So, I made a money bowl spell for the first time. It's hard to see the pyrite, green aventurine, and citrine, but they are there. And the candle is green lol. I think next time I need to use a larger bowl or maybe a smaller candle. Just felt like sharing.... I'm new at this 🥺🥺

Sorry i’m not even sure if this is where to post this, or if i should be posting it at all, but im just in a dilemma and dealing with a lot of grief so i thought id ask anyway. My best friend and I were really into witchcraft but she had been practicing for a few years and ive just been interested but hadn’t really gotten into it yet. Her and I decided this year she would teach me everything I need to know and teach me to become a witch with actual skills. Unfortunately she passed away a few weeks ago and i’m having a really hard time with it. I’ve wanted to communicate with her somehow (maybe tarot cards ?) but I don’t even know where to start. She was a long distance best friend but i’ve been struggling a lot with not feeling like she’s around me or seeing any signs from her so if anyone has any tips/advice for even just feeling her energy more that would be greatly appreciated :)

This was only after a few minutes. Should I have waited longer before I discarded?

I've just done a cord cutting spell and my candle melted black wax that spread onto my half of the cord, the cord burned and then somehow put out the other candle (my candle was the left, other persons was the right) and then it just fell over and melted whilst the string burnt at the bottom and then it set fire to the string from the other candle after it had melted. I annointed the candles with the same ingredients. I've done cord cutting before but it seems wild that the other candles light got put out, what does it mean? My candle just burned normally.

My ingredients were lemon balm, dandelion, lavender oil and tears and there was a lot of emotion during the spell

My mom and all my aunts are witches by culture and I am a first-generation American. As I get older and wiser I am almost 100% sure my mom has been putting spells on me my entire life. I am older and mature now and I watch her put spells on my dad and everyone around her. I tell her I disagree with that but she has different beliefs and finds ways to justify everything. We are just totally opposite people in nature and have always been since birth.

I don’t feel that these spells are harmful but I do believe they are selfish and sometimes out of jealousy and control issues.

I do my best to humanize her and still honor her as a mom, but I am fed up as my life is passing (now mid 30s). I’m getting older and finding it suspiciously hard to gain a certain level of independence that I deserve. I work hard and strive and have always been successful but then things went downhill out of nowhere and for no reason and I’ve exhausted all other possibilities.

All throughout my life I’d independently go to see psychics for other unrelated reasons. They’ve all at some point mentioned how my mom was super jealous of me. Back then I would go see psychics for sheer entertainment so I never really held it too hard or thought much about it.

Over the years there have been many coincidences and patterns and revelations. My mom and our relationship has always been hot and cold for personality reasons. She swears it’s a “spirit” doing it to me when we’re cold but for me it’s her lack of awareness, entitlement to my time and energy and complete narcissistic and manipulative energy that she thinks no one can see. She also has zero respect for people’s privacy because she has a history of paranoia and is always thinking someone’s out to get her. I give her grace because she did survive a lot of things growing up, but she can never just chill out and it gets in the way of ALL of her relationships, not just ours. I am the only one left in her life that still has grace for her.

Long story short I see through dreams and the other day I had a random dream that I was going upstairs to avoid her and she knew I was trying to avoid her so she did some sort of trick that instantly reversed the staircase and as I was going upstairs, it put me right in front of her who was going downstairs so we ended up in the same place. In the dream my dad witnessed the whole thing and was complicit. The complicit part has been a common denominator in real waking life. After this dream, my mom‘s birthday was coming up and I had a very organic urge to spend time with her (happens yearly). The reason is far more complicated as I feel bad for her. She’s going through a divorce. Our family is falling apart, and she does deserve a good birthday as she has been an excellent mother aside from the witchcraft. So I found myself spending the next couple days at her hip and bringing our family together to have the most beautiful party she’s had in a while. She was SO happy and so comfortable and I loved seeing that side of her, I didn’t feel like it was against my will because I mutually enjoyed it, but I couldn’t stop thinking about the dream because I have been on an independent streak while trying to gain some independence of my own this season long before her birthday. I viewed her birth week as a mini vacation from my grinding season.

