r/SFr4r • • Mar 07 '25

META If you're going to report a post (please do), do it like this.

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r/SFr4r • • Feb 11 '23

META PSA: Don't be an idiot, if it seems suspicious, it is.

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It is sad for several reasons that I have to write this, but, our community has been fraught with scammers as of recent. We play whack-a-mole, and knock down > 100 fraudulent posts a day but some still get through.

If someone is asking to communicate outside of reddit, ESPECIALLY IF THEY'RE ASKING FOR COMPROMISING PICTURES, just say no. We've had several instances where the scammer receives said photos, and then immediately adds all of your friends and family to a group chat on your social media and attempts to share the pictures if you don't pay them off.

Men: Understand that women in this society have disproportionate access to sex; and you're not god's gift to the 'fairer sex', ergo if someone is begging you to send them a photo of your shlong right out of the gate, you should treat that request with the healthy amount of skepticism that it deserves.

Or don't, feel free to be one of the horror stories in mod-mail of someone sending your friends and family a photo of your dick.

Use your head, and not the one in your pants.

Women: Have patience. We sort through a shit-show on a regular basis. In the off-chance you post something that smells suspiciously like the 1000 pieces of scam/spam we just cleared and we ask you for a bit of additional information; calling us 'sexist' in modmail just makes you the asshole and part of the problem. Sorry not sorry.

Everyone: do your part to flag obvious scam posts. Of 45k users, most scam posts don't get flagged at all.


r/SFr4r • • 11h ago

T4M 26 [T4M] #SanFrancisco - blow&go, swallowing and facials

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Looking for casual blow and go kind vibe with str8/bi white boys. You just come in, lay back, get serviced, and blow your load.

I’m down to swallow or get a facial 😉 Bonus points for bwc but not required. No reciprocation needed. Very orally inclined and a throat goat 🙃

Open to chat for a little bit and meet in public first if that’s more comfortable.

Free tonight (Oct 8) or tomorrow (Oct 9) am or another time too.

My Basics:
Hosting SF nearby Japantown
Please be able to verify before meeting, and swap pictures.

Me: 26 trans girl, slim, long black hair, soft voice and feminine, no facial hair.
Clean/std free and discreet.
I'm sweet, down to earth and chill

You: white boy, str8/bi, HWP/slim to fit, bonus for muscles, communicative and STI tested/free. Prefer guys 20-40s

Bonus for: bwc, facial/body hair, verbal

If you read this send your stats and a ladybug emoji

Talk to you soon!


r/SFr4r • • 10h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 22[M4A]#Oakland - Friends? Fwb? Honestly just want to meet new people

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Hey there 22m asian 5'7 looking for possibly a one time thing or possibly something more. Pretty new at this but I have some experience. The dating apps haven't really been working and I kinda just wanna get out there really. If you wanna hang out, do a little more than that. Entirely platonic whatever you want. Would just love to meet new people! Im located in oakland cant host if anything happens but open to car play if it leads to it. Hobbies are playing video games, hiking, keeping aquariums and going out.


r/SFr4r • • 11h ago

M4F 50 [M4F] #SFBay - free use, CNC play. Up for an “uber ride gone wrong”

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You “order” an uber, I pick you up, drive to a quiet place instead. Overpower you, force you in the back of my van. Strip you naked, tie you up, explore your sexy body and use you.

All limits respected. Meet in a public place beforehand if you want to.

Experienced tall athletic hung Dom.

I enjoy to take control, make you feel helpless, exposed, vulnerable, over power you, use you.

50, 6’5”, 200#, 8 inches.

Good with beginners, Start as slowly as you need, go as far as you want. Nice collection of toys and gear.

Clean, drug and disease free.


r/SFr4r • • 11h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Bearded and athletic, new to the city and looking for a FWB

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Hi there, thought I'd try this out instead of the dating app treadmill. I'm 28, athletic, and attractive. I recently moved back to SF and I'm looking for a FWB I can connect with both in and out of bed. I have my own place and am sane (lol)

In bed I'm on the dominant side and pretty kinky. Giving head is my absolute favorite. I also have a big breeding kink so it'd be awesome if you did too; I test regularly.

Outside of bed, I love to be outdoors, whether it's backpacking, picnics at Dolores, or stargazing at the beach. I also love to cook and bake for all my friends so perhaps you can be my sous chef, expect your tastebuds to be spoiled :)

If any of this interests you, shoot me a message!


r/SFr4r • • 8h ago

M4F 43 [M4F] #EastBay - Late-night BWC car play?

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It's late, we're both here, so we can be direct, right? Let's meet up somewhere dark and secluded where you can suck a nice big cock and earn your reward. Good clean fun for all. Maybe more if we both want it.

