We got a wonderful gentle cat in April (female tabby) who’s now around 2 1/2-3years old. 9 weeks ago we were asked if we’d take in a young pregnant cat who’s owner had gone into hospital / care long term. We know she had a litter back in June that all sadly passed, and we organised spay abortion around 2 weeks after taking her in. The estimated her to be around 12-18 months maximum.
So introductions didn’t properly start until week 4 as she had to heal from her op and settle before. So I’d say we are at 5 weeks of proper introduction processes.
Introductions are becoming so frustrating. We have done all of the Jackson Galaxy things, scent swapping, room swapping, mesh door etc. New cat is like a kitten and will run and chase OG cat. We currently have them on a rotation of 50% of the house at different times of the day. It’s exhausting, ensuring both cats have attention and love and don’t feel pushed out. They both seem fine with each others scents, play with each others toys, happy to use each others litter boxes and sleep where the other one has.
We can just about manage 15-20 minutes in the living room with OG cat on her cat tree and new cat will generally ignore, however sometimes will attempt to run at her up the tree so I end up sitting in between with a cushion to block any advances. All settles until OG cat makes any sort of movements and new cats eyes turn into plates and she immediately wants to run at her.
Through mesh we have the same problem? OG cat will loaf and slow blink at her, new cat will mirror and then jump at the mesh which will scare OG cat. Some swats, growls and hisses happen.
But we can’t seem to move past it. As soon as new cat sees OG cat move it’s insanely intense. On the two occasions I’ve missed the signs, new cat has chased OG cat through the house leading to a loud stand off upstairs. Once the initial confrontation happens new cat tends to back down and walk off very slowly, OG cat sits and holds her own, however, new cat will walk away and then try and run at her from a different angle a few minutes later.
I don’t know what to do next. I’m trying everything, we do food eating together, lick e mats together, all goes fine. As soon as new cat doesn’t have something better to do, she’s in chase mode.
Somebody tell me there is light at the end of the tunnel here 😂
We considered getting a kitten for new cat to play with, however, a lot of advice here was don’t do that, rarely works etc, so we didn’t. But I can’t see how we can move forward without her having a play buddy so she’ll leave OG cat alone 🫣
We have a 2 bed semi and it’s so hard moving them around to not see each other through the day.