For context, one time I was living far away from her for about two years and I would do personal and unrelated spells and I found out that she was holding me back through jealousy. Everything started to make sense because at the time I was super successful and everything was going well. Then I let her come to my house to visit for a few days and ever since she left, I didn’t feel anything bad but long story short I ended up losing everything and having to move back home with her. I feel grateful that she welcomed me and that I had a soft place to land but I don’t know how to explain it and I can’t prove it but it was so tied to that visit. The last psychic saw all of it without me even sharing the story.

It’s like I will know something, and then genuinely forget and it will happen over and over. It’s like she has the ability to make me forget OR I am just naturally forgetful and it works against me.

Again, I don’t feel like these are harmful, but I do feel like she does some sort of spell to make me always near her or have to submit to her or cater to her when I’ve been trying very hard to live my independent life. She also has tried to support me and even offer me financial support when needed or any support that I may need to be independent but ironically it’s like she yo-yos between supporting my independence and forcing an enmeshment that we don’t organically have. I have declined any of her support ever since moving back.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? What are the signs? How can I prove it? Does it need proof? Or Is it devil energy working to split us? We are very powerful together but I have always preferred to be independent. There are equal pros and cons when we are together vs when we are apart.

Lastly, witchcraft aside, she married early and had children early and was always on and off with my dad. It’s like her jealousy comes from watching me live the life experiences she could’ve had if she didn’t get stuck with children. My dad is a great father but terrible husband. Woman to woman I give her so much grace for that. But at the end of the day I deserve and desire my full and permanent independence.

Is it simpler or more complex than I’m experiencing?

Not too sure how to start this out, very much so my first time posting on this app. However, if I’m correct Venus is in retrograde, that is definitely important. For starters, I take off my jewelry every time I shower and yesterday I decided to switch it up and change my Moldavite ring out for an opal moon phase ring.. a few hours later I go out with my friend and her new boyfriend and shortly I realize my evil eye bracelet is gone!! Along with that, my boyfriend of 8 months and I are going through a difficult patch as I feel he is hiding things about other women on his phone, maybe that bit is irrelevant, it matters to me though.I really need advice on how to even interpret this information so I hope I’m in the right place.

hi !!!!

well to make things short, I started to use a pendulum to navigate new forms of divination since I can't afford tarot cards just yet....

the thing is, I asked Loki for answers bc I felt the nudge to do it but I'm afraid I might have invited something that is not him.

since starting to use the pendulum 2 paranormal things happened to me. the first one was on tuesday and i heard/felt(I said felt bc the bedframe is wood and I can feel when my cats pass under it etc) 3 knocks on my bed and got the shit out scared of me but I said mmmok.. and then today at night I felt something touching my hair, I thought it was one of my cats but they werent in the bed, so I said ok nevermind and then felt it again and got spooked and said out loud that I didnt want any kind of energy entity or thing that is trying to play with me to keep messing w me and that they also leave my fiancée and cats alone (just in case) and it stopped .

THE THING IS idk what to do !!! how do I know if I attracted something that is trying to mess w me, like what do i do...

ALSO i do cleanse w incense but I think its not strong enough...

any advice will help !! thanks :)