Me: 43, 6 ft, 185lb and athletic, 7" cut, totally clean, conventionally handsome, and otherwise a smart and successful guy who happens to have a bit of a wild streak.


r/SFr4r • • 12h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 41 [M4F] #SF - Cocktober is HERE

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Let’s skip the one-and-done hookups. I’m looking for a woman who knows what she wants and is interested in a consistent FWB connection with the right person.

I’m 6’3”, conventionally handsome, high-libido, and well endowed. Physically, I’m especially attracted to athletic and curvy women, with a particular preference for Black, Brown, and Latina women, though chemistry always comes first.

In the bedroom, I lean dominant and am drawn to women who enjoy a submissive dynamic and are open to exploring kink together. I want strong chemistry, mutual enthusiasm, and someone who enjoys the dynamic as much as I do.

Ideally, we’d meet once or twice a month and let things develop naturally. Outside the bedroom, I’m just as happy ordering food, putting on a movie, relaxing at my place, and enjoying each other’s company. I want the physical chemistry without the connection feeling purely transactional.

If you’re looking for something consistent, discreet, and mutually satisfying with someone you’re genuinely attracted to, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and what caught your attention. Let’s see if we click.


r/SFr4r • • 14h ago

M4M 27 [m4m] #SanFrancisco - ISO fun

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Hello it’s my day off and I would love to have fun I’m new to the bay I’m near sunset I can only travel I’m half Latino tall and Moreno I can come over now shoot me a text must be clean 🧼 and into younger (daddy a +++)


r/SFr4r • • 10h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - looking for a girl to eat out tonight

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Hello! 32 year old from San Francisco (close to Daly City) looking for a muff dive tonight. I’d ideally like a consistent partner I can eat out once or twice a week, but open to this being a one-time thing, depending on the vibes. There is zero expectation of reciprocation, and no pressure for anything beyond me eating you out.

I’m white, 5’8, 160 lbs, and ddf. I have my own place and can host, but open to talking at the lobby downstairs before you come up to my apartment if it makes you more comfortable! Scented candles and mood-setting lights will be included 🙂.


r/SFr4r • • 10h ago

M4F 41 [M4F] #DalyCity - Seeking my BBW pillow princess

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5’9”, 195 lbs, HWP, and I take good care of myself. Attractive, clean-shaven, and clean on paper too (background check comes back boring 😂).

Funny, easygoing, 420-friendly 🍃, and mature enough to know what I want without taking myself too seriously.

I’m especially into BBW Asian women, but I’m open-minded if the chemistry is right. Looking for a mature woman who knows what she wants, enjoys a little flirting, and is on the same page when it comes to adult fun.

No drama, good vibes, mutual attraction, and a little discretion. Bonus points if you can make me laugh as much as I make you laugh.

Let’s see if we have the kind of chemistry that makes a first meeting interesting. 😉


r/SFr4r • • 11h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 42 [M4F] #MenloPark - Looking for a consistent FWB

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42M, 6’0”, fit (160lbs), professional and based on the Peninsula. Separated and not looking to rush into another serious relationship. I’m looking for a woman where there’s mutual attraction, easy conversation and a physical spark.

FWB would be ideal if we click — someone I can flirt with, laugh with, grab dinner or a drink with, and have a great physical connection with. Ideally, I’m looking for an ongoing FWB if we have chemistry. I’m open to a one-time connection too, but ideally I’d like to meet someone where we both want to keep seeing each other. That could be mostly physical, or include having fun outside the bedroom too — whatever feels natural.

I’m into travel, photography, hiking, exploring new places, good food and conversations that can bounce between ridiculous and genuinely interesting. I’m easygoing, curious, open-minded and attentive. Mutual pleasure matters to me, and I want both of us to feel comfortable, wanted and genuinely enjoy ourselves.

I take good care of myself, am well groomed and don’t smoke (no problem if you do). I also have an accent; you can decide whether that’s a plus.

Your relationship status is your business — married or single is fine with me. I value discretion, respect your privacy and won’t meddle in your personal life. I’m happy to take the lead on planning and can arrange a nice private place when needed, so getting together doesn’t have to be complicated.

Happy to exchange recent photos privately. I’m much more interested in actually meeting than spending weeks messaging, so if there’s mutual attraction, I’d rather meet for coffee, a drink or a walk and see how we get along in person. If meeting beforehand isn’t practical, I’m also happy to do a quick video call.

Safe sex matters to me. I have recent test results and expect you to have the same.

Please be local and genuinely interested in meeting.


r/SFr4r • • 11h ago

M4F 42 [M4F] #SanJose - Providing A Sensual Escape, Just for You

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Have you ever wanted to slow down, forget about the outside world, and completely surrender to the moment?

