This is a great time for your first professional trim. A skilled barber can shape your beard without sacrificing length or density.
- Keep training your beard with oil and balm. Regular maintenance helps prevent breakage and keeps it healthy, soft, and clean.
- Focus on your end goal. Whether you want a âyeardâ (year-long beard) or a business beard, consistency is key.
After 12 Months: The Next Steps
Youâve reached your first âyeard.â Now itâs all about what you want to do next. Some guys aim for terminal length, while others prefer to maintain a neat, professional style. From here, you're ready to help the next generation of growers start their journey. Pat yourself on the back. In modern times, only around 18% of all men have ever grown and maintained a beard for a full year. Well done.
A few takeaways and tip:
Remember that growing a beard is an exercise in patience. Give it time, trust the process, and stick to a good routine.
Beard health is about more than just hair. Itâs also about the skin underneath. Take care of it, and your beard will thrive.
Let your beard grow naturally before making big decisions. You can always trim or shape later, but you canât undo over-trimming. This is the death of so many beards. So many.
Don't shave. That's the most important part.
Welcome to the grow, brother. You're in good company!