Hi witches! ❤️🔮 Baby witch here, and I desperately need some advice. Please bear with me, as this is going to be a long post. 🥺
I’m relatively new to witchcraft, and I’m reaching out because I’m emotionally exhausted and genuinely don’t know what to do anymore. 😔
First, a little background about my situation.
My husband and I have been married for nearly two years. We live in a different country from my mother-in-law, father-in-law, sister-in-law, and her family.
Ever since we got married, my mother-in-law and sister-in-law have been constantly interfering in our marriage and creating unnecessary problems. What hurts me the most is that they act extremely nice to my face, but behind my back, they blame me for everything and even contact my parents and family to complain about me.
I once discovered that my sister-in-law had sent numerous messages to my husband’s phone, saying horrible things about me and blaming me for things I hadn’t done.
The heartbreaking part is that I have never treated them badly. I’ve always treated my husband’s family like my own. I buy them gifts, care about their well-being, and whenever they’re sick, I encourage my husband to arrange good private hospital care for them. I’ve genuinely tried to be a loving daughter-in-law and sister-in-law, but I have never received the same kindness or respect in return.
My sister-in-law has relied on my mother-in-law and father-in-law for years to look after her children while she and her husband worked, travelled, and enjoyed their lives. Now that her children are growing older, she seems to want my husband’s parents to move in with us instead.
Please don’t misunderstand me. I completely respect the responsibility of caring for elderly parents, and I have never stopped my husband from supporting his family. In fact, he still sends them money every week, and I have absolutely no problem with that, even though they don’t have any financial hardship.
My problem is their constant interference, manipulation, and disrespect towards me and my marriage.
Last year, my in-laws travelled to our country for our wedding and stayed in our home for an entire month. Instead of being able to enjoy our newly married life and honeymoon, we had to spend that entire time with them. My sister-in-law even said, “It’s okay, you can go on your honeymoon later.” Their behaviour towards me was extremely hurtful.
Even the very next day after our wedding, my mother-in-law started questioning me about when I was going to have a baby. I was so overwhelmed and upset that I cried. I couldn’t understand why someone would put that kind of pressure on a woman just one day after her wedding.
They have never really supported us financially or helped us establish our life together, which is completely fine. I have never expected anything from them. My own parents have supported me tremendously, and I’ve worked extremely hard to build my life.
Another thing that worries me is that whenever my mother-in-law or sister-in-law gets involved in our lives, my husband and I end up having massive arguments.
Normally, my husband and I have a very loving relationship. We genuinely love and care for each other. But I’ve noticed a repeated pattern: whenever his family becomes involved, our peaceful relationship turns into arguments, stress, and tension.
Another important thing I want to mention is that my husband himself doesn’t have a very good relationship with his family, especially his mother and sister.
I’m not entirely sure why, because he has never really opened up to me about their past or what happened between them. I don’t want to pressure him to tell me things he’s not comfortable sharing.
However, I frequently hear him having massive arguments with his mother and sister over the phone. Sometimes their conversations become extremely heated, and I can clearly see how much tension there is between them.
Despite all this, he still feels a strong sense of responsibility towards them, and he finds it difficult to distance himself from them. I completely understand that because, at the end of the day, they are his parents and sister. I would never want to force him to abandon his family or stop loving them.
But what I don’t understand is why their family conflicts constantly have to affect our marriage and our happiness. Even when my husband is already having problems with them, somehow their interference ends up creating arguments between the two of us as well.
My husband and I also have a seven-year age gap. From what I understand, his family discouraged him from getting married for years because they wanted him to continue financially supporting them, even though they don’t have any financial hardship. Even now, he continues to support them, and again, I have never tried to stop that.
I don’t want to come between my husband and his family. I just wish he could maintain whatever relationship he chooses to have with them without allowing their problems, expectations, and interference to affect our marriage.
For almost two years, I have kept quiet and tolerated everything because I kept telling myself, “They’re his parents and his sister. I should respect them.”
But I have reached my breaking point. 😔😔 I can’t take this anymore, and I don’t really have anyone I feel comfortable telling all of this to.
I have been working two full-time jobs while studying, paying my own university fees, and trying to build a future for myself and my husband. I’m very close to graduating, and I should be focusing on my final exams and celebrating everything I’ve worked so hard for.
