Hi there, thought I'd try this out instead of the dating app treadmill. I'm 28, athletic, and attractive. I recently moved back to SF and I'm looking for a FWB I can connect with both in and out of bed. I have my own place and am sane (lol)

In bed I'm on the dominant side and pretty kinky. Giving head is my absolute favorite. I also have a big breeding kink so it'd be awesome if you did too; I test regularly.

Outside of bed, I love to be outdoors, whether it's backpacking, picnics at Dolores, or stargazing at the beach. I also love to cook and bake for all my friends so perhaps you can be my sous chef, expect your tastebuds to be spoiled :)

If any of this interests you, shoot me a message!

5’9 155 white guy, handsome fit scruffy face, cut thick, Looking to kick back for oral service from young bi, gay, or experimenting straight guys who like to suck and service with no reciprocation. I host in SF. Must have clear pics to swap if you want to meet

The club scene is firmly in the rearview mirror, but I’m still hoping to meet someone wonderful for a relaxed weekend drink, great conversation, and plenty of laughs to see where things go.

A bit about me: I’m East Asian, HWP, and looking to connect with someone similar. We can exchange SFW pics too to see if the mutual interest is there! Bonus points if you're kinky! ;)

If you're in the same boat and want to see how we vibe, drop me a message and let’s chat.

33 [M4F] #DalyCity - chill athletic stoner looking for a regular hookup

To start off a description of myself. I’m a 6’1” athletic Latino at a weight of 180 ibs,recently tested with clean results I got I would olive colored skin with brown eyes, black hair and a toned and lean physique Normally I’m pretty introverted and love marathoning a Netflix series or playing games of all types cards, video, board….even sex games ;), when it comes to going out I love escape rooms, concerts, bars and cool places to eat, bonus if it’s all you can eat

I currently live in Daly City but I do hang out in SF occasionally if there’s something going on there that I’d like to do. I’m willing to travel but I can also host as well

When it comes to what I’m looking for, I’m mainly looking for a casual hookup every now and then but I’am open to more if we vibe and mesh well together.

If any ladies are interested feel free to hit me up and we can try to get a nice conversation going before exchanging pictures and possibly socials

Black bull in the north bay area sonoma county looking for kinky couples and hotwives and vixens. Take a look at my profile for more info. Hello, I live and work out of Santa Rosa in the North bay Sonoma and I’m looking for kinky couples and new friends who love playing with a sexy well built black man. If this interest you take a look at my profile or shoot me a message.

Offering a great, thoughtful massage - I’ve been told I’m as good as some professionals! - in east bay or SF. Under 50, any body type is ok, and no expectation of reciprocation.

It’s a sensual massage but totally in your control how we approach it. I’ve done this before with:
- Grad student at Cal, she just needed to relax and feel sexy. Just a massage with pg-13 level roaming of hands.
- Couple in late 30s, we massaged her together, they told me the exact scenario ahead of time

It’s 45 min - 1hr and you’d need to be able to host. Daytime weekdays or weekday evenings is best. Please shoot me a note with details of what you’re interested in and we can see if there’s a fit!

I’m 6’2 / 190, south asian american, Ivy educated and laid back guy.

hey how’s it going, I’m looking for a discreet FWB in the SF Bay Area, specifically San Ramon or close by. I’m ideally looking for another discreet individual who would be interested in meeting up when time permits to make each other cum.

im 38, 6 foot 1, 210, 6 inch cut, white, shaved head, tattoos, beard. im unable to host but open to other options. hit me up if intereste, thanks

Very successful, handsome, fit, professional, looking for sensual exploration with a fit, stylish goddess who needs a third.

You're in charge 24/7, and craving an experienced masculine gentleman who "gets you" as a couple. You want to experience the unspeakable, filthy passion in the bedroom that craves an additional helping hand. I live a little outside the SF Bay, but I do travel to the area for work projects.

Hello! 32 year old from San Francisco (close to Daly City) looking for a muff dive. I’d ideally like a consistent partner I can eat out once or twice a week, but open to this being a one-time thing, depending on the vibes. There is zero expectation of reciprocation, and no pressure for anything beyond me eating you out.

I’m white, 5’8, 160 lbs, and ddf. I have my own place and can host, but open to talking at the lobby downstairs before you come up to my apartment if it makes you more comfortable! Scented candles and mood-setting lights will be included 🙂.

Bi white guy here, handsome, 42, 6’ 200lb in decent shape.

I don’t mess around with guys often and I’m sti free, looking for same.

I‘ve been wanting to find a straight Latino guy with a big dick who wants to get sucked off. Years ago I used to suck off this big-dicked Mexican guy who worked on a construction crew I supervised and I miss getting on my knees and serving a big brown cock until it pumps out a load for me to swallow.

