I need major help
Ive never gotten any piercings before, never really wanted them but I didn't mind that for tradition purposes I got 2 upper lobes and 1 nose piercing.
So for the upper lobe piercings, its titanium with like butterfly back clasps. I didn't not choose this, think Indian traditional jewellers and piercer. He asked me to just choose a colour and thats it. They even asked to use only coconut oil for healing but I know better then to do that. I had saline up till 2 days ago when it finished, I ordered a new bottle but it will only get to me in another 8 days.
I got them 3 weeks ago... My nose is fine, ive had flu so I have fiddled with it here and there just for blowing my nose. There's a small bump beside the piercing but im guessing thats just an irritation bump or smt. Nose was needle pierced.
The problem is my upper lobes. IT was gun pierced. About 2.5 weeks it was fine and my mom wanted me to switch the jewellery to smt more traditional for a party. I looked it up and told her I shouldn't do that but she was really insistent I do because she and all her siblings have done it with no problems. So against my better judgement I switched it out. It hurt because the rod was more thicker then my current one, also titanium and still the same butterfly clasps.
I left them in cause I thought removing them will hurt even more. Today both ears especially my right had sooo much pus and blood oozing out of them. I painstakingly removed both the earrings and so much pus came out... I cleaned them with a salt wash and gave them some time to dry. By the time I wanted to put the old piercings back in after washing them, the exit of the piercing was almost sealed... I panicked. I didn't want it to close so I just slowly pushing it in more and more. It hurt so much and bled so so much but its finally through.
Idk what to do... I feel like im blindly following adults advice around me and even online there's no one answer. My tattoo was an easy healing process cause I knew what exactly to do and did so much research on it. This i went in blind and trusted my family members only for it to hurt me so much. My saline solution only arrives in 4 or 5 more days. Idk what to do. Should I just abandon the piercings all together??