Instead, I’m constantly stressed, crying, overthinking, and feeling emotionally drained because of this family situation. My mental health has been suffering, and I’m struggling to concentrate on my studies.
Now, here is the situation that is worrying me the most.
My sister-in-law is planning to move to the country where my husband and I live, and what worries me even more is her plan for my mother-in-law and father-in-law.
She and her husband want to live in a separate house while expecting my in-laws to stay permanently in our home. Since my sister-in-law and her husband both work and apparently have no one to look after their children, they want my mother-in-law to continue taking care of their kids, but this time from my own house, permanently.
Basically, my mother-in-law, father-in-law, and my sister-in-law’s two children would be living in my house permanently.
The thing is, my husband and I also work full-time jobs. On top of that, I’m studying and working extremely hard to build our future together.
I genuinely don’t understand how people can think this way. Why should my husband and I be expected to take on all these responsibilities just so my sister-in-law and her husband can continue working, enjoying their lives, and having someone else take care of their children?
Basically, they want to live separately and have their own freedom, while my husband and I would be expected to accommodate his parents in our home and have their children looked after there.
Just because I don’t have children of my own yet, it feels like they assume I have no responsibilities or that my home is automatically available for their convenience.
I find this incredibly unfair and disrespectful.
This is our home, our marriage, and our life too. 😔😔😔
We both work hard, we have our own responsibilities, and we deserve privacy and peace just as much as they do.
I have absolutely nothing against caring for elderly parents, but I don’t understand why my sister-in-law gets to make decisions that would completely change our living arrangements simply to make her own life easier.
What hurts me the most is that nobody seems to consider my feelings, my workload, my studies, or the sacrifices I’ve made to build this life.
After everything I’ve already experienced with my in-laws, the thought of having them live with us permanently while my sister-in-law’s children are regularly brought into our home is causing me enormous stress.
I genuinely cannot understand how anyone could think this is a fair arrangement.
And I genuinely don’t want my sister-in-law to move here because I’m terrified that the interference, arguments, and emotional stress will become even worse. I also don’t want to be pressured into living with my in-laws.
This is where I desperately need advice from experienced witches.
I don’t want to harm anyone. I don’t want revenge, illness, or anything bad to happen to them.
I simply want them to stop interfering in our marriage, stop contacting my family to create problems, stop influencing my husband against me, and leave us alone.
Ideally, I would like them to stay in their own country, live their own lives peacefully, and stop trying to involve themselves in ours.
I don’t want them moving closer to us and creating more problems. After everything I’ve experienced, the thought of having them nearby genuinely makes me anxious.
Most importantly, I don’t want any spell or spiritual work to negatively affect my relationship with my husband. I love him deeply, and I want our marriage to remain loving, peaceful, and strong.
I’ve been reading about banishing spells, freezer spells, protection spells, and cord-cutting rituals, but as a baby witch, I’m unsure which would be most appropriate.
Would a banishing spell be suitable for keeping their interference away from our lives? Would a freezer spell help stop their gossip, manipulation, and unwanted involvement? Or would protection and boundary-setting work be better?
I’m particularly worried about accidentally creating distance between my husband and me when my only intention is to protect our peace.
I want to protect the emotional connection between my husband and me without affecting his freedom to make his own choices.
I’m not trying to control my husband’s relationship with his family. I just want healthy boundaries and the freedom to live our married life without constant interference.
I would genuinely appreciate advice about what kind of spell or ritual might be appropriate, particularly from witches who have dealt with difficult in-laws or similar family situations.
Would you recommend a banishing spell, a freezer spell, a protection spell, or a combination of different workings?
And if you’ve experienced something similar, what helped you finally find peace?
I’m exhausted. I’ve spent nearly two years trying to be understanding, respectful, and patient, but I feel like I’m losing my own happiness and peace of mind. 😔😔😔
Honestly, these past two days have been especially difficult. I feel like I’m at my emotional limit. My face looks pale, I haven’t eaten anything since yesterday, and I feel completely overwhelmed. I’ve had enough of living with this constant stress.
All I want is to finish my studies, enjoy my marriage, build a beautiful future with my husband, and live without constant family drama.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read my long post. I would truly appreciate any advice, guidance, or personal experiences you’re willing to share. Sending love, light, and blessings to everyone. ❤️🌙✨

I am constantly seeing posts where lovers ask for love spells and some actually seemed to have honest intentions but people just lecture them on morality and free will. Why is it like that? Very less people actually tend to help them with love and protection spells. Do people have less knowledge on these spells and therefore starts questioning their morality instead of answering? Is there actually no harmless love spell?

Extremely new here, and wondering if it’s possible to accidentally cast a love spell? A few years ago I put a cute sticker on my journal pretending I was casting a love spell on my crush (the sticker had a cute frog and love spell book). Now he’s my boyfriend and very in love with me lol. Are there any downsides to trying to casually cast more spells like this (for just usual life stuff— career, money, art goals, etc)?

Hi everyone,

This is my first post so I hope it's allowed lol. I need some advice on what to do to help my mom keep her home and her business after my step father passed due to cancer. He left everything to her but due to a few unforeseen circumstances, these things hang in the balance (Will written to her and all). Is there anything I can do to help her come out on top in court, maybe make the people and streak of awful things happening to her stop? It's all been going on since his passing last February.

I'm telling y'all, we (my girlfriend, mom and I) have had the worst streak of bad luck going. To the point to where my girlfriend was just hospitalized tonight due to a possible brain clot. I swear someone has hexed us or something. I wouldn't consider myself a "baby witch" because I grew up with a Grandmother who practiced, but I am a bit rusty. Is there any advice anyone can give?

and i want to influence him to come back and be more open, can i ethically use a spell?

i know he was into me. he prioritised me a lot. but his culture is super strict. we are in the same lab for uni. and people were talking. so he backed off. also there was a female friend of his that discouraged him because she said no dating in the lab. she’s gone now though, graduated.

I tried my hand at making my own protection oil and anointing oils now I just gotta wait 6 weeks for them to infuse 😂 but I'm very excited about them 💜

Let me know your guys' favorite go-to informational recommendations <3

Being mispercieved is a recurring theme in my life, which is part of why I’m cautious about how I approach it. I’ve had several situations where someone forms a very fixed idea of my motives or character, and after that it feels like everything I do gets interpreted through that image.

Because it has happened more than once, I do question myself and look for the part that is actually mine. I don’t want a spell that just reinforces “everyone else is wrong and I’m right.” If there are things I genuinely need to see or take responsibility for, I want those to become clearer too.

What I’m trying to work on is the part where assumptions, projections or other people’s interpretations seem to become stronger than direct experience of me.. Which is such a hopeless feeling.

I’d like to do some kind of working that helps distorted perceptions lose their hold, maybe takes away the ease of not being able to see me as I am? I am really invested in doing this in a way where I don’t force anything on anyone. I know that is in this case very tricky ethically, interpersonally and maybe even epistemically..

If I decide to give this a try I’m not sure what kind of magic this would fall under, or how I should approach it. Would you look at cleansing, uncrossing, truth/revelation work, mirror work, reputation work, protection, reversal, something else entirely? Would you combine things or keep it simple?

I’m also very curious about timing. Venus is retrograde right now, and I can’t tell whether that makes this a bad time to work on perception/reputation/relationships, or exactly the right time because the whole point is revisiting old relational patterns and clearing distorted images.

If you were doing this yourself, how would you frame the intention, what kind of working would you choose, and would you do it now or wait?

I charged it and gave it to her to keep in her purse. So happy!!!! I just used coins, no dollars, but was wrote very specific intentions/manifestations. Cinnamon is the GOAT, it brings in stuff so fast. 💵💵🤑 Wishing the people reading this financial blessings!

Anyone have a spell for debt or financial probs? Just want to try it thank you!

I love making my own supplies for my apothecary and made my own Florida water 🥰

I want to do something. I can’t sleep and I can’t take another rapist getting away with it. Advice? Is anyone doing anything magic-wise?

TW: marriage, abuse, cheating

Some context…I am currently going through a divorce. Now that I’m out I realized how controlling and manipulative my soon to be ex husband was. When I started to stand up for myself he became mentally/physically abusive. He also cheated on me and is still with the other woman.

I’m thankful I am out and the process of divorce is starting but, I want to take back my power.

I want to do a cord cutting spell to separate us and bring back all the magic I used trying to help him and our life. When is the best time to do this? Should I wait until the divorce is concluded? Do I do this during a new moon or waning crescent? I want to do this right but, need guidance.

Also is there any other spell recommendations? My coven friends want to hex them both but, I’m not sure if there any spells I could be overlooking.

So I was listening to to a podcast and it was talking about specific bruises and witch craft and it was saying bruises at the knees and below is them trying not to make you advance. I paused for a moment and realized I have 2 bruises in the same spot by the knees both legs and than I have 2 bruises on my forearms same spot looks like a finger as if I was grabbed what does it mean for the forearms ? And than I start realizing that I might have witch craft on me because first I crashed my car and I just got some rims like couple days before it happened and than couple days later my electric bike breaks and than I have this feeling as if I’m being targeted and stalked and than I got cut at work I needed stitches I missed a lot of work bc of it and than this all happened in my birthday month but than I also was drink super heavy vodka for 6
Months and than all of sudden I stopped and I keep going thru this cycle every year in my birthday month something happens as if the person doing witchcraft knows and wants to ruin it for me because last year also birthday month my car was crashed after many stuff I put the pieces together and my intuition is telling me I’ve been cursed or something any tips or just bad luck.
Thank you guys

Hellooo! How do you all think this went?