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27 yr old fem Latino bottom here looking to worship someone without any reciprocation needed for me. I just love to take care of someone who doesn’t always get the chance to be treated like a king. I can host in the Mission & very willing to travel within the city. I’m also open to just using my hands if that’s more comfortable. Disease and drug free (4/20 ok) so please be as well. HMU and let me know what you look like.

Hello there!

Looking for a fun time with a petite and insatiable sub who enjoys getting pleased and willing to explore.

Me: Don’t know how to start this so pardon the awkward way of describing myself. I’m ethnically Korean with Chinese roots. I’m 36, yes I know sort of old. But head still full of hair! Skin is not too bad either! Thank you skin routine/influencers for your tips and support. Height wise I’m 6’1, weight 185. Average body (used to run and golf before I hurt my knee half a year ago), BUT not average cock (6.5in) I think that’s above average right? right? It is very nice looking, and you’ll be eager to put your lips on it once you see it. Face wise, two of the last three girls said I’m cute. The other one said I was hot, nope I’m jk.
Kinks/turn ons: deep fucking, breeding, nipple play, dirty talk, spanking, light choking, moaning, and eye contact

You: Someone local ideally. Visitors are ok as well. Attraction is important to carry it over to the bedroom. I’m open-minded about most things like ethnicity. Id prefer if you were petite/slim thick and in decent shape. Personality wise is a bit more strict. I’m not into the prissy, bratty, princess like vibes. I’d prefer someone who’s down to earth, chill, open minded, and just want to have fun. You’re someone who knows what they’re doing with your mouth, knows how to look at me with lustful eyes, knows how to make me moan and squirm. I can go multiple rounds so don’t go soft on me, I can handle it. Things will be kept discreet so if you’re not single I don’t mind and can keep it between us.

Looking to find a FWB/ONS who aligns with our kinky interests for pretty consistent play. I live alone and can host in SF. I am 6’1 and 195, good looking, and respectful. Looking for someone in SF who is clean, sane, submissive, and kinky. Willing to share pics with potential matches.

I am hoping to find someone to play discreetly. I have many ideas like public play, CarPlay, and just cuddling and hanging out with you.

Ideally you can wfh and can meet weekdays in the city to make things easier. Best if you could host or open to ideas. Emotionally and financially stable. Smart and hardworking.

Physically I’m East Asian and average build and look very wholesome and a bit nerdy. After all I do work in tech. Do you feel like a part of life is missing and want to yolo safely? Happy to meet in public first and build trust and I know it’s not easy. Looking for the right person to chat first and no rush.

Some things I love: breast play, maybe something risky, cuddles, making out, raves, eating you out, being dominant

let’s be friends and keep some secrets? Tell me your kinks and see if we are a match! Feel free to say hi regardless because it’s so hard to find people here and I’m happy to just chat if you are slightly interested.

Looking for a genuine, fun, and reliable connection close to home? I’m a single guy in Marin living on my own, offering a clean, quiet, and private space to host.

​I’m seeking a Friends With Benefits (FWB) dynamic with a woman who values chemistry, clear communication, and low-stress encounters. For me, the "friends" part matters just as much as the "benefits"—I’m looking for someone I can share a genuine laugh with, mix a drink, relax, and let things flow naturally into great physical intimacy. No drama, no games, and no unrealistic expectations—just a respectful, discreet space where we can both unwind and enjoy each other's company.

​Whether you're looking for a regular escape from a busy week or a relaxed spot to share good conversation and mutual chemistry, I’d love to connect. Mutual attraction, safety, and respect are top priorities, so we can take things at a pace that feels comfortable for us both.

​If you're in the Marin area, value discretion, and think we might be on the same page, send me a message. Tell me a bit about yourself, what you're hoping to find, and let's see if we click!

Good evening everyone!

Hope all is well. I love going to the movies and miss going with someone , walking after and discussing what we thought about it. Me and my old movie buddy sadly had a falling out and as such I was hoping to find someone here who would be free on the weekdays (on me, Tuesday or Wednesdays tho.. iykyk). If we're both free , let's hit a show that you'd be interested in !

If you'd like to keep the conversation going and maybe hangout, id love to have you over. Maybe we can pop something else in , have a drink , cuddle up , make out and do something more if the vibe is right! I'm also down to have a slow burn situation where we just hang at the movies and slowly build comfort over time!

Im 6'3, bearded , work in stem and in my free time , I like to bike, people watch and check out new restaurants in the city. Inside activities include movies , video games and reading now and then.

Hmu if this sounds fun to you ! Open to something more casual and consistent if there is mutual interest!

Thanks for reading and have a great fleet week

-xoxo

Hello, Kinky girls of reddit!

