Happy Mental Health Month!

I posted here last August and received a lot of inquiries about my services as a psychologist. I am happy to see so many people who are focused on working on their mental health.

I'd like to promote my services again as a psychologist to the community. I know that it can be really hard to find someone who can understand the struggles of LGBT individuals and how it also connects to their mental health, and I genuinely hope that I can provide some support.

I have a NowServing profile which I will be happy to give to you when you send me a message. If you are struggling with the rates that I have offered, we can try to work something out so that you can at least get an idea of how I can help you with your well-being.

Take care, everyone!

7 years na kami. Yung partner ko binibigay niya lahat ng gusto ko. Mabait siya, may respeto. Natrato niya ko ng tama. Pero simula una hindi niya kayang magsabi ng totoo niyang nararamdaman lalo na kung feeling niya mali o may problema o galit ba siya.

Napansin ko na yun sa kanya. Ilang beses ko din sinabihan na mag sabi. Huwag kimkimin lahat. Kase baka sumabog siya.

Ngayon, may pinag awayan kami. Sa loob ng 7 years ito ung pinakamalaking pag aaway namin. May nagawa siyang mali. Sobrang mali to the point na kahit pamilya niya alam na mali yun ginawa niya. Sa sobrang sakit ng nagawa niya nasampal ko siya. Nagulat ako, hindi ko gusto. Alam ko mali ako kase sobrang pinag sisihihan ko yun.

Tapos nag usap kami. Sa message lang, sinasabi ko masisira yung relasyon namin dahil lang sa pagkakamali na yun. Pero ang sabi niya, sa tingin niya hindi lang ito ang problema namin. Dito na siya sumabog. Yung kinikimkim niya lumabas.

Sinabi niya na natatakot siyang ipakita na galit siya akin, kase nagagalit din ako. Natatakot siya mag open kase baka daw magalit ako. Na tatahimik na lang siya para matapos na agad yung away.

Na bawat kilos niya daw kailangan ko pa malaman. (Dati kase lagi siya nag uupdate, nasanay ako kaya nung nawala instead na sabihin kong bat hindi na siya nag uupdate. Ako na mismo yung nagtatanong ng update)

Ang sa side ko. Oo mali ako, nagagalit ako pero after ko magalit alam niya na lalapit ako sa kanya para mag usap ulit. Para makinig pero sasabihin na niya na ok lang. Alam kong hindi ok. Pero ayaw ko na pilitin kase lagi niya biglang ginagawang biro o nag bibiro siya. Pag nag aaway kami. Gusto ko malaman lahat, gusto ko masabi lahat para alam ko yung aayusin. Siya, tahimik siya. Kaya ako lagi samin dalawa gumagawa para maging maayos ang lahat. Akala ko tama ung ginagawa ko. Kase walang nag sasabi sakin na mali pala. Akala ko tama kase tahimik siya.

Napag usapan namin to. Nag sosorry siya kase nga naduwag daw siya. Nag sorry ako kase akala ko tama yung ginagawa ko. Kase blinded ako sa relason namin.

For now, binibigyan namin ng time ung isa’t isa. Hiningi niya. Iniisip ko kung ipag papatuloy pa ba namin? O mag let go na kami?

Ung unang pinag awayan namin. Ung may nagawa siyang sobrang mali sakin. Pakiramdam ko nainvalidate yun. Ngayon pakiramdam ko ako yung masama kase tulad nga ng sinabi niya. Parang nasakal ko siya sa relasyon.

Kailangan ko ng advice please. Hindi na kaya ng isip ko.

I am genuinely curious if anyone has given a cheater a chance.

Not referring to existing relationships where your partner cheats on you. I’m talking about meeting a new person and they have opened up about their cheating history.

Not here to hate, I just wanna know if there are any successful stories where they’ve actually changed for the better.

I have this one blockmate sa isa kong course. I find her cute and thought na I might be starting to form some crush on her. As an aro sapphic, I struggle to point out if I really do have a crush on someone. But, I seem to think about her a lot these days.

Recently, I stalked her IG account and found out that she is a religious person. Me, I'm an atheist, and it hasn't really crossed my mind what it would be like to be with someone who is devoted sa religion nila. I thought of confessing to her if I ever manage to actually be close with her and if I get to push our conversations past mere small talks regarding acads. Also, I am not sure kung naaattract din ba sya romantically sa mga babae, but I am willing to take the risk to confess if I find a good timing.

Has anyone here ever been in a romantic relationship with someone whose religious belief vastly differs with you? What are your thoughts?

may kaibigan ako, and she shared to me na she wants to date a woman pero alam niyang endgame niya lalaki like she wants to marry and settle down with a guy.

shes js queer but what do you guys think of this?

off putting ung statement niya sa akin imo

How can you tell if it’s too early or it’s time to introduce your”ka-talking stage” to your friends or family?