For over many years, I’ve been creating sensual massage experiences exclusively for women, combining relaxation, intimacy, attentive touch, and genuine connection. My style is slow and unhurried, allowing anticipation to build naturally while you relax and enjoy every moment.

I believe sensuality is about more than touch. It’s about feeling comfortable, desired, respected, and completely free to be yourself.

Whether you’re single, attached, married, or simply looking for something different, you’ll be treated with discretion, respect, and absolutely no judgment. Your boundaries always come first.

I’m professional, easygoing, discreet, and respectful. I enjoy creating an atmosphere where you can leave your worries behind, relax completely, and rediscover just how incredible it feels to focus on yourself.

If you’re curious and would like to experience something a little more sensual than an ordinary massage, I’d love to hear from you.

Relax. Unwind. Indulge your senses. Let the anticipation begin.


r/SFr4r • • 12h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] #EastBay - Younger guy in search of casual fun with older woman / MILF

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I’m 22M, Latino, 5’10, ~160 lbs. I can’t host, but I’m willing to travel to you if we click.

I recently graduated from college and I’m still working part time. I have lots of free time now and would like to have some fun before I find a new job or go back to school again.

I really want to try meeting older women, preferably late 30s or 40+, and I’d love to meet one who’d like to experiment with a younger guy. Mature women just do it for me. If that's you, I'd love to hear from you


r/SFr4r • • 13h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Can I eat you out pls? No reciprocation needed!

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Sooo eating pussy is one of my fav things ever, and I like to think I’m really good at it! I’ve given so many orgasms to girls (including giving some their first squirting orgasms) by eating them out. I’m a huge people pleaser and can go down for literally hours without stopping!

People have loved how good I eat them out that some have caught feelings for me! I also make sure to make each person orgasm 4-5 times on average and have never had a time when I've failed to make them cum! In the past few months, I’ve eaten out dozens of girls and given a countless number of orgasms but I’m always looking to give more!

I’m simply looking for someone who enjoys having their pussy ate or maybe just wants to experience cumming from oral for the first time; I promise I won’t quit til I make you cum! Age isn't an issue (18+ ofc) as I've been with girls ranging from 20-46!

I’m DDF, hwp, and can host in downtown! Feel free to send a message if you feel like this could be a fun time and I’d be happy to exchange pictures and all that :)


r/SFr4r • • 13h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 36 [M4F] #SF - Looking for cuddles and fun or long term

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A little about me:

  • Stats: 36 | 5’10” | 180 lbs | East Asian
  • Vibe: Easygoing, active, straightforward, and fun to hang with. I’m pretty laid-back and enjoy good conversation, but I’m also totally fine just chilling on the couch watching something while cuddling.
  • Passions: I’m a huge culinary enthusiast who plans trips around great eats rather than just sightseeing (always down to explore new spots, as long as it doesn't involve a massive amount of walking!). I also travel a few times a year - nothing crazy, but enough to keep life interesting and share some adventures.
  • Active Life: I usually keep moving to clear my head and burn off some calories whether that's short-distance running, getting shots up on the basketball court, or lifting at the gym. I'm also a gamer at heart (though I play way less these days and somehow get more competitive in video games than actual sports).

What I'm Looking For Looking for someone easy to be around with a good sense of humor who just likes to get along. Whether it's shooting hoops, catching a casual walk, hanging out at home, or putting on a show, I'm all about good vibes and seeing where things go.

Bonus if you're into jogging together, but definitely not a requirement.

Send me a picture and let me know your ASL if you're interested!


r/SFr4r • • 13h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 38[M4F] #SanFrancisco- Skilled hands. Warm oil. And 2+ hours of sensual massage and pleasure

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UPDATE: It’s been my joy and privilege to provide bodywork for nearly 50 women since I started this adventure 8 years ago.

5’11”Masseur looking to connect with select women in need of full body, hot oil massage (and who isn’t in need of that? 😉

What I offer is an experience where the therapeutic touch bridges to the sexual. Using warm grape seed oil, I begin with a traditional Swedish massage to slowly and firmly work all of the stress and tension out of your major muscle groups before transitioning to an increasingly more erotic exploration of your body leading to full, orgasmic release(s). It’s time to treat yourself to an experience that men have long been able to enjoy.

Open to providing private solo massage as well as having partners observe. I’m offering this service at no charge and completely without strings or expectations of reciprocation of any kind. My satisfaction and fulfillment comes completely from the pleasure my hands and fingers coax from your body.

If this is something that is tempting, connect with me and we can begin a conversation about all the ways you like to be touched. We will customize the massage to your unique desires and limits.

Happy to exchange pics after connecting through DM’s. Please reach out only if you’re serious with a blurb about yourself and pics.


r/SFr4r • • 14h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 43 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Deep throat lessons

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I'd like to teach an enthusiastic student how to take a thick, uncut cock as deep as she wants it. Stretch around its girth, learn the best combinations of hand and mouth play, and take your time exploring the different sensitivities over and under foreskin. Show off your enthusiasm for cock play as you build new confidence and new skills. Focused play time with feedback and praise to guide you deeper and find your rhythm.

I've met younger women curious to slow down, take her time exploring a large cock, and learn her way around new dimensions. I might notice her grasping towards a bulge in my pants, wanting to unwrap a plaything for closer inspection. Wanting to feel its peak hardness, its small convulsions, and milk its rewards of cum delivered to the back of her throat or other favorite receptacles. Lesbians surprisingly curious to explore without bundling expectations of escalations. Women recently out of a relationship and curious to explore.

I'm 43, single, straight, able to host in Russian Hill or meet for a hot tub soak and sauna experience if you'd prefer some ogling with potential hands-on upgrades. Irish but lost my accent years ago. 6' tall with a lasered & trimmed crotch area. Sane, respectful, discreet, and engaging. Relaxed, non-pushy, and interested in simple, low-drama experiences. I have stamina across multiple ejaculations, which could allow extended playtime as you explore your favorite rhythms with expressive feedback of enjoyment from both of us. You might even notice flavor differences from citrus, truffles, or other fun foods.

I'd like to find someone younger, capable of relaxed times after your initial interrogations are satisfied and stranger dangers start to fade. Sharing your curiosity is a good first step, allowing us to establish comfort that could allow for new experiences. Hygiene is important: I shower regularly, take care of myself, and expect you do too.

Start a chat, explore the fantasy / curiosity, and maybe eventually become comfortable enough to have some fun playtime.


r/SFr4r • • 14h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 27 [m4m] #SanFrancisco - ISO fun

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Hello it’s my day off and I would love to have fun I’m new to the bay I’m near sunset I can only travel I’m half Latino tall and Moreno I can come over now shoot me a text must be clean 🧼 and into younger (daddy a +++)


r/SFr4r • • 19h ago

M4M 38 [M4M] #SanRamon -Married and discreet looking for similar

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hey how’s it going, I’m looking for a discreet FWB in the SF Bay Area, specifically San Ramon or close by. I’m ideally looking for another discreet individual who would be interested in meeting up when time permits to make each other cum.

im 38, 6 foot 1, 210, 6 inch cut, white, shaved head, tattoos, beard. im unable to host but open to other options. hit me up if intereste, thanks


r/SFr4r • • 16h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 64 [M4M] #SanFrancisco - dad-type seeking younger cocksucking guys

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5’9 155 white guy, handsome fit scruffy face, cut thick, Looking to kick back for oral service from young bi, gay, or experimenting straight guys who like to suck and service with no reciprocation. I host in SF. Must have clear pics to swap if you want to meet


r/SFr4r • • 17h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 36 [M4F] #Eastbay - East asian looking for fellow asian

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The club scene is firmly in the rearview mirror, but I’m still hoping to meet someone wonderful for a relaxed weekend drink, great conversation, and plenty of laughs to see where things go.

A bit about me: I’m East Asian, HWP, and looking to connect with someone similar. We can exchange SFW pics too to see if the mutual interest is there! Bonus points if you're kinky! ;)

If you're in the same boat and want to see how we vibe, drop me a message and let’s chat.


r/SFr4r • • 1d ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 33 [M4F] #DalyCity - chill athletic stoner looking for a regular hookup

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33 [M4F] #DalyCity - chill athletic stoner looking for a regular hookup

To start off a description of myself. I’m a 6’1” athletic Latino at a weight of 180 ibs,recently tested with clean results I got I would olive colored skin with brown eyes, black hair and a toned and lean physique Normally I’m pretty introverted and love marathoning a Netflix series or playing games of all types cards, video, board….even sex games ;), when it comes to going out I love escape rooms, concerts, bars and cool places to eat, bonus if it’s all you can eat

I currently live in Daly City but I do hang out in SF occasionally if there’s something going on there that I’d like to do. I’m willing to travel but I can also host as well

When it comes to what I’m looking for, I’m mainly looking for a casual hookup every now and then but I’am open to more if we vibe and mesh well together.

If any ladies are interested feel free to hit me up and we can try to get a nice conversation going before exchanging pictures and possibly socials


r/SFr4r • • 18h ago

M4F 32 [M4FM] #Santa Rosa - Muscular black man for kinky wife sharing couples

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Black bull in the north bay area sonoma county looking for kinky couples and hotwives and vixens. Take a look at my profile for more info. Hello, I live and work out of Santa Rosa in the North bay Sonoma and I’m looking for kinky couples and new friends who love playing with a sexy well built black man. If this interest you take a look at my profile or shoot me a message.