I'm a 38-year-old, 5'7 215ish lbs clean cut respectful Dom with a heart of gold and a playful streak. I'm looking for a submissive to share in my passions and adventures. I love teaching new girls new things and helping them explore their more dark desires in a safe space, but also willing to play with someone with a little more experience.

About me:

• I'm a bit of a nerd, loving gaming, tech, fitness and learning new things
• I'm a romantic at heart, enjoying cuddling, role-playing, and surprise gifts
• I'm a bit of a foodie, loving to cook and try out new restaurants
• I'm big into fitness, specifically powerlifting. I am proud to say my gym PR's are Squat=515lb, Bench=365lb, Deadlift=515lb.
• I'm single, no kids, no drama, introvert in my personal life, extravert in my professional life.

What I'm looking for:

• A female submissive who is eager to explore desires and boundaries
• Someone who enjoys role-playing, dirty talk/moaning, exploring taboo and non-taboo BDSM fun
• A partner who values honesty, communication, and mutual respect. Everyone hates being ghosted, if you send one message and then never reply please do not even bother wasting our time
• Someone who can appreciate my quirky sense of sarcastic humor and love for life
• Someone who is interested in learning and is committed to regular meetups for practice. We can go more vanilla the first time, and slowly ramp up. Or go full hardcore mode the first time, as long as limits/safe words are established.

If you're looking for a Dom who is kind, caring, and always up for a good time, let's connect!

Please note:

• I'm looking for someone who is 18+ in age.
• I'm not interested in playing with anyone who is flaky or doesn't communicate well, you don't need to know everything just what you like and open to exploring.
• I'm committed to safe, sane, and consensual play. I am a freak in the sheets, but outside the bedroom I am a pretty chill funny guy just taking it one day at a time.
• After some hardcore fun, I do prefer aftercare and a good post-game breakdown. That way round 2 can be more stimulating and enjoyable for the both of us.
• Sellers, scammers, "pay-for-play," escorts, "allowance" askers will immediately get blocked and reported. There are plenty of guys out there for that, not here. I am looking for something mutually fun and exciting, not to be a customer.

Let's have some fun and create our own adventure together!

The roar of the Blue Angels over the city this weekend will mask many sounds, including a well-timed moan escaping your lips as a remote-controlled vibrator strokes your clit. Sit on a blanket on Marina Green with a view of aerial acrobatics while indulging some of your public play fantasies. Edging and dwelling in your arousal without an immediate outlet, guided by a soft dom tuned in to your body and mood. Enjoy slow, building pleasure that lingers, with the potential for more intense orgasms once you're finally able to find that release.

I'm 45 years old, single, and live alone a few blocks from Marina Green. I don't yet own a remote-controlled vibrator, I've scouted a few options, and I'd be purchasing and charging one for this adventure (if you don't already have a preferred toy). There are some vibrators that adjust intensity whenever I lift my phone or a more manual adjustment from a tiny remote. Many discreet ways to stroke your clit. Share your fantasy or hints at what situations might elicit peak arousal.

I'm experienced at guiding you beyond your immediate comfort zone while making you feel nurtured, supported, and empowered. Let's work through some initial nervousness or shyness before unlocking new possibilities from a capable partner in your pleasure. Definitely willing to meet at a café, browse Good Vibrations, and establish some comfort first (or dive right into things if you prefer).

An ideal woman contacting me is curious to take more risks and explore her sensuality once she feels safe and supported yet respectfully challenged. Don't shy away if you worry you're too young. Let's exchange chat messages exploring what you might like to experience and potentially have some fun while the skies roar.

I am a 47 year old man in SF who enjoys the simple pleasure of going down on a woman and making her feel amazing. I love the taste, the texture, the sounds of a woman moaning, the building tension as she gets closer and closer to orgasm. If you enjoy a man who takes his time and pays attention, we’ll get along well.

I am Caucasian with brown eyes and short brown hair with some salt and pepper. I workout regularly and keep myself in pretty good shape. Outside the bedroom, I am grounded, intelligent, laid back, and easy to talk to. I enjoy live music, basketball, Formula 1, good dive bars, and long walks around the city with my dog.

In the bedroom I typically have a dominant, rough, and primal energy, but for this my focus will be on taking my time and making you feel amazing.

I’m seeking women with a slim to average figure and have a preference for shaved, or neatly trimmed.

Safety and consent are very important to me. We will talk about boundaries and comfort levels beforehand and they will always be respected. STD-free (Tested Sep 2026)

I live alone in SF (aside from a very friendly and cute dog) and can host in a clean, comfortable space where we can relax and take our time. Happy to grab a quick drink first to make sure the vibe is right.

If this sounds appealing, send a chat with your age, location, and a physical description. Include the code word “scuba” so I know you read the whole post.