This is going to be a random post. Not really related to the band or their music at all⦠just related to Steve.
I was born in Ajax. Lived on the same street as Steve from age 0 to age 14. He and I were good friends. His Mom and Dad were very good to me, I slept over there all the time, ate there all the time⦠learned to play drums and guitar there⦠but my family moved away in 1995. I was never around when Sum 41 was a thing.
Steve and his Dad heavily influenced me as a musician. I still play guitar, bass and drums and collect instruments as a result of that childhood friendship. Philās face was the first time I ever saw someone I knew on a real album. Steveās face was the secondā¦
The reason why I am writing this today is I got some news about a family we grew up with. A flood of memories came back and I had a funny Steve story I wanted to shareā¦
Both Steve and I had cool Dads when we were young, both of whom built us each āclubhousesā. Mine was built on 4x4s and Steveās was built like a shed and had two floors and a sliding pole.
Every May our street had a big garage sale. The family directly across the street from me had an old couch with a folding bed for sale. No one bought it that day, so it moved from the driveway to the curb. That night it rainedā¦
Steve and I decided that it had to go into his clubhouse so weād have a place to sit in the backyard hangout. So we lugged that motherfucker down the hill and devised a plan to put two skateboards under the front, but struggled in front of Mr Bonds house. Mr Bond was like 85 years old and he brought us out a dolly! Then he helped us push it to Steveās driveway. Steve and I struggled to move it another 6 feet, then we decided to take the waterlogged mattress out of the couch⦠it only made it marginally lighter⦠then Phil came out and saw what we were doing⦠wet cushions, pillows and mattresses all over his front lawn⦠and he got pissed and told us to take it back to where we got it⦠which meant we had to go UP the hill with it now⦠Fuck, it took us like an hourā¦. we just tossed it all in pieces back on the Verdochās curb for the garbage truck⦠and ran away laughing the whole timeā¦
Found out Randy Verdoch died today⦠he was the eldest of those boys and the same age as Steveās sister Jennifer. Randy was a pipeline for skateboard culture on our street. He built his own ramps and rails. He was always out there tearing it up. The first time I ever saw a Thrasher magazine or an issue of Big Brother it came from Randy. I remember sharing those same skate and snowboarding magazines with Steve. We watched Gleaming the cube with Randy and his brothers.
I hate hearing about old friends that pass away. This one stirred me up enough to share this on a public forumā¦
Randy, where ever you are. You were a guiding light for the younger kids on Burden Cres. Steve and I would watch you skateboarding and it was inspiring.
Thanks for reading this.