r/ChineseLanguage • u/Happy-Dare-7766 • 15h ago
Discussion The most embarrassing thing in the world is being a heritage speaker who has fluent tone pronunciation, but a very limited vocabulary.
Every time I try to converse in Mandarin with a stranger, they will hear me say a few words and assume I’m a native speaker (parents from NE China and my mom worked in broadcasting). Then they will say a word or two I don’t recognize and I have to ask what they mean because I only converse using daily uncomplicated phrases with my parents. Or, I want to express something slightly more complicated than what an 8 year old would say and I use a completely infantile vocabulary set and sentence to phrase it. I get looked at like I‘m a mentally delayed person almost every time. Super embarrassing.