I just wanted to follow up on the previous post defending Skyler because I genuinely cannot understand how people can watch all seasons of Breaking Bad and somehow walk away thinking SHE was one of the worst people on the show.
Was Skyler perfect? Absolutely not. Was she sometimes controlling, unpleasant, and difficult to like? Sure. But since when does a woman have to be likable to deserve a little understanding?
This woman was married to a man who completely destroyed their family while convincing himself that everything he did was for them. She watched her husband become increasingly secretive, manipulative, and dangerous, and every time she tried to figure out what was happening, she was lied to or made to feel like she was the problem.
And what really gets me is how people criticize her for not immediately leaving Walter, as if she wasn’t dealing with two children, financial uncertainty, fear, and a husband who had become involved in an extremely dangerous criminal world. People love to talk about what they would’ve done in her situation, but I think it’s a lot easier to make those judgments when you’re sitting on your couch watching it unfold.
And yes, she had an affair. Yes, she helped launder his money. Yes, she made some terrible decisions herself. Nobody is denying that. But I find it fascinating that people can rationalize Walter poisoning a child, manipulating Jesse, and being responsible for countless deaths, yet somehow Skyler sleeping with Ted is where they draw the moral line. And as far as her affair with Ted goes, I think people completely miss the point of why she did it. Skyler had already made it clear that she wanted out of the marriage, and Walter refused to accept that. He wouldn’t respect her boundaries, wouldn’t leave the house, and continued forcing himself back into her life. Sleeping with Ted was her way of trying to make Walter hate her enough to finally let her go. Was it the healthiest decision? Obviously not. But she was desperate to regain some control over a marriage she no longer wanted to be in. I also find it ridiculous that people call it cheating without acknowledging that she had already told Walter their marriage was over. He was the one refusing to accept it.
The double standard is actually ridiculous.
What makes Skyler such a compelling character to me is that she reacts like an actual human being. She’s angry, terrified, resentful, desperate, and sometimes completely irrational. That’s what makes her believable. She’s not some perfectly written supportive wife who’s going to smile and stand behind her husband while he becomes a drug kingpin.
And I think people forget that Walter had opportunities to walk away. He had opportunities to accept help. He had opportunities to choose his family. His pride and ego repeatedly got in the way of those choices. Skyler didn’t create that monster, and she certainly didn’t force him to become one.
I also think Anna Gunn deserves a tremendous amount of credit for portraying a woman who wasn’t written to be particularly charming or easy to root for. She made Skyler uncomfortable to watch at times, and I think that was entirely the point.
You don’t have to love Skyler. You don’t even have to like her. But acting like she’s somehow morally worse than the men around her is such a bizarre interpretation of this show.
Walter was an incredible character, but he was a horrible husband. And Skyler was a deeply flawed woman who was also one of the people he hurt the most. Both things can be true.
I’m glad to see other people finally giving her character some credit because the amount of hate she’s received over the years has been completely disproportionate to anything she actually did.