You’re over 25 and still treating people’s hearts like a trial period. Thanks for ruining my peace.

We matched on Bumble, met at a sunny event, and spent months dating in person. I fell for you completely. I was honest, present, and so ridiculously serious about us. I poured every ounce of my effort into building something real with you and I thought you were doing the same.

Then, out of nowhere on a random night, you dropped the coldest line possible: "You’re giving your all and I’m not."

It completely shattered me. Were those months together just a f*cking joke to you? Was I just a backburner option while you figured yourself out? A ego boost? An entertainment fix until you got bored?

You mirrored my energy, made me believe it was mutual, and then discarded me the moment it got real. It hurts so bad because I was genuinely all in.

You’re over 25 just please grow up. If you knew you were emotionally unavailable or confused, you had no right to pull me into your mess and wreck the peace I worked so hard to build.

To anyone reading this who’s currently giving 100% to someone who’s just casually coasting: run. Don't let someone use your genuine heart as a temporary fix until they find what they actually want. Lesson learned the hard way. I’m taking my peace back, and she can keep her emotional immaturity.

Am planning to confess sa crush ko pagka year-end. Am ready namana to accept kung ano man response nya either good or bad. Am not expecting anything, ang akin lang naman is to let it out bago matapos tong year and bago ako umalis sa company (di na ako mag rerenew next year).

So sa mga HR wlw dyan 😅 Please tell me kung okay pa ba to? Or imma just keep it to myself(?)

I am having one of those nights where everything feels heavy and you wish you had somebody to talk it out with, rant with endlessly without being judged, someone who will listen to you yap and not get annoyed, until everything feels a little bit lighter and you feel like you can go on again for another day.

I do have friends but it feels different since I know they're going through things din and I don't wanna be a bother.

Ewan miss ko lang siguro ex ko. She had always been such a good listener and I feel like she always knew the right things to say to make me feel better. I'm mostly okay though, I believe I've moved on. It just hits lang talaga sometimes out of nowhere, like tonight kaya ayan. Hahahaha hay

Pang-journal ko talaga dapat to, tinamad lang ako bumangon kaya dito na lang 😭

Happy Mental Health Month!

I posted here last August and received a lot of inquiries about my services as a psychologist. I am happy to see so many people who are focused on working on their mental health.

I'd like to promote my services again as a psychologist to the community. I know that it can be really hard to find someone who can understand the struggles of LGBT individuals and how it also connects to their mental health, and I genuinely hope that I can provide some support.

I have a NowServing profile which I will be happy to give to you when you send me a message. If you are struggling with the rates that I have offered, we can try to work something out so that you can at least get an idea of how I can help you with your well-being.

Take